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Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 10:48pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
petra1: He has to repeat himself hoping we will eventually fall for it. You know he brags that they are the only ones teaching the truth contained in the Bible. He has to save face here. Should he recant and admit his wrong will be an heck of blow to that ego he carries about. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 4:24pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: lets take away sentiments. lets deal with the bible. if its Chris Okotie i would say thesame . because we are dealing with bible principles . but the truth need to be told yes ofcourse Moses was just a mediator of God's law to the nation of Israel, he received laws from God and passed it to the people that's all. Moses wasn't a teacher . . Wrong! He was the Judge over offences! And The fact that He was the conveyer of the Law even indicted him more. So if Moses would not be a failure as a minister, counsellor, teacher and judge because of his Marrital issue. then same principle stands for every minister. Because ministry is a work of the Holy Spirit not personal life. jesus said to obey the teaching of the Pharisees despite their personal lifestyle. So don't compare a Christian with Moses because we are greater than Moses who never saw or had the opportunity to learn from God's only begotten Son same jesus said to obey the teaching of the Pharisees regardless of their personal life. Some others erroneously teach that a s single Pastor cannot teach marriage. these are all man made ideologies without bible backing Divorce is a sign of a wrong foundation or fault of the spouses because apart from ADULTERY Jesus did not permit a separation 1 Corinthians 7:27 (KJV) . . . Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. If a partner decide to leave you cant force the person . Paul permit divorce . He says to let the person go. {Matthew 19:9} so if Chris and his wife were never convicted of adultery it simply means both of them aren't adequately qualified (spiritually mature enough) She has the power of her will. If Chris failed to keep his marital vows then he's not qualified to TEACH others how to keep theirs! He cannot force another person. She has the power of her will. Jesus lost many deciples. it doesnt make him a bad leader. John 6:66 (KJV) 66 From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him. same jesus vowed he would not lose anyone. you see my point? According to Jesus you must live by your teaching to set fine examples for others {John 14:15} the Pharisees were carrying the Mosaic laws given to that nation (not their own laws) They were teaching the word of God. so does Pastor Chris and any minister. of a minister falls sick he can still teach that God is a healer. it doesnt have to be by experience but because it is the truth of God. If Chris is a Christian and not a Pharisee he must live by the standard set by Jesus otherwise you're saying people should view Chris as a Pharisee "do as i say, don't do as i do" Surely such a teacher will mislead the people! Matthew 24:11 Are you perfect? is your pastor Perfect? . if You have to wait for a minister that is hundred percent perfect to be qualified to preach then their wont be any preacher 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 5:33pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
petra1:Let's not complicate things here. Moses was chosen by God because he supposed to be a member of the Royal family in the palace of the greatest monarch of his time, but he chose to be treated as one of the Hebrews (slaves in Egypt) Hebrews 11:23-29 So God chose him to deliver Israel just as this man has wished but God doesn't want him to feel it's due to his youthful vigor that's why Jehovah was patient until Moses became an octogenarian! But when he was given the laws he only needs to read it loud for all to here he wasn't asked to TEACH them anything unlike Christians who were given the spirit to TEACH! Ephesians 4:11 same jesus said to obey the teaching of the Pharisees regardless of their personal life.Jesus didn't say people should follow the TEACHING of the Pharisees! Note his opening remarks: Then Jesus spoke to the crowds and to his disciples, saying: “The scribes and the Pharisees have seated themselves in the seat of Moses. Therefore, all the things they tell you, do and observe, but do not do according to their deeds, for they say but they do not practice what they say. Matthew 23:1-3 So just like Moses the Pharisees tell the people what is written in the LAWS but as for their TEACHINGS Jesus asked his followers not to take it! Matthew 16:12 1 Corinthians 7:27 (KJV)What i'm saying here is simple, whatever makes Chris failed in marriage disqualifies him from TEACHING others about marriage! Jesus didn't TEACH us to start a church so anyone can come into the house of God and decides to leave because they're not bound by any oath to anybody but God, so if anyone choose to dismember himself from God's congregation he/she has no problem with anyone but God. That's not the case with marriage, the two vowed before God and man to stick together come what may! So whatever makes them breaks such a vow is sure indication that they're not QUALIFIED TO COUNSEL others on marriage! John 6:66 (KJV)You missed it again! Note that those that left Jesus weren't part of those Jesus Prayed with in the Bible book of John 17:8-9, he specifically prayed for only the 12 Apostles, that's why he said none of them was missing except Judas! John 17:12 So Jesus never failed in his assignment, God's only begotten Son perfectly fulfilled all righteousness! John 19:30 Are you perfect? is your pastor Perfect? . if You have to wait for a minister that is hundred percent perfect to be qualified to preach then their wont be any preacherAmongst Jehovah's Witnesses there are elders and ministerial servants who handles the TEACHINGS in the congregation, none of them can continue serving as a SHEPHERD (TEACHER) in the congregation while divorced or SEPARATED! |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 7:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: Amongst Jehovah's Witnesses there are elders and ministerial servants who handles the TEACHINGS in the congregation, none of them can continue serving as a SHEPHERD (TEACHER) in the congregation while divorced or SEPARATED......... MaxInDHouse Reality tells me the above is cooked from your manual. Not the manual your taskmasters give you. Elder wey collect another person wife still dey marry collect blessings from fellow elders . No dey hype wetin no dey work. So God chose him to deliver Israel just as this man has wished but God doesn't want him to feel it's due to his youthful vigor that's why Jehovah was patient until Moses became an octogenarian! But when he was given the laws he only needs to read it loud for all to here he wasn't asked to TEACH them anything unlike Christians who were given the spirit to TEACH! Ephesians 4:11..... MaxInDHouse Still colouring the matter petra1 highlighted that Moses was equally a Judge. Do you know what that means at all? At least you are knowledgeable enough to know what the Judiciary does as an arm of government. The same Moses was put in charge of all Jehovah’s house. I don't need to tell the spirit operating in Moses paapaa. God even had to shed his responsibilities on 70 other Israelites . Jesus didn't say people should follow the TEACHING of the Pharisees! Note his opening remarks... MaxInDHouse Who are the teachers of the LAW? No one ask you for the repetition of opening remark. Since you agree that Jesus said the people should listen and follow what was written in the MOSAIC law as told by the Pharisees. Do you see why all the repetition of yours come to an end. What this means in essence is Pastor Chris will tell you things concerning MARRIAGE my Words(God's) as penned down in the Bible. Practice and do whatever he tells you about it. Mr MaxInDHouse that is what you have been going round in circles and don't want to accept. Your repetition won't remove the above. Is it clear or you need repetition. The law is holy. To you an unholy man cannot teach, preach the law what you forget is the Holy law was given to unholy men in the first place. The reason unholy men kept stumbling at it. Their stumbling at it does not make the law UNHOLY or made them stop teaching it. Spare us your vow thing Your master says don't vow. Your religious taskmasters love to use vow to swear allegiance to them. Simple Yes or No and reality tells me YES can become NO in some cases |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:41pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
@MaxInDHouse. This is for your consumption. If you like throw it into the bin Amongst Jehovah's Witnesses there are elders and ministerial servants who handles the TEACHINGS in the congregation, none of them can continue serving as a SHEPHERD (TEACHER) in the congregation while divorced or SEPARATED....... MaxInDHouse Below is why the above does not hold in all cases and not true. Here is why...... Extreme physical abuse. An abusive spouse may act so violently that the abused mate’s health and even life are in danger. If the abusive spouse is a Christian, congregation elders should investigate the charges. Fits of anger and a practice of violent behavior are grounds for disfellowshipping.—Galatians 5:19-21....... God's love book appendix. For this scenario, if the man is a Jehovah’s witness and an elder or a Ministerial servant and the wife is an UNBELIEVER(not a member of the organization the husband belongs). This couple were already married before the husband became a Jehovah’s Witness and attained the positions he had now in the congregation. If the scenario of extreme physical abuse is carried out by the wife of the man and the man choose to go the way of separation or [b]DIVORCE[/b]as captured in the main heading of this Appendix. Are you telling me [b]the man, elder or ministerial servant would not be allowed to teach and preach about Marriage? Reality tells me NO because the wife in the first instance is as good as a NOBODY spiritually to the MAN The problem of the wife will not rub off on the man considering the way the organization view those they called UNBELIEVERS. So this your vow before God and man only applies to God and 8 men leading to your religious organisation. When this does not apply, anything goes. Finally even those that have divorce palaver in your religious organisation still go out in your normal preaching and teaching activities to the public and they do preach and teach about marriage despite their divorce palaver. Oga MaxInDHouse we don't need that repetition on something that you don't need to twist. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
petra1: He wants to use his repetition to make the point but he cannot escape this reframed from his post Jesus said...... Pastor Chris(Pharisees) will tell you things concerning MARRIAGE my words(God's) as penned down in the Bible. Practice and do whatever pastor Chris(pharisees) tells you about it. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 8:00am On Oct 06, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: Now i see its an issue of your indoctrination. Not about what the bible days. because i have given you several references from the bible . its now an issue of you dealing with your doctrinne vs Bible. try be objective . doctrine may be wrong ( Thats just being polite) 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 8:03am On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey: 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 8:25am On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: Well you're the one seeing it from that angle! Jesus said: How can you say to your brother, ‘Allow me to remove the straw from your eye,’ when look! a rafter is in your own eye? Hypocrite! First remove the rafter from your own eye, and then you will see clearly how to remove the straw from your brother’s eye! Matthew 7:4-5 So in the same manner how can Chris counsel others about marriage when he himself failed woefully in that aspect? According to Lord Jesus, Chris supposed to mend his own marriage FIRST before he can qualify to counsel others about marriage! That's Jesus' command Jehovah's Witnesses are strictly OBEYING! John 14:15 May you have PEACE! |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 10:10am On Oct 06, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: There is nothing like failure in Marriage . its just your organization doctrine that need to align with the bible . Moses should have been a failure according to your doctrine. you dont need to be in marriage to teach on marriage. if a partner leaves you it doesn't change anything about you. if you must ascribe any failures at all . well maybe the person who left . But the truth is life is a choice . what you call failure is not and ministry is by the holy spirit and the word. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by MaxInDHouse(m): 10:34am On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: Does it sound reasonable to register a child in a fashion school where the designer can't design his own dress? Can you eat from a restaurant where the chef is not eating his own meal? Can you learn driving from a driver who just had an accident? The Holy Spirit will TEACH us {John 14:26} as we meditate thoroughly on the TRUTH (Bible) {John 17:17; Ephesians 6:17} you will know the TRUTH and if you're willing, the TRUTH will set you FREE from the misleading teachings of Pharisees who claims to be men of God! John 8:32 compare to 2Corinthians 11:12-15 May you have PEACE! 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 12:01pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: you dont need to be in marriage to teach on marriage. if a partner leaves you it doesn't change anything about you The highlight is enough for him. It won't change the principles or laws guiding marriage. You can see how he is trying to class Pastor Chris as someone in the business of divorcing wives and an HYPOCRITE To him Pastor Chris delight is to divorce his wives at will its just your organization doctrine that need to align with the bible. To him it is to make his doctrine to fit the Bible and even when they do so they don't follow it paapaa. The scenario in their publications cited above is an example. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 12:06pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: The spirit of truth will teach you through the Governing body of the organization you belong you mean to say. Does it sound reasonable to register a child in a fashion school where the designer can't design his own dress? Example or illustration wey no work. Being a fashion designer is not measured by being able to design cloth for yourself. When you go to a fashion designer you go after the design you want not what the fashioner designer put on. After all you are not the designer whatever the designer put on is a design which to you is no design . Reason am. In short a fashion designer who cannot design for himself or herself is not a fashion designer in the first place. Can you eat from a restaurant where the chef is not eating his own meal? Not every restaurant you call the chef to come and eat the food prepared or taste it. That they don't do so is not a guarantee your food is poisoned. The chef eating the food prepared by the chef(himself or herself) is not the criteria for setting up a restaurant. Reason am! Can you learn driving from a driver who just had an accident? Another irrelevant illustration. That someone had an accident does not mean that person cannot teach you DRIVING. Accident happens in many forms and manner. Driving skills is not measured by not having accident. Reason am again. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 1:14pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
MaxInDHouse: Here is why the scripture you choose does not apply and rather should make you recant your points once again. The background to that scripture is judging. Pastor Chris didn't say Marriage is bad or was judging the marriage of others. The thread was about how to know who to marry of which pastor Chris did and thereafter married had children who are married and remain married for years before divorce. In reality that should tell you he has enough knowledge and experience concerning that. He is not judging people's marriage That's Jesus' command Jehovah's Witnesses are strictly OBEYING... MaxInDHouse No it is the LEGALISMS you love propagating as you go about interpreting the scriptures. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 6:55pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey: Its well. Firstly its not the Man of God who left the marriage. secondly even if he had been the one . That still doesnt constitute failure. Divorce is a miracle for so many. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by DappaD: 7:21pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: Can I know what you mean by the words in bold? Been following the thread and your whole argument seems to be hinged on this line of reasoning that doesn’t exist in the Bible. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 7:38pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: All christians know that Paul advised certain people to get a divorce. I am not saying Pastor Chris filed for a divorce as we all know he did not. But you cannot be trying to use the bible to educate a JWit. They are very ignorant and bitter. They are not christians. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 7:40pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
DappaD: That Moses married a woman by the law - that he should not have? That Moses sent away his first wife? |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 7:42pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Telling someone that they cannot teach on marriage because someone divorced them is like saying someone should not teach on pastoring a church because a member left. But christians should not be using their bibles to educate a JWit. Besides, these teachings were done when he was still married. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 7:44pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
DappaD: He said if a wife leaves a man the man is a failure and if he is a minister. He has no business teaching people. i got his attention to the fact that a minister teaches by the anointing of God and not personal exoerience . Moses through who the Law came once had marital issues. His wife left him after the circumcision Saga. he took another wife against scriptures and married a non jew as second wife. our friend argued that moses was not a teacher. and i made him understand moses was law giver , teacher , judge yet whatever personal experience doesn change his calling in God. a minister teach by the word . 2 Likes |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 7:45pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Maestro21: 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 7:45pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
petra1: Don't mind that one trying to DEFINE failure in marriage. A husband that barters his wife everyday with all sort of violence and the wife stick to him as a result of having nowhere to go is a successful marriage since the option to divorce is only on sexual immorality 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by petra1(m): 7:46pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Maestro21: noted 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 7:52pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey: I was told about a minister who almost killed his wife with beatings. Her family had to evacuate her one day after she was almost maimed by the man. Funny enough, he beat her, locked her up and went to "church". To that guy you guys were educating, that marriage was successful because the woman did not divorce him. Therefore, the husband was fit to educate people on marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 7:59pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Maestro21: You jus have to laugh at those kind of reasoning he brings to the platform every time. No mind am ooo, na this bragging right and that mentalit[/b]y of [b]they are the only ones who knows the in and out of Bible dey cause that kind reasoning wey dey im head. I told him his Jehovah is married to the Israelites and that marriage failed repeatedly, Does that mean Jehovah cannot teach anything concerning marriage again? Rather than answer he will boycott it. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Workch: 8:00pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Maestro21:Allowing someone with failed marriage to lecture others about marriage is like allowing an undergraduate physics dropout to lecture master’s degree students in physics. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 8:08pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey: That is a very thought-provoking question. Please, ignore the other troll who quoted me. He is an "atheist". |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:10pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Workch: like allowing an undergraduate physics dropout to lecture master’s degree students in physics... Workch Oga you proofread wetin you type at all or na cruise you dey use us catch Why will a Master holder want to listen to a drop out in the first place. This your illustrations get as e be. Abeg check am again |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Maestro21: 8:12pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey: Un-quote him before he replies. He is more lost than the JWit guy. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by Workch: 8:22pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
achorladey:Its the same reason a happily married person will not listen to someone with a failed marriage when it comes to martial issues. Hope you get it now. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:23pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Maestro21: Free am make e respond. If e like make e dey lost than lost , Na still im palaver. |
Re: Pastor Chris : How To.know Who To Marry by achorladey: 8:26pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Workch: Why will a happily married person need advise or listen to it from a sad married person. |
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