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I don buy pop corn for dis matter




Hopefully dem no go avoid this thread like plague

You can't look at this from a one eyed view. But there are truths in what you wrote..

Godoverevery:

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation

This one strong.

Men are becoming endengered species, because they are suffering and smilling. Women are highly manipulative and they'll always play the victim card.

OP you have said it all. But some so called feminist will still argue

On point sir

Where is the lie?

Omo women dey find hand out. Most of dem nor one work, so they rather cry and complain instead of them to carry their big head go out go work na to dey house snap picture and WhatsApp, snapchat, look for man car front sit to enter

Godoverevery:
What is the point of sending a female child to school and empowering her if at the end of it all she still feels marginalised.

Right from my primary school in the early 90's till this point I always competit with ladies on the same level ground...nothing was given to me freely because am a man.
Is really annoying that people like ini edo and co will always come out to play the same old card of African female child/women are marginalised....this am a woman change is a total nonsense because is fellow women that mocks themselves.

I will be analysing every sector and section of social life to prove this old lies wrong

Education
Just take a look around you and tell me which female child is actually stopped from going to school because of her gender......Right from my primary school untill university there were more female student than the male......we receive the same quality of Education so were the marginalisation??

Work/job
Currently in nigeria is easy for a woman to get a job than a man.....Apart from the engineering sector which is dominated by the male most sector is dominated by the female(banks,medical,hotels,entertainment)...so were the marginalisation.

Politics
Nobody gifts anyone an elective post anywhere in the world rather you fight for it....Men fight for it with blood and sweat so if a woman wants to hold this post she must be ready to fight not expecting to be handed over on a platter.
If a woman should come out to contest for elective post in this country even her fellow women won't vote for her....so were is the marginalisation

Entertainment
Is no news apart from music which men dominant the movie industry is dominated by the female who make more money than the male....people like ini edo won't question why they are paid more than there male colleagues in the same profession.

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation


State and federal government pays equally to both gender on the same level
Private sector pays equally to both gender on the same level.

I have a lil sis.....there was nothing I enjoy or had that she didn't get from our parent.....I challenge any lady here to tell me how she was treated inferior to her brothers.

What is the point of sending a female child to school from primary to higher institution and at the end of the day she will be totally dependent on the man and will always feel she isn't given enough to be independent.

The moment we start debunking the lies and stop victim mentality the better for the next generation of girls.....this lies is the reason why most our ladies are unproductive and lazy.

Help the female child by letting her know she can do it on her own.....she can competit and no one can stop her except herself.

Women stop spreading the message of victim mentality/marginalisation to our girls this 2021 not 1960.

Na wetin I argue with my neighbor this morning when she tried to play the female card on me...

OssyMalik:
Women don suffer for nairaland

Simps don suffer for women hand

Remember then in secondary school my parents would give my elder sister 7k for pocket money and I would be given 3k or 4k. When I protested pointing out that she is older, they told me "you are a man, she's a girl". If anything, men are the ones marginalized.

Carry women mata for head like gala you hear. No enjoy your life leave them

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BRATISLAVA:
A thread for men, by men of women.

Wonderment.

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Sad reality and most people will always shy away from it.

If you find yourself in same strata with a lady, earns same money as salary, she stands a chance to get Favored more than you, just for being a female. Shikena!!

The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.

Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.

I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.

What's your evidence?

FreeIgboho:
The vast majority of women in Nigeria are NOT in the category described by OP. They are indeed marginalized and expected to be comfortable being second class citizens and very subservient to men

SeaTrade:

Bunch of delusionist,those ones.
I've always tried to understand how women are being marginalised in this country yet i can't see it.
Except for the core North,Nigeria women literally have it better than most men.
Hoping to get things on a platter,while hiding under their marginalisation agenda.Who's suppose to pay the price for you just cos you are female?
If you want to succeed in any sphere,better fight hard for it,else get ready to be stuck in a spot for very long periods,male or female.

Some women will say because you're a man that's why you can afford to buy Hennessey. Lol.

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pocohantas:
The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.

Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.

I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.

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You failed to counter OP's points.
Where/how/when are women being marginalized??

Answer it

pocohantas:
The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.

Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.

I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.

u sha must deviate from the topic

badman007:
This is the most stupid thing I’ve read all year.
In a world full of people with obvious religious prejudice and Bias against women. It goes to show how Unenlightened and uninformed you are about the issue of women’s rights/marginalisation.

This is Nigeria not the world

This thread will just die a natural death, If any one is expecting any lady to voice her opinion I don't see that happening. In the game of chess, the Op has just checkmate Nigerian ladies.

pocohantas:
The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.

Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.

I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.

Stop attacking NL guys. Counter what the op said.

Godoverevery, read this as well. It's a thread of mine

https://www.nairaland.com/5104898/hypocrisy-society-when-it-comes#77076676

BRATISLAVA:
[s]A thread for men, by men of women.

Wonderment.[/s]

Women are sexual objects
Men are success objects

Justbehave:
Stop attacking NL guys. Counter what the op said.

The OP is actually correct. Henceforth I hope we are all in agreement that Nigerian women are doing well in all spheres.

Someone like you knows a rich working woman sef. So this woman can buy a GLE 43 tomorrow and she won’t get called olosho. She worked for her money. This one sweet o.

DoggoneDogg:
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You failed to counter OP's points.
Where/how/when are women being marginalized??
Answer it

Nothing to counter. OP is very correct. Nigerian women are not being marginalized, they are doing well educationally and professionally.

The future is…

patoski39:
u sha must deviate from the topic

Y’all get triggered even when they agree with you? Wonderful.

Fiscus105:
Not until you guys come to realisation that you own ur woman, though not ur slave or ur servant o, you won't stop to lament on woman issue.


Person (woman) born that is not from ur own family, would come to ur house, change her patriarch name, adopt ur own, go to labour in which it's life and death, the outcomes of such risky adventure, would be bearing ur patriarch name, non will bear her own patriarch name. Not done with that, she would be cooking and doing house chores for you, when she finally dies, the remain will not still go back to her father house, but ur own place.

Upon all these, you guys still lamenting on secondly basis on woman issue. Who curse you for Christ sake?

Is that your only problem, or there are more?

FreeIgboho:
The vast majority of women in Nigeria are NOT in the category described by OP. They are indeed marginalized and expected to be comfortable being second class citizens and very subservient to men

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How many women are like your account officer? Nigeria is approximately 50% women. Look at the business, political, church, education, etc leadership landscapes in Nigeria. How many are wome??

And who is stopping them from working? Tell yourself the truth. In banking sector,is it not women that are in majority? Do we see ourselves saying we are being marginalized?

Justbehave:
And who is stopping them from working? Tell yourself the truth. In banking sector,is it not women that are in majority? Do we see ourselves saying we are being marginalized?

Wow!!! So Nigerian women are not jobless after all. This thread is eye-opening.

God punish anybody that says Nigerian women don’t work.

pocohantas:


The OP is actually correct. Henceforth I hope we are all in agreement that Nigerian women are doing well in all spheres.

Someone like you knows a rich working woman sef. So this woman can buy a GL43 tomorrow and she won’t get called olosho. She worked for her money. This one sweet o.



Nothing to counter. OP is very correct. Nigerian women are not being marginalized, they are doing well educationally and professionally.

The future is…



Y’all get triggered even when they agree with yoi? Wonderful.

Stop trying to be smart and using revert psychology.

Na only foolish people dey take dem seriously.
If men begin dey cry the way Dem dey cry, the world for just collapse.
They want everything on a platter and with entitlement.