JewelJohn:
She might not be lying as such disease can be contracted through the use of public toilet.

Buy two get one free.

You can't get this kind of disease from toilet.

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

Sorry oh, how did you “find out”?

Peaceadebu:
She could also contact it from Toilet.
The possibility is high too so don't just conclude that she is an Oloshe

This can't be gotten from toilet.

This question pass Nairaland, you need to summon your church pastors

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

Don't be a learner. Gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. All the best of your Journey mate

From your write-up, it is explicit that she never told you she was a virgin. She only said she won't have sex with you until marriage. And unfortunately, it seemed you never cared to asked if she was a virgin, because of presumptuousness. As such, guess who's fault it is. It is your fault . Oga that disease can tarry in a woman's body for long without any sign. Therefore, you can't just conclude that she was having sex randomly. My advice is that treat yourself and her and continue your happy marriage. God be una strength.

Smartb0y:
Hahaha women!!!
@op,she gave you gonorrhea as your wedding gift

This is hilarious...

Una dey talk here o

dgitrader:
Stupid thread! Such STD can't manifest in 3 days. Lies

The story may not be true but such STD can manifest within 3 days…

Are you sure it's only gonorrhea she gave you?
I advise you go to the lab and runs comprehensive test first. The result will determine if the matter can be discussed here or you take it to the village square!

Mumu man.

Baba even use his phone number as moniker.

Bloody simp!

MufasaLion:


If that man should forgive her it means he's really forgiving. I don't forgive.

Exactly...Marriage built on lies and seriously deceit won't last.

He can never trust the woman..Worst thing that can happen to couples, lack of trust at this early stage.

I rather she is open from day1... no need telling lies that will be open later.

Munzy14:
This is hilarious...
Una dey talk here o

hahaha thanks

Munzy14:

Exactly...Marriage built on lies and seriously deceit won't last.

He can never trust the woman..Worst thing that can happen to couples, lack of trust at this early stage.

I rather she is open from day1... no need telling lies that will be open later.

That marriage thing is tricky and women are so deceitful more than men.

U can receive millions of advices and comments but d choice is certainly urs to decide. "Na who wear shoe know wear dy inch am" meaning that if only u can man up urself and quitely listen to your heart and embrace it as ur fate. Good luck bro.

Someone rightly pointed out here that Nigerian girls fear pregnancy more than STDs which is true..

Look at this innocent poster married to an unfaithful and loose woman thinking he found a good thing.. I'm sure she slept around with guys without using protection just like we saw Tiwa Savage doing it raw with a random guy.

@OP why didn't you go for tests including STIs before you tied the knot with your wife? what kind of silly mistake is that? Now you have gonorrhea that can affect your fertility if not properly treated.

UTI can disguise as Gono or Chlamydia.

I will advise you go for proper test in a good hospital first before jumping into conclusion.

If it turns out to be Gono... You have to let her know and put her offense in her face but u must be willing to forgive and handle with care to avoid cracks in your marriage...

MufasaLion:


That marriage thing is tricky and women are so deceitful more than men.

In everything you do with woman, keep it straight forward...so if mess up comes, you can tackle it without sentiments and mercy.

If OP is straightforward, any action he takes, won't affect his conscience.

That's because you do contributing matters to agreement with.know a shrinkage my son

Munzy14:


In everything you do with woman, keep it straight forward...so if mess up comes, you can tackle it without sentiments and mercy.

If OP is straightforward, any action he takes, won't affect his conscience.

I do see people that gets married as a very high risk takers.

mediclife1987:
The ashawo I carry yesterday just piss for bed.

Come see as pesin dey swim for inside piss this morning.

Shayo naa bastard I swear.

She suck my prick outside for 2am come dey jump on top am. Na so me sef stand from chair, bend her down wellwell cone faya am wellwell from back.

Lmao.. Ashawo faya faya...

Keep fayaring you will soon create your own thread..

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

Sir, I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Sit her down to ask her about her sexual history. With this foundation of lies, I hope she would tell the truth because human beings are just too deceitful.
And marriage is for life.....

1. If you are a Christian, know that God hates divorce. This is it. You have entered and it is till death do you part
2. Have a heart to heart talk. Forgive her for lying to you.
3. Take her to hospital and do several tests for stds including gonorrhoea.
4. Start doing fertility tests and to check her Fallopian tubes and womb to know if she is actually fertile. Also check yours too. This will help you know what you have entered.
5. Pray to God not to have bitterness of heart.


Please to all intending couples, do not blindly trust people. Even Jesus trusted no man because he knew the heart of men.
No matter how beautiful or handsome, rich or poor, it would mean nothing when you know you have been deceived.
Even God has not forgiven Lucifer since.

How did this pharmacist diagnose you with just looking at you?

Where did your wife say she is a virgin?

MufasaLion:


I do see people that gets married as a very high risk takers.

It is not, when you are with the right person, everyday seems to be a vacation.

If this story is true, OP is with the wrong person..And thats y you see things like this on news..

If she was honest, things like this won't come up.

If I never see a lady whose bride price was paid on Saturday, and she still dey go dey bleep school bf on monday..Like babe finish me and enjoy everything as someone else has paid for wholesale.., I for no belief somethings i read..E dey happen..

As for my future wife, we go dey hold body even before, and after wedding ceremony..
If choose and love up, I don love up...I no dey like rough play..

A babe is not my girl friend if we are not romantically in love...Abeg na mental and physical connection i subscribed to...I no kill person.

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

Whether the story is framed up or not, it happens and still happening.
Sometimes people can do anything to get what they want, people are wicked. Lying into marriages is evil because the unborn children and the husband will suffer.

09085607453king:
I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married

Did she tell you she was still a virgin?

Munzy14:

It is not, when you are with the right person, everyday seems to be a vacation.

If this story is true, OP is with the wrong person..And thats y you see things like this on news..

If she was honest, things like this won't come up.

If I never see a lady whose bride price was paid on Saturday, and she still dey go dey bleep school bf on monday..Like babe finish me and enjoy everything as someone else has paid for wholesale.., I for no belief somethings i read..E dey happen..

As for my future wife, we go dey hold body even before, and after wedding ceremony..
If choose and love up, I don love up...I no dey like rough play..

A babe is not my girl friend if we are not romantically in love...Abeg na mental and physical connection i subscribed to...I no kill person.

It's still a risk irrespective of whatever.

MufasaLion:


If that man should forgive her it means he's really forgiving. I don't forgive.

My kinda guy

You are just so dumb dude, WHEN YOU HAD SEX WITH HER FOR THE FIRST TIME WAS THERE BLOOD? AND WAS THE CUCHY TIGHT AS Bleep? YOU ARE NOT A KID AND YOU OUGHT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, AND BY USING YOUR HANDS TO SPREAD THE CUSHY CHECK THE HYMEN BEFORE PENETRATION COULD LET YOU TELL IF SHE IS A VIRGIN OR NOT BEFORE PENETRATION BEFORE COMING HERE RUNNING YOUR MOUTH LIKE A TAP ACCUSING AN INNOCENT GIRL WRONGLY WHO COULD ACTUALLY BE A VIGIN, BECAURE A VIRGIN WHO USES A PUBLIC TOILET CAN CONTACT INFECTION TOO EVEN WITHOUT HAVING SEX! AM A GUY SAYING THIS

Pharaoh4rin:


My kinda guy

princewarri1985:
You are just so dumb dude, WHEN YOU HAD SEX WITH HER FOR THE FIRST TIME WAS THERE BLOOD? AND WAS THE CUCHY TIGHT AS Bleep? YOU ARE NOT A KID AND YOU OUGHT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, AND BY USING YOUR HANDS TO SPREAD THE CUSHY CHECK THE HYMEN BEFORE PENETRATION COULD LET YOU TELL IF SHE IS A VIRGIN OR NOT BEFORE PENETRATION BEFORE COMING HERE RUNNING YOUR MOUTH LIKE A TAP ACCUSING AN INNOCENT GIRL WRONGLY WHO COULD ACTUALLY BE A VIGIN, BECAURE A VIRGIN WHO USES A PUBLIC TOILET CAN CONTACT INFECTION TOO EVEN WITHOUT HAVING SEX! AM A GUY SAYING THIS

Not all virgins bleed. Not all virgins still have hymen before their first sex. Gonorrhea can't be contracted from the toilet.

Get learned.