dahmie2013:
It is rather unfortunate. But I advise you upgrade yourself at least. It shows your willingness to want to get learned.

What does his degree has to do with his marriage with her? Did he complain that his income is poor? Does he sound like an illiterate?

toren:


You satanic agent, depart from me!!! Go perish in the red sea!!!

I'm laughing at your foolishness

Iyawo Diploma ;DIyawo oniro

toren:


You're shameless and daft. Barawo oloribu. If not that you've got a brain tumor, you'll realize that not everyone is as shameless as all the female members in your family.

Ruth abokoku

Madam Diploma

NYSC17:


I'm laughing at your foolishness

Iyawo Diploma ;DIyawo oniro

Laugh to your journey of no return.

NYSC17:
Ruth abokoku

Madam Diploma

Shameless urgent 2k ashawo. Olobo fife

toren:


Shameless urgent 2k ashawo. Olobo fife

Sister,

If you feel your husband to be is worth it despite the fact he is not a degree holder or earns to your parent's taste, you should have done a justification to your parents after stating the fact than lying to them.

You need to learn to balance loyalty to man/husband and responsibility to your parents/family.

Tomorrow, they might have an opportunity that would benefit him and they will pass it up because 'he is bigger than that'.

Also your man might feel that he is not good enough for you that's why you had to lie to your parents to accept a false version of himself.

You don't build a solid foundation on lies.

GraciousGod190:


who told you am looking?
since yesterday she's threatening to commit suicide, when I told her we should move on, because am no longer interested in it.

she told me she has spoken with her uncle to talk with her parents, I told her blantly am no longer interested.since she has a master degree let her go get someone of same educational background. that's what her parents want.

You do not have disposition of a man who has loved a girl for four years and wants to marry her.

Perhaps that's what her parents are really responding to.

ityP:




They're married and they seem very happy together. For your mind now, if I marry babe wey go uni too, we go dey discuss better abi? LoL. We will be talking about uni days .... You people should stop deceiving yourselves. I dated a fellow uni student and we just didn't flow as much. My ex sef wey be secondarian, we flowed more. She run marry, if not, I for don dey think marriage. I know many couples who are like these ones and they're living happy. Make una dey segregate dey go

Later later the married woman will cry. I've seen it many times. She will then run to her parents to help her flee the marriage. I pray it is not your own marriage that I am rubbishing, but these type of marriages rarely make it for life.

Truvelisback:
Bro, save urself 4rm all these headache, Leave her alone. Get another girl. There are so many beautiful girls out there.

yes, anyone can be replaced.

WTF did i just read?

How could they judge you cos of your educational background? And it's not as if you're jobless or you ain't got potentials


My driver earns 100k per month and he is married to a Senior lecturer who is a PHD holder.

toren:


Laugh to your journey of no return.

Iyawo oko Oniro

Mr. Diploma aturota bi elubo

Iro labi

NaBanga:


Later later the married woman will cry. I've seen it many times. She will then run to her parents to help her flee the marriage. I pray it is not your own marriage that I am rubbishing, but these type of marriages rarely make it for life.

You're funny

bukatyne:


Sister,

If you feel your husband to be is worth it despite the fact he is not a degree holder or earns to your parent's taste, you should have done a justification to your parents after stating the fact than lying to them.

You need to learn to balance loyalty to man/husband and responsibility to your parents/family.

Tomorrow, they might have an opportunity that would benefit him and they will pass it up because 'he is bigger than that'.

Also your man might feel that he is not good enough for you that's why you had to lie to your parents to accept a false version of himself.

You don't build a solid foundation on lies.

She's A useless girl na.. She will live to regret her actions by the time the diploma man is done with her. She thought everybody here is stupid telling her what she does is totally wrong

The best bet for her is to dust that man off and get someone who soothes her. Someone who she can be proud of. Someone who she doesn't start with the foundation of lies and deciet. Someone who is capable and up to the task

Not a low life that you are covering for in this 21st century

toren:


You' that are already living off the curses of your forefathers, saying someone else is cursed. Better go back to your father and ask him the solution to your problems, that is even if you know your real father cos like your sisters, your mother is a bitchhh

Alaye baje... See how everybody dey condemn you for public. Shameless idiot. You are enjoying the Diploma dick abi that's why you can lie to cover up for him. Alainitiju

Oju gbani ti fun e Oni nobi omo

Omo radarada

bukatyne:


Sister,

If you feel your husband to be is worth it despite the fact he is not a degree holder or earns to your parent's taste, you should have done a justification to your parents after stating the fact than lying to them.

You need to learn to balance loyalty to man/husband and responsibility to your parents/family.

Tomorrow, they might have an opportunity that would benefit him and they will pass it up because 'he is bigger than that'.

Also your man might feel that he is not good enough for you that's why you had to lie to your parents to accept a false version of himself.

You don't build a solid foundation on lies.

That girl no get sense.. Naso some Yoruba girls dey do. They are very cheap and affordable

Men take them for a fool. It's not her fault. Maybe she's from a faulty home

She was so shameless to the extend of saying it in a public forum. That's to tell you how useless some Yoruba girls are. She doesn't see anything wrong in what she does

So many of them are married free of charge without their useless husband paying their bride price and other marital rite

They are extra ordinary cheap like a callico sheet. Very disgusting set of people.

bukatyne:


You do not have disposition of a man who has loved a girl for four years and wants to marry her.

Perhaps that's what her parents are really responding to.

My parents would do exactly the same.

Let him go and marry his level. They are many around

According. By Mclizbae 's logic, people should divorce immediately they are "above" their spouse during the marriage. Mtchew.

bukatyne:


What if she becomes 'higher' in marriage?

NYSC17:
She's A useless girl na.. She will live to regret her actions by the time the diploma man is done with her. She thought everybody here is stupid telling her what she does is totally wrong

The best bet for her is to dust that man off and get someone who soothes her. Someone who she can be proud of. Someone who she doesn't start with the foundation of lies and deciet. Someone who is capable and up to the task

Not a low life that you are covering for in this 21st century

Calling her names is too harsh and will make our message fly over her head.

Since she has said he is worth it, let's believe her as a man's value as a husband is not only based on his qualifications and wealth.

Hopefully, she does the right thing.

Anndrew:
with due respect,u are very stupid...a stupid fool

Another foolish bloodly illitrate. You are like a cancer to any woman.

bukatyne:


He can even do NOUN that is online.

I forgot NOUN.
Don't mind the guy.

bukatyne:


Sis, you got same vibe I did from the OP.

GraciousGod190:

yes, anyone can be replaced.

Don't let her family members make u feel inferior or worthless. Infact, don't go to their house again.

sammirano3:


Another foolish bloodly illitrate. You are like a cancer to any woman.

like I said,u are a foolish idiot..And u will always be

Truvelisback:
Don't let her family members make u feel inferior or worthless. Infact, don't go to their house again.

She's been trying to reverts her words, trying to change the whole narratives.

I told her blantly, it can't work.

Thanks for nairaland, the comments here was really helpful, both the good and bad.

Smile

bukatyne:


You do not have disposition of a man who has loved a girl for four years and wants to marry her.

Perhaps that's what her parents are really responding to.

Dude is angry and rightly so. He's also disappointed. Most men would feel this way

GraciousGod190:


who told you am looking?
since yesterday she's threatening to commit suicide, when I told her we should move on, because am no longer interested in it.

she told me she has spoken with her uncle to talk with her parents, I told her blantly am no longer interested.since she has a master degree let her go get someone of same educational background. that's what her parents want.

This comment proves you never really loved her, therefore, you don't deserve her.
If you did, you would do all you can not to lose her.
It never was about her degree, but about your fragile ego.

You know what? If you keep up with this attitude towards her, you will make it easy for her to forget you and move on without regrets because no woman wants a man who cannot even fight for her.

@OP

Don't mind that family and all its fellow bumpkins and low self-esteem here and elsewhere supporting it and talking about class erroneously, provided that you are certain that you are occupationally engaged, ambitious, and do not have poor demeanor and disposition, thus the reason for its objection.

It is always appalling seeing people who are merely existing, not living, talking about class - the only class that is worth consideration in a genuine interpersonal relationship is the ethical class. All of them making noise about the social class here have no single doctoral certificate and/or just USD100,000 worth of assets anywhere in the world; yet, you will see them talking about social class. If a class in an interpersonal relationship is truly twerked towards such a myopic direction and definition, it means that a select privileged few of us will not be sharing a platform like this with you bumpkins and low self-esteem people not to talk about exchanging words with you all.

Only bumpkins and low self-esteem can assert that a sound, skilled, and gumptious non-formal-certificate holder is an illiterate, worse still someone with a post-primary formal education. The absence of formal education doesn't automatically make anyone illiterate and unrefined.

These same bumpkins and low self-esteem people will not think twice before agreeing to marry, or give out all the females in their families, people like Abdulrazaq Abdulrahman (present Kwara State governor), Jacob Zuma (former South African president), C. Ronaldo, Messi, Ifeanyi Ubah, Ahmed Musa, etc., let me just mention these ones whom you lots can identify with as popular figures. Hypocritical and dumb lots. You have until the day you die to obtain a degree or any other form of formal certificate if you need one, so do not allow anyone to guilt trip you into going for one if you are certain that you do not have a need for it now. Most of the shrewdest and sagacious experts I have known in most spheres of life do not wittingly or unwittingly have post-secondary certificates or do not depend on their formal certificates to make things happen.

Education is good; it is power, but no one should ignorantly and automatically mistake the education here only for formal education. In fact, anyone that does not have at least two doctoral degrees from the Ivy league schools and assets that are worth at least USD100M ought not to be caught discriminating against people based on material possessions in the name of class. Truly, you underprivileged lots are your own worst enemies.

^ ^ ^

ityP:



Dude is angry and rightly so. He's also disappointed. Most men would feel this way

I don't see his love shining through in the whole situation.

cooooooks:
According. By Mclizbae 's logic, people should divorce immediately they are "above" their spouse during the marriage. Mtchew.

That means the divorce rates has not started increasing ni yen

Wahala wa!

@ityP

Many educated illiterates on this thread. So, after your secondary school, you didn't know what menu is abi? Na for uni dem start to teach you English? How do seemingly educated persons look at a secondarians as illiterates? Like how? I was already very good in speaking and writing English before I entered the university. And if you've been to the university yourself, you of all people should know they don't teach English there. Even GST 101 didn't go half deep into what I learnt in secondary school. In fact, that class was so unnecessary, I barely attended. As someone who've been to the university, I can authoritatively tell you SCHOOL NA SCAM. The only reason I dey enter school na to use the degree find work. If I see something way better to generate income later, my certificate would be totally useless. I know many graduates who can't speak good English sef. Why? Their educational foundation was faulty. You only need primary school and secondary school education to be able to speak good and sweet English. If you think otherwise, you're more likely an illiterate yourself >:


@me
Oga calm down. That statement was used to show the typical behaviour of an illiterate or semi-illiterate man. In the 21st century a school cert holder is at best a semi-illiterate person. I will not allow my son/daughter to marry such no matter how rich the person is.

Those that went to school and still claim that "school na scam" are those that went to school for certificate and not knowledge. Nothing polishes and emboldens a man like sound education. Money or no money.

GraciousGod190:

getting married to a woman can't motivate me to upgrade my educational background.
already told her it's over so be it, she's the one shedding tears over here.

You clearly don't love her.

See the way you're saying SO BE IT with your full chest.