Hopeba:
Guy.. Even without money u can get a good girl to lash.. Iam in school at the moment,, and iam a broke guy,, since ladies discovered iam very good in calculations cox iam doing a science course, I have been enjoying different pussies with different shapes,, some even spent on me.. Iam not asking u to b randy, my point is you can have any pussy in the world without money.. Just b good at something

wiseone28:
Op make a hole on mattress and put your D" inside..


Easiest way to get satisfaction.

emmnprince:


What's all this kparakpo for?

DoNotMakeItWors:



Otu unu si jiri asusu anyi n' akparita uka atogbuolam ... Unu n' eme ofuma

DaveDGreat:

You and Munzy14 speak my local dialect so well? Which part of IMO are you guys from?

Unu ewela iwe

Munzy14:

From eastern heartland...

DaveDGreat:

You and Munzy14 speak my local dialect so well? Which part of IMO are you guys from?

Unu ewela iwe

Soljaboi44:
Upon the kind problem wey dey this country.. you na sēx be your problem.


SMH
Life nur balance at all

mariahAngel:


I'm from Isi-ala mbano, while he's from Mbaise.

Nsogbu adighi.

Softboy001:

I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming

Softboy001:
I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.

mariahAngel:


I'm from Isi-ala mbano, while he's from Mbaise.

Nsogbu adighi.

Munzy14:

Onye si ri gi kwuo..

Mba 4 na mba5, maybe onye ahu ga awuzi mba9

DaveDGreat:



No wonder. I said it.

Anyways, I'm from Ngor-Okpala and my maternal home is Isi-ala Mbano.


Udo!!!

mariahAngel:


OK.

Awuzi'm onye umere-nne gi.

Munzy14:

Onye si ri gi kwuo..

Mba 4 na mba5, maybe onye ahu ga awuzi mba9

EriboEghosa:




C'mon, I think your problem is more than just sex!
2 years is nothing! I have not had sex since 2007 and am 29 now. I would have been proud to be a virgin now, if not that I was sexually abused around that year by an older female relative who stayed with us. Anyway, I've forgotten all that, only have the memories.

Back to the matter.
What you need is to get busy productively. Find a purpose, something you can live for in which you can glorify God through and bless your generation.

Secondly, change your mindset about sex. Anyone can control himself. Self control is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit. Ask God to help you. It's not as if I don't have the urge to have sex myself, of course I do. The difference is that I'm gaining mastery over my flesh by the help of the holy spirit. Even if you have sex today, assure you the konji would not die, it would only increase and trigger the urge more.

Start looking for more than having sex, pray and work towards getting married now that you have a job.

In addition, renew your mond by the word of God. Scriptures keeps us from sinning. When the Holy Spirit dwells on it, our flesh dies and we become alive unto righteousness. What you need is a renewal of your mind else, even if you get married, like I suggested, you will still have the strong urge to have sex.

Lastly, see a man of God in a Bible Believing church or a maturing Christian for counselling. Believe me brother, there are many people who have crossed this river you're in now and they didn't get drown, God helped them. They can help you too.
There are many brothers and sisters who have been living sexually pure for decades (without any problems with their sexual organs), they have sexual urges both the Holy Spirit is helping them.
Meet them to help you!
Become more committed with the things of God.

This is my counsel for you to bring a lasting solution. It might not be a popular one, but it's from a scriptural point of view. It has been working for me and many others and if only you give it a thought and practice, you will come back testifying again!

It is well with you.

Softboy001:



When u say things like this it will look as if somebody is not working hard. You have no idea what I have done or been through.

I have done some things(legal) just to survive
But I thank I just got a job in a very popular firm in the country. As a costumer call agent.

The issue here now is the sexual tension am facing every day and my current job which I just started a month ago is not helping matters cos 90% of my colleagues are female. And you need to see what they wear to work.

My brother even if you don't want to be moved. You must move. Dem no born you well...
Everyday I give my self pep talk on how to look but I still look. The sexual tension is much plus the fact that I have not had sex for 2 years now, the Same me that normally have sex back to back...


Right now am just thinking how I am going to survive those ladies at work on Monday and my dick Is already doing me somehow

Softboy001:
I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.

UndauntedYOCA:
I think what you need now is improving the quality of your life. Life is more than sex o, ensure you have things working for you first, once this is settled other things will fall in place.
If sex is what you feel is your major problem then do know you don't even need money to have sex but abeg focus on your life.

EdiskyHarry:

OK so to think of having sex should be the main goal right?

Munzy14:

To fix the Buhari led Economy..

Hopeba post=106829635:
are you a male how did you know