Tell us your part madam , why you wan make the poor Nigga Dey take good care of your 3 bastard kid

Holluwhakemmy:
Fake story as usual.

Abeg don't kill Me with

You too much !!!!

babaalagbo1:
with your write up I don't think you're a man enough or even ripe for marriage in the first place,so you couldnt do proper verification physically and spiritually yourself before venturing into institution called marriage and she controls you,I can't stop laughing,oga the marriage is dead on arrival...you're not man enough brother,being a man I more than having third leg...wake up and never make such mistake with your next relationship...

ChineduChinedu:
please where do I get the red pills

Lol.you really need help
Inform your family, they will tell you what to do

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
[s]She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too[/s]
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Divorce, I have a lawyer who can see you through the process, how are you so sure that you're even the father of the baby she's carrying?

Na the wife paddies be this . They are surfacing

NtiObaEneke:
Lies lies lies

Come on guys, can't you all see this is a writing script. This is just a fake story. Person with 13yrs old son and he's just 30yrs. This news just fairly tale.


If he thinks it's real he should shows pics, location and every possible evidence to proof

Bro if you are in lagos, let us meet and talk and I am sure that you Wil laugh at last. You see that devil you called wife will one day poison you and take all the money you are scared of losing. Divorce the bitch now ND have rest of mind. I dey ipaja ayobo side in lagos

Bro,I don't want to be judgemental because I have also fallen a victim of single mother.

Your story is similar to mine.

When we started dating,she didn't tell me she has a boy for another man but in the middle of the relationship she told me.

Before we know what is happening,she got pregnant for me and she insisted I do court marriage.
I obliged and we got married.

Fast forward sha,my home was hellish as in wahala here and there,she abused my family members anyhow,she even wanted to beat my mother.

Eventually,I left her and moved on with my life.

She took my boy away and said,I will not have access to him again.

I left the boy for her,I know one day the I will meet the boy,so I don't bother to look for the boy as she is violent and can kill me.

I am happily married to another lady now and happiness is back in my life.

MY ADVICE
1.Leave her and even forget your child,because I doubt if she will be allowing you to see your child.
2.look for a serious lady,this time around do your research about the lady and if you are fine with your findings,go ahead and marry her.
3. Leave divorce now,you will still come back to it in future and for your information you are not loosing 50% of your properties.
4. Make sure you are far from this lady.
5.Pray oooo

chatinent:

Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. Try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.

guy, I don laugh tire. You wan beat am if you jam am for road?

Is it possible for a woman to have three kids without knowing it ? I doubt ..from her breast you will know children have suckled from her .

Wàhálà for who no sabi hin wife history........

UltimateStarman:

romance threads and search for Ubunja Miseducation threads too

U are still responding...looks like the op is just catching cruize

OP is telling lies, big lies for that matter. cause if this was a true life story, OP will not be here seeking for advice but telling the story of what happened. Also, the first thing he would have done was to seek a lawyer's advice. Those who come to equity must come with clean hands. and anything built on lies and deceit is null and void. you court marriage is not binding on you cause you were tricked to it. but it is only the courts that can say so not you. so you have to go to court to set aside your marriage if it is true.

Greenbottlelady:


Divorce, I have a lawyer who can see you through the process, how are you so sure that you're even the father of the baby she's carrying?

seriously, how are you sure you are the father of the unborn child, bro see I have so many female friends that will happily have you, divorce that woman before she finish you.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Apply for annulment in the court on grounds of fraud. Speak to a lawyer, did your in law claim he was from your family when he signed? Has she been married before and did she declare that in the paperwork for the court marriage? I can see a lot of grounds for annulment. My brother, learn from it, people are scary

[quote author=FreeSpirited post=106577578]
When a man is so naive and inexperienced abt women..once u enter into relationship with a very experienced one, even if she's not that experienced, most women are cunning, so she will use the power of her wet pvssy to control u..
because u haven't had much experience abt sex, she will fvvck u very well, she will make u experience the sweetness of sex and at same time use the power of her pvssy to control yoi because She knows she has tied u to her pvssy...dats wot women do...
It's ur dependence on that pvssy which is something u can't control that she will use to control u and maltreat...she will make u beg and apologize otherwise she won't give u the sex you are now used to....
...She will make demand and u must fulfill it, else she won't give u sex ......and u will miss the sex and her sexiness cos she will be hostile to u..so u will now try to appease her....
.
The cure for this is to be experienced to know when she's trying to manipulate u and stand ur ground instead of accepting her terms....
....Another is why men have sidechicks cos when their babe manipulate them and refuse to give Dem sex..they will go and meet the side chick...
So start looking for another babe or else she will continue to use her pvssy juice to wash ur head and ur mumunity will double.
The reason u are confused is because u have been pvssyfied.. she has used her pvssy to control u . U must break that control, so u will need another woman.....and at thesame time...u need alot of stuff to know abt women.... otherwise even ur new woman will still take advantage of u

U r on point

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Nwanyi Lagos gwörö gï ka abacha. Ó díka etere gí nzu n'iru. 8 months of kwara-ngida, continue bro. Chastity before marriage una no gree.

[Practical mumuism. When the only way to get sense is to be the story itselfquote author=Smartb0y post=106572145]Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Its the only way you can ever get sense.[/quote]

What kind of human being are you? Something is actually wrong with you and I hope your family take action over your life if they don't want to lose you

You’re a muni man go face what you stated

omoharry:
Is it possible for a woman to have three kids without knowing it ? I doubt ..from her breast you will know children have suckled from her .

I have seen some childless 22 year old ladies, with slippers like breasts.......

computer0810:
My advice for u is that u should enter bus that will pass thru third mainland bridge, align and just inside d lagoon
There's a reward for ur foolishness and stupidity in heaven
Even as women full lagos na after 3 u wan marry

After 3'o clock.

Lmfao

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You sue for annulment. That marriage which is a contract was done under false information. It's fraud. Go for annulment. As for the pregnancy, you can take care of the child when it's born after DNA of course. It's either you stay away from that woman or be ready to leave this world in a few years

thanks

Getting married to a mother of 3 shouldn't be seen as an issue. The problem is, She wasn't truthful, she was manipulative and the foundation of the relationship was built on lies. She was desperate in getting married that's why she kept the kids from you. I'm sure some other guys have left her half way whenever she opens up on her past. The lady is a victim of an irresponsible guy who left her after 3kids, any lady in her position will be desperate. You can dissolve the marriage if you want to, but don't do it because of the 3 kids, do it because of trust. If that lady is very rich, the bread winner, I'm very sure your family wouldn't mind. You no be mumu, shit happens. No one is too smart when it comes to love and relationships.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Nollywood yeye script

I hope by now you've known how stupid you are from all the comments above.

Justbehave:
Funny but not funny. @ OP,you have nothing to worry. Court can easily anull such marriage based on deception and they will even fine her. My life is good o. I have kids without any woman to worry about.
Tell these simps and sissy idiots that calls themselves men to be wise and never trust any girl of this generation,they will not hear.
Watch as non of them will comment here because they are all the same.

thanks

He fell for elastic poussy. What a mess called man. The doggy was out of this world I mean. Lol[quote author=Inno2903 post=106582271][/quote]

KazikageSama:
Abeg cancel it sharp sharp. Not because she has children (my people say child-bearing is not a disease) but because your relationship is already built on deceit and insincerity. If she could hide something this important and significant from you, who else knows what she's hiding?

Start afresh and make up your mind if you want to proceed with this. If you are a Christian, pray for the will of God to be done.

thanks

Oga u really messed up n u r obviously a simp 2 b honest
But the deed has been done already so i am just gonna offer u brotherly advice

Get a lawyer and file for divorce on grounds of marriage by deceit n if ur lawyer is dt gud she won't get a dime just maybe child support

Because dt lady is evil, she may wake up one day and just poison or stab u in ur sleep and inherit everything

Even if you lose half of your wealth,it's better than to lose ur life

Think like a man

[Person Dem don cook menstrual stew for . A peculiar mumuquote author=saintneo post=106582274]

Nwanyi Lagos gwörö gï ka abacha. Ó díka etere gí nzu n'iru. 8 months of kwara-ngida, continue bro. Chastity before marriage una no gree.[/quote]