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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2021
so much bitter tears all over this thread. grin

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Brushstrokes20: 6:10pm On Oct 24, 2021
Lorry load of trash for lawma!

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by 0taPiaPia(m): 6:11pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
you cant eat your cake and have it ,thats how the world works, sorry

God bless you Brotherly.. infact you have made my day. Remain blessed !!

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 24, 2021
AlphaAlex:
Omo even the virgin no sure as you dey think . Even if you are her first are you with her 24/7?

I never wan touch her even though she dey offer, I wan break her down mentally until she go see me as god then I go balance tear rubber, like the chairman that I am.give her belly straight before she go reason trying another prick,and before the toto go heal again I go sama her another belly. Until the thought of sex go comot her mind.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 24, 2021
MufasaLion:


There's no straight answer to that unless through conversations and other several means. So can you marry a broad?
Definitely I can and like you said there’s no straight answer so how will you know you are not marrying a broad? Unless she’s a vaginal Virgin then the next question is how will you know she really loves your sex style after you deflowered her?
How will you stop her from getting hit by other men? Remember you won’t be with her 24/7 grin
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Myhusband(m): 6:11pm On Oct 24, 2021
op you're entitled to your gibberish meanwhile anyone bearing jnr are naturally dumb so I'm not surprise



men like me will not pay bride price of a non virgin lady, you can only be a baby mama Godforbid though



I will not marry any Lady with her rubbish past of many abortions and taking many dicks

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
@op,stop giving them false hope

grin grin grin

Op is a....

disguising as a man lol

Continue

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by ifyy07(m): 6:12pm On Oct 24, 2021
sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

If you are a man your head no correct all

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by crafteck(m): 6:12pm On Oct 24, 2021
Lol... Weyre don turn to lace, holes all over.... Multiple socket without surge protector grin

Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Oct 24, 2021
justscorchone:


I never wan touch her even though she dey offer, I wan break her down mentally until she go see me as god then I go balance tear rubber, like the chairman that I am.
lol so you want to own her like property? Break her down mentally? How will you know you have done that successfully? How will you know she’s not just playing along because she has seen what you want to do ?

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by MufasaLion: 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2021
AlphaAlex:
Definitely I can and like you said there’s no straight answer so how will you know you are not marrying a broad? Unless she’s a vaginal Virgin then the next question is how will you know she really loves your sex style after you deflowered her?
How will you stop her from getting hit by other men? Remember you won’t be with her 24/7 grin

These questions are not in anyway related to the topic. I don't need to respond.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by bukatyne(f): 6:14pm On Oct 24, 2021
Romanoff:
Body count means everything for both genders.

Not everyone wants a public toilet that everyone has used.

My sister

Aka ajeku of Lagos.

It says the importance people attach to it

If they see sex as a spiritual activity and believe in bonding and soul ties, then they know that the amount of sexual partners matter.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Oct 24, 2021
justscorchone:


I never wan touch her even though she dey offer, I wan break her down mentally until she go see me as god then I go balance tear rubber, like the chairman that I am.give her belly straight before she go reason trying another prick,and before the toto go heal again I go sama her another belly. Until the thought of sex go comot her mind.
lol after she born the last one wetin you go come do? Sama another one? You think she’s not going to still be a woman after birthing 10 babies? You think she won’t have sexual desires and things and people she finds sexually attractive after all the kids?

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by OnMyBiz: 6:15pm On Oct 24, 2021
This one is here to form woke.

She looks like a lady who has been dump multiple times for same reason, because the tears seems personal.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
you cant eat your cake and have it ,thats how the world works, sorry

leave them, people think the laws of man started in 21st century. They are the ones that will hit 40 and the only options before them are side chick, sperm donor or die alone.

For any young women reading this please note. In your 20s you are in your prime, that is when you are most appealing(when I say appealing i dont mean beauty, I mean potential to raise a family) ......have fun but dont waste it if you plan to have a family because by the time you hit your 30s, your options start to narrow, you are not at appealing as you were at 20 even if you are more beautiful because you have more money to spend on yourself, at 35 you become drastically less apealling, no matter how fine or successful you are, at 35 a man is looking at you thinking how many children can I get out of this one, at 40 you havealmost zero appeal...almost no one considers you to raise a family, those around you have written you off but they wont say it to your face!!!!!! so make hay while the sun shines and dont let irresponsible love doctors tell you you are special or you can be anything you want, or you can have it all...it's all a lie!!!!!

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Oct 24, 2021
MufasaLion:


These questions are not in anyway related to the topic. I don't need to respond.
lol okay
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by 0taPiaPia(m): 6:16pm On Oct 24, 2021
Tickles001:
Here we go again.

Maturity, respect, not necessary, doesn't matter, past, doesn't owe you

These are the words you hear when it actually does matter, but they want you to believe otherwise.

If you don't want to answer, simply decline like a sensible person:

Guy: So, what's your body count like?

Girl: I really don't want to tell you, but you can be rest assured am as good as new.

This is far better than trying to make a huge case out of a simple question. undecided undecided

There's nothing wrong with letting your partner know about your past, if they want to know.

Chairman I wouldn't ask for body count except she tells me. The ones I have heard so far has been giving me nightmares.....
**** Some truth are better left untold*****
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by DrayZee: 6:16pm On Oct 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Tooorrr.

Hmmmm.

**gulps uncomfortably**

I’d like to know your opinion on this...if you have one.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 24, 2021
Firefox01:
You will know your entire writeup is trash when even ladies are avoiding the thread and the few that commented are not even agreeing with you. Sir, your foolishness is stunning and it's on your head they'll break the coconut of bringing home bastards las las.
The guy is dating one nairaland feminist in the name drfunmisticglow formerly funmisticqueen. I'm not surprised he's just regurgitating all what that one told him.

She is the husband in the relationship. You wonder the kind of daughters this one will raise.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by delzbaba(m): 6:16pm On Oct 24, 2021
Olosho sayings.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by MrCover: 6:17pm On Oct 24, 2021
There Is Nothing Way MR COVER, No Go See Inside Blogging Business.
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Hamiltonii: 6:17pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:
Only men who objectify women shame them for having multiple sexual partners. It also stems from a place of insecurity, where they believe it’s harder to please a girl who has had multiple sexual partners. Whatever makes sense to them I guess.

Many sexual partners mean larger hole!
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Kajaard: 6:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
kokanepyramid:

The guy is dating one nairaland feminist in the name funmisticglow formerly funmisticqueen. I'm not surprised he's just regurgitating all what that one told him.

She is the husband in the relationship.

Hahhahhahahahhah, no wonder cheesy

That lady that looks like a gargoyle cheesy

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by cococandy(f): 6:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
MJBOLT:
if you want to date or get married to hoes, please do undecided as for the rest of us,we won't and we will shame them to hell.

You deserve the kind of person you are.
Now is that a blessing or curse? wink

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Smartb0y: 6:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
perambulator:


leave them, people think the laws of man started in 21st century. They are the ones that will hit 40 and the only options before them are side chick, sperm donor or die alone.
they're pragmatic creatures,they never take advice.
if they dont practice it,they never learn
Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Excel3298: 6:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
That people see sex as an ordinary things still baffles me. Sex is spiritual. You aquire everything in whom you're bodily engaged with-both good and bad.

So, if someone had slept with whatever num of people and has acquired different demons from them.....

I should not bother, right? It will no longer matter if he/she has genuinely giving him/her self to christ and purged of her sins.

May our spiritual understanding be opened.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by Ayinke93(f): 6:18pm On Oct 24, 2021
Drella:


There is a high probability that lady A will hold on to you.The spirit of loyalty in her will make her stick to you alone as it is not in her nature to cheat.
There is a high probability that lady B won't stop her body count when with you.After making you 101,the spirit of multiple sexual partners in her will make her go on to have 102,103,104......n.

NB:By spirit,I mean a driving force that propels one to action.More like a catalyst.
Say na catalyst grin grin. Let’s starts from you checking out the meaning of the world catalyst and asking yourself if it applies to the context in which you used it.
You people are so dull and you won’t save yourselves the disgrace by staying off social media with your archaic views. Nobody even bothers to ask about a man’s body count and you people still die in churches trying to get them to marry you, but somehow, a woman’s loyalty is tied to the number of people she has slept with. Fucking dullards.

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by hollamanng(m): 6:19pm On Oct 24, 2021
I can say it with my full chest that majority of men will rather marry a DRUG ADDICT or ACOHOLIC to a CUM BUCKET

BODY COUNT is not a priority to any woman as long as he is sexually active

You can call my FATHER a WOMANISER, I will laugh it off.
You dare not say 'your mom too like man' I will remove your teeth.

Stop giving these heux faux hope

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by aariwa(m): 6:19pm On Oct 24, 2021
MadeMan01:


Your article would have made sense if women were proud to publicly proclaim their NUMBER of sexual partners the same way men are. Even prostitutes are not proud of it, thus when they leave the district of their trade, they go where they are unknown to more or less start afresh. Women with multiple body counts have tendency to wander in marriage. I know how many girls in my past, now married who have reached out to me that they aren't happy- and was I glad, I didn't settle with them. A woman is born with value from womb, and all her life strives to maintain it. Men are born worthless and must make a life for themselves.
Apt

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Re: Body Count Means Nothing. Her Body, Her Choice Respect It. by crafteck(m): 6:20pm On Oct 24, 2021
ifyy07:


If you are a man your head no correct all
i swear, how person seat write all that

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