Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Offpoint1: 10:25am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Wahala no dey finish, e be like Lagos traffic. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Salako01(m): 10:25am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Lol, wahala dey this life o ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by nini007(m): 10:25am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? How could you be this stupid? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Righteousness2(m): 10:26am On Oct 09, 2021 |
There are certain things I hear that makes me laugh! This is one of them.
Every thing about the Whole thing from you to your Sin Partner is Yagayaga and Zagazaga.. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Femmyfestus: 10:26am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Is this a movie or a script that will soon become a movie. Why are there many simps on this nairaland. ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Oracleforce: 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do? The question is, where did you pick her from? Probably from a beer parlor or clubhouse... You don't pick someone from a promiscuous background and except not to have a horrible past... Abeg, if you want go ahead, go...and if you wan japa from her, Japa.... Finish 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by oglalasioux(m): 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
The juju that woman used on OP is version 2.0. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by slivertongue: 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? You just ruined your life. Most males mistaken sex for love. A woman with children can't hide all d evidence. Her body will tell the tales but u ignored it because of sex. You better run now that u can and stop giving excuses with court wedding 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by MARKone(m): 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
OP sorry, but ineed the contact of that babalowo asap. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Babalola0920: 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Oti ya werey |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? PLEASE who are you? And what are you? We really need to know you! By the way, I need the phone contact of that BABALAWO....for that's the only sensible thing in this your entire write up. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by ChineduChinedu: 10:27am On Oct 09, 2021 |
nappy760: Is like your sugar mummy didn't teach you anything at all . Being inexperienced and being stupid are two different things. And how the f*CK will you be with someone that has 3 kids and not know.
She might not look like it or feel like it down there but there are subtle signs I don't know all those things I started dating at the age of 30 with sugar mommy who took my virginity I don't know what to do |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by OBTOREPA(m): 10:28am On Oct 09, 2021 |
siofra: All these are LIES I like you |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Perfecttouchade: 10:28am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Women, can start a secret in their mind and finish it right there...one day u might see your obituary at bustop wey u never die.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by omoadeleye(m): 10:29am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Oga, commot for here jawe 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by nini007(m): 10:29am On Oct 09, 2021 |
chatinent:
Ok o.
We will come back to this later.
Okay?
Okay?
You gotta be kidding me.
On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?
Okay?
If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.
I thought as much. Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?
The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?
Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.
Ok?
I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.
Okay?
30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.
Eight months? She controls you? She shouts at you? If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.
It's okay, my brother.
Hello, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:
This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.
Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. Investigation galore. I like this 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by MufasaLion: 10:29am On Oct 09, 2021 |
The decision to not marry is still the best anyways. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Flier: 10:30am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Fake story! You lived together for 8 years but she has 8 years old child and another 6 years old for another man without you knowing about it Nonsense It could Be someone is trying to blackmail her |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by basty: 10:31am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You do Court wedding with her declaration of Age and you don't know her age? Lie from the pit of hell 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by omoadeleye(m): 10:31am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Naira should stop making stvpid post end on the front page.
What bvllshits i just read now?
This is a ridiculous bvllshits. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Cassetteman: 10:31am On Oct 09, 2021 |
falcon01: I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends? pls this doesn't call for insult |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by dingbang(m): 10:31am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Fake abeg |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Sanchez01: 10:31am On Oct 09, 2021 |
yanabasee2: Seems she's using jazz to manipulate you....
I know igbo men to be smart..... But you do t have that as a trait in you.... There is no jazz here. The lady is older, more experienced and seems to have exploited the naivety of the OP. She knew why she wanted it to be legal and very well understood her mission. Ideally, this marriage (since they are already married by law) shouldn't stand and qualifies to be annulled since it was based on lies and falsehood. 6 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Starz825(m): 10:32am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem I wasn't into girls at all I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity. I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all That's how I landed into this problem Make una help abeg Guy ..the first you ought to do in this kind of situation is to chill...chill..I repeat calm yor down first.... Now...listen You are not the first person that will enter into this kind of problem...know this and know peace...you are a man ...shit don happen... Now listen to me carefully....you see that divorce shit that you were talking about in your post say.. Dem go divide your wealth into half if you divorce her....guy open your eyes...na Naija you dey ....it doesn't work here.... Kick that woman outta your house....let her go to parents and relative who all have hand in keeping the shit as a secret from you.... Now listen to me....when she finally delivers that baby in her tummy....do a DNA test straight up..if it comes out to be yours ...you can continue to take care of the baby from there ...he dey happen well well.....while you find another woman of your choice to settle with ...if you like go mumu yourself say you must marry her...they trapped you ... deceived you all because you are doing good financially....open your eyes...i repeat...kick that woman away....if she finally delivers..get a DNA test on the baby....if it yours..fine take care of the baby from afar...by sending money to her....don't you ever have anything to do with such devilish woman ..... three children...haba ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by smasher1(m): 10:32am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? I don't know what to say, I don't know what to do. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Holywizard: 10:32am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You are a simp. You type like one. Are you a mommy's boy? Nonsense!!! Carry 2 by 2 plank pursue her comot from house. See wetin loose toto dey do u 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by ChineduChinedu: 10:32am On Oct 09, 2021 |
UltimateStarman:
do you love her and want to remain with her am not happy with her She shout at me like a house boy It makes me to shade secrets tears 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by harmargedon: 10:32am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You try, na online marriage you dey do before? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Soki234: 10:33am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You already did court wedding. She is no longer your bride, but your legal wife. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Jayrockk: 10:33am On Oct 09, 2021 |
SIMPson ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nobody: 10:33am On Oct 09, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest:
PLEASE who are you? And what are you?
We really need to know you! By the way, I need the phone contact of that BABALAWO....for that's the only sensible thing in this your entire write up. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nobody: 10:33am On Oct 09, 2021 |
This one tie wrapper. E pass me. |