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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Munzy14(m): 3:18am On Oct 11, 2021
Smartb0y:
lmao,that awkard moment when bob risky wants to join a regular convo.
grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Ladycewhy(f): 5:22am On Oct 11, 2021
I like fair guys more, always found them more attractive and cute. But never deliberately used complexion as a yardstick to date but I did at one time secretly wish I ended up with one cute fair guy. lipsrsealed
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by zinaunreal(m): 5:23am On Oct 11, 2021
Mercychen:
grin
They look fragile and feminine to me. I can't even stand their touch. Lol.. not that they are irritating but you know, that firmness you feel with a dark guys grip on you is not there when they hold or touch you.

I prefer my man dark dark caramel( brown). cool

Na lie
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by zinaunreal(m): 5:27am On Oct 11, 2021
If you don't like fair guys you can't stand the competition because they are scare commodity simple and short
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 5:48am On Oct 11, 2021
Munzy14:
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This one you weak so. Are you fair? grin

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Na lie

Why would I lie?
I don't know about any other lady here but for me, I don't fancy them. Though they may look good but that's all there is about them to me. I can't have anything intimate with a yellow man.

The irony there now is, I like fair babies like kilode and wish to have them fair.
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Caseless: 5:53am On Oct 11, 2021
davidbukz4:
I've seen a post on this same matter on Facebook before.
95% of the ladies were saying they prefer dark skinned guys over light skinned guys.

Somebody made a point about light skinned guys being proud...could that be true?

I've always heard ladies mentioned "dark, tall, baritoned and God-fearing" as their preferred qualities in men, I've never heard "fair, tall and God-fearing". I don't think they hate competition that comes with dating lightskinned men, there's something of sexiness and strength about dark-skinned men.

Don't you just look at stout(beer or malt) and prefer the look to any of the bright brand?


Fairskinned ladies don't move me. I love them "chocolate". God knows I love dark girls and I don't feel the fair ones will create any competition for me from other men.

Ebony black is golden. That kind mariam Babangida type. I don't like fair ladies. Simple! I even hate those that bleach more
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by nams77: 6:30am On Oct 11, 2021
Mercychen:
grin
They look fragile and feminine to me. I can't even stand their touch. Lol.. not that they are irritating but you know, that firmness you feel with a dark guys grip on you is not there when they hold or touch you.

I prefer my man dark dark caramel( brown). cool
Make i send u my pix make u assess me
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by sofiscatedmoron: 6:31am On Oct 11, 2021
vickydevoka:

In dat case de guy is loaded with cash. N please we are not talking of college relationship. Life after school is de realest
Im not talking of college
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by sofiscatedmoron: 6:33am On Oct 11, 2021
vickydevoka:

In dat case de guy is loaded
Its not about loaded, its ur natural way of relating witj girls, some guys are sweet mouted while some are not

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Caseless: 6:37am On Oct 11, 2021
Mercychen:
grin
They look fragile and feminine to me. I can't even stand their touch. Lol.. not that they are irritating but you know, that firmness you feel with a dark guys grip on you is not there when they hold or touch you.

I prefer my man dark dark caramel( brown). cool

Even in America, the dark-skinned guys are seen as tough and criminal than the lightskinned ones. And of course, you know girls love the bad boys.
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by SATANlST: 6:53am On Oct 11, 2021
KingMack:
AM FAIR AND HAVE NO REGRETS grin
I AM, I AM I AM I AM I AM

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by nokspos: 7:17am On Oct 11, 2021
Tell your friend to pray for the right one, a lady once complained that i am not fair enough for her
Zenithh:
I have a close fair male mature colleague of mine who has never had a relationship with any girl. This guy is handsome and clean. Anytime we go out to drink,he’s always lamenting on how hard it has been for him with ladies.

I have tried to hook him up with few responsible ladies I know and they each tell me same thing. “Abeg I no like fair guys” “ I can’t date a fair guy”.

My guy keeps telling me that he has never been lucky like me and I should try and hook him up. He one time envied dark skinned guys...and wished he had a darker skin.

I have asked these ladies what the problem is and I still don’t understand their point. grin


Ladies can you tell us the problem with fair guys pls?
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by keshi1(m): 8:53am On Oct 11, 2021
siofra:


Whether dark skinned or light skinned, a handsome boyfriend will make your heart beat anyhow and you'll be thinking he's cheating.

In fact it was when I had a dark skinned boyfriend that my heart beat the most.
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 11, 2021
czarr:
Just the way ladies say they don't like players....but flock around players....not every fair guy is handsome and it depends on the type of fair. I am light in complexion and have no problems attracting beautiful women.

Some women want to be worshipped and want to feel like the prize, a fair handsome guy go too get pride and will hardly worship her.
yeah I'd like to add to this..... This dude saying the truth lighskinned niggas be having mad pride

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by keshi1(m): 8:58am On Oct 11, 2021
siofra:


Whether dark skinned or light skinned, a handsome boyfriend will make your heart beat anyhow and you'll be thinking he's cheating.

In fact it was when I had a dark skinned boyfriend that my heart beat the most.
definitely but you know all those light skined guys are like green snake under the green grass you wont suspect him untill it happens THANK YOU
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 11, 2021
toren:


General beauty standard for men is "Tall and Dark. Fairness in men somewhat portrays feminity. I can't abide feminine guys. Can't stand fair guys. Ewww.
Ogun's lightning on you
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 9:04am On Oct 11, 2021
toren:


General beauty standard for men is "Tall and Dark. Fairness in men somewhat portrays feminity. I can't abide feminine guys. Can't stand fair guys. Ewww.
like do you have sense portraying someone's trait based on colour, I've seen a lot of dark skinned that act feminine asf, also ain't we all black so what sorta fucking colorist statement is that

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 11, 2021
Zenithh:


Change location to Daura? grin

Guy is a Lagos big boy...we want him to settle down this year. He’s d only bachelor in our circle
bro let him go to Abuja
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by keshi1(m): 9:24am On Oct 11, 2021
;Dis like all this girls that love light skined guys are mad ni if not for cream almost everybody would have be black almost 70 percent of all those ladies are black they will just go and buy cream to start peeling their body so that they would look beautiful while some the cream will end up making them red or coke and fanta ;Dis like all this girls that love light skined guys are mad ni if not for cream almost everybody would have be black almost 70 percent of all those ladies are black they will just go and buy cream to start peeling their body so that they would look beautiful while some the cream will end up making them red or coke and fanta
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 11, 2021
Let's say Chris brown didn't have any criminal records and was just there, y'all telling me you'd choose to be with Davido instead of Chris, cause he's lighskinned and I didn't mention money here
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Herculex03(m): 10:51am On Oct 11, 2021
I think it burns down to confidence and self esteem I'm light skin and most girls always have this first impression that I'm humble and can't do no harm no until I start serving violence
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Drmkast: 11:14am On Oct 11, 2021
Mercychen:
grin
They look fragile and feminine to me. I can't even stand their touch. Lol.. not that they are irritating but you know, that firmness you feel with a dark guys grip on you is not there when they hold or touch you.

I prefer my man dark dark caramel( brown). cool

YOUR OPINION THOUGH ...MAKE I TOUCH U AND KNOW WHATS UP
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Nobody: 11:29am On Oct 11, 2021
Herculex03:
I think it burns down to confidence and self esteem I'm light skin and most girls always have this first impression that I'm humble and can't do no harm no until I start serving violence
bro on God, these girls think I can't fight and see me as humble. I even asked a question: if I told you I was a in a cult what would you say...... This brought up a whole argument why I can't be in a cult and one of the reason was because I'm light skinned

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Alezy(m): 11:37am On Oct 11, 2021
doggedfighter:
Many of them lack that masculinity that's attractive in males.



Some tend to be in love with cosmetics.
I think the Later is the real reason

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Starz825(m): 11:49am On Oct 11, 2021
Babara1994:

So ur yansh is black grin
Just saying
Mad man grin
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Babara1994(m): 11:58am On Oct 11, 2021
ESANMEA:
Really? Anyways, dark guys are more attractive..
Don't lie to us
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by ESANMEA(f): 12:10pm On Oct 11, 2021
Babara1994:

Don't lie to us
It's true nar, the 7 o'clock type o, not dark kpa kpa like 11pm..
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by gforce5: 12:18pm On Oct 11, 2021
OP, your friend needs to understand something, Nigerian women do not like competition. It's not about light skin vs dark skin. They see fair guys as their competition. They want to want be the attractive person in the relationship. Nigerian women also don't like men that know how to cook. Most Nigerian women feel intimidated by men who know how to cook as they cannot impress such a person. It's the same way a lot of Nigerian men are intimidated by women who are richer than them or are more educated than them. You cannot intimidate a woman who is wealthier and more educated than you.

Forget about the lack of finance comments here. Majority of Nigerians who are married are not rich. In fact, poor people get married faster than rich people. This is a fact. Nigerians are a very competitive and dominating people. We don't like to be second best at anything.

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Zenithh: 2:07pm On Oct 11, 2021
nokspos:
Tell your friend to pray for the right one, a lady once complained that i am not fair enough for her

Hahahahaha
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Winnerautomatic: 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2021
Zenithh:


No o

The type of Tony Umez skin color. Plus guy man is tall and handsome. We even feel intimidated by his handsomeness sef sometimes grin
The5DME
Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by Munzy14(m): 8:14pm On Oct 11, 2021
Mercychen:


This one you weak so. Are you fair? grin



Why would I lie?
I don't know about any other lady here but for me, I don't fancy them. Though they may look good but that's all there is about them to me. I can't have anything intimate with a yellow man.

The irony there now is, I like fair babies like kilode and wish to have them fair.
Hmmmm..
You are not fair, and you are not attracted to fair guys, but you like fair babies...cheesy

Serious Irony...

The heart wants what it wants...Don't be surprise if you marry a fair guy who ticks your boxes as a man minus his complexion.

Life can give us humans opposite of what we want as raw material, for one to now work out what he/she wants...E dey happen on a regular.

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Re: Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? by khiaa(f): 8:33pm On Oct 11, 2021
I'm not attracted to fair skin guys either but none of the guys in these pictures are fair skinned. I'm attracted to Caramel, Milk Chocolate and Dark Chocolate. Yessir!!!! smiley

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