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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 10:11pm On Oct 08, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Kai sad
Which kind cuckoldry be this
beautiful nonsense

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 10:41pm On Oct 08, 2021
Yo whatsup brother....... hope u guys are doing well dis days grin

i fit date my friend sis, she giving me GL for real

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by temi1290: 11:49pm On Oct 08, 2021
LMAO

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 12:00am On Oct 09, 2021
ma373733:
My little advice is since you obviously love the girl (which I'm against sha you do love any bitch grin )
You have to start being Machiavellian type of guy .
Just be cunning learn many Charming tactics
What you can't make up with having influence or power make it up with cunningness and charming
Animals that are not physically or territorially strong in the animal kingdom thrive by being cunning
I no go lie your case strong
I hope our bosses here drop Thier ideas too
Not sure I really understand where cunning comes in here but if being tactful in dealings is what you're hinting at, thanks bro. You’re on point.
Charming? If anything I do my best to prevent myself from doing anything out of a need to impress them.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by djon78(m): 12:00am On Oct 09, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Redpilled brethren, read these very carefully and learn, just one stupid bluepilled feeling you thought was irrelevant after your redpill awareness can destroy your entire life, these a very sad story of these man, source from Twitter, never forsake the amoral truth, any woman you want to let into your life, especially for long term relationship, let her pass through fire before she gets your commitment, even after she has it, she must never in her heart thinks she has you completely, infact if anyone can't scale through don't marry, better to dwell alone with nothing than to be decieved that your relationship is working only to find out she's a complete fraud who fooled you, a so-called NAWALT that slipped through redpilled armour, most men think that a miserable marriage or long term relationship comes from a nagging, combative, quarrelsome, mannerless women which is true in some cases but in some cases a dutifully, feminine, loving wife can stab you in the heart and cause you pain and sorrow that you can never recover from, be very careful with whom you allow into your heart, be sober, be watchful, you can slip anytime and make mistakes in these redpilled journey but don't go to far by allowing any woman to possess your soul and alter the course of your destiny for good, while her and strangers enjoy the wealth from your sweat as you languish in sorrow


A man deeply in love and betrayed is wounded in his innermost soul, the pain is too extreme that at the moment taking ones life might be a reasonable option at that moment, look at Samson in the old testament, look at the FCMB bank incident of that family man that killed himself when he discovered his wife made him raise bastards while she presented the facade of a good wife, look at the incident of the innocent ojukwu girl that slew that billionaire when he taught everything was ok just having fun with a side chic and she gained fame and even sympathy at cost of his precious life


And you think that by sifting through you can get the right one?

Not always like that
Factor in the human nature
You can never know an individual

And if it's like that
Then you will never marry


For me
Opening your mind that the worst can come from a human.
Developing a very strong mind
Of which nothing will surprise you
Is a panacea for surviving the times we are in

And your partner understanding say you no even send will even help you
Making her to sit up

Most of the time
Men that fall into this kind of issues
Are those ones that get there head cloudied with all these illusion of Love
They claim that they are in Love and there women run a fence around them

But when a woman knows she can't rope you in with Love illusion
You have an upper hand

I think it's what some guys call maintaining your frame

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 12:07am On Oct 09, 2021
DeusMagnus:
Bro, How can you be considering something serious with a 22 year old girl? How long have you both known each other?
Lol. Bro I can assure you her age is least of my concerns here; it's actually a plus and perfect for me.. and don't forget marrying much older guys is actually pretty normal in their socio-cultural clime. The malleability I see in her intrigues and appeals to me. My interactions with this particular demography reveals there is actually very little difference between a 22 year old and say a 27 year old Fulani lady still under their parents though. They are the most sheltered females in the entirety of Nigeria (for the conservative ones that is). What if I told you that up until just about a year ago this girl couldn't even go out anyhow without a male escort of sorts (usually the brothers or some security detail). Yeah first meeting was over a year ago but gradually giving her the attention she craves actually started barely 5 months ago.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 12:14am On Oct 09, 2021
hazard7:
I think I can relate, a friend of mine was in the same situation like this. I remember I teased him saying he is officially becoming a "peak blinder" just because of the way the family of the girl are grin.
Key things to note:
1) You can show that you are not a pushover cause this kind of people are always shit testing you to see what you are made of.
2) if the girl really does love you as you claim then I don't think it should be much for concern cause the girl that my friend got married to was like their father's favorite so she could easily cajole him to meet her demands if you get what I mean.
3) Expect a lot of power plays and if possible behave with an air of nonchalance as they will occasionally do things to piss you off. Stay frosty.
There is more but should be ok and let me say
"Congrats" you will need it grin
Dude, thumbs up bro, you got the memo.
Exactly my projections.
The similarity between mine and your guy's is that mine is the favorite of the entire family, not just her dad (and she's not even the last born, she still has a junior sister). Their not wanting to hurt her feelings may mask a whole lotta stuff which will surface later.

hazard7:
True, but I think it's salvageable just depends on how he handles it. but to succeed in life one really have to understand thos interrelational dynamics.
Forget the nonsense that guy typed there. If he had anything meaningful to say he would have addressed the post directly. It’s all these comic “alfas” that can’t reason beyond their bruised egos. Any clash with them and nothing you say or do subsequently can ever be right again ever in their jaundiced eyes. I repeat, if he had any meaningful thing to say he would have simply addressed the post directly.

My whole post was about being proactive.. (anyone with an open mind should see that). As we speak, I as a person I’m yet to get negative vibes from the family that I can point to.. and I’ve met with 3 of her sisters (somehow I’ve noticed Fulani sisters are always pretty close) and her immediate senior brother (the one she’s closest to) already. Of course I have deliberately only visited the family house just once and that was to drop her off, deliberately using the opportunity to assert myself as being affiliated with her. Any visiting more than that breeds “see finish” with these kinda people as they are mostly used to people seeking favors. She has met only one of my brothers. That’s how far I’ve let her in for now.

You see that sh!t testing you touched on earlier? That is exactly what I’m somehow itching for. I want that opportunity to stand my ground on a matter and watch them bare their fangs early enough.. that way everybody knows what exactly they’re dealing with and where they stand. This current kumbaya has the potential to suck one into a family dynamics blackhole where their daughter/sister is the common (battle) ground and control is the ultimate price.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 12:40am On Oct 09, 2021
hazard7:
True, it could go sideways
Lol. I hadn't even seen this post of his you quoted here when I responded earlier. So someone feeling like "GOD" will share his on-going experience here soliciting other possible mind views and perspectives. Truth is I got my cards to my chest alright but knowing the brilliance of quite a number of minds (based on their posts) here, getting extra light from fellow illuminated minds is always a welcome idea at least to me. Notice he had no solutions or advice, just mudslinging with disparaging words. Counter him directly now and our "alfa" will say he doesn't roll with "pigs" grin I suppose he's only interested in the pigsty and pig mattaz. lol grin Of course in the interest of civility on this great thread I'll maintain the energy of not directly quoting him too.

Anyway to more serious things thanks again for your take earlier on. You really saw the reservations I harbor only that you spelt them out more succinctly. As things stand the only possible casualty in all of this right now is the babe in question herself. But whether it's worth sacrificing on the altar of "uncertainty of possible family dynamics" is the real issh.
My overall peace of mind is still very intact by the way.
And that's key.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 1:24am On Oct 09, 2021
Emmynator:
Definitely, there will be some level of trust.
Trust as being used popular relates to intersexual dynamics, do you trust that she won't engage in infidelity?
Killing you is a big deal, and if you've done something that offends greatly, you shouldn't trust your wife to do nothing, except she has shown signs of not having affinity for the borderline crazy.
When it comes to sex and some other "little" things, it's better not to have too much trust, it's trust that made some men not to notice their wives cheating under their noses. A trust that makes him excuse every sign and warning, such level of trust is dangerous for the man.
Well said.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 1:26am On Oct 09, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Create more time for your mind to masturbate on ideas on how you will attain the goals you set for yourself in these very difficult economy rather than masturbating on women you will never fvck or women ( hoes) you have already fvcked that will never add any value to you
Deep.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by blinking001(m): 2:24am On Oct 09, 2021
tayewomi:
chaii am enjoying this piece i started reading from page 72 and am going gradually am still in 110 i will finish till the last page,my experience i met a young girl sometimes 3-yrs ago,she's very gentle like i jez love her real,and we start dating i mostly give her things,i bought small phone#2,500 4 her twice and many other things i can't even mention,the first red-flag.on my birthday knowingly to her she didn't wish me either present me wit a gift after buying lots for her on her birthday,i gave her 5k attimes and gv her Moni 4 hair,second red flag she just start nagging and unnecessary airplane mode,she will just decide not to talk to me 4 days without fighting,i remembered wen she made me promise her i won't leave her and cling to me saying she loves me,the story is long let me just short it,i abadoned so many girls 4 her,and she just travelled to a neighboring town and she change completely,first i sent Moni to her twice And i stopped on the third attempt after swallowing some pills here,she upload her new bf pictures on her WhatsApp status this morning,it didn't baffle coz am expecting that but i still chats of this girl on My girl on my FB saying she wnt leave no matter what,You see the only thing that won't abadone you is ur goal if u like give her ur kidney u can't stop her wen it's time..av moved on but guys please am begging u all,chase ur dreams the better woman will come 4 u.. thanks
After all you've been through in your previous relationship i dont expect you to still believe they are better women out there. All women are like your ex. There is no better one out there.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 2:28am On Oct 09, 2021
blinking001:

After all you've been through in your previous relationship i dont expect you to still believe they are better women out there. All women are like your ex. There is no better one out there.
lol,he should leave africa

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by adambeatz(m): 3:16am On Oct 09, 2021
Lol gentlemen( both redplillers and bluepillers alike).
I'd love to make you guys understand women are so diabolical even a virgin might not be a virgin when you Bleep her. You doubt me , lemme give you the gist here. See if you play your cards right around women and let them know you don't have time for their pussy and set impossible standards for them to meet up they'll be at your beck and call ready to expose their secrets to you.
I happen to knw a click of runs girls in abuja sometime back whom are serious gold diggers, but these kinds never give you the impression they are after your money and after you've spent serious money to impress them and they allow you have a taste of them, you'd be ready to stab anyone who says they aren't virgins. But how possible is it that a runs girls can sleep with different high class men and they all vouch she was a virgin ( mind you this isnt about when they are on their periods).
The game goes like this, you see these girls visit places high classed individuals hangout and makes friends with them, become friends and when persuaded into sex give the normal stories to starve them of it. After much cajoling and expensive gifts these girls purchase artificial hymen to use. You can google it and its also for sale in Nigeria, you see its in wraps similar to condom. Now there is a popular house hold item they use in washing their pussy to make it tight (for a temporal time though), this is for those whom don't have money yet but the one with money purchase pussy tighting products.
These 2 combined atleast 30mins before showdown with a sprinkling of tears is enough to do the trick and voila behold a virgin is born.
Do your research online about these two things and you'd discover mother nature is one ruthless cunning bitch whose hell bent on making sure we men never catch up with the insanley mind blowing manipulations women pull on men.
Now gentlemen i have a question for you, was your woman truly a virgin when you bleeped her or were you unfortunate enough to have met a second hand virgin, the floor is yours brother

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:41am On Oct 09, 2021
DAY 282, REDPILL 2021

The Lord thought man will be so furious to witness one of his precious ribs extirpated to form another being called woman. Hence, the Lord made him fell into a deep sleep, not knowing that when man will arose from his slumber with the curvaceous and voluptuous woman standing before him, he will trade him---the Lord--off, willingly undergo a dreadful cauterization and be glad to accept extirpation of more ribs without going through a deep sleep again nor with the help of an anaesthesia. Here, man's weakness is woman; and woman's strength is man!

Man's love for woman is paradoxical: he can do without her but yet still desires her warmth, beauty, feminine innocence, and her succulent bodily parts. Conversely, the woman can't do without the man! Here, the sexes become complements to each other.

The Lord really does great things indeed!

Authority: have peace of mind and enjoy women.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tayewomi(m): 6:56am On Oct 09, 2021
blinking001:

After all you've been through in your previous relationship i dont expect you to still believe they are better women out there. All women are like your ex. There is no better one out there.
they are all the same,no one is different,but just do well 4 yourself as a guy,love will surely come for you..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:44am On Oct 09, 2021
Smartb0y:
so "stopping girls or seeing girls pants" is your definition of manliness huh.
This one cannot be saved,he's a delusional simp.
If I talk now, it might seem like I am bringing in up old issues or I can't let go of old issues. I wonder why someone will leave the thread where they are welcomed to constitute nuisance and bring unnecessary and childish antagonistic attitude to this invaluable thread that is devoted to helping young men understand and navigate an important aspect of reality.

Fiscuś105 is not new here and I have been observing his/her activities here. Among the staunch regulars who came from the ashewo thread to plant mischief and get emotional here, Fiscuś105 is the one of the two people who still persist in that nonsense (others have become reasonable and have started making good contributions here). The dude/lady is up to no good. He/she is usually countering reasonable red pill posts by saying nonsense or planting blue pill seeds here, and he habitually speaks disparagingly of redpilllers here.

As much as people might take it for granted, this thread has and will continue save young men from a lot of troubles regret and misery; it will even save the life of some. Think about those (in certain stages of their relationship journey) that committed suicide because of their ignorance and the treachery from female nature; some of us could have been them. It might not be have been you, but the fact that it could have been a substantial amount of men is enough. This thread is not just about the current folks here, it is also about the future generations and new ones that are coming here. This is why I take it seriously to call out those that are planting mischief or acting funny.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:55am On Oct 09, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
A relationship built on lies will not last long but a relationship built on truth is not even going to start
I wouldn't mind parting with money just to see this thread.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 8:07am On Oct 09, 2021
TheExclusive:


Hmmmm....A relationship built on truth is not even going to start...Not in all cases.
You should know there will be outliers.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 8:17am On Oct 09, 2021
Ade4dayo70:
Most of our ancestors failed to be knowledgeable hence the white man's conclusion that..."If you don't want them(blacks) to know something, put it in a book, they will never read it."

We've got a second chance as blacks to change the history/narrative.✊�



Starter Pack For Every King...
Where and how do i get all of these?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by bayus2003(m): 8:26am On Oct 09, 2021
tayewomi:
they are all the same,no one is different,but just do well 4 yourself as a guy,love will surely come for you..
i can see you believe in love.....it won't end well.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:03am On Oct 09, 2021
SOZINN:
Women kick feminism under the table when it's time for the bills.
Haha.. so true bro grin
Take this Abuja for example, you see that June/July and October/November season when rents are getting due, that's when bitches call up and leech on to many money-miss-road guys.
It's an eternal cycle.
Feminism ko... activism ni grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PrinxArthur1(m): 9:43am On Oct 09, 2021
MetalJigsaw:
I wouldn't mind parting with money just to see this thread.
Lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DeusMagnus: 10:22am On Oct 09, 2021
tayewomi:
they are all the same,no one is different,but just do well 4 yourself as a guy,love will surely come for you..
interpretation of what you said is, become a redpiller when you are broke then abandon it when you become made because I don't know how a redpiller will hustle to do well for himself just because he wants to find true love. All this things we dey talk here, una no dey understand am?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by davidswhales(m): 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021
adambeatz:
Lol gentlemen( both redplillers and bluepillers alike).
I'd love to make you guys understand women are so diabolical even a virgin might not be a virgin when you Bleep her. You doubt me , lemme give you the gist here. See if you play your cards right around women and let them know you don't have time for their pussy and set impossible standards for them to meet up they'll be at your beck and call ready to expose their secrets to you.
I happen to knw a click of runs girls in abuja sometime back whom are serious gold diggers, but these kinds never give you the impression they are after your money and after you've spent serious money to impress them and they allow you have a taste of them, you'd be ready to stab anyone who says they aren't virgins. But how possible is it that a runs girls can sleep with different high class men and they all vouch she was a virgin ( mind you this isnt about when they are on their periods).
The game goes like this, you see these girls visit places high classed individuals hangout and makes friends with them, become friends and when persuaded into sex give the normal stories to starve them of it. After much cajoling and expensive gifts these girls purchase artificial hymen to use. You can google it and its also for sale in Nigeria, you see its in wraps similar to condom. Now there is a popular house hold item they use in washing their pussy to make it tight (for a temporal time though), this is for those whom don't have money yet but the one with money purchase pussy tighting products.
These 2 combined atleast 30mins before showdown with a sprinkling of tears is enough to do the trick and voila behold a virgin is born.
Do your research online about these two things and you'd discover mother nature is one ruthless cunning bitch whose hell bent on making sure we men never catch up with the insanley mind blowing manipulations women pull on men.
Now gentlemen i have a question for you, was your woman truly a virgin when you bleeped her or were you unfortunate enough to have met a second hand virgin, the floor is yours brother

Good lord, what did I just read? Well I always knew that a lot of this girls are upto no good and all they do is lie. I have already found an answer to one of the things I seek, though I know quite well about sths you typed up there, but I definitely do not have any idea about the artificial hymen. I am shocked over the fact that this girls would do anything just to stay on top of their game and keep manipulating men till thy kingdom comes. Chai a lot of Men have been fooled. Thanks for the eye opener

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by taiocol: 10:48am On Oct 09, 2021

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021
taiocol:
https://www.nairaland.com/6793314/discovered-bride-3-children-wedding

Another one grin
I was just about to share the link here. Mehn! It pays to be redpilled. Look at the textbook manipulation just being ran on the dude, but his ignorance and love feelings are his undoing. This is the situation of many. The girl is manipulating him, take a look at the court wedding stuff.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:57am On Oct 09, 2021
adambeatz:
Lol gentlemen( both redplillers and bluepillers alike).
I'd love to make you guys understand women are so diabolical even a virgin might not be a virgin when you Bleep her. You doubt me , lemme give you the gist here. See if you play your cards right around women and let them know you don't have time for their pussy and set impossible standards for them to meet up they'll be at your beck and call ready to expose their secrets to you.
I happen to knw a click of runs girls in abuja sometime back whom are serious gold diggers, but these kinds never give you the impression they are after your money and after you've spent serious money to impress them and they allow you have a taste of them, you'd be ready to stab anyone who says they aren't virgins. But how possible is it that a runs girls can sleep with different high class men
damn bro,why you do us like this haha

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Raalsalghul: 11:31am On Oct 09, 2021
Smartb0y:
so what are you saying, we should simp?

You still don't get his point? undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ma373733(m): 12:34pm On Oct 09, 2021
Tonnyray:
Not sure I really understand where cunning comes in here but if being tactful in dealings is what you're hinting at, thanks bro. You’re on point.
Charming? If anything I do my best to prevent myself from doing anything out of a need to impress them.

You know them better than me sha


Bro always befriend power anyday anytime
Don't be intimidated by power

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 12:40pm On Oct 09, 2021
That guy is a legend grin
If he divorce,half of his property will go to the woman plus he will pay child support when she gives birth.

If he decides to stay married then he must take care of 3 kids that are not his own.
Let's not forget the woman also controls and shouts at him.

taiocol:
https://www.nairaland.com/6793314/discovered-bride-3-children-wedding

Another one grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by solidmyk(m): 1:08pm On Oct 09, 2021
bayus2003:
i can see you believe in love.....it won't end well.
grin grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kelvinhunt: 1:38pm On Oct 09, 2021
Emmynator:

The bolded is still a LJBF strategy, since she knows you won't accept friend one directly, she is coming indirectly, counting on you to be a gentleman that wouldn't want to break her heart.

Depends on what you want from her, if you are OK with becoming friends with benefits, emphasis on benefits, then you can push to get it, even though you guys won't be official. But if you want a relationship, then reject her new strategy ASAP.

My thought exactly......but I haven't really done the friends with benefits stuff with any girl before..how do I intiate it... should I tell her about it directly or what?

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