chikasnight:
This have been me lately like I rarely keep female friends unlike before, even the ones I used to have are not that close anymore. Just 1 or 2 BS and I give them their space until they come back to their senses. It’s almost impossible to have the redpill knowledge and freely associate with women because most of them are up to no good...

Martinez39s:
Well, since you asked, I will explain in detail, but it won't be today. I will be so free on Friday evening, starting from 8:00 pm, till Sunday; free enough to discuss at length and answer all questions. I hope that is okay by you? I won't forget.

Ogbotobo77:

This right here is my problem now...I've become wary of the opp sex..It has made me more selfish..and when girls try to ask for favors I'm too blunt with my replies...I communicate well but when they try to bring in drama I'm too quick to react ...it's almost as if girls are scared of me now..even my guys feel I'm too brutal...how can I find a balance?...

Ogbotobo77:

This right here is my problem now...I've become wary of the opp sex..It has made me more selfish..and when girls try to ask for favors I'm too blunt with my replies...I communicate well but when they try to bring in drama I'm too quick to react ...it's almost as if girls are scared of me now..even my guys feel I'm too brutal...how can I find a balance?...

pansophist:
Youre never defeated by your external challenges, but by your internal weakness. If one have a great grasp of self control, you don't have to worry about manipulative people, especially women. You'll just look at their act, laugh and ignore.

Martinez39s:
Exactly! For those that don't know much about the topic of śhit tests (a vast topic on its own), my advice to them is that they just adhere to the following:

(1) Make everything about you, either your way or the highway.

(2) Set good, strong and strict boundaries and standard. Never hesitate to enforce these boundaries.

(3) Learn to master your sexual urges and never let them colour your judgement, make you compromise your standard/boundaries or let things slide.

(4) Don't pedestalise a woman or simp for her for any reason. It doesn't matter if she is your wife who has given you children. No woman, even your wife, finds simping attractive and it doesn't matter why you simped; simping is simping to a woman.

(5) Be stoic. Stop being an emotional man. Stop expressing strong emotions, or any emotions, to her or in her presence. Don't allow her or any human evoke an emotional response from you. Be logical at all times to the best of your ability. In fact, make this your lifestyle, not because of women, but for your own good in life. She seeing you being emotional (eg. Crying. The reason for crying doesn't matter) is one of the quickest ways to lose your respect forever in her eyes. It doesn't make sense, but it is true. Don't be soft.

(6) Don't be afraid to offend or lose her. Never be afraid to offend or lose her. Also remember that you have to be the man "wey no send her."

(7) from (6), never be afraid to walk away. Walking away is the major power and leverage of a man when dealing with women. Never put yourself in a physical, financial, or emotional situation where you are hesitant or incapable of walking away.

These are common sense for red pill men, but if these can be heeded, men will pass a lot of śhit tests without knowing. Nevertheless, the issue of śhit test is still important to know and discuss because there are śhit tests that are counter-intuitive and seem innocuous, hence many will fail them and one failure can damage a lot. It's a pity that I rarely have time these days to make huge contributions and expound upon issues like before.

oyetpel:
Do women do the shit test on purpose or its just a nature or unconscious habit?

Like you know it nature for men to provide.

Martinez39s:
It is in their nature, as calculative manipulators. Women use śhit tests for the following reasons:
(1) To test how manly you are. To see the stuff you are made of. Also, to know your weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
(2) To know your financial status or anything they want to know about you. One of the many things men must stop in this regard is eliminating mystery of self, especially by pillow talks and "see finish." Keep your mouth shut about many personal information.
(3) To see what they can get away with when dealing with you, and to what extent. This is where you enforce your boundaries and standards without hesitation.
(4) Closely related to (3) is the game of control and power in the relationship. Whether you are a redpiller or simp, this will always come. If you succumb, I pity you.
(5) If you are the bad boy, one of the reasons of śhit tests is to fulfill their game fantasy of taming the beast in you with their charms; you know, to get the beast in simp for them and be in their control. This boosts their ego. If they succeed in taming you and converting you to a simp, it's game over; they will move on to the next bad boy.
(6) Others can add their reasons and make their contributions.
Mind you, śhit tests don't just come as behaviours, they can come in form of questions, requests and statements.

BLOODYSPERM:
Most men think that it's in marriage they would get genuine burning desire crazy sex, any style, anytime they want, because they believe the responsibility of marriage makes them Alpha and the reward for being Alpha is steady supply of sex, lolzzz ,

Tonnyray:
Well said and aptly put.

Any addition will just be variations of these foundational reasons.

Tonnyray:
Like seriously?
For the vast majority marriage sounds a death knell for mind-blowing ecstatic sex.
A major reason I've been running until now.

potland:
brothers in the house, what do we call this.

potland:
brothers in the house, what do we call this.

potland:
it's like marriage has a way of turning women into Sexual killjoys. B4 marriage, she's giving you great mind-blowing sex, after marriage, she's denying you sexual pleasures

Smartb0y:
REMEMBER GUYS:
Because you're a womanizer doesn't mean that you're redpilled.

potland:
brothers in the house, what do we call this.

BLOODYSPERM:
Most men think that it's in marriage they would get genuine burning desire crazy sex, any style, anytime they want, because they believe the responsibility of marriage makes them Alpha and the reward for being Alpha is steady supply of sex, lolzzz , if she was a hoe, forget it, you would have duty sex even before children come into the picture, all her previous Alpha's have seen her best, you are rewarded with the worse since you chose to be stupid with scarcity mindset and commit to a hoe or a woman past her primal fertile years


Moral lesson
A woman with a past doesn't have any place in your future, this wise advice is only for men who know their worth whether they aspire to be rich or they want to be average

Martinez39s:
Chai! Caveadullam, over to you.

jonzingcaesar:


We don hear you. Abeg shift make we see road

CaveAdullam:
Seems you are new to this place sir and that you don't know the KING of the zhanga. Therefore, I honourably pass this "baton of honour" to him.

I'm only but a broke masturbator! Anyway, thanks for the honour sir.

CaveAdullam:


Seems you are new to this place sir and that you don't know the KING of the zhanga. Therefore, I honourably pass this "baton of honour" to him.

I'm only but a broke masturbator! Anyway, thanks for the honour sir.

Trex4:
But when will we be OGs so we can spend 50k on Golden V's and pour Hollandia yoghurt on girls?

Trex4:
But when will we be OGs so we can spend 50k on Golden V's and pour Hollandia yoghurt on girls? you know we Redpillers are usually broke

Martinez39s:
As in, we are just nerds, chronic masturbators and porn addicts who know all the names of porn stars. We need to change and grind hard so we can splash cash on hoès and be the real MVPs. After splashing 60k for pusśy, I will then come and lie here that I spent #400, just a stipend. We need to change, e go better.

Martinez39s:
As in, we are just nerds, chronic masturbators and porn addicts who know all the names of porn stars. We need to change and grind hard so we can splash cash on hoès and be the real MVPs. After splashing 60k for pusśy, I will then come and lie here that I spent #400, just a stipend. We need to change, e go better.