As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is not gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you no fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.

Some guys will avoid this thread.
See better life lessons.

OP let me be real with you;
Oil de your head.

Nice one, Bros.

As I dey here sef I never even dey think all these things I dey live life jeje with the little my hussle can afford.
No iPhone,I be fine boy,my itel pop2 camera go still make my face clear

Contentment makes a poor man wealthy, but discontentment makes even a wealthy man poor. Its not about the material wealth, its your attitude about it.

The easiest way to torture yourself unnecessarily is to bemoan about what you don't need.

pansophist:
Contentment makes a poor man wealthy, but discontentment makes even a wealthy man poor. Its not about the material wealth, its your attitude about it.

to each his own,everyone cant be sensible

bodybuilder:
As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you know fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.

Chia... this op na better son

In my work place, e get this handsome Bobo wey de cruise iPhone 13 pro max.

All the ladies in the organization, are like rags to him.

But you won't believe this guy squat with another guy working from different company.

I mean some people really don't care.

You might want to proofread your post. Typos sending out the wrong message

Making sense

Op God bless you in folds

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Kenya, Ghana?? And another state like Borno, Zamfara or Sokoto shebi??

Lol. You get problem with me boss.

You see ehn, coro don show many nwiiiii....life is easy if we don't burden ourselves with the materialism of life

Op you are a real niigga, damn real niigga
My motto in this life is "as long as I can not afford it, I don't need it, and if I can't afford it twice, I can't afford it"

Before I go fit buy phone of 200k, I go make sure say I get over 500k in my account, as a guy man like this, I get sure plugs for yaba where I dey buy okrika wears from him hand, when I wash and tidy am well with nice perf, u no fit know say na okrika, same as shoes, I no fit buy shoes above 8k presently, not that i don't have such money in my account, but I feel it's worthless to buy shoes of 8k when I have 50k in my account, I still have house rent to pay, NEPA bills to sort, gas to fill, fridge to fill, food to buy etc so why waste hard resources on things that doesn't really matter in the scheme of things

The basic goal is to cover unclothedness, if your Prada na 30k, he get shoes of 7k wey I go buy, our two go measure up squarely.

In this life, contentment in every stage of your life is bliss, there was a time I couldn't even afford a pair of jeans, now if I want to buy 5 once I will, na matter of time, no rush

I know of people who rush go buy iphone 11 some months ago, he's looking for who to buy it cheaper now, cos owu don blow him Papa

When I been wan rent house, I drew a budget, I wanted a self con, cos I cherish my privacy, it was the agent that I contacted that gave me scope, he asked if I have plans to get married soon, I Said no, he said why don't you just get a single room and just save money, since you go out every day to work and come back in the evening to sleep, why waste money on house when you won't be at home for a very long, I took the advice, if not I for borrow money join my saving to rent a self con, when it's time to pay next year I will be running around lmao.

At the same I have age mates living in duplex in lekki, serviced apartments in ikorodu etc, but na their time, I don't need to worry my self much, cos there are people who would give everything to have my place too, abi no be people dey sleep under bridge and inside shops for markets

If you want to have happiness for days, drink beer

If you want to have happiness for weeks, get married

But if you want to have happiness from the rest of your life, then mind your business.

Totilopussylick:
Chia... this op na better son

In my work place, e get this handsome Bobo wey de cruise iPhone 13 pro max.

All the ladies in the organization, are like rags to him.

But you won't believe this guy squat with another guy working from different company.

I mean some people really don't care.

guy lie small small naau

U mean iPhone 13 pro max if over 1.2million

Where is this ur place of work chief, even a bank manager earning 2 million no fit reason iPhone 13 pro max, bruhh slow down ooo

I know a broke dude, who's always begging up and down but go to his wardrobe, none of the things there are below 15k.

He buys shoe of 30k. Always on fly when you see him. But he's broke. How he gets the money to even buy those expensive wears is what still confuses me.

Money doesn't make people rich, their reasoning and mindset do. If you don't know the principles of money, being rich will be like walking through the eye of a needle.

I really thank God for my life. When I was broke, I was busy reading self development books and today, they are helping me in life.

The goal is to be wealthy, not to look wealthy.

HenryDion:
I know a broke dude, who's always begging up and down but go to his wardrobe, none of the things there are below 15k.

He buys shoe of 30k. Always on fly when you see him. But he's broke. How he gets the money to even buy those expensive wears is what still confuses me.

Money doesn't make people rich, their reasoning and mindset do. If you don't know the principles of money, being rich will be like walking through the eye of a needle.

I really thank God for my life. When I always broke, I was busy reading self development books and today, they are helping me in life.

The goal is to be wealthy, not to look wealthy.

You this small boy,how much do you even have sef.Don't quote me please.

Iyaebe:
You this small boy,how much do you even have sef.Don't quote me please.

My account balance is like my phone number

HenryDion:

My account balance is like my phone number

proof or we don't believe

Iyaebe:
proof or we don't believe

Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.

Guys and girls please.

HenryDion:


Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.

I don't know how to hustle, teach me.

Iyaebe:
I don't know how to hustle, teach me.

I'm a freelance writer. There are tons of skills to acquire. The question is, are you ready to sit down and dedicate months to learn without earning?

There lies your answer.

HenryDion:


I'm a freelance writer. There are tons of skills to acquire. The question is, are you ready to sit down and dedicate months to learn without earning?

There lies your answer.

Sit down for months without earning? though im not the outgoing type but I'm everywhere in the house,let me practice the act of sitting in one place first.How soon will I be earning

True I have had millions in my bank account for years but I no use iPhone 12 Pro Max until the time in my life when my 1 week pay could buy it.

It’s foolish saving for a whole year of your life only to use it to buy a phone, what if it gets stolen?

Nairaland guys left the group

ok

bodybuilder:
As a guy work hard and live a nice life. Stop eyeing people's money. Stop bothering about people using iPhones and travelling to fucking Dubai. I'm not saying iPhones are bad, I personally love iPhones, but just fvvcking worry about some things until you can afford it. As long as you're broke iPhones are overrated. Learn how to despise things you can't afford. Worshiping money is not gonna make you rich bro, it's only gonna cause depression.

Try balance your life small. You need a little bit of everything. No be say you get only 500k for your hand you wan buy iPhone 12. You dey try to compete with Davido way don already balance im life. That's why you fucking unhappy. I feel balance is key to happiness you need a little bit of everything.

This life eh, you gats dey sure of basic needs as a human being that's food, shelter and clothing before you add up extra things. Try dey live your life to scale.

No ever dey try compete for this money spending thing because you no go ever win I promise you.

Boys go always get money pass you. You

Me way dey talk this things no be say I perfect sha. But as I dey advice others, I dey take style they advice myself by extension.

And abeg try dey enjoy by budget, you no fit afford Dubai yet no mean say you no fit go vacation. Go to Ghana, go to Kenya, if that wan too much, go to another state in Nigeria. Last last na still vacation. There are still beautiful places in Nigeria you haven't seen yet. Don't deprive yourself of vacation because e no fit afford the expensive ones, the Instagram friendly ones.

Even the Nigeria way no dey like America sef, you never still enjoy am finish.

This is the ugly truth a lot of wannabee guys and ladies hate to hear.

Well said, bro.

HenryDion:


Reason I'm rich is because I'm mature. Sharing a screenshot of my acc balance is immature. Take my advice, and hustle.

bro, show us love as hustling Neva pay us now.