You deserve the beating jarey. You can't stand the shame of calling off the wedding?

So na us u de tell ....can't u leave him alone ..when u de chop him money e de sweet u abi

CALL IT OFF IMMEDIATELY.
BEAR THE SHAME NOW OR BEAR THE LONG LASTING PAIN OF THE MARRIAGE.

I WISH YOU THE BEST IN JESUS' MIGHTY NAME.

So you choose death over shame?

the best thing for you to do is to call off the wedding.
your life is more important than whatever people we say.

it is better to be single and at peace than to be married and going nuts.
physically abusive people do not change.
heartless people do not change.

dont be desperate to marry. if you pity him and marry him,
you will regret it for life.
divorce is not that easy. you will have to leave seperately for a period
before you can start the process which is not a fast one.

that you have been married for a day does not make a difference, you are already a divorcee.

marriage is too tough as it is to now go into it with a heartless person.

my 2 cents

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I beg you in the name of God call it off, you will regreat this with all the sign, or pretend to be sick, and stay in the hospital, do not appear on that day.

Most men will run away from a divource e, even if you spend one day in the marriage, but you can tell them you call off the marriage days to it, after receiving beating of your life, I will not advice you to go ahead

Please my sister it is not worth it, telling you from experience, any man that can hit, you will hit you over and over gain, they do not change, aside hitting it is obvious he does not love you



Please run run run now .






I beg you cancel it now.






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uote author=Warrior14 post=107031934]I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.


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Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

travel tomorrow morning and off your phone.

If i should be real to u, sister quit while u still have the chance to, cos marriage is a life time contract and in my own religion it will be regarded as a sin for anyone to divorce except in the case of infidelity. U need Jesus Christ cos he's the only one i know can solve every puzzle and nothing is impossible that he can't do. Shalom

TheGift:
"Sweet side" indeed. Sweet side of someone that has beaten Her twice before marrying Her? Surely you can't be serious.

This is the kind of thinking that makes people stay in abusive relationships. You now want Her to downplay something that is sure to make Her miserable based on something that once made Her happy?

Have u confirmed if it is as explained or half truth?

She is an adult, she knew before accepting his marriage proposal , have u bothered asking what made her accept him in the first place or haven’t u seen situations where women destroy things in the house at any slight or look for how to harm the other person and the lady gets beat in self defense or while destroying stuff or you think a lady would come here owning to her own faults?

Na wa oh.

Please stop paying attention to her nor waste your energy commenting. She has never any good image of him yet she's planning a wedding with him. She's a clout chaser seeking for attention, show her none

Then your stupidity continues

Acidosis:
I pity you. You can't stand the shame of calling off a wedding? I hope you will be able to stand the 'shame' and pain of divorce after 3 kids?

All your threads so far on Nairaland are about this same monster that wants to kill you, yet you decided to plan your future with him. What do we call this now? Zero/dead self-esteem? Desperation? Abi na strong d**k wan make you sign your death certificate?

Sorta confirms the women like staying in an abusive relationship thing from the previous thread.

ONE WORD OF ADVICE: RUN!
TWO WORDS: CHOOSE HAPPINESS!
THREE WORDS: CALL IT OFF!
FOUR WORDS: CALL IT OFF NOW!

FIVE WORDS: DON'T GO AND DIE SILENTLY!
SIX WORDS: NOTHING IS WORTH YOUR SANITY!
SEVEN WORDS: A MUCH BETTER SPOUSE WILL COME SOON!

princewarri1985:
Marriage is like a contract now and if he non work, everybody pack their things and go! FOR BETTER TO STAY AND FOR WORST TO GO

Marriage has always been a contract , an sort of business agreement between a man and women. You are the one who is just now catching up to this fact.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

You need to see a psychiatrist. I think you love him beating you so people can tell you sorry. You love him beating you so you can come to Nairaland and write sob stories and have people commenting and giving advice. You love the attention. Or he is rich and you have not found a better rich maga. Since you love marriage so much and you are prepared to suffer for it, please go ahead.

Hello poster, follow this man on Instagram, listen to all his programs, I'm very sure you will be able to make your decision after it. (Gnosis_help). Thank me later.

My friend please, in the name of God a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. Run for your life. You have not even gotten married to him and he has beaten you! Think about what he will do more if you ever think of settling down with him.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

you no just get sense. You shower wear cloth dey Waka go jump enter lagoon . Inferiority complex will kill you soon. Call off that marriage you zombie. You want to be sad all your live. Tufiakwa

Marry, Pray and eventually be comatose or Die
We will empathize with you

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

I will be brutal; you prefer to die than to be alive in "shame" of a called-off marriage? RIP in advance

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Its better to stand the shame of cancelling it and be alive and have hope of true and compatible love than to continue and depression will lead to other diseases that will later kill you.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Seek Professional help. If you need help getting one, quote this post in your response to me.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Better call off the marriage than lose your life tomorrow.
We don't marry out of statement.

Just take a look at the whole red flags. Why not call this quit babygirl,just for one reason. That's not the life u have wished and prayed for,u don't need to dent yourself with this mess that you are even lucky to be seeing ahead of u. Thank God u feel this way,so that you will have no one to blame when things begins to get messy. You can't afford to be considering what families and friends will say if u call it off,they won't be there to help u with the perpetual humiliation,abuse,demonition etc when it starts coming, mind you,they must definitely come in a larger scale when he has finally married and taken you to his home. Prevention they say,is better than cure. Am sure you do know you deserve better, don't think otherwise. May God help and strengthen u,amen.
#WECAN

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

Please call your parents and your siblings, share your experience with them.

Oh

I wish I could talk to you privately. The truth is you should end it now. Reach out to me and I can guild you. I know why how you feel about the embarrassment, it is not easy but it has to end, reach out if you want someone to guild you through the situation. I am not a pastor, I am a married man with a clear understanding of life and marriage


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