GraciousGod190:

no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

GraciousGod190:

upgrade myself?
so to you am not upgraded enough? because am an Ssce holder.
please bro this discriminations needs to stop.

toren:


GraciousGod190, take the advice of this person I quoted for your own good. As a female myself, I can tell you that she's 100% right.

If she really wanted you, nothing in this world would make her reveal to her family that you have only SSCE , even if a gun was pointed to her head. Forget the tears she's shedding.

The person I'm in love with is an ND holder. I did not only tell my mum that he has BSc, also lied about his job/financial status. I can't let my family or anyone else for that matter look down or judge him. Besides, it's nobody's business.

So, your girl is either playing you or is too childish to handle such matters.

Ajibade123:

because you are doing one should be one of the reason why you should consider getting a degree even if it is just ND

in this modern world I don't even see why you shouldn't even have a degree even if you are so busy
a lot of polytechnics and uni offers weekend programs na

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

toren:


GraciousGod190, take the advice of this person I quoted for your own good. As a female myself, I can tell you that she's 100% right.

If she really wanted you, nothing in this world would make her reveal to her family that you have only SSCE, even if a gun was pointed to her head. Forget the tears she's shedding.

The person I'm in love with is an ND holder. I did not only tell my mum that he has BSc, also lied about his job/financial status. I can't let my family or anyone else for that matter look down or judge him. Besides, it's nobody's business.

So, your girl is either playing you or is too childish to handle such matters.

juman:
Only few families would allow their graduate girl marry ssce holder except he is very rich.
There are uncountable number of other ladies that are the same level like you.

Spherical77:
This isn't love but obsession

How on earth would you lie to your parents almost everything about him? This is wrong if you don't know.

NoToPile:


Simple I don't even see what all the fuss is about, why is he even surprised it came up. Like the parents won't be interested to know the educational status of their child's fiance.

ityP:



Which opportunities? If he is really doing well for himself, he should get married ASAP and father kids. He seems uninterested in school so cajoling him into getting a degree is very unwise. He needs kids now more than he needs higher education. When he births kids,he can send them to school

Forgodsgrace:



All the people wey go schoool get Bsc,MSc,PhD. Wetin be the outcome ?Go to Alaba international ,Trade Fair,Idumota ,Ladipo,computer village 90% of business owners there are school cert. holders controlling graduates.
Most of our footballers are sch cer. Holders getting married to PhD holders.
With all your sch you end up seeking for 30 thousand naira job.

Everything no be by university and That family serious reorientation .

Lol.....
I guess most of the governors nah ssce holder ba

Spherical77:
Beautiful
Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said

Very simple

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

BluntTheApostle:


What do you mean by level?

So, if you are poor, you should only marry someone who is poor?

If you have a bachelor's, you should only marry someone with a bachelor's?

Spherical77:
This isn't love but obsession

How on earth would you lie to your parents almost everything about him? This is wrong if you don't know.

False marriage

Better go and confess to your parents and seek for their forgiveness.

I don't know what this ourgeneration is turning into seriously. You took your parents for a fool?

Too bad of you. And you are still saying it right here. No shame?

dahmie2013:

My brother, seeking knowledge has nothing to do with age. This attitude is not the best. I still advise you go to school and upgrade yourself.

Spherical77:
Beautiful
Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said

Very simple

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

Forgodsgrace:



All the people wey go schoool get Bsc,MSc,PhD. Wetin be the outcome ?Go to Alaba international ,Trade Fair,Idumota ,Ladipo,computer village 90% of business owners there are school cert. holders controlling graduates.
Most of our footballers are sch cer. Holders getting married to PhD holders.
With all your sch you end up seeking for 30 thousand naira job.

Everything no be by university and That family serious reorientation .

NoToPile:





If you have to lie to your parents about the status(educational, financial , health whatever it is) of your fiance something is inherently wrong somewhere.

Would he lie to his parents about your own status.

Na real wa

GraciousGod190:


foolish boy why are you spamming this thread?
one can see how old you are from all your post.

GraciousGod190:


foolish boy why are you spamming this thread?
one can see how old you are from all your post.

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

GraciousGod190:


foolish boy why are you spamming this thread?
one can see how old you are from all your post.

NPTJ:
You lied baba. Those footballers are educated. Though not all but majority are educated

You listed the little benefits those who had no education are benefiting. Forgetting that an educated governor can put down a law and policy that would make them run away

If i should list the benefits of being educated trust me it won't contain here

Spherical77:
Beautiful
Then let him go look for his level. A school cert holder or even less whose family would accept him and he will start fathering kids as you said

Very simple

toren:


They have started. Hypocrites. Hypocrites that have never told a lie. I can say anything l like to anyone as long as I'm not hurting anyone in the process. Nobody lives my life for me.

Now take note, if I have to lie to protect the interest of my loved one, I will again, again and again.

Skyfornia:


What will he learn in school? To leave his business, enter school, graduate and start looking for job?

ityP:



But it's true na. Dem no dey force relationships and marriage o. If you force enter, you fit force comot. Also, your loved ones first na your mama and papa. If you can boldly lie about something as unnecessary as the educational status of someone you THINK you'd spend the rest of your life with, that someone should be very careful. You fit kill