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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 9:26pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s: You are exposing the deeper cores of the rabbit hole. A good number of men following this thread still believe in loving marriages (which has subjective meanings to different men) and the illusion of it (in "rewarded slavery" ). Martinez39s e get why! Society mustn't "collapse" lol 16 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:27pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Can you guys please slow down Na beg I dey beg Just 2 days I no visit thread 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:31pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
charly20: Is that a book? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 9:50pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
typing... Your committed union to a woman is a game, whether you, as a man, realise it or not. Leverage and power matters a lot in your committed relationship, forget about love. You can't claim you have frame if your woman has all or most of the leverage and power. If this is the case with a man, what is the difference between him and a beta? Finally, a woman will never forgo an opportunity that will tip things in her favour, leverage- and power-wise. There is no alpha with frame that is in a position where a woman has all or most of the leverage above him, never! All the points I made from (1) to (5) are valid. Women are usually aware of points (1) and (2) and they know how much of a safety net monogamous marriage is, so they usually relax and change after marriage, especially when kids are then involved. The thing is, as I said, as a man's committed relationship progresses from dating to marriage (with kids involved), the man's investment and sacrifices increase and his leverage decreases. Why? Usually his ability and willingness to easily detach himself from the union and walk away from the woman (when he should) decreases. Walking away, for many men, would mean raising up their children in broken homes, giving free room for parental alienation (I will touch this later) and/or seeing all the investments and sacrifices they've made during marriage go to dust. It's not that easy for many men; also, the mindset of men that sees marriage as a point of no return or do-or-die affair don't help the issue. When you are in a position with a woman where you cannot easily or even walk away, it is a beta position. She can't see you as an alpha male, because an alpha male, to a woman, has the ability and willingness to walk away. To keep things going and to maintain harmony and peace, many men start making compromises by giving in to certain requests from their wives and enduring attitudinal changes from their wives. These seem harmless and inconsequential at first, but it is a sign of more headache and regrets to come. Men do these because they want "peace to reign." Men are compelled to do this for reasons I have mentioned earlier and, also, because women, in their self-centeredness are willing to remain stubborn even if it means turning the family upside-down to get their way. We have see many women place their clash and disagreements with their spouse above the wellbeing of their children just to prove a point or get back at their spouse (we see this in custody battles). Men, in order to maintain peace and possibly be the better and mature individual, start making compromises for "peace to reign." Such compromises cracks the man's frame and it only gets worse from here. Alphas, by nature, don't compromise for women; it is how the game goes. It doesn't matter if your compromise is justified or not. Compromise is compromise to a woman. How can you claim to be her alpha with frame if she can get you to start making compromises to ensure "happy wife, happy life" due to a situation you found yourself in with her? typing... 13 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:58pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Jeez Like the way jessepaid says hehehehe 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:04pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Jessepaid: It seems like coincidence, but Martinez39s post covers the subject in great details, your friend needs to be aware so he can make a choice on his own terms that's what matters the most, his parents will not be there peradventure his marriage ends up sour and he's miserable but can't leave 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:04pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
If you are going to be a redpiller cos you want to get girls, you might be disappointed. If you are going to be a redpiller cos you want to save your relationship, the redpill might actually speed up the break up process. There are self acclaimed redpillers who like to claim the redpill tag, but would question the redpill ideology when the lady they want rejects them, even after they applied some little redpill knowledge they learned from the internet. And there are redpillers who have internalized the redpill ideology to such an extent that their views on the redpill goes beyond getting or attracting ladies. These ones have become the redpill. The redpill lives in them and they live in the redpill. The redpill doesn't make no promises that the lady would be yours, but it does promise that you would be emotionally stable without her. If your reason for embracing the redpill is just so you attract women, at some point, the redpill will disappoint you. The redpill always provides these tests to differentiate the fake from the real. Being an ardent redpiller could be a painful reality. But the dedicated students go through the pain and become accustomed to this pain, to a point where they don't feel hurt anymore. Almost like they become numb to hardships the ordinary man would cry over, almost like they lost the ability to bother about a lady walking away from them. At this point is when the real magic of the redpill happens , they have become those sort of stoic men women desire and would do anything for.. These ones are the real redpilled males, not some guy trying to save his relationship by applying redpill nuggets. If you aren't okay with losing your dearly beloved girlfriend, you aren't far gone in the redpill ideology. 52 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:05pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:Hehehe. Well, It's taking me some time to properly articulate my thoughts effectively to the understanding of everyone. I have been busy throughout the week, so I just started my writing this evening. Hopefully, things will take form tomorrow. It's a really lengthy discussion, and I will have to get a lot ready this night for tomorrow's discussion. I will appreciate counter-arguments and contribution from others. I am not done yet. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:15pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Illumined9933:Many at times, the red pill will even show you that the lady you want to attract for a committed relationship is not worth it. Many at times, the red pill will even show one that in one's present condition, one doesn't rank high amongst other men in the dating market or in attractiveness to females. The red pill truth is not meant to be pleasing, but it is always valid and invaluable. The red pill shows us what is going on. We can always better ourselves and find peace if we walk in light of the red pill and make peace with it. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:18pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
The more the time you have for her and her preferences the more control she has over you, the more time you have for yourself and your preferences, the less she has control over you, remember relationship is about control of frame, just slips due to relentless shit tests from her can alter the entire dynamics of the relationship for good changing you in the process, never forget this 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:24pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s:@JESHAL I will continue my discussing tomorrow, I am in need of rest. I will come with more posts tomorrow. Pardon me for the short discussion today. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Ok na Relax well, we go continue am 2moro Till 2moro 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:28pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s:you're making us crave like women 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:29pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Smartb0y:I don't understand. Can you paraphrase to my understanding? 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:32pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Martinez39s:We yearn for more knowledge lol 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:34pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 10:47pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Illumined9933: There, more like it. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 11:02pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
GODWINGODSON: Check out the shows that was mentioned in the comments that preceded the one you quoted. For recent shows, I don't know much as I stopped "seriously" watching any form of foreign movies/shows since 2015. Too much woke agendas and feminization of male characters made me give up on them. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ronnnie: 6:52am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Illumined9933:From this post it seems you really like her to bring it here.... Redpill never forbids you from liking a girl,but always teaches you to use logic in dealing with them And not emotions.. Stoicism teaches us that there are things in life you can't control(you girlfriend ending the relationship) but you can control your reaction to those things(you letting her go without begging)..That's the true strength of a man... I can assure you she will be back(okafor's law will still take place)but never take her back.,if not she will do worse 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:06am On Oct 16, 2021 |
You might think it is a joke, but I don't want her back. We've enjoyed sex plenty times together and that kinda made me attached/bonded with her. Babe is now fucckking another guy and I can't be bothered. I'm honestly not interested in having her back, already blocked her on WhatsApp, and I hope she doesn't call me ever again. We started out around may last year, and as for okafor's law, I'm not interested in having any sort of dealings with her. Something a bitch called yemisi taught me in 2018, once a woman says she wants no more, don't argue or appeal to her, just let her go. Ronnnie: 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:27am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Illumined9933:I really like your mindset. The common sense that comes with the red pill is strong in you. ===== I will continue my discussions from last night by 12:00 pm. 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:18am On Oct 16, 2021 |
DAY 289, REDPILL 2021 1. You must appreciate your small wins as a man before you get hold of the trophy. If eventually you aren't able to claim the trophy, at least you know you made some wins. 2. You don't need to feel less about these small wins because of any woman. Yes, women stand at the finished line to claim the winners(evolutionary understandable), but that is a lazy attitude. Women cannot appreciate small wins because they are myopic, hence, will never be taken seriously or contribute meaningfully to civilization at large. Exceptions do occur, but the vapidity of women in general ensures that their vestiges are hardly seen in any innovation except in reproduction. 3. You ought not to neglect your small wins or wear a grimaced face all day long because of her shortsightedness to see what's beyond. 4. The burden of performance is upon you but you are not doing so to get her glued to you even though it does, but to stand tall amongst other winners and be able to beat your chest like a silver back gorilla, that yes, you made it above all odds. And every win is not solely to prove a point but to prove a point("hey you young lady, go fvck yourself, ain't going to chase you in detriment to my small wins and trophy. Ain't going to get ashamed or get depressed. Everything I do is for myself, like it or not, I can do without you". Authority: take charge of your life. 42 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ma373733(m): 10:10am On Oct 16, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jerry59: 10:28am On Oct 16, 2021 |
ma373733:Lol, it is what it is! 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ma373733(m): 10:50am On Oct 16, 2021 |
Jerry59: 5 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 11:50am On Oct 16, 2021 |
ma373733: He never see anything. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 12:03pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Meedon:funny enough,he'll marry another bitch that'll still rip him off. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 12:05pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Smartb0y: Na waoooo 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:09pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
@Martinez39s, good afternoon, regarding our discussion yesterday, I made reference to Rollo as an outlier and Redpiller still keeping his marriage intact in that their Society, it's crazy how he's doing it but in a way it makes us hopeful( i know it's against logic to rely on these) but will like you to further dig into the discussion, may be it's his redpill frame that keeping his relationship, I can't really say 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:13pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
JESHAL:I am typing a post. I haven't forgotten our discussion. This discussion might take weeks. It's an impromptu discussion and I just started writing since you and others were interested. I am typing lengthy posts out of my head, and I am spending time to articulate them properly, in the best way possible. Bare with me. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:13pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Ok 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 12:30pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Neded this bro tanks CaveAdullam: 3 Likes |
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