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I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Warrior14: 9:20pm On Oct 24, 2021
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Bola146(f): 9:21pm On Oct 24, 2021
Don't ever risk it,he will never change!!!!!! Na by force ni? Let your parents know now. It's better to be alive single than be dead untimely because of marriage undecided undecided

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Ynix(m): 9:22pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



Cancel the wedding for your life sake. On the day of the wedding travel to a friend's place and stay, or call off the wedding mentioning the area of being beaten. If it is true then you are going into self murder

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Geestarry(f): 9:23pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



Run!!

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Acidosis(m): 9:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
I pity you. You can't stand the shame of calling off a wedding? I hope you will be able to stand the 'shame' and pain of divorce after 3 kids?

All your threads so far on Nairaland are about this same monster that wants to kill you, yet you decided to plan your future with him. What do we call this now? Zero/dead self-esteem? Desperation? Abi na strong d**k wan make you sign your death certificate?

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Sonnobax15(m): 9:27pm On Oct 24, 2021
lipsrsealed
Mennnnnnnn, marriage as a union is something that ought to be enjoyed and not to be endured............ Sometimes,most of una dey reason about wetin the society go talk if una take any action about una lives...But op,you dey fail to reason say anyhow e be,if you fail to succeed for that marriage tomorrow,na the same society go still talk say you see the red flags from the beginning but you still put head.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Gentlerespect76: 9:39pm On Oct 24, 2021
Hieeeh! You are trapped already and you know it; what's remaining is for you to unknot yourself and run if your life is dear to you. Chaaii!!!

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Nobody: 9:39pm On Oct 24, 2021
I can call off a wedding few minutes to it if I feel things are not right.Babe fry shame chop and call off the damn wedding,it's better than been a divorcee.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by BeeBeeOoh(m): 9:40pm On Oct 24, 2021
So he's all these and you still want to walk down the aisle with him? Nawa o!

Why don't you save yourself, the man and both families the stress by calling off the wedding now.

Remember a broken relationship is better that broken marriage.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by kazyhm(m): 9:40pm On Oct 24, 2021
What kind of talk is this ?

I guess the list is your criteria of your preference in men......if not you exhibit same attribute of the man you're about getting married to.


You don't have mind of your own and You're heartless as well

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by kingreign(m): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



Then call it off since you're not yet ready. undecided undecided

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Truvelisback(m): 9:51pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.


Did anyone force u into the marriage? Anyway, Congratulaion! U are getting married to Brock Lesnar.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by TheeDetective: 10:03pm On Oct 24, 2021
Another one who wants to bear the MRS title by all means.

This is your other thread below where you said and I quote; “I can't spend another night with this monster. I don't know how to face people tomorrow about how I come about a swollen face. The sound of my cry begging him not to kill me still echoes in my head.”

https://www.nairaland.com/6409679/domestic-violence-survivor

This is a man that when he was putting his hands on you, you were begging him not to kill you and you still want to go ahead and marry him right?

Did you tell your family members that this fiancé of yours during one of the episodes when he was putting his hands on you; you were begging him not to kill you? Do you want to tell me that your family members will be aware of that and they will still tell you to go ahead and marry him? Go and let your family members know that your life will be in danger if you marry your fiancé and you want to avoid being in any sort of danger.

This thread you have opened now, let your family members come and read your comments so they know that you really don’t want to get married to this man. Only you have the final say on this and NLanders will not be there when the domestic violence starts again if you eventually marry your fiancé. A word is enough for the wise. ENOUGH SAID.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Hathor5(f): 10:03pm On Oct 24, 2021
You need someone to help you call it off before it gets worse. Is there anyone you can ask for help?

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Opeyemic01: 10:22pm On Oct 24, 2021
Congratulations you are among the few people who know the date of their death before death actually comes...how can you see death trap and walk into it all because of what people will say?. If you love your life, call your parent and narrate the issue to them, they will arrange a meeting with the man and his family and call off the death trap (marriage) you are about walking into...your family will prefer you single and alive than married but dead. If you marry him and he beats you to death, the next day he will go and Bleep another woman, a month after, another woman will take your place. This is harsh though but pardon me I don't know how to talk

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:24pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

may i ask: and how long have you dated the above monster you described?!?1

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

my dear, be very careful and also think of your possible FUNERALS in the hands of that violent man.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

would you rather be ashamed and alive OR....

choice is yours!
NIGERIANS!!!! THIS DESPERATION FOR MARRIAGE AT ANY COST NEEDS TO STOP!!!!

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by sisisioge: 10:25pm On Oct 24, 2021
Chai....cc dfrost. Women should just marry anyone offering them the opportunity to become a Mrs....it is well.

OP....you can still say no....you arent married yet.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Graxie(f): 10:28pm On Oct 24, 2021
Nonsense.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Pavore9: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



But I guess you can stand the shame of ending up in a body bag before your time, as you will not be alive for a long time in that marriage and that is a certainty because a man who is still interested in marrying a woman who he beats, is sick in the head while the woman who he beats and still goes ahead to marry him is sicker in the head. angry

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Vikkioshio(f): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2021
Sis of the most high... your sanity & peace of mind should be your priority and if your supposed husband can't add anything good in achieving them, he should get lost. Call off the wedding so your days may be long, people's opinion doesn't count ( the talk go just last for some days & life continues)

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by wunmi590(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2021


As a married man, one of the things I have always prayed for is never to raise my hand to beat the mother of my kid, who go through alot to bear me my kids (never will I do that)...

Please, that marriage is not for you, because marrying him would give him more leverage to beat you more at will, knowing fully well he has paid your bride price...

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by NoToPile: 11:05pm On Oct 24, 2021
Jeez, to think the thread you opened in February where he beat you up and you wantedd to move out was the one I opened first in this section , I checked the date it was February and I didn't bother commenting I just felt she would have left the guy since now, only for me to scroll down and read that you are planning to get married to that same guy.

For all that its worth I beg you please don't marry him, the chances you will regret this marriage is very high.

Don't do what you have written you will do, divorce is not a walk in the park its better you do not marry him please.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Kobojunkie: 11:12pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.
CONGRATULATIONS undecided

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Kobojunkie: 11:13pm On Oct 24, 2021
Gentlerespect76:
Hieeeh! You are trapped already and you know it; what's remaining is for you to unknot yourself and run if your life is dear to you. Chaaii!!!
Trapped by whom? She you say she no wan call the wedding off...so how is she a victim in this? undecided

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Kobojunkie: 11:16pm On Oct 24, 2021
Hathor5:
You need someone to help you call it off before it gets worse. Is there anyone you can ask for help?
Really? Na you go be the person wey she go turn around to blame for ending her 'dream' love affair with a man who is the love of her life? grin

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by obowunmi(m): 11:56pm On Oct 24, 2021
Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.



My dear, better to DIE a married woman than to be alive, healthy and SINGLE.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by socialmediaman: 12:23am On Oct 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Trapped by whom? She you say she no wan call the wedding off...so how is she a victim in this? undecided

Maybe she’s afraid of the man and she doesn’t think she can be protected, especially with the type of society we have. Some women remain in marriages because they’re afraid that if they leave, the man will come after them and still go scot free with the crime, or doesn’t care about the consequences.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by merieam16(f): 12:23am On Oct 25, 2021
Just know that if anything happens to you in future nd u die, u will go to hell cos u committed suicide

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Kobojunkie: 12:26am On Oct 25, 2021
socialmediaman:

Maybe she’s afraid of the man and she doesn’t think she can be protected, especially with the type of society we have. Some women remain in marriages because they’re afraid that if they leave, the man will come after them and still go scot free with the crime, or doesn’t care about the consequences.
undecided Did you read her OP at all? undecided
Warrior14:
I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.
Shame is her reason for not calling it quits with her alleged Panelbeater of a man! undecided
Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Teleprompter(f): 12:54am On Oct 25, 2021
Don't do it please.

I'm too sleepy to give you all the reasons now.

Well, you may have a baby first and leave as fast as you can. Don't give him your money.

How old are you? You need to have cameras in that house you are moving to. All the best but experience is the best teacher.

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Re: I'm Getting Married But I'm Not Happy by Nobody: 12:58am On Oct 25, 2021
Walk away.

You don't want to find yourself in a body bag, do you?

Walk away while you can.

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