Dr Abel Damina has spoken out against a trending song with lyrics below;

You get breast, you get yansh, you get sense, you come sabi cook, normally you be wife material.

According to the popular clergy, the most important determinant of a wife material is Character and not breast, bum, sense or cooking skills.
What do you think?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5_jFyhEYGk

Unfortunately, many guys only look out for these qualities... Remember many are attracted to good looking things.
If you want to live long as a man, marry a woman because she is wise and matured and not because she's beautiful.

Hehe
He is very wise.

U see this generation ehn, very stubborn! They like to do as if they know more than themselves.

What is needed is character that will make one to be able to communicate and understand more to develop humility to make sacrifices, and compromise in order for both partner to respect each other to grow in the marriage.

All manner of unrealistic expectations arising from fixed mindset is what is responsible for the rampant relationship failures today.

Sweet 16 sweet 16 in the end, eventually the Prince went back to his former lover who is older than him by a year! They are going strong 20+ years.

Nasoo

Okay

Yes I concur.

Being a God fearing woman is what makes you a wife material.

A virtuous woman, who can find?
She is priceless.

Anything can make you a good wife.... Even those qualities listed there can make you a good wife ...

Because those qualities is what men look for... And when they see it and you have good habits and good brain.... You become a wife automatically...


No the give those flat yansh girls hope...


Modified: Some people attacking me left, right, center ... E be like say their girlfriends get flat yansh....

BeeBeeOoh:



You sure sey u go follow us go this heaven?

Angel Yana.... the son of angel Michael.... I deh heaven sef... I wan see how those small yansh gehls go take make heaven......

yanabasee2:
Anything can make you a good wife.... Even those qualities listed there can make you a good wife ...

Because those qualities is what men look for... And when they see it and you have good habits and good brain.... You become a wife automatically...


No the give those flat yansh girls hope...

You sure sey u go follow us go this heaven?

As a man don't you ever joke with character, loyalty and peace of mind e get why.

You see big boobs, coke bottle shape, fine face etc. Na bonus all of them be

He's right but most men act otherwise because of lust

Go and tell that to Dickson and co

Mercychen:
Yes I concur.

Being a God fearing woman is what makes you a wife material.

A virtuous woman, who can find?
She is priceless.

What is the meaning of God Fearing??

yanabasee2:
Anything can make you a good wife.... Even those qualities listed there can make you a good wife ...

Because those qualities is what men look for... And when they see it and you have good habits and good brain.... You become a wife automatically...


No the give those flat yansh girls hope...

Haba E never reach like that Na

I think the word sense is all-encompassing. If she has sense, she would be emotionally intelligent, financially intelligent, be business-minded, among other things that men seek in a lady.

How pastor take Know the song lyrics

Character is what will bring up your children in the right way and instill discipline in them. Big yansh or big breast or fair skin wouldn't make your children. But to be truthful sha. We love the big yansh and fair skin. So always try to balance it out make your eyes nor go outside

These fraudsters always talk like they know it all but in reality they're as rotten as their gullible followers...


Take their marital advice at your own peril

yanabasee2:
Anything can make you a good wife.... Even those qualities listed there can make you a good wife ...

Because those qualities is what men look for... And when they see it and you have good habits and good brain.... You become a wife automatically...


No the give those flat yansh girls hope...

Not all men are interested in those qualities.

What will make you a good husband material??

Slay mamas won't like this

Money Is Really Good

So after all these talk will it stop some men from cheating, YES ir NO!?
Bcus I'm not understanding... some women have "everything" to keep a man. And when I say everything, I mean "EVERY BLEEPING THING!" Still, some men will never be satisfied. As it is now, I no get time to alter myself bcus of anybody...who no like am make e fly!

But at least, A Wife material Should have one of These..
Big Yanch, Breast, Curvy waist, smooth skin, Compact Pussy...
A Guyman Still deserves some Enjoyment nah..

What are we paying heavy Bride Price for?

20 qualities of a good wife material

For many people, finding a good wife is a blind man’s buff because they don’t know the qualities of a good wife to search for. It is important to mention that knowing the qualities of a good wife will guide your search when you are ready to get one.

But if you are unsure what to look for in a good wife specifically, here are 20 qualities of a good wife that will help you in the search better:




1. Caring and compassionate
A good wife exhibits both care and compassion. She is sensitive to the family’s needs, and does her best to provide a solution. She understands when her husband is frustrated, and tries to make him happy.

Her caring disposition makes sure the family does not lack in any aspect of life.


2. Sensitive of the little things
A good wife is not oblivious to the little things that happen in the home.

For instance, if the husband does something considered to be small, she does not ignore it. Rather, she warms up lovingly and appreciates him. On the other hand, if the husband is sad about something in the home, she tries her best to fix it.

3. Spends quality time with her husband
No matter how busy the good wife’s schedule is, she makes time to spend with her husband.

Some women don’t spend time with their husbands using excuses like an extremely busy schedule. A good wife understands that the quality time spent maintains the spark in the marriage.


4. Encourages her husband
One important role of a wife in a man’s life is acting as a source of encouragement and support.

In both good and bad times, one of the qualities of a good wife is to encourage and show her husband that he is loved. When men experience challenging times, they don’t see their value.

However, a good wife reminds them of the great worth they possess.

5. Respects her husband
A successful marriage thrives on respect. If you are searching for the characteristics of a good wife, make sure she is respectful.
In addition, a good wife appreciates her husband’s effort, and the husband reciprocates with respect and love.


6. Puts her family first
If you are thinking of what to look for in a wife, know that a good wife puts her family first.

The family’s needs and wants top her priorities, and she’s not apologetic about it. A good wife goes the extra mile to ensure her home is comfortable for her husband and kids.

7. Husband’s best friend and lover
A good wife does not cheat because her husband is her one and only lover.
In addition, she could have close friends, but her husband remains her best friend. If there are any pending issues, she talks first to her husband, who doubles as her best friend.


8. A good problem-solver
In marriage, one of the qualities of a good wife to look for is her willingness and ability to tackle problems.
A good wife neither leaves all the problems to her husband to solve nor points accusing fingers at anyone. Instead, she works together with her husband to combat these problems.

9. Treasures teamwork
What makes a good wife is her ability to collaborate and participate as an active team-player. She does not leave her husband to tackle any issue alone.
Rather, she contributes her quota, and she acknowledges her husband’s effort. A good wife knows that collaborative efforts keep the marriage intact as everything goes smoothly.


10. Doesn’t infringe on her husband’s personal space
A good wife understands that everyone needs their personal space.
When she notices her husband needs some alone time, she respects his decision. She is also clairvoyant as she knows the right time to warm up to her husband and cheer him up.

11. She is romantic
When it comes to romance, a good wife knows how to integrate this into her marriage.

She plans surprises and does little things that catch her husband unaware. She is sensitive to her husband’s needs, and leverages this to make romantic gestures.


12. She avoids pretense
A good wife is always true to herself and her words. She isn’t a copycat.
Although she has mentors and role models, she remains authentic and her true self because that’s what matters to her husband and her marriage.

13. Communicates effectively
Being a good wife requires the input of effective communication.
When there are issues in the marriage, she tries to keep an open communication instead of being silent about them. She prevents her husband from guessing as she lays bare her mind and proffers ways to move forward.


14. Brings out the best in her husband
One of the important attributes of a good wife is her ability to ensure her husband attains his best potential.
She provides her husband with the commitment and support he needs to conquer grounds. She knows how powerful her position is in the family, and she uses it to her husband and home’s advantage.

15. She gives a listening ear
One of the traits of a good wife is her ability to give a listening ear because she knows it aids effective communication.
Hence, instead of just hearing, she listens to understand her husband. When her husband wants to discuss with her, she keeps all distractions at bay to focus on him.


16. Celebrates her husband’s achievement
One of the attributes of a good woman is she doesn’t see her husband’s achievement as a means to compete. Rather, she appreciates him and acknowledges his efforts.
If there are children, she seizes the opportunity to use her husband’s success to motivate them.


17. She is honest
A man can only trust his wife when she has proved to be honest countless times.
Lasting marriages are built on honesty and effective communication. There’s a twist to being honest; you don’t have to say anything plainly. For instance, if you don’t like his shoes, you can replace them by getting new pairs.


18. Creative in bed
Generally, men love women who are good in bed and vice-versa.
In fact, for some men, it is one of the important qualities of a good wife in a relationship. A good woman does research on how to satisfy her husband in bed. So, he doesn’t look outside.

If her husband loves a certain sex style, she masters it and gives him the best in bed.


19. Her spiritual life is top-notch
A good wife takes her spiritual life seriously because she knows it is beneficial to her husband and home. She prays for her husband and home, and she meditates regularly.
Also, she ensures her husband is doing well spiritually because it helps them bond better in faith.

20. Remains positive for her husband and home
When things are looking bleak in the home, a good wife knows she has to maintain a positive attitude for the atmosphere to remain cool.

In addition to remaining positive, she keeps the home in good shape even when it is frustrating.

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/qualities-of-a-good-wife/

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