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Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by nedekid: 8:20pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
When they say go school you no gree. Even you go gree your daughter marry s. Cert holder? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Ajibade123(m): 8:36pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:because you are doing one should be one of the reason why you should consider getting a degree even if it is just ND in this modern world I don't even see why you shouldn't even have a degree even if you are so busy a lot of polytechnics and uni offers weekend programs na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by merits(m): 8:37pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Why do you hate school?everyone telling you to upgrade, you keep on kicking against it.what is your problem about school?is for your own good bro if you upgrade yourself you will find yourself better place than where you are now.more over you are just 36 yrs old.young lad. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NoToPile: 8:47pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
toren: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() If you have to lie to your parents about the status(educational, financial , health whatever it is) of your fiance something is inherently wrong somewhere. Would he lie to his parents about your own status. Na real wa 3 Likes |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spherical77(m): 8:58pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Ajibade123:The Op is bent on not having any formal education again. That's why i suggested he go look for his level or someone who doesn't have a school cert. At least, he's rest assured that her family would accept him provided he can take care of their daughter 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Kay25(m): 9:01pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:from the sentences u wrote up I would say one of the reasons why u can't marry a bsc holder is visibly written.if for four years u too can't go get an ND Or HND or take a part time programme u aren't qualified to marry her it's not about the money it's about the status in the society imagine ur wife ends up becoming like okonjo iweala would you be presentable?you are not matching her go find your mate or you upgrade yourself .if you were to be a graduate would also want to marry an ssce holder considering what life is turning to in this country? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spherical77(m): 9:01pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
toren:This isn't love but obsession How on earth would you lie to your parents almost everything about him? This is wrong if you don't know. False marriage ![]() Better go and confess to your parents and seek for their forgiveness. I don't know what this ourgeneration is turning into seriously. You took your parents for a fool? Too bad of you. And you are still saying it right here. No shame? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NoToPile: 9:02pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
juman: Simple I don't even see what all the fuss is about, why is he even surprised it came up. Like the parents won't be interested to know the educational status of their child's fiance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NoToPile: 9:04pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: I read that post and I was shocked. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by juman(m): 9:13pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
NoToPile: Abi o. Most families would say no. But there are many more resourceful ssce holder ladies than graduates that he can go for. Many market women that are not so educated are doing well. They have houses. 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Spherical77(m): 9:16pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
ityP:Beautiful Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said Very simple 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by FairlyUSEDpussy: 9:18pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Forgodsgrace: Lol..... I guess most of the governors nah ssce holder ba ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by BluntTheApostle(m): 9:24pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: What do you mean by level? So, if you are poor, you should only marry someone who is poor? If you have a bachelor's, you should only marry someone with a bachelor's? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 9:30pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Bro go and marry your level please. If you know you can't upgrade yourself and have a degree not because of this lady in question o. But if you've already made up your mind not to have anything to do with schooling to acquire knowledge then you should settle down with a girl with school cert for peace of mind. It's hard before you can see a family that will allow their daughter who is a graduate to marry a school cert. It's very hard bro except the guy is very very rich If you are my brother and i know you can't futher your studies again. I will advise you to look for a girl with school cert and settle down with You need happiness and peace of mind bro 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 9:33pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle:How many of our elites and rich families marry from the poor please? Only a stinkingly rich guy will convince a woman family to marry their daughter who is educated Without that, it's very hard to see Odima easy ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: Shame for what? Obsession for who? Abeg abeg abeg. Your mouth like if I have to lie to my parents. I can tell my parents whatever suits me. I'm not a kid. I live my life as I want. Get that in your head. And when did I tell you I was married. People don't know how to read these days. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Skyfornia(m): 9:36pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
dahmie2013: What will he learn in school? To leave his business, enter school, graduate and start looking for job? |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by GraciousGod190: 9:36pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: foolish boy why are you spamming this thread? one can see how old you are from all your post. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by MrJavaS: 9:38pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: Turn your back on her and her family. They ain't worth the stress. There are plenty fishes in the river that would appreciate you regardless of your level of education. Go find your type. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 9:39pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Forgodsgrace:You lied baba. Those footballers are educated. Though not all but majority are educated You listed the little benefits those who had no education are benefiting. Forgetting that an educated governor can put down a law and policy that would make them run away If i should list the benefits of being educated trust me it won't contain here 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by theGUDgameR: 9:41pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Her family her very backward, they chose their happiness over their daughters own. Please move on. Such family will be very toxic to you if you marry her. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
NoToPile: They have started. Hypocrites. Hypocrites that have never told a lie. I can say anything l like to anyone as long as I'm not hurting anyone in the process. Nobody lives my life for me. Now take note, if I have to lie to protect the interest of my loved one, I will again, again and again. |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NPTJ(m): 9:47pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:You seek for advice and you got it Why calling him names man like you? see who want to marry a woman. This is a typical red flag for women to see that you would be violence in marriage. If you can be calling someone whom you seek advice from name's simply because what he said doesn't soot you By the way, what is wrong in what he said? Can't you marry your level a school cert ? Please tell me you can't marry a school cert as a school cert holder that you are You are indirectly discriminating and you come here claiming the girl family are discriminating With what you just did, even though you are a billionaire you will look for your wife elsewhere 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Memyselfu2009(m): 9:52pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
My brother going to the university doesn't means you would be successful alot of graduate looking for jobs. Hand work pay pass right now. Self employment is the best especially when you are good in what you are doing. They should look for a graduate that earns 80k to 100k Give them 2yrs check on your ex gf and ask her how market.. Like say e easy 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by NigeriaIsGreat: 9:55pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:Guy go and marry your level and learn to dey cool down. No go carry this your character enter marriage o. Make you no go dey beat person pikin 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Kazeemakeem(m): 10:04pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190: The people that are educated with BSC,MSc, where are they are they earning more than business men, oga marry who like you for who you are, leave school, sabi name u type this question. Who school help nowadays with this economy, |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by VTJN(m): 10:05pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
GraciousGod190:This doesn't speak well of you guy. Is this how you would be behaving when you finally get married? Marriage has its up and down, not bed of roses all through. If you are this abusive then i wonder what will happen in your marriage Please work on yourself 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Kazeemakeem(m): 10:07pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
NPTJ: Nigeria govornor abi |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 10:17pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: No be everybody carry the school for head. He might end up marrying someone with an even bigger degree than B. Sc 1 Like |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 10:21pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
toren: But it's true na. Dem no dey force relationships and marriage o. If you force enter, you fit force comot. Also, your loved ones first na your mama and papa. If you can boldly lie about something as unnecessary as the educational status of someone you THINK you'd spend the rest of your life with, that someone should be very careful. You fit kill 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by ityP(m): 10:22pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Skyfornia: I wonder o |
Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Nobody: 10:27pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
ityP: Na you go kill. Dindinrin. So why are you hurt that I lied about something that's "inconsequential?" Again, If education was inconsequential, Op wouldn't post about it. His gf's parents wouldn't give a hoot about his education. But I understand you're too dumb to know this. |
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