Richywiz:
ya, most broke boys are misers.

I haven't seen anything wrong in giving.

Most guys just get stingy when the lady doesn't reciprocate the givings, while a good number of them are dangerously broke

Toks2008:
No long story.

ecomalchemist:
Na so, Nigerian women only see Men as a form of poverty alleviation scheme due to the untold economic hardship.....

Highest bidder la'n Je !

Majority of them go wan chill with Yahoo boy than Uber chap or 9 - 5 banker.


The minute you loose your source of income, she's moving ahead ahead to next big fish.

One useless babe wanted to try that shit with me, na fucc we dey fucc....no strings attached...if you want me to pay you for something we both enjoyed, then you are nothing but a prostitute.

Own it with your chest.

Chukwudi4naija:
And the poverty is gender sensitive? Only affecting women.

Ay04z:
lol... So na u kom dey disvirgin dem for us. Abi... We don sight u

UyaiIncomparabl:
I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

pickatyoubackup:


But you assumed you know everyone here to be broke and can't afford it if nairaland becomes a paid site.
My dear it's a two way street

UyaiIncomparabl:
I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

Jaycee07:


They are not broke They are saying the truth. I have a Chinese girl who was born and raise here in the U S( San Francisco) to be precise. She’s a neurologist and now studying to become a neurosurgeon. You see the mentality of entitlement is inherent in a typical Nigerian girl/woman. My girlfriend takes me to a restaurant and we share the bills. Even when I sometimes offer to augment her bills for rent, car note and insurance , she prefers to either take a loan from me and pay back later or simply get another credit card. A Nigerian woman feels it her right to be given and for the most part brings nothing meaningful or resourceful to the relationship other than sex, which is perhaps the cheapest thing here.

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet.

Currently, my man gives to me, I always give him gifts too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady.

Modified
To those of u shouting boxers and singlets, nope its not boxers.
I do buy shirts, sneakers, cologne and wristwatch,
And no, he hasn't bought me an IPhone, I buy my phones myself.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet.

Currently, my man gives to me, I always give him gifts too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady.

Modified
To those of u shouting boxers and singlets, nope its not boxers.
I do buy shirts, sneakers, cologne and wristwatch,
And no, he hasn't bought me an IPhone, I buy my phones myself.

NotoriousBiggyS:



With your dirty looking hair � broke asss

loswhite:
That's the normal line...lol. What about the broke girls? I'm sure you won't even join the site in the first place or probably ask your maga to pay.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I pity men who will ingest this. Well, this is social media where every man can claim he doesn't give a woman money.

But, I can tell you for free how I have one notorious asslicking womanizer begging me offline to just accept 50K to manage for the weekend. I have told him 100K or nothing. He said he will send it tomorrow unfailingly. I will wait.

That's one of your gender. A married one for that matter. I do not pity them. I will suck their nectar dry till they have nothing else to offer to the outside world.

siofra:


You're mad for comparing a Nigerian to a Chinese woman raised in the US. Have you seen the situation of this country? Don't you see the how bad things are in Nigeria? With poverty everywhere? You're comparing women in the poverty capital of the world to the US not even South Africa o or India sef, it is the United States of America.

siofra:


You penisians always hammer on broke girls without addressing broke boys so...

siofra:


Are you calling African hair dirty

Self hater spotted. Avoid me. Besides do you know how much that hair cost?

siofra:


You're broke and no girl will want you. Deal with it.

Jaycee07:


Aunty,

You can do better than this. Can I shock you? Even Nigerian girls/Women here in the U S who are well off financially are no different from the one back in Nigeria. It’s in you people It’s a culture misnomer

siofra:


You're broke and no girl will want you. Deal with it.

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

siofra:


Women are the most oppressed in the Nigerian society, so yeah!

Sensiblerealist:
And you will still go and bill one Simpson for data before you can visit here

Toks2008:


No be lie. The crazy twist is that most ladies value what a man gives over the sacrifice he makes...

Simply put, a typical naija girl will value a man who gives her 1M out of his billions than a guy who gives her 100k out of 150k he has home and away.

So why should any man kill himself trying to satisfy a lady when she is most likely to cut your call just to answer a guy that gives her more regardless of the sacrifice you made?

This is why I tell men to give ladies only what they can afford so that at the end it won't be too painful if the lady disappoints.