Hyerin:


Excellent post as always! Spot on too, I love reading your write-ups You're so smart.

BRATISLAVA:
Thank you for repeating what I said. It's good to know that you agree.
Now, be gone.
No time for you.

Karleb:


This happens when you follow dogma.

It's the reason why a lot of feminists are bitter for no damn reason.

Many of them are now deep into it that it would be shameful for them to come out, so they keep getting bitter while depriving themselves of "social amenities".

You are a lad, you can still unlearn and re-learn. Get your life back o.

seankay:
The mistake most of y’all make us thinking Redpill is being mean to women. I learnt overtime that focusing on improving myself in every department made me more selfish with my time and space. It helped me stop being needy and also gave me the orientation that I am a trophy and I deserve a trophy babe too.

On the side, I have the orientation that I might not marry if I don’t find her and I don’t care. I stay meeting girls every weekend so I always have girls around. Some will go but I don’t care and won’t feel it cos I got lotta girls that want me to commit to serious relationship, some that just want me to give them time. They all do stuffs to seek my validation. I began to understand the value of being a man. I easily started friend-zoning girls, don’t fall for their games and pass their test.

Redpill doesn’t mean you should be mean, it’s just working on yourself and becoming a high valued man.

Shortcut2life:
Not all redpilled person has been jilted or hurt by a woman some of us appreciate the idealism and growths that comes with it .. it has proven to make us better as a man and has aided us in handling our emotionally affairs … I jilted my own girlfriend after I saw through her manipulations does it mean I was the one hurt ? .. This girls won’t offer you anything men should adopt growth instead ,the right person will love your qualities and strong feelings.

cococandy:
link please

Kobojunkie:
Fear/anxiety of any kind as far as engaging and communicating with another is low self-esteem or confidence related. It does not matter what tag you give that fear or anxiety.

What you instead ought to work on is building up your confidence level, not hedging yourself into a situation that will ultimately result in more mental damage than actually resolve the original issue.

AfroKnight:


You’re the confused ignoramus here. And sadly you are surrounded by indigent women. Perhaps that is to fuel your ego, or it’s just your lot in life.

All the women I have lent money to have repaid me. I ask for my money and collect.

If you’re too ashamed/cowardly to ask for yours, that’s your headache. You cannot project your unfortunate situation on others.

sundaygray:
You're a smart guy for recognizing this....Everything is good when practiced to an extent... the red pill teaches important lessons but no carry am for head finish...
It teaches you to pursue your goals in life
Excercise more
Make sure you are not used by women.
To be wiser as a man...but today red pill has become the male version of an extreme feminist.

....Treat people how you want to be treated, I practiced red pill to an extent and then as a smart guy that I am, I recognized myself being toxic then I remove body. Granted, I had a lot of girls but guy relationships no dey last because I dey form macho man.
Know where to draw the line as a man, don't hate women, just be smarter and know how they behave.

MNDY:
Who be dis one naw?
Pls don't use me catch cruise and vent.

Kobojunkie:
Why are you afraid of being hurt though? Why the fear of it?

Many of you seem to suffer from some anxiety of getting hurt emotionally by the opposite gender, and I wonder why you fear the process when it is in fact meant to help us grow as individuals and as a specie.

Kobojunkie:
If you go around expecting every human you meet to acquiesce to your every advance, then you need a resetting of your brain.

You might learn learn thing or two from watching intra-specie animal to animal interactions.

Creativeace:
First of all i aint no simp and never will be, i have always been a person that respects myself a lot before men and women, but everything escalated when i encountered the redpill.

I was 19 when i was exposed to TRP, out of academic and hustling stress i started reading threads on nairaland and i no time as a lover of knowledge became hooked on ubunja's miseducations and after practising TRP for two years going now, i cant really say it has won me favour in the eyes of people, especially women.

I broke up with the first and only girlfriend ive had, because i changed drastically over night because i was high on the pill, my circle of guys started leaving me out cos i suddenly became the odd one out.

Girls started giving me attitude, cos i reduced the attention i gave out, so i decided to take it to the extreme and went all out ignoring all of them.

Lets cut the story short, am toxic, alone, with no female attention to validate my ego, so i decided to fuel my ego some other way, by making money... typing

Kobojunkie:
I read a similar retort yesterday from one who apparently claims not to be a feminist, this while arguing that women ought to do for themselves.
ROFLMAO

Jman06:
Op, you're not yet red pilled. When you become red pilled like myself, women would be the least of your worries. You'll not care whether they give you attention or not. In fact, you'll never need a girl's attention to validate your ego like you put it.

As I'm now, I don't care a hoot about women! From the look of things sef, I might never get married and I'll be very fine. I'll make my money not to impress any woman, but to enjoy my life and also take care of my mum, my nephews and nieces. Simple

KayCee92:


LMAO . You are pretty

Smartb0y:
you sure!??

Shortcut2life:
1. We are not fearful of being hurt but we hate the disappointments.. women change a lot and if you think doing the right things by her side will make you a better man is a blatant lie propagated by women folks ..
2. Women are attracted to men that has strong will all this lover boy stuffs will get them tired and has a man you ought to guard your heart and make it a priority.

3. We’ve heard many cases of men being hurt despite their commitment and love towards the relationship. We want men to be aware of their strength has a man that’s all .

Ndidi2:
it benefits men..
When u see a woman who genuinely love u,u will know that love is a mystery..
Not all women are bad or materialistic.
Good one Dee
I pray u find one by miracle..
Amen.
Even na one born.
The happiness of having a child is priceless.

I have 2 boys
Last night while in my room the younger one brought water." Mum l know u might need water.
Later when NEPA took light l said l want to bath ah no hot water
The first son said mummy l boiled water for u.
To me those little things is what makes life sweet.

JOACHINpedro:

Only God knows what you are saying.
I'm here to have a good laugh. And it's been working
I careless about the gender wars and fuss penis and vagina people have here. I'm just here to laugh away my being a Nigerian misery.
So baby girl shift front make I read more comments

cococandy:


You’re wrong. Based on my observation here many ladies don’t actually understand the meaning of feminism.
That’s why you’ll see a lady say “I’m not a feminist but I’m all for encouraging women to elevate themselves and work hard to achieve their goals”
Erm so you’re a feminist then?
Many are quite ignorant about the topic.

But yes it’s as a result of active disinformation by the guys who really hate to see women do better. So anyone who disagrees with them or whose opinion they don’t like is automatically a feminist.

ufotty2001:
please tell me in a lay man understanding..

UyaiIncomparabl:


https://www.nairaland.com/6799900/snake-what-saw-trap-morning#106693393

Kobojunkie:
So you have an entirely different approach to redpilling which seems more centered around building up your ego(self) and less about casting down the other sex.
The opposite of what you describe isn't feminism, or am I wrong?

Evolutionlove:

Werey, go to any nigeria army base and display your highest self-esteem mumu like you. Any small thing, It's low self esteem. And to top It, Your Idiot self can never have the courage or boldness to walk up to a man you admire and chat him up. Awon werey hypocrite In disguise......[/b]

zexy2030:

Werey, ko shi e lo jo...

Fiscus105:



If u re successfully man, ur redpill amount to nothing as well, what you think the indoctrination will bring, success will bring it automatically.

seankay:
The goal is build yourself and know your worth. I am not mean no any girl but I am assertive and let them know what it is.

You need to know what feminism really is. It’s not the version practiced in Nigeria.