Kingsasian:
you just described in details exactly what I experienced in the hands of a single mom I dated.

Some idiots are saying it's a lie...cos they haven't dated enough girls or lived with a babe they are dating....na inside marriage e go shock them

FreeSpirited:

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Go and date fine babe and live together without even marrying....u go dey geh sense small small

Me am married and I married a virgin u c say i get sense pass u
And am blessed with a fine boy.

dapadawee:

Me am married and I married a virgin u c say i get sense pass u
And am blessed with a fine boy.

Happy marriage ENDURANCE

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Chinedu, A friend told me the story on Monday and i really felt so bad. She was at the reception only to be told the wedding has bn called off. No matter what, you don’t deserve that treatment Star....metted on you.

She obviously took advantage of your naiveness, niceness and good heart and she was selfish about it.

If you ask me, I will tell you to take your time, think it thru and MAKE YOUR DECISION YOURSELF. Whatever decision you take is JUSTIFIABLE EVEN BEFORE GOD because the foundation was built on deceit and COVENANT cannot be built on lies or half truth.

You have a choice to forgive her and accept get back and move on with your marriage. You also have a choice to divorce her and even the court will not hold you liable because she entered the contract on lies.... the choice is yours...

However, just felt you should know this... Star.... acted out of fear of losing you. She was scared. She didn’t know if you will stay or not. She loves you truly but she was wrongly advised not to reveal it til after marriage. Yes, we can all bash her and say all manner of things about her here but you and I know, that Star... isn’t evil perse. So, the decision is yours to make.. you are the one that will live in the marriage should you decide to go on with it...

I wish you all the best, my great analyst.

Person don whip you USB cable for neck before?

The court wedding you did is a trash, in as much she kept the truth for you, you are good to divorce her without losing anything. In fact if you have a good lawyer, she might lose part of what you gave her for delaying you.

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Kids everywhere, for a woman to lie about her past is a red flag already and we don't marry out of pity. The marriage was built on deceit and it will not last.

Smartb0y:
Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Its the only way you can ever get sense.

I don't think the judge That will handle the case is stupid. She lied and deceived him to marry him, no judge will give her half of your wealth.

Fake story!!! No man will see nude of a woman with 3kids and not know she has kids. Please tell us another story. Mumu Man(in sabinus voice)

ChineduChinedu:


I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

kill the woman and try your possible best to avoid Abuja.

ChineduChinedu:


I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

IF YOU KILL UR SELF, YOU WILL END IN THE HOTTEST PART OF HELL. YOU BETTER TAKE YOUR MIND OFF THAT. THERE IS NO PROBLEM WITHOUT A SOLUTION. IF NA ABUJA U DEY, I FOR SAY MAKE YOU MEET ORDINARY PRESIDENT OF BREKETE RADIO. HE GO HELP YOU OUT

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

You sound like someone that's not used to women. You need to separate yourself from that woman as soon as possible. You have to be very heartless in doing so, if she like let her cry blood. Don't look back

Smartb0y:
Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Its the only way you can ever get sense.

What kind of stupid half? A marriage based on lies?
he went into it, with the other partner hiding her other children, that's enough proof to leave the marriage.

FreeSpirited:

Happy marriage ENDURANCE

Happy marriage enjoyment rather? Am lying on my bed the way I lay it. Give your life to Christ and know the ways of God then you will not marry from the street but from the spirit.
How can I date u for 1 weeks and not know you're deceptive where then is the holy spirit revealer of all secrets. I meet with you I know the kind of person you are. Except I disobey the spirit of the lord within me u can never deceive me

Go back to the court and annul the marriage on the ground of deceit.

After three kids, u couldnt see the physical signs? Even if shes jenifer Lopez! I dont believe this story first, but let me entertain myself. Thanks

You just made my day. I can't stop laughing
Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.[/color][/quote]

slivertongue:



You just ruined your life. Most males mistaken sex for love. A woman with children can't hide all d evidence. Her body will tell the tales but u ignored it because of sex. You better run now that u can and stop giving excuses with court wedding

Thanks bro

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Its either you are a lier of a fool or u reaping what you sow

dapadawee:

Happy marriage enjoyment rather? Am lying on my bed the way I lay it. Give your life to Christ and know the ways of God then you will not marry from the street but from the spirit.
How can I date u for 1 weeks and not know you're deceptive where then is the holy spirit revealer of all secrets. I meet with you I know the kind of person you are. Except I disobey the spirit of the lord within me u can never deceive me

Foool...lol.
Na Person like u woman go give bigyansh doggy style, u go begin misbehave....u no go fit think we'll again

@OP

You are truly the definition of a Novice.. You aren't an OG at all.. All the physical signs are certainly visible on that ladies body, how you manage to ignore or not know recognize any beats my imagination

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

It’s going to be a loooooong battle for you if you continue to be a simp.
Detach your emotions and dump her.
She used you and will still have a lot of baggage you knew nothing about.
Who even told you the unborn child is yours?�.
If you can mail me on elvischigozie@icloud.com, I will salvo your situation by introducing you to a committee of men who have been through this BS and came out with their lives including me.
We will show you what you don’t know.
Check your age and minus it from 13,it means you were still a teenager when she gave birth to her first son.
My brother,just respect yourself and shake off that entanglement jazz she did on you.
She will do something worse and even if you stick to this marriage,it will not pass 5 years before the stuff still breaks down.
Come out when there are still people to help you.

Freelane33:
Tell us your part madam , why you wan make the poor Nigga Dey take good care of your 3 bastard kid

am I the one he married to? you should rather ask your mother about your paternity olori omo ale ni e. No wonder there is a series of meeting going on in your family concerning your birth.

You can quickly annul the marriage based on her lies.

Secondly, even with a court wedding; you only lose half of the wealth and assets acquired during the marriage. Even if you are denied an annulment and you did a divorce, your only responsibility will be the care of your unborn baby.

Always remember that, no matter how far or how many steps you have taken on the wrong path or road, the best option is to make a U-turn and the earlier you make that turn, the better.

No reasonable judge will will give her half of your wealth after she lied and deceived You to marry her. And don't don't beat yourself to much, even the wisest(Solomon) and the strongest (Samson) fell for the manipulations of women. What You should be Scared of right now is what she will do to You if You insist on leaving her. That kind of people can be very dengerous

This your story is too fake abeg. God go punish you for this fake story. And I pray this thing happens to you and members of your family, since that is what you want. Idiot

You are a big fool! Manipulated. Carry your cross.

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

ChineduChinedu:


My mumu nobi here oo
Thanks for the advice

Let me even assume its true from the way u reply people. How about ur family and friends? Someone could have seen the deceit in her even though you that is involved tend to be blinded by the most 'battered and bruised' word called love. So no one advised you to look before u leap?

Holeosho

Holluwhakemmy:
am I the one he married to? you should rather ask your mother about your paternity olori omo ale ni e. No wonder there is a series of meeting going on in your family concerning your birth.

Holluwhakemmy:
Fake story as usual.

Thank you sis. Only dullards will believe this trash of a story.

The way he replies made it clear its a made-up story. There are even loopholes in the story. He mixed up the dates

Firstly, bro you are very dumb for not being to detect that she has given birth before despite the fact that you have seen her naked, THIS IS FOR ALL GUYS OUT THERE, YOU CAN EASILY TELL IF A GIRL HAS GIVEN BIRTH BEFORE BY SIMPLY LOOKING AT HER NIPPLE AND THE SHAPE OF HER BREAST. so bro i will advice you move on because she got all the blame by lieing to you. Now you've learnt your lesson and you will be wiser in your next relationship, SHE WON CARRY BORN GIVE YOU BRO SO NON GREE KICK HER OUT BECAUSE NOTHING DEY HER BODY AGAIN AFTER 3 CHILDREN

Sanchez01:

There is no jazz here. The lady is older, more experienced and seems to have exploited the naivety of the OP. She knew why she wanted it to be legal and very well understood her mission. Ideally, this marriage (since they are already married by law) shouldn't stand and qualifies to be annulled since it was based on lies and falsehood.

thanks