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Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by mfm04622: 9:23am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Bewiseedet: The business of any child still living under the roof of his or her parents is still the business of the parents! If he want to sleep with anybody overnight, even with more than one at a time, he should go and get his own room 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Dindondin(m): 9:23am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by don4real18(m): 9:23am On Oct 11, 2021 |
I'm guessing you are his stepmom from your writeup. If you guys aren't close, his dad is in better position to talk to him. Wait for him to sneak in the girl as usual then his dad should go to his room and talk to him. His dad can also book a Uber to take the girl home and warn her never to step into his house again as he would treat her like a criminal when next she comes. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by muller101(m): 9:24am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Bewiseedet:Edet you are not wise. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by ledaman: 9:24am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Bewiseedet:You are a foolish fellow with your comments. 2 Likes |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by SILVERLINES: 9:24am On Oct 11, 2021 |
wisemum: call your son and sit him down once again and ask him what his intention is with the said girl, if your son tell you she is willing to settle down with the girl, then call the girl and sit her down like a mother you are talk to her, the her what you dont like about her, especially the smoking attitude of hers. but, your son says otherwise then stop the girl from coming to your house. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Vireani79: 9:24am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: You just want to cause trouble for the mother Many of u have never been abroad so u don't understand these things The mother should leave him alone Any attempt to take his room will cause a war she will live to remember Any attempt to send the gal away will cause a fight that even the father will leave the house for him He is a son and not a bastard The guy will protect his turf and anything that concerns him with his blood The problem I see here is the mother sees the gal as not good enough for her son cos she said she works around the house She is poor For a son who schooled abroad She wants a better woman But this is who he has found love with He won't say it but he loves her All the mother is to do is be his friend Be a friend to the gal Let her be free to come and go Put some rules that she shouldn't walk naked Get interested in her She is what gives the frustrated son joy They smoke, drink and talk about the pains of life together Stop harassing this young lady cos u see her as beneath u and ur family If na otedola pikin dey come ur house Would u care if she smokes Madam get to know her or leave her and ur son alone 2 Likes |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by aAK1(m): 9:25am On Oct 11, 2021 |
I use to be your son many year back but my mom actually handled it well. You really wouldn’t want them sneaking around trust me. Get to know the girl and to be on the safe side, her family . You see, I didn’t end up with any of the girls I was moving around with then. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by bukatyne(f): 9:26am On Oct 11, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby: As in, the OP is still speaking English. Let belle enter, she and her husband would know how far. God forbid, something should now happen to the babe. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Neddyogu(m): 9:26am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Unruly7: Telling it like it is! 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Paulo3ree(m): 9:26am On Oct 11, 2021 |
jansonn: Mind your business also includes .1) supporting or helping him meet his needs at every stage of his life to ensure success isn't bad. he deserves a companion and you must support that idea. .2) try to understand and respect their boundaries, with wisdom your authority will remain honoured and respected. ?they could find random places to have sex if it was just that? .3) finally sort for good inspirations and revelations as you doing already "If you can not find peace within yourself, it's useless to look elsewhere" Partner with your house to make it a home |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by grandstar(m): 9:27am On Oct 11, 2021 |
wisemum From what I see, your son simply wants to catch with fun with a lady that makes him not feel unduly pressured. Also, a lot of relationships are like this in the UK. They see no big deal in bringing their lovers for sleepovers. The only warning from the parent is usually a light one and that is "don't get her pregnant". Your son may see you as being old-fashioned and making noise over nothing. He is a young man sowing his oats, catching fun. One day, he'll tire of this life and settle down. It may therefore just be a passing phase. He seems he wasn't into women prior to this hence "enjoying things". I have so many thing to say but don 't know how to say it |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by TOPCRUISE(m): 9:27am On Oct 11, 2021 |
African Jazz is not in the same circle as Nigerian jazz. Nigerian jazz are mean, powerful and can make a man do the ridiculous. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by prophetfire: 9:28am On Oct 11, 2021 |
The problem is with your son first. Your son is irresponsible and disrespectful to his parents. The girl too is irresponsible. But one thing with young ladies is that once they get a man that can tickle their clitoris very well, they are ready to die on top his matter. You and your husband should be very firm and decisive about the matter. Use police to arrest her in the middle of the night when she comes again. Tell your son to go rent a house and move out. Be firm and take action. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by KosoMo(m): 9:28am On Oct 11, 2021 |
First thing to work on is to find out why your son disrespect your decisions as parents... You need too talk to your husband and figure it out before it's too late... For the lady, she has little or no blame because your son has given her all the effrontery to come to the house and if they are both in love, you can work on the lady. Talk to her on your dislikes, try and know her family and let them know your son still has a lot to do in life.... Going totally against the relationship may be dangerous... 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by 30naira: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: Aunty Mercy, this your advice will start a war o. It's an adult male we are talking about here, not a teenager. As far as I don't like his actions, there is no need to start a war with his son. This your advice seems quite extreme. That boy can leave the house and move in with the girl, the she has lost her son forever 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by NGArmyTerrorist: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Bewiseedet:He should mind his business! You have no manner at all. Nonsense boy! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by CaptainAyub: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
bigjackass:Or call DPO for am. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by emmykk(m): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
wisemum: Call your son ask him what do the lady do for a living? Then ask him if he want to settle down with her as a wife or just for fun. Then ask your son which business he wish to venture into and see if you guys can help him start it. There is no need hating the girl see how they can be on their own. Is painful seeing your son with the kind of woman you don't like for him. Job frustration can make you reason negative,maybe if he has a job that is ok he will not be mingling with her. Fix his finance first that will fix other things |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Bayoibee: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
I believe nothing you can say or do will make him change his mind about her because they’re in the moment and are satisfying eachother well, let them keep catching cruise for now, it’s only time that‘ll tell but obviously it won’t last forever. My advice is to get him a self contain not too far from home since he doesn’t have a job yet so he can run back home every now and then to get food stuffs, let them both do all their nonsense in his apartment till they’re tired of eachother and hopefully he comes back to his senses when he sees the real world and how life is outside. No one will tell him before he quickly go and learn a skill instead of waiting for a job to come. All these stuffs will be a thing of the past soon Ma. 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by ledaman: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
How can your son refused to obey your rules? It clearly shows he wasn't trained well. Drive him out of the house you and your husband has given him what it takes to excel in life. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by chris51(f): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
My dear lady. Talk to your son again. If he still brings the girl home, give him a deadline to move out of your house. Your son's attitude is very disrespectful to you and your husband. It also means that the girl is not from a good home. Tell the girl, next time you see her there, you will embarrass her and your son. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by bukatyne(f): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
TOPCRUISE: E say na Nigerian jazz. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by AlabiJ: 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
@wisemum: I believe you and the dad have done your possible best in being reasonable parents to your son under the circumstance, but now it's time for some tough love. Give him an ultimatum. It's either he stops bringing the girl to sleep over, or he gets his own place. But all that nonsense under your roof needs to stop forthwith. If he feels he's old enough to behave the way he's doing, then he should be man enough to get his own place so he can exercise all that freedom, but not under your roof. Shikena. 2 Likes |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 9:29am On Oct 11, 2021 |
It's obvious you didn't train your son the right way, if he was trained and disciplined he wouldn't act in such way, me that I'm naturally stubborn, i never tried such nonsense in my parent's house, infact them no born me and brothers well to try such nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by volts(m): 9:30am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Madam you want to correct the ills of your boy that has be on going for years over night? When they say discipline your kids so that what you instilled in them will not depart, most parents won't listen... Conversation is the key here and the fact that your boy doesn't even respect you warnings or deterrents means you are on "a long thing" 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by neonly: 9:30am On Oct 11, 2021 |
kingreign: In my own house u der not lock d door to any room u can close buy not lock that's d rule 2 Likes |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Odidigboigbo(m): 9:30am On Oct 11, 2021 |
The truth remains that the boy was over pampered by his parents. I could remember vividly while still leaving with my parents and having a work of my own. One faithfully day, I brought my GF home because my parents were not at home, and I wasn't expecting them to come back soon. I was inside my room doing my thing with my GF when my parents came back, that very day I nearly collapsed. That was the last day I tried it, even though my parents did not altered a word but their look says it. After the incidence, my GF stopped visiting me as she used to do, claiming she is too ashamed of herself to face my parents. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by astOorR(m): 9:30am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Mercychen: You just spoke like one whose Parents still flogs even as an adult. See how you painted the girl evil while the spoilt brat is a saint right? Anyway, you don't discipline an adult, you dialogue with an adult... That girl keeps the boy sane in this crazy economy, what the parents aren't doing. The over protective mum should sit the girl down and get to know her beyond her already formed idealogies. She might be a wonderful companion to her son. She's fire fighting the situation and she's got to be wise else she looses her son to the girl when the young man gets his own apartment... Mummy, this is 21st century and proper dialogue with clarity wins this generation over. Best of luck � 1 Like |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Help2020: 9:31am On Oct 11, 2021 |
jansonn:HThe person you quoted didn't say anything bad oga.He is your son and at the same time he is an adult. You said in your post that you don't like the girl.Most you like a girl before your son can love her?you're quick to label her a prostitute when you barely know her. Oga change your mindset. |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by elonmuskbaby: 9:31am On Oct 11, 2021 |
bukatyne:e be like say she be all this civilised modern day oyinbo mom Typical African mother go don drag her by her hair and fling her out with cane, broom or water.some go even pour kerosene for her body or soak her clothes inside water and drive her out naked Fear sef go dey catch the girl to near that house again |
Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by chris51(f): 9:32am On Oct 11, 2021 |
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