| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tuboi: 10:40am On Oct 09, 2021 |
slivertongue:
You just ruined your life. Most males mistaken sex for love. A woman with children can't hide all d evidence. Her body will tell the tales but u ignored it because of sex. You better run now that u can and stop giving excuses with court wedding He’s a foolish boy. How on earth did he not see the woman’s stomach? 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by debbydams(f): 10:40am On Oct 09, 2021 |
1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by mrksquare: 10:40am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Oboy carry your cross. Proud step father of three kids. God doesn't allow problem that is bigger than us to overwhelm us. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by favour32(m): 10:41am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Nairalanders!
Nor every story una go put mouth.
Most na fiction! |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by doeeyed: 10:41am On Oct 09, 2021 |
OgunkeelAllMod:
Stop marrying naija girls in no dey hear  ..yeah you can f*ck them but avoid marrying them if you want story like dis
..go foreign simple  No guarantees Foreign can do the same and much worse!!!! Caution and discretion is the way. . |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by felibrain: 10:41am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Your sense of humor is top notch. The nwa bu ewu. But story looks fake and poorly written. chatinent:
Ok o.
We will come back to this later.
Okay?
Okay?
You gotta be kidding me.
On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?
Okay?
If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.
I thought as much.
Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?
The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?
Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.
Ok?
I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.
Okay?
30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.
Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.
It's okay, my brother.
Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:
This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.
Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by MansoryMX(m): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? 
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| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Corporate2020: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Smartb0y:
Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Take half of what? You think any Court in Nigeria will give any woman half of her husband's property? It has never happened before, it will never happen. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by jubrilELsudan: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
VERILY VERILY I SAY UNTO YOU...... INDEED YOU ARE A BIG ODE. 
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| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by debbydams(f): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
tuboi:
He’s a foolish boy. How on earth did he not see the woman’s stomach? love is blind  |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by victorazy(m): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Casted spell Congrat bro ! |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tafabaloo(m): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Bros, go ahead and divorce her. She does not deserve you .
The Bible asks "if the foundation is faulty what can the righteous do? "
I can bet it, you would not lose a pin because she was not honest enough to tell you the truth you deserved to know. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nyamve1: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
U are so confused sir, u allow infatuation to misled u, u are a simp, u acts like someone who don't have direction life. U should know what u want, that has been ur problem. But ur indecisive manner has landed u in trouble. Its well with u |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by girlygirlyMain: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You know EXACTLY how you entered the problem!! Why must you sleep with a woman before you marry her? Why won't you peoole receive sense? So what do you want nairalanders to do for you now? When you wanted to enter the fornication did you ask us? Simple fact: THE MARRIAGE IS BASED ON FALSEHOOD SO YOU OWE HER ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Take your child and walk away. Poor child has to suffer for your selfishness now... ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by enemyofprogress: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Op I sell original rat poison o and it is very ship |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Newboss(m): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Bloody simp!
Men need to learn that it's always okay to offend a woman and make her cry. Don't let these bîtches push you around. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by emonis88: 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Get a lawyer, I think u can divorce her without her getting anything, on the grounds that she lied, to u, n u didn't even do a church wedding, but a good lawyer can help u get her off ur back, but u il be mandated to take care of her till child birth, or u can wait till after she gives birth , do a DNA to know if d baby is urs , before d divorce. But a lawyer il advice u better. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by delzbaba(m): 10:42am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Run oh. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Femeto: 10:43am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Give her the half she deserves and run away. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by smasher1(m): 10:43am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
My mumu nobi here oo
Thanks for the advice No be only you. Many of us good guys mumu where women dey. Life is like that sometimes, but you can still enjoy your life. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by slevan: 10:43am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Marriage under deception is null and void. ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by sixtus3606(m): 10:44am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? I am so sorry to say. But you sound so stupid! (I don't mind the mods banning me on this). She forced you to go ahead with court marriage, is a sign. She has a cynical motive! Apparently, her major concern is securing a brighter future of her 3 children. and not to have a happy married life with you. You go ahead with the marriage and see if you will enjoy your time with her. sha be careful. On the other hand, if you are a rugged dude, you work on her smartness to favour you and enjoy the marriage. It's a choice. But seriously, you are the mumu in this game! Chai! |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Bigchristo: 10:44am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? So your Uncle Took the girls name to babalawo? Bruh you fall into this because of your inability to engage your said wife into deep conversation to know how she has been living before you came in, moral lessons do not jump into relationship with a person without doing proper background checks on knowing the person well before talking about marriage, even the hidden secrets can be revealed with the help of deep conversation and background check. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by daclint(m): 10:44am On Oct 09, 2021 |
this one na man at all ?? |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Zico777(m): 10:44am On Oct 09, 2021 |
falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends? Oga, u need not insult him this much. He said it was much later the secret was revealed. So in this kind of situation u can't really blame him 100%. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by sijibomi33(m): 10:45am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ooooo chhhoookeee!!! |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tuboi: 10:45am On Oct 09, 2021 |
I have no advice for you bro..You got lost in her honeypot..how on earth did you not see her stretch mark wrinkled stomach? YOU MUST BE MAD |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by sixtus3606(m): 10:45am On Oct 09, 2021 |
emonis88:
Get a lawyer, I think u can divorce her without her getting anything, on the grounds that she lied, to u, n u didn't even do a church wedding, but a good lawyer can help u get her off ur back, but u il be mandated to take care of her till child birth, or u can wait till after she gives birth , do a DNA to know if d baby is urs , before d divorce. But a lawyer il advice u better. OP this one sef dey. It's up to you now. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by VanDerWaalforces: 10:46am On Oct 09, 2021 |
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| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Realwvn(m): 10:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Ah, looks to me like you already dabbled into an unprofitable investment, good thing that you are in Nigeria, just go on with your life and ignore the court thing, you can dissolve your marriage later or work towards it while you try and start over
The next few months will try your personality, be a man and don’t be afraid to say no ! 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by nedekid: 10:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg Wonders shall never end  |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Best147(m): 10:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You can actually divorce this woman on the basis of deceit and fraud. Just get a good lawyer and the court will rule in your favour and you properties will still remain yours |
