Often times on Nairaland when a topic about cheating is discussed, a lot of men are quick to say 'marrying a virgin lady will give you peace of mind 'cos she won't cheat on you.'

Lies!

Why did I say this?

A friend of mine is currently sleeping with a married woman on his street. She got married to her husband as a virgin. In fact during a friendly street football match on a Saturday, my friend confirmed it when the man was boasting to the other men that he indeed met his wife a virgin.

Funnily, it was the woman herself who made several passes at my friend and led him on until coitus started happening between them. Her reason for cheating? She does not know how the d1ck of another man feels like and she feels the need to explore. She needed to experience sex with another person....And of course, she enjoys sex with my friend than she does with her husband.

I had a similar experience, tho mine is a bit different as I did not end up marrying the lady. I deflowered a lady, my ex, we were so much in love and thought we would get married. So as a techy guy, I hacked her WhatsApp via WhatsApp Web and discovered that she was cheating on me with another guy. Wow! I thought she would never cheat since I was the first to do it with her, but she did. And that led to our break up.

So those of you men who got married to a virgin and are excited thinking she would never cheat, don't have hypertension when it finally happens. She might even bring you another man's child.

While chastity is good and virtuous and meeting a lady as a virgin is a thing of pride, it is what every man prays for. But this does not guaranty fidelity. They can sleep with anybody's wife in this life....I mean, anybody.

You can get married to a woman who has had sex with 500 men and she will remain faithful to you forever and might not, and you can marry a virgin and she would cheat on you few years after your wedding and might not. There is no yardstick at all to measure faithfulness.

Women who got married as a virgin might cheat out of curiosity. Women cheat for several reasons, from curiosity, to lack of love and affection from her husband, money and other material things, emotional instability, etc.

If you are broke, bad in bed, or maltreat your wife, she might cheat on you for money or in the course of finding succor due to your lifestyle whether or not you married her as a virgin.

Well, you made some good points.

Odiegwu

A friend of mine is currently sleeping with a married woman on his street. She got married to her husband as a virgin. In fact during a friendly street football match on a Saturday, my friend confirmed it when the man was boasting to the other men that he indeed met his wife a virgin.


Why do people who promote this narrative always have a friend who does something to validate their conviction? It is never them.

The best thing that can happen to a man is to marry a virgin. In fact, the same goes for a decent lady marrying a man who hasn't slept with all the girls in his street or office.

But then, I implore guys to slow down on this virginity thing because many girls would have still be virgins if some of you didn't deceive them with I love you, I'll marry you, etc. You cannot deflower a girl, dump her and turn around to call non-virgins unprintable names.

There are girls who were even raped by random guys and males (uncles and family friends) they trusted. These are the most unfortunate of them all because many guys don't even believe their stories nowadays.

In as much as you may wanna sound right but you can't take away the sweetness,the joy,the pride a man's derives from the fact that he was the one who actually tore his wife's nylon . Such type of woman truly deserves an accolade.....

A wise man infolenka once said, "if you marry a non-virgin lady and she becomes a good wife, that's your luck. If I marry a virgin lady and she becomes a good wife, that's my double luck".

abeg o. Is it not disgusting and shameful enough to marry a dirty lady who has naughtingly being sleeping with every Tom, dick and Harry? Only a dirty man will not want a virgin lady

Quality20:
abeg o. Is it not disgusting and shameful enough to marry a dirty lady who has naughtingly being sleeping with every Tom, dick and Harry? Only a dirty man will not want a virgin lady

The point is not in marrying a virgin. It is really a thing of pride to marry a virgin. The point here is that marrying one does not guaranty fidelity as opposed to popular beliefs.

Thank God this is coming from a guy. Thanks op.

saasala:


The point is not in marrying a virgin. It is really a thing of pride to marry a virgin. The point here is that marrying one does not guaranty fidelity as opposed to popular beliefs.

Same with marrying a non-virgin. I think it's about choosing the lesser evil.

There Is Nothing Special In Marrying A Virgin. It Is Not My Wish To End Up With One. Stop Thinking All Men Dream To Marry A Virgin. That Is The Least Criteria I Need In My Wife To Be.

Its a no-brainer,marry a virgin by all means necessary cuz a hoe will always be a hoe.

Marrying an olosho does not also guarantee fidelity. Those that married Olosho's are the ones now running around doing DNA test.
At least 90% of virgins will guarantee fidelity, but a LovePeddler will forever remain a LovePeddler and on 90% occasion bring a bastard home.
Main reasons why marriage don't last these days is because of men getting married to lots of harlots.

Epistles, virgins hardly cheat that's it.

Iyaebe:
Epistles, virgins hardly cheat that's it.

As simple a that, very very rare situation.
But an harlots will always remain one, if u like spend 100m for her body.

Who ever wrote dis crap is very very stupid... U think say e dey easy to be virgin?? benefits of marrying a virgin:: no STDs, DNA not needed, harder harder not needed, ex no go disturb ur marriage, agbo not needed B4 sex, her sex video or nude pics no go show up... Use ur head marry a virgin.. THANKS

Privatepart00:
There Is Nothing Special In Marrying A Virgin. It Is Not My Wish To End Up With One. Stop Thinking All Men Dream To Marry A Virgin. That Is The Least Criteria I Need In My Wife To Be.

fourboys:
Who ever wrote dis crap is very very stupid... U think say e dey easy to be virgin?? benefits of marrying a virgin:: no STDs, DNA not needed, harder harder not needed, ex no go disturb ur marriage, agbo not needed B4 sex, her sex video or nude pics no go show up... Use ur head marry a virgin.. THANKS

As in the benefits are endless. Especially that of ex disturbance and nude. I swaear 80% of ladies have their nude outside wether knowingly or unknowingly

to marry a virgin is still 100% better off than marry public toilet girls!

Someone like me value peace of mind more than anything else in this life. The peace of mind can come from virgin or non virgin, ion care. I sha will never marry a woman cos of say she be virgin and commot face for other things. Make virgin no come break my head with stone one day.

This should not even be a topic. Virginity should never be used to measure anything in this life, not only fidelity.

Some virgins seff, na half virgins dem be, with the kind pre-intimacy and d1ck succking when dem don do....Taaar!

In this age where porn videos is just a click away on your phone. Some virgins don watch gazzalions of porn videos and somehow have their own fantasy from it. Woe betides you if you cant meet up.

how old were you when you realized that the word "wife" means 'with idiot for ever'

So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures. Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".
That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?
Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.






Here are the benefits of marrying a
virgin woman.

1- Virgins are brand-new, untouched. I get to commission her.

2- No abortion, I don't want to marry the mother of dead children .

3- I don't want to see her ex releasing a new album titled "I hit her first".

4- Free from Stds.


5- It is a sign of self-control, which means she has a higher chance to remain faithful when married to me.
Someone that defeated fornication can't fall for adultery.

6- An Incredible Wedding Day and Night + honeymoon.(A night of two virgins). This occurs if both partners are virgins.

7- A great role model for our kids in terms of sexual purity. An advice from someone that went through such
experience is the best. No sugarcoating.

8- Comparison: A virgin has only one experience, which is with the spouse. Can't compare with another, hence
she is contented.



If you train your body with fornication, you will be promoted to adultery.

Not all virgins are God-fearing, some are just simply religious or traditional, that is why it is very important for you to study your partner's personality. Don't marry a lady just because she is a virgin, virginity is not a personality, it is just a choice.

saasala:
Often times on Nairaland when a topic about cheating is discussed, a lot of men are quick to say 'marrying a virgin lady will give you peace of mind 'cos she won't cheat on you.'

Lies!

Why did I say this?

A friend of mine is currently sleeping with a married woman on his street. She got married to her husband as a virgin. In fact during a friendly street football match on a Saturday, my friend confirmed it when the man was boasting to the other men that he indeed met his wife a virgin.

Funnily, it was the woman herself who made several passes at my friend and led him on until coitus started happening between them. Her reason for cheating? She does not know how the d1ck of another man feels like and she feels the need to explore. She needed to experience sex with another person....And of course, she enjoys sex with my friend than she does with her husband.

I had a similar experience, tho mine is a bit different as I did not end up marrying the lady. I deflowered a lady, my ex, we were so much in love and thought we would get married. So as a techy guy, I hacked her WhatsApp via WhatsApp Web and discovered that she was cheating on me with another guy. Wow! I thought she would never cheat since I was the first to do it with her, but she did. And that led to our break up.

So those of you men who got married to a virgin and are excited thinking she would never cheat, don't have hypertension when it finally happens. She might even bring you another man's child.

While chastity is good and virtuous and meeting a lady as a virgin is a thing of pride, it is what every man prays for. But this does not guaranty fidelity. They can sleep with anybody's wife in this life....I mean, anybody.

You can get married to a woman who has had sex with 500 men and she will remain faithful to you forever and might not, and you can marry a virgin and she would cheat on you few years after your wedding and might not. There is no yardstick at all to measure faithfulness.

Women who got married as a virgin might cheat out of curiosity. Women cheat for several reasons, from curiosity, to lack of love and affection from her husband, money and other material things, emotional instability, etc.

If you are broke, bad in bed, or maltreat your wife, she might cheat on you for money or in the course of finding succor due to your lifestyle whether or not you married her as a virgin.