Magnoliaa:
I like how you are being blasted here. Especially from the guys. I don't understand your issue.

Person come down for you say make you sit down, you dey vex. And you're still relating it to her being married.

Is the other passenger a lady? If it was a man, aside the fact that she may love window seats - what if she was uncomfortable sitting between men??

He has every right to be vexed, what if he is also uncomfortable with sitting in the middle, So he should have done what he might not like just cause some lady without courtesy couldn't do the right thing.

Vyzz:
The girl Don choose that side already na...


If na man kwa, he go do same thing

Some people are quick to attribute one action to gender. I had to read the post again to see where the woman goofed, maybe I missed something. I think op get small skushi for head. Even in a flight, I choose seats. They'll tell you no more window seats, you settle for whatever is left.

@ mannatech, you are the one with fault here. Go and learn how to be civil in public places.

EmzyT:
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Thanks for taking your time to type this rubbish, but it doesn't still make any sense

Life is kinda hard for the mentally challenged

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

surpose its a train or bus where one purchases ticket and seat numbered... would you have left your space for someone else?.

Danjikanbauchi:
no mind the stupid op. Na for woman side he wan show entitlement. Why not go to the man side and ask him to shift inside. He will just use slap reset your brain.

I wish na me he try this I for pull his teeth give am for hand.

Lol..
Kai, baba, you wicked o

Biglittlelois:
Op is scared of facing his fellow man at the other side cos he is a man, seeing that a female is at the other end and easy to bully into submission, he faced her,

Imagine his shock that she stood up for her right, as in the shock is too much to for him he had to belittle her with the married woman tag.

And Op, dumbfounded beyond words that no one sided him there, took it upon himself to bring it to the resident male romancelanders thinking he they will as usual, always support their gender no matter who is at fault, has been made speechless beyond measures so far with the comments above

But fret not Op, some will soon come here to support you by making it a female gender thing, so hold on a bit, the tunnel isn't dark all through, there is a fickle of light at the end, keep your hopes up

Lol... Abeg, stop dey talk as if we nairaland males no get sense. We get sense and empathy. Na naija condition dey make am be as if we dey wicked.

But not so dear. If we fight with you females small, we go become friends small too. Na so life parole be

As for the OP, na ordinary trouble maker who specializes in making a mountain out of a mole hill.

mannatech:

Courtesy demands that you explain to the person while you want to seat by the window.
No be my papa car wey I wan draw seat on top.
Plus here in Abuja, na one chance Mo be that

Well, your point register well.

Nah this part for me you serious abt courtesy demand to explain why a passenger would like to seat by the window side she occupied bfr you like I don’t get it man.

dannyrhymes600:
That's how I was coming from lectures 2 years ago, when a bike with one passenger on it stopped to carry me. I expected the man
(passenger) to shift so I can sit behind him, but her refused and started shouting like a boar undergoing castration without sedation. He said if I can't sit in the middle, he'll pay for my space and go alone, I said fine they should go. I boarded another bike few minutes later. when we got to one round about, the shouting man and the bike man were already involved in a fatal accident. I was surprised and shocked at the same time.

Op at times ehn, just leave some people with their problems, you never can tell what they just saved you from. Like my pops will say, when you are on the road, believe you are the only one normal.

Hmmmn.... You are right bro.
This story of yours made me remember what my dad told me some time ago. It happened in the early 90's, more than 25 years ago.

A friend of his wanted to travel and got to the Park. The vehicle was a Peugeot 504 station wagon. And he got a seat beside the driver at the front.

Now, a lady came by and there was only a seat space remaining at the rear back (the wagon is three rows). The lady complained that she can't seat there and said she would've preferred the front seat.

In order not to waste time, and out of good will, this man (my dad's friend) got up from the front seat and offered to seat at that space at the back so that the lady can occupy his space beside the driver.

With happiness the lady jumped at the offer. The journey began. And on the way they had an accident.

Did you know that everyone died in that accident except my dad's friend? The driver, the lady and the rest of the passengers passed on, while my dad's friend got spared but not without an injury.

With his escape, he still had fracture in one of his arms and he got POP and bandage in that arm before he recuperated.

Boss, things dey happen for dis life.

dannyrhymes600:

Life is kinda hard for the mentally challenged

Just like your mentally deranged Gp
Fool trying to link major Coincidence to his mere superstitous belief...

Blockheaded Pig

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

You no get Sense for public

And

You no get sense online.

Egocentric…. You’ve annoyed me this morning.

Tolerate nonsense my foot. She is the one that tolerated your stupidity.

Just because she is a woman.

Na you first her enter car?
Must a man stay at the door side?
Etc.


I pity any woman/girl around you. Your hate is too much

So Na man dey keep woman for house for your mind?

Even so you must treat her like a dog??


You are a typical disgrace to men, manhood and humanity.



No go hustle buy your own car

Dey there dey fight window side for kabu kabu with someone wet don see life pass you

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

I'm trying to understand the reason you got upset. Was it because she didn't give up her spot for you?

If that's the case, then you lack manners. Some people, myself included, sit next to the door for safety precautions in case an accident happens. Sitting near the door helps the person get out quickly.

If you wanted that spot, nothing stops you from asking politely instead of acting as if the lady committed a crime. Lord knows I would have ignored the hell out of you for acting so uncouth.

Born2winKingOG:

i fit tell you when to talk because me and you nor be the same.

* i get prick, na toto you get

* i dey stand to piss, you dey bend down to piss (if you try stand, na your body go smell)

*i dey hustle since to survive, you dey your mama house dey wait for a simp nigga to sub you.

* on my way to the gym, you on your way to give blowjobs for some cash.



so many reasons, I can tell you when to talk and when not to.




so I nor go tell you again, I noe won see your post for this thread again. (sit down there jejely dey observe)

You are a fool and a big disgrace

Mennnnn what wrong with some guys.

Taxi wey you go dey for how long, you use am go waist spit

Oga op, the said lady has actually not done anything wrong o! Even me no dey sit-down for middle, if middle is the only seat available, I'll go enter the next vehicle. So i dont k ow why u are fuming plus the car is not ur car and u were the last passenger to come! Were u expecting to be treated like the owner when u are just a passenger?

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

She is right, she is not a baby, next time get to the park very early to sit by the door. Respect others so that you don't get disrespected. Sitting in the middle is not attached to any gender..respect yourself. ..#genderequality

OP your head is not correct. Better hustle and buy your own car.

incogni2o:
Oga are you the owner of the Car.

Why are you trying to claim right in a Public Space.

Talk less for Naija

Talk less for Lagos

Talkless inside Taxi.

Calm down so that you will reach where you are going with peace of mind.

Trust me, there is an evil spirit assigned to do morning duty to cause commotion during morning commute.

Let your destination be your focus, Not trivial public nonsense

I tire oo some people and thier stupid.mentality

Even without hearing from her side, OP u are still at fault here. I don't know what you expect from us to say. She came before you and already took a position before you came. All that is left for you is to occupy the available space na. You get wahala o

Op go like quarrel Sha...

See small everyday matter wey person dey para on top... Na wa o!!!

Even a JJC knows that in Naija if you last enter motor, you no get choice of where to seat... Na anywhere other passengers leave for you, you go manage. Either that, or you look for another vehicle.

Na only 2 Nigerians dey shift for another passenger wey Dem first enter: Angelfrost and the only normal Nigerian left.

Why you no kuku tell the person sitting at the front seat to vacate the front seat for you because you be Buhari son.



Someone came to the park before you, she came down so that you could enter and you are here ranting and beating your chest that you scolded her....

Oga next time take bolt/Uber or just pay for the 3 seats at the back then you can even sleep there to your destination.

You're m.ad

I also love the window seat, as vehicle heat do give me nausea, so I take fresh air intermittently during trips.
Btw, the lady owe you no explanation for choosing a desired seat, if you are not cool with available space, tell the driver or wait for the next vehicle.

Everybody for naija is frustrated
.Try as much as possible to stay out of people's frustration by minding your business

your destination should be your focus not the journey

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Sexiestcrown:

He has every right to be vexed, what if he is also uncomfortable with sitting in the middle, So he should have done what he might not like just cause some lady without courtesy couldn't do the right thing.

Then he should go and buy his own vehicle and sit on the roof.

I can accept that...the one I hate pass nah make woman Siddon for my back on top bike

You could have waited to claim front seat in the next taxi .

incogni2o:
Oga are you the owner of the Car.

Why are you trying to claim right in a Public Space.

Talk less for Naija

Talk less for Lagos

Talkless inside Taxi.

Calm down so that you will reach where you are going with peace of mind.

Trust me, there is an evil spirit assigned to do morning duty to cause commotion during morning commute.

Let your destination be your focus, Not trivial public nonsense

OP is one the NL miscreant that doesn't know where his right start and end

simple i dont enter keke or taxi when i see nigerian girl inside aka (jezebel)

Vanilla4:
If there was room available for you, I'd say take the space. She could be lover of window seats.

We should just all learn how to be tolerate and manage ourselves,you have spoken well

My own as the woman come down na so i tell d driver A DROP

In a public bus you got no right to ask someone to shift from her position so you could take it. When people arrive the garage on time they entitled to pick the spot that seems best to them. You can't come late and then expect them to vacate their position for you.