| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Greenbottlelady: 10:57am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Omo |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by qtguru(m): 10:58am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You tied yourself with this woman by having a child, your cross to bear 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by NtiObaEneke(f): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Lies lies lies |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by chival(f): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
slevan:
Oga, calm down and listen. Everything you have done with that woman prior to your discovery is null and void. What should do: Approach the court based on this new evidence to dissolve the marriage. She could go to jail and you can also ask for reparations. Your lawyer knows what to do.
This is good advice. Follow it. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by DukeNija(m): 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Crossroad1:
;Dsome people go really wish to know this op offline so dem go fit beat sense enter him coconut head For realz. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by georgeakins: 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
siofra:
All these are LIES Though, I cannot verify the OP's story. Something like that almost happened to me. If you are not smart, Nigerians girls will manipulate you |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by sabreal: 11:00am On Oct 09, 2021 |
If I were your blood relative. Call off the nonsense for non disclosure of saliebt facts. If she hide such information from you, she will eventually kill you. Questions she must provide genuine details: 1. Why did she hide those information from you? 2. Who are the fathers of those children? 3. Where are the children staying now? 4. Where will they be staying, with you or who? 5. What happened to her marriage if she was married? 6. Find out if you are the one responsible for pregnancy. 7. Ask her, how many of you (men) are in the queue now. Women of this generation are so reckless and useless ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Oyin2212(m): 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends? 
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| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by frankson1(m): 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends? All the signs were there since the day one. He's even seeking for advise. Very very disappointed. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nobody: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? u dey vex me seriously |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by silibaba: 11:01am On Oct 09, 2021 |
OP is a stupid MOFO
Nobody should advice him..
He's a Pharisee |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Validated: 11:02am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Favfables:
It's not every divorce that the man losing half of his property, because the content/agreement of a court marriage can be adjusted to suit the couple...
Since you said her junior brother signed it for you, it therefore means that he adjusted the proceedings to favour his sister, because if na the one wey my sister sign, your supposed wife for go prison for 21years...
first go through the proceedings of the agreement and see if there's a loophole you can exploit...
I'm not a fan of divorce, but Oga kick that woman outta your house, because marriage built on deceit cannot last... If you can prove that she never told you about the 3 children, then there was no marriage. How can you prove she never told you? Well get clear evidence, do you by any means have any conversation with the church as to why the church wedding was cancelled? That could stand as evidence. Secondly, if your lawyer can prove undue influence by the fact that her brother signed as your parents, you may wriggle out of it. But all in all, YOU ARE A BIG FOOL! 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by pearlyboo(f): 11:02am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me It's sad that this is happening if the story is actually true. Tell aunty u no dey do again. That's d height of deceit in a young marriage. Not 1 but 3. If u were privy to this info before u fixed the dates and still accepted to marry her ,that would hv been fair. She shouts at you from all u have said. Give her a divorce. When baby is born ,if u are not convinced, do a DNA. If the child is urs ,u care for the baby n move on with ur life. Next time shine ya eye well well. Sorry for what u have had to go through. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 11:03am On Oct 09, 2021 |
I'm really speechless |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by obembet(f): 11:03am On Oct 09, 2021 |
siofra:
All these are LIES I think say na only me dey notice am |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by hdrifter11: 11:03am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Lol
Wahala nodey pinish 4 dis corn3 |
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| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Kaybenny(m): 11:04am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Finally, you're a mumu man. E b like your mumu never do. From fry pan to fire. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Freelane33(m): 11:05am On Oct 09, 2021 |
E ni to ba de be lo le so … meh my best advise for you is to divorce her . Let her take what she wanna take and put your stuffs together and japa , you’re still very young in brain , with thinking and others , very very from wetin you write up there .pay child support monthly if you’re very sure that the child she’s carrying is yours . That’s all |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Gokoyer0(m): 11:05am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Mr Man, if you don't flee for your life, she is ready to cut your life short. I repeat, forget the marriage and run. I didn't believe such a man like you still exists. Your family didn't even approve the wedding and you allowed his brother to sign the wedding certificate. Go to your family, particular your parents and beg them before your storm out of the marriage and flee from her. ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage
All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding
You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl
I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Surfacebaba: 11:05am On Oct 09, 2021 |
u are a big fool 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by chival(f): 11:06am On Oct 09, 2021 |
chatinent:
Marry her, her kids goes back to their father. All you wanted was pregnancy, by the way. For me, the kids aren't really the issue. The deception is. A person capable of such coldly calculated manipulation is capable of every evil under the sun. The young man should run. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by advanceDNA: 11:06am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? This is Nigeria ...nobody takes half of your property and give to a woman.... If your story is true.... Nigga... walk away... Walk away and never return... But sounds like a fabricated story shaa 2 Likes |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Fofo2014: 11:07am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Is a pity how you allowed yourself to be manipulated by the laps of a woman. My first advice is that you run to Christ so you can have wisdom. On your court marriage, marriage by deceit is not marriage at all. In the eyes of the law, you were never married to that woman. Go to court immediately and file for divorce and also seek damages for expenses incurred during the marriage. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Holluwhakemmy(f): 11:07am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Fake story as usual. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Iykenuwa(m): 11:07am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Get a lawyer, I think the above is a loophole you can exploit. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Fofo2014: 11:09am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Is a pity how you allowed yourself to be manipulated by the laps of a woman. My first advice is that you run to Christ so you can have wisdom. On your court marriage, marriage by deceit is not marriage at all. In the eyes of the law, you were never married to that woman. Go to court immediately and file for divorce and also seek damages for expenses incurred during the marriage. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by iLegendd(m): 11:09am On Oct 09, 2021 |
This story should better be a lie so I can sleep like a king to night. Even with jazz, this is bad. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Noblewealth(m): 11:09am On Oct 09, 2021 |
You actually know what to do about this but you seeking for people's opinions...
Mr do the needful and make sure everything paid on her are carefully and neatly retrieve.. |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by ChineduChinedu: 11:10am On Oct 09, 2021 |
UltimateStarman:
you are right on this
the solution is simple
Op should be red pilled please where do I get the red pills |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Nobody: 11:11am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court
I don't know what to do in this situation oo
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem
Please what do I do ? Who dey raise irritating sons like you guys of now adays sef  Some of you men are just so weak when it comes to women. I don't pray I have sons like you as my child. 1 Like |
| Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by UltimateStarman: 11:11am On Oct 09, 2021 |
ChineduChinedu:
please where do I get the red pills romance threads and search for Ubunja Miseducation threads too |
