Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Dshocker(m): 10:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the biological father of those children
I called the man And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids He said yes He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all I asked why He said cuz of family backgrounds
What should I do?
I know I made mistakes If u guys don't help I may end up dead Man you have to stand your ground,because lying is tantamount to cheating and she intentionally hid a big baggage from you.... Nwa nna leave that woman alone,even heaven and humanity would understand She will run your life down,you deserve better |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Ayo081(m): 10:47am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Things dey happen Sha ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Oluwanieze: 10:48am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Omo! Be like you get experience in womenity o FreeSpirited:
When a man is so naive and inexperienced abt women..once u enter into relationship with a very experienced one, even if she's not that experienced, most women are cunning, so she will use the power of her wet pvssy to control u.. because u haven't had much experience abt sex, she will fvvck u very well, she will make u experience the sweetness of sex and at same time use the power of her pvssy to control yoi because She knows she has tied u to her pvssy...dats wot women do... It's ur dependence on that pvssy which is something u can't control that she will use to control u and maltreat...she will make u beg and apologize otherwise she won't give u the sex you are now used to.... ...She will make demand and u must fulfill it, else she won't give u sex ......and u will miss the sex and her sexiness cos she will be hostile to u..so u will now try to appease her.... . The cure for this is to be experienced to know when she's trying to manipulate u and stand ur ground instead of accepting her terms.... ....Another is why men have sidechicks cos when their babe manipulate them and refuse to give Dem sex..they will go and meet the side chick... So start looking for another babe or else she will continue to use her pvssy juice to wash ur head and ur mumunity will double. The reason u are confused is because u have been pvssyfied.. she has used her pvssy to control u . U must break that control, so u will need another woman.....and at thesame time...u need alot of stuff to know abt women.... otherwise even ur new woman will still take advantage of u |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Obason22(m): 10:48am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Biggest fool ever. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by brightalo1010: 10:49am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? I don't know how to advise iberibe people like you . if what you typed here in not nollywood script then your own mumu na inborn , I don't know enugu people to be this foolish .at the age of 30 you don't have sense ? we the men don dash you for sacrifice for cleansing . Mumu man. why won't she control you when you lack sense ? a lady forced you to do court wedding against your own wish . tufiakwa . |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by MPESA(m): 10:49am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem I wasn't into girls at all I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity. I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all That's how I landed into this problem Make una help abeg You can divorce her the court will favor YOU on this because she lied... Pay a visit to lawyer... She manipulated you about a stupid dream because she knows that immediately yu discovered the truth about her children that you will run away... LEAVE THAT FAMILY AND RUN FOR YOUR LIFE... THEY CAN BE FETISH. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tradepunter: 10:52am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Useless weakling....
Very very useless weakling |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Dbrightest007(m): 10:52am On Oct 09, 2021 |
The fact is you completely ignored the red flags during your courtship or dating period. A lady who controls you, shout at you and gets angry easily is a big NO. You should have read meaning on why she was so desperate to have a court marriage, it implies she have an ulterior motive. Baba you don Bleep up already!!! |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Olakunleyakub(m): 10:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
This is the real definition of mumuric and simping |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by DukeNija(m): 10:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem I wasn't into girls at all I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity. I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all That's how I landed into this problem Make una help abeg You don’t know anything about girls but you didn’t listen to your own family. You’re a fool forever. Get lost. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by slevan: 10:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Oga, calm down and listen. Everything you have done with that woman prior to your discovery is null and void. What should you do: Approach the court based on this new evidence to dissolve the marriage. She could go to jail and you can also ask for reparations. Your lawyer knows what to do. ChineduChinedu: She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem I wasn't into girls at all I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity. I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all That's how I landed into this problem Make una help abeg |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by bdon123(m): 10:53am On Oct 09, 2021 |
First n foremost,ur mumu wear coat.U hav no business fathering a child becos u are still one ot maybe u have an underdeveloped brain.Secondly,this is not America,there is no such thing as sharing properties into two after divorce.What i cant understand is before u fcked ur wife,hav u not ever fcked any other woman before?Becos there is no way i will see d body of a woman who has had a child before n not know...not to mention 3.How can u not know |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Lugianostar(m): 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Accept reality Brother ![](/faces/huh.png) ?? |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by 1nigeriamyfoot: 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Efulefu ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) I see no reason why you should be asking us what to do at this stage I'm older than you so I think j can talk senses to your head Women are manipulative & will always take advantages of your weak side Divorce her right away No doubt, you are doing well financially than her former husband, sees that you are certified simp & that's why she played fast one on you Btw, it's strange you can't detect a woman wey don born before with her body n while drilling her |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by 8stargeneral: 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
U don't know HW a woman who get 3 kids kpekus and breast dey..u be Mumu man. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by samdaisi: 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Can you see where the word of God comes to play a vital roles in the life of a man, the laws in the Holy books are for our own benefits. Cohabitation is strongly a prohibited in Christian dom, it show that disobedient will surely gives birth to disobedient leading to tout |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by chiago95(m): 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
My mumu nobi here oo Thanks for the advice Chai! I really feel 4 u cos you are now entangled in a sticky cobweb. Go and seek the honest opinion of your parents and pastor before making any fiinal decision. Do as i say brotherly and thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nephilim: 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem I wasn't into girls at all I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity. I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all That's how I landed into this problem Make una help abeg if this story is true, then there's one thing I can say, congratulations you are now a married man to a mother of three. The marriage itself is a deception, look for a spiritual leader to lead you, and a very sound and knowledgeable person in the judiciary to direct you. moreso pray for direction. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Manshot1: 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Favfables: It's not every divorce that the man losing half of his property, because the content/agreement of a court marriage can be adjusted to suit the couple...
Since you said her junior brother signed it for you, it therefore means that he adjusted the proceedings to favour his sister, because if na the one wey my sister sign, your supposed wife for go prison for 21years... first go through the proceedings of the agreement and see if there's a loophole you can exploit...
I'm not a fan of divorce, but Oga kick that woman outta your house, because marriage built on deceit cannot last... Properties are not even shared in Nigerian marriages. Only happens in the west and not Nigeria so he should get sense for himself |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by aku626(m): 10:54am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You won’t lose anything she married you under false pretense go and dissolve the marriage in court ASAP. Get your child train him well…. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by joshuaidibia(m): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? You be heavy mumu. I no pity you one bit. You deserve what you got. You're getting married to someone and u don't know her age. Ode. You did court wedding without your parents. Let me ask you. How did her brother sign for you when the court registry always gives a form to fill weeks before the court wedding,in that form you will write down the names and details of those that will sign. At least this is what I passed through from Abuja Registry. I don't believe your story though. I don't believe someone as old as you can be this stupid and weakling. I spit on your childishness ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by chival(f): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
That woman is cold hearted and manipulating. She forced you to go through with the registry wedding because of the secret she was keeping g. She is mean. Get an annulment, have a DNA test run on the baby after its birth and then take responsibility for the baby if it's yours. You were played. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Tayorshd2(m): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
This is a gram up story is not real .. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Crossroad1(m): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) brosom: Oga pray make redpillers no catch u both online and offline.
Ur case get as e be ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) some people go really wish to know this op offline so dem go fit beat sense enter him coconut head 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Kobicove(m): 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Smartb0y: Divorce and take half. Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Divorce and take half? Who even believes that rubbish? This is Nigeria not Europe or America! |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by brightalo1010: 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the biological father of those children
I called the man And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids He said yes He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all I asked why He said cuz of family backgrounds
What should I do?
I know I made mistakes If u guys don't help I may end up dead Go to any lawyer and tell him the truth and that you no longer want stay in the marriage no matter what . then the lawyer will help you get the divorce without much to lose . never you ever try to manage the lady if you like yourself . |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Drmkast: 10:55am On Oct 09, 2021 |
bro before its too late,disbantle that shit called marriage with her ,run for your life beside you are not smart enough ,beside am sure shes older than you . wohhhh saaa run for your life 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by sixtus3606(m): 10:56am On Oct 09, 2021 |
felibrain: Your sense of humor is top notch. The nwa bu ewu. But story looks fake and poorly written.
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tolugar: 10:56am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Sell everything you have to a friend or a brother. Move in with a family or friend Declare bankruptcy If you are employed, tell her you are owing the company Ghost her for 1 month Then come back and tell her you’ve been in efcc and dss Custody. Always demand money from her Maintain the lie for at least 2 years she will be begging for a free divorce Follow the above instructions since everyone is living a life of lies. You will be fine las las 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Tayorshd2(m): 10:56am On Oct 09, 2021 |
joshuaidibia:
You be heavy mumu. I no pity you one bit. You deserve what you got. You're getting married to someone and u don't know her age. Ode. You did court wedding without your parents. Let me ask you. How did her brother sign for you when the court registry always gives a form to fill weeks before the court wedding,in that form you will write down the names and details of those that will sign. At least this is what I passed through from Abuja Registry. I don't believe your story though. I don't believe someone as old as you can be this stupid and weakling. I spit on your childishness ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Yes the story is a fiction not true at all but a frame up one.. |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by ONNYX: 10:56am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu: Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early. That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September Church wedding 2nd October But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years 2nd son 8 years 3rd girl 6 years And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this And during this period we have been together She controls me alots and that make me sad She shout at me too If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? On the assumption that this is not one of those tales that Seun and his team use to attract traffic to their site on very boring weekends Iwill make a contribution here. History is replete with stories of very foolish men brought down by the wiles of women from Adam through Samson, Hosea and a host of others. But you Sir, have earned the crown. From realtor to Girlfriend and then wife all within a very short space of time and to crown it all ....it happened in Lagos. Don't you have male friends that you can confide in...even if you don't have relatives? You are a the personification of unintelligence and deserve only to marry that girl. Please ensure that you stick by her. Nonsense and ingredients. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by DukeNija(m): 10:57am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please what do u suggest I beg u Divorce that witch. Mumu man. Go and speak to a lawyer. |