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Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Seun4blue(m): 4:04pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Please what's the essence of Bsc, Msc or PhD in marriage?..... Even some world richest don't have more than SSCE. My brother the only upgrade you need now is on your business. Do you know you write good English and have better experience than the so called Bsc holders? Think about it, starting BSC at this your age does it guarantee a better woman or a better job ? My palli dey inside bag since I finished NYSC 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by musiliyukayode(m): 4:05pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Education is the application of acquired knowledge to face day to day activities. Marriage is not a bed of roses. It is between you and your potential wife now but a time is coming that money will not be able to secure your marriage but the acquired knowledge you have.pls listen to the advice of the elders. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spartachico007(m): 4:06pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
I do my things my way my brother no be right ... my own conception of the education part isn’t just for modern day living as for me now I’m planning to run for a small office in my state so thank God I’m not a dropout 0m0nnakoda: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by computersoft: 4:11pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Bros l like ur gods. keep silent over d issue for some tym and see how it plays out. if she really loves u,let she pressure her parents and do d underground work for u. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by mrblessed(m): 4:12pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
queenblossom:I have a problem with your concept of the word "upgrade" and the manner you are chanting it as if the word possesses the halo of a holy writ. You claimed to be a "successful" business woman so your direction of upgrade lies in the area of marketing and its related field. I thought you would have advised this brother to toe similar line as well, because he is a business person like you are. But your ideal "upgrade" for him lies in a gratuitous pursuit of a certificate -- not knowledge because it's actuated to satiate the ego of a family that obviously needs an upgrade-- that won't add much value to him. I hope your lack of reprimand to girl's family is an oversight. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by zedegit: 4:12pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: So be it indeed. If it wasn't bothering you why then did you create a thread? You and I know very well you are trying to convince yourself but kile difficult. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ednut1(m): 4:13pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:writing is taught in primary school not university |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by prophetfire: 4:16pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:It's the girl that doesn't want to marry you. She don chop you enough and wants to move on. She has found someone better for herself. Leave her and go get yourself a good wife. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by prophetfire: 4:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:. Yeah!!! You nailed it. To hell with them. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by tarantino1: 4:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: Lol Let's talk about the millions of jobless graduates queuing up for npower jobs then, I think that is a more appropriate comparison to the poor people who have just school cert than the 1st class degree holder who travelled out of the country for better opportunities. And just so you know, comparism isn't an English word. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Techguy96(m): 4:18pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Acidosis:It's discrimination, first of all how many BSC holders in Nigeria have a Job or business? I can categorically tell you that this guy might be doing alot better than many BSC, Ms and PhD holders in this country. Speaking of approaching buhari's daughter that one has to do with social status, not education. Same with the likes of dj cuppy not just any guy can approach them because of their higher status in life, it has nothing to do with education. In this case, the girl family are not elites, or have a higher social status, I don't see why there are discriminating because of education my takes that it has to do with money, probably a richer guy is also asking for the girls hand. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by zedegit: 4:19pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: What is the guarantee that she will still be available by the time you finish or will they agree immediately you pass jamb and get admission? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Techguy96(m): 4:21pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Olanimonje:I think this is the problem here, they are just using education as excuse. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by BoosBae(f): 4:24pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
tarantino1: Just what I wanted to confirm. Congratulations on being an educated illiterate. You have bought yours already, why are you discouraging the OP from getting his? Lol... Clown Dear OP, please get yours too, don't allow any fool discourage you |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by descarado: 4:25pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
advanceDNA:You guys don't get it. If a prospective inlaw rejects you based on what you can easily achieve, go and get it. It's a norm all over the world. Parents have demanded for worst. I can see that most of u have systematically shifted the whole blame to the girl. Girls bend go and bend. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by APCNig: 4:26pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: A useless family wants to go away from your life and you say you are hurt, wait until you marry someone like Tiwa Savage whose sex tape is everywhere or someone like Tonto Dikeh who has been cursed by the gods. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by descarado: 4:27pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Whenever you quote me, be civil. Don't mistake me for some people. Or, don't quote me at all. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Solidkay(m): 4:30pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: For what you just said, I love you die. Confused Africans, If it were their daughter that's a primary or ssce holder who wanna marry a graduate,am sure they'll see nothing wrong in that. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Techguy96(m): 4:31pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
musiliyukayode:What kind of rubbish is this? So only BSC holders should get married? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by here: 4:33pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Her family has said their own, so what does your intending spouse say. It’s you both that can decide where to go from here and that part wasn’t in your post. Even after marriage there will be things in-laws wouldn’t agree. Secondly I don’t like that you both took 4yrs to make your intentions known to family. Discrimination will always be there and has nothing to do with you. You both should decide what to do and proceed if you are determined but shouldn’t be about your opinion. She what does she want? Bcz somehow I feel she too has started feeling that way as you didn’t give us that. Goodluck though 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by tarantino1: 4:33pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
BoosBae: Says the rétarded buffon that can't spell to save her life. Go on, laugh at yourself. It's pretty much obvious to everyone that your life is a joke. Dunce |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 4:36pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: Some degree holder can't even write as Good As this. Brother, just let her Go. And Find another babe. But if you love her so much, you can just opt for a part time course , and let them know you are going for a part-time. There is nothing too much to be done for love. Cheers |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spherical77(m): 4:40pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
0m0nnakoda:Please kindly point out where i was boasting about my personal self? Everything I've said so far pertaining to myself as a case study was based on "Instance" please don't quote me out of context. You don't need a soothsayers to tell you that not everyone will do well with or without formal education. Besides, formal education isn't meant to make you rich or whataview. Nothing can stop you from being rich if destined to and have access to the right information. Education has nothing whatsoever to do with richness. Nonetheless, it'd be a plus if one had formal education no matter how little it is You asked for fact to my claim that people who got education had more opportunities to leave the shores of the country. Didn't you? Then i told you to bring someone who had just school cert and business doing with other person who had a degree and wanting to explore to other countries like US, UK, Canada et al. Then watch and see who US or UK embassy would gladly grant her request amongst both parties. That's a real life scenario i put up there. At least, if you claimed you don't know that those countries are majorly accepting those who had good education and wanting to make futher research through studies and possibly get PR and become citizens with time. Then you can make do with the life scenario i put up there as the fact that you are seeking for If paradventure you need more input or fact to my claim then you should visit the travel session of this beautiful forum. Google, quora, Wikipedia et al are also recommended to get more fact that you seek 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by dhiqson(m): 4:42pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: Stvpid tears So she can't damn the consequences and So people are actually telling you to upgrade just because you wanna marry No wonder most women will get into forced relationships Lmao |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by sammirano3: 4:43pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Benzemma: First of all, i will quote my university lodge mate Franky. "As you dey study book, you go dey study marital". Institution is one of the best places to choose a life partner. There are other options. If you spend 4 to 6 years in school without identifying a 2 or more suitable partners, wetin you gain with your first class OT. is everything. With the right orientation, life will be balance eventually. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:49pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
descarado: My quote was civil enough. I could have been saltier because your comment was annoying. Thanks. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 4:51pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
0m0nnakoda:You are just confusing yourself sir. You couldn't even comprehend the simple illustration he gave you. If i were him, i wouldn't respond to your mention again. Your comprehensive capacity is still low to have found it difficult to grasp and asking what brought embassy into the discussion This is hilarious seriously |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 4:54pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77:You better leave that dude alone guy. Person wey dey ask you wetin embassy carry come for this matter na him you wan dey elucidate futher for Please save your strength abeg 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by vinexe: 4:57pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
IF I MAY ASK HOUSE WHAT EDUCATION GOT TO DO WITH MARRIAGE? SO U MEAN BSC HOLDER SHOULD MARRIED BSC HOLDER? MASTERS SHOULD ALSO LOOK FOR MASTER HOLDERS? THEN SSCE SHOULD ALSO LOOK FOR SSCE HOLDER INTIMES OF MARRIAGE?......................... LISTEN THE HIGHEST DIVOCEE ALL OVER THE WORLD IS IN THE HOUSE OF GRADUATES...... DO UR INVESTGATION U WILL BE SUPRISER, IN MARRIAGE NOTHING LIKE QUALIFICATION........ SEEE MORE U GET UPGRADE IN ACCADEMIC. MORE U WIL BE CONFUSE IN LIFE COS U WILL NOTBE SATIFIED UNTIL U UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY ONE HAVE TO MANAGED WHAT SO EVER HE OR SHE HAVE CUS WILL HAVE A VERY SHORT TIME TO LIVE....... HOW OLD ARE U NOW? AND HOW OLD DO U THINK U HAVE TO SPEND HERE IN THIS PLANET? EVERY THING IN THIS LIFE IS LIKE CHASING THE WIND. THOSE THAT ARE GRADUATES ARE LOOKING FOR SOME ONE WITHOUT OND TO GET MARRIED.. BUT THEY COULD NOT FOUND NONE.. AND SOME FOUND SSCE HOLDER BUT THEY ARE NOT CONTENTED WITH WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE........... OK MY MAN GO GO ON WITH UR LIFE AND PLS DONT JUST LOOK FOR BEAUTY COS BEAUTY WILL SURELY FADE UP |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by advanceDNA: 4:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
descarado: Shift blame on the girl...?? U read that in my post?? This is an issue about family rejecting the man...the girl loves the guy..they've been dating for years..how am I blaming the girl Somehow u are making this a gender war...please take your hatred for men somewhere else I'm not interested.. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by GboyegaD(m): 4:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: Oga, calm down. Whether or not you marry her, there's no big deal however, if an opportunity arise to upgrade yourself, please grab it and don't think it is not needed. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by vinexe: 4:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
IF I MAY ASK HOUSE WHAT EDUCATION GOT TO DO WITH MARRIAGE? SO U MEAN BSC HOLDER SHOULD MARRIED BSC HOLDER? MASTERS SHOULD ALSO LOOK FOR MASTER HOLDERS? THEN SSCE SHOULD ALSO LOOK FOR SSCE HOLDER INTIMES OF MARRIAGE?......................... LISTEN THE HIGHEST DIVOCEE ALL OVER THE WORLD IS IN THE HOUSE OF GRADUATES...... DO UR INVESTGATION U WILL BE SUPRISER, IN MARRIAGE NOTHING LIKE QUALIFICATION........ SEEE MORE U GET UPGRADE IN ACCADEMIC. MORE U WIL BE CONFUSE IN LIFE COS U WILL NOTBE SATIFIED UNTIL U UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY ONE HAVE TO MANAGED WHAT SO EVER HE OR SHE HAVE CUS WILL HAVE A VERY SHORT TIME TO LIVE....... HOW OLD ARE U NOW? AND HOW OLD DO U THINK U HAVE TO SPEND HERE IN THIS PLANET? EVERY THING IN THIS LIFE IS LIKE CHASING THE WIND. THOSE THAT ARE GRADUATES ARE LOOKING FOR SOME ONE WITHOUT OND TO GET MARRIED.. BUT THEY COULD NOT FOUND NONE.. AND SOME FOUND SSCE HOLDER BUT THEY ARE NOT CONTENTED WITH WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE........... OK MY MAN GO GO ON WITH UR LIFE AND PLS DONT JUST LOOK FOR BEAUTY COS BEAUTY WILL SURELY FADE up |
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