sirjamesjnr:
. I don't care if you are a toddler. If you are tired of your miserable life, go work it out with your deadbeat parents.

that's all you have for defense? deadbeat parents? lol define deadbeat parents to me I think I'm missing something... chai who dey do you see you do well well, the don really get you for this life, e no fit better for you again lol, you still dey follow olosho upandan haha

sirjamesjnr:
. Her actions, her choice respect it.

Why then did you all criticize Tega?

NLPoliceWoman:

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique

you go die on top my matter dey follow me like fly you go soon enter suya fire

johnkey:
fool my dad married my mom a virgin, 4 kids and they are still together, not one day of fight in that house, never seen him drink alcohol...he's definitely better than your useless father that trianed you to be bringing whores with 100+ body counts home lol. from this your useless thread we can conclude that your boyfriend drfunministicglow has a body count that had reached 200 lol you are here displaying stupidity just to get pussy that over 200 guys have rubbished.... imagine the kind of family you will come from lol dysfunctional family

I can understand that kind of family. Apple fruits is not far from the tree.

sirjamesjnr:
I can understand that kind of family. Apple fruits is not far from the tree.

abi na, your mom is a LovePeddler with millions body count that's why you can comfortable accept such since your dad did.... be opening your yansh yourself, GOAT of idiots

saasala:


Bro, I 100% percent subscribe to your line of thought but the people on this forum (Majority of whom are below the age of 30) will call for your head because they don't have enough life's experience to decipher your write up. If care is not taken, they will change you and convert you to their own way of thinking.

I can tell you by the OP. After she has had her 100 cocks by 15, he is not getting sex from his wife.
If she doesn't have time to talk to him.. that means they are not fucking and she probably has no desire to have kids. YET!

He is there because she is a doctor $$$ and she needs a man that will not cheat (A BETA MALE)

I bet she didn't even take his last name and still using her name because she is a doctor lol

When she is not fucking him any more he will cheat. Just watch..

so if you 100% agree it just means you have no balls and fearful of your relationship.

Lilsameey:
,..Ehen naw, Guys wey don smoke Colo, use trams and codeine. Them dey always Bleep like animal and based on sey Dem pay the babe money, they must Bleep dat money comot for your body.

Now I understand

johnkey:
abi na, your mom is a LovePeddler with millions body count that's why you can comfortable accept such since your dad did.... be opening your yansh yourself, the GOAT of idiots

. You’re a grey sprinkle in this world. I won't stoop low to give you a few minutes of fame. I have done that already. Save yourself from too much hate and do the needful. The world doesn't need too many idiots. Have a great day in your miserable life.

sirjamesjnr:
. You’re a grey sprinkle in this world. I won't stoop low to give you a few minutes of fame. I have done that already. Save yourself from too much hate and do the needful. The world doesn't need too many idiots. Have a great day in your miserable life.

see this idiot with stinking hypocrisy, you were the one that first brought parents into the banter but you're here saying you won't stoop so low lol, how low could you go... see your miserable life outside? who needs fame on a faceless forum lol use your brain for once you woke fool...just because of fumni pussy see as you dey shame yourself for nairaland, you wey don dey get small rep before but worshipping pussy took all that away, I feel your pain goat. fück off, go and die and rest in peace, or pieces I don't care

sometimes when you see news dangote trusk crush people to death it's not all of them you should be pitying, imagine this oponu op sirjamesjnr, tell me he doesn't deserve to be crushed to death by dangote truck alongside that his boyfriend that fuels his stupidity.

johnkey:
are you minding the idiot, he thinks he's special because he's dating one idiot nairaland feminist,asslicking her on every thread. he doesn't know he is as inconsequential as the p in psychology

feminist? bitch should get some dildos.

NLPoliceWoman:
Really, on this forum? You think you can just insult and abuse members as you like? No, there are rules here.
Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique. Rule 2

you deserve all the insults in the world and more

sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.

That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.

If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.

My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:

1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.

2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.

To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.

Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

The irony is that all these men slut shaming those women are actually contributing to the problem.

They are the same ones that will not agree to date a woman who won't have sex with them. They are the same ones who won't wait until marriage to have sex with her. They are the same ones who will spend money to spend a night with a prostitute. And the list goes on and on

The double standard is unbelievable. You wouldn't even want to know what their body count is because of how high it is but they feel entitled enough to shame the same women who sleep with them for not being virgins

Those men are pathetic. I always say this. Women who stay away from men who shame women for body count are much better off than the unlucky virgins who will end up with those men. Very pathetic

Oyin2212:
A hoe will always be a hoe

That statement is gender neutral

bepositive11:


That statement is gender neutral

Obviously

bepositive11:


The irony is that all these men slut-shaming those women are contributing to the problem.

They are the same ones that will not agree to date a woman who won't have sex with them. They are the same ones who won't wait until marriage to have sex with her. They are the same ones who will spend money to spend a night with a prostitute. And the list goes on and on

The double standard is unbelievable. You wouldn't even want to know what their body count is because of how high it is but they feel entitled enough to shame the same women who sleep with them for not being virgins

Those men are pathetic. I always say this. Women who stay away from men who shame women for body count are much better off than the unlucky virgins who will end up with those men. Very pathetic

. If you don't reason like them, they call you simp. They have been taught to be a hypocrite, brainwashed by their religious beliefs. So simple logic over emotions is way above them. Why should I slut-shame females and will still break the bank to wife? Is there a sense in it? Allow women to make choices for themselves and own up to the consequences of their actions is so difficult for these low life. The time I will use to add knowledge to my brain is the same time I am concerned with what a lady does with her body. No, I refuse to be a fool.

Acidosis:
Of course, women can do with their body whatever they want but you're not in the right place to tell any man to ignore a woman's past or refuse to ask questions regarding her sexuality.

Going about slut shaming women on the internet is senseless (a responsible adult wouldn't do such) but whatever you decide to ask that one woman or man you want to spend your life with can never be wrong!

Phew. What a breath of fresh air.

johnkey:
fool I come from one of the happiest home so keep dreaming. I've banged over 200 unilag girls, over 300 in ospoly, countless from the streets,malls, clubs... I'm a rich Yahoo boy with a classy ride what do you expect? you can go and hug transformer if it pains you, the idiot had to write such stupid long epistle just to get sex from that idiot that you call queen... on your wedding day there will be a special canopy for her exes that has used her like sanitary pad, since body count don't matter to you ode.... you are the most stupid person on nairaland

Pity the guy now

He doesn't know what's happening in the streets.

He's a pussy whipped low iq beta male, and an alpha will still snatch his girlfriend .

The sad part is that he thinks he's right lol.

sirjamesjnr:
. If you don't reason like them, they call you simp. They have been taught to be a hypocrite, brainwashed by their religious beliefs. So simple logic over emotions is way above them. Why should I slut-shame females and will still break the bank to wife? Is there a sense in it? Allow women to make choices for themselves and own up to the consequences of their actions is so difficult for these low life. The time I will use to add knowledge to my brain is the same time I am concerned with what a lady does with her body. No, I refuse to be a fool.

Don't mind them. Keep standing your ground

What they won't tell you is that deep down they feel very insecure. They have low self esteem. They're worried that she will compare them to her previous partners and they won't be able to measure up

A man with healthy self esteem believes in himself, knowing that he can learn how to please his woman better than any other man. But these men with low self esteem don't believe that they can do better, so instead of admitting that they feel insecure, they cover up by shaming women instead

A lot of men have low self esteem so it's no surprise that a lot of men continue to shame women for having sex before marriage. Non virgins may feel bad about the shaming, but they don't realize that they've dodged a bullet by repelling those insecure men

At the end of the day, I believe insecure men and women attract each other. These men will attract women who equate their value and worth as a woman to their virginity. It's a recipe for disaster

Theoutsider:


I can tell you by the OP. After she has had her 100 cocks by 15, he is not getting sex from his wife.
If she doesn't have time to talk to him.. that means they are not fucking and she probably has no desire to have kids. YET!

He is there because she is a doctor $$$ and she needs a man that will not cheat (A BETA MALE)

I bet she didn't even take his last name and still using her name because she is a doctor lol

When she is not fucking him any more he will cheat. Just watch..

so if you 100% agree it just means you have no balls and fearful of your relationship.

Getout!

Magnoliaa:


Phew. What a breath of fresh air.

Magnoliaa

Acidosis:


Magnoliaa

Bros Acid.

johnkey:
yen yen yen... aunty wey mumu I've slept with over 500 girls in this life and still counting, I've disvirgined 5,the recent one just last week... but I will never marry a girl who is not a virgin, and before you think with your asshole, not all of us craves marriage, infact I'm against the idea of marriage but for my mama sake I fit marry virgin... if I no see virgin I go for babymama, you can argue with your keyboard.

Your life... Your choice.... You can go for or virgin in your village but definitely not a white or Westerner....

Make sure u agree with who go be your baby mama so that curse no go follow u

johnkey:
who cares? shove your opinion deep down your wide asshole.

Oga redpill neither do I care....My own be say ' pot should not call kettle black'
This is what men like u tried to make Jesus label the woman in the Bible as an adulteress... But Messiah not being a man told any of the men who had NO sin to be the first to cast a stone...

Jesus go dey laugh for him belle say, see this idiot men wen I dey see dey branch brothels in their localities ( which many of una still dey do) and still have the effrontery to call innocent women who no do half of una crimes a sinner....

I tell u, more women go enter heaven than u men since you don't even believe u are going against God's will unlike women that will sin small and be confessing even the one dem no ask her...

Unless men are NON LIVING THINGS before I go agree dey no get body counts( lol).

Magnoliaa:


Bros Acid.