Originalsly:
Bro... 3 people in the seat ... she came out to allow you to take the seat in the middle. Up to the time of posting... couldn't you figure that out? She remained mute because she expected you to have common sense to figure that out ... but there you were..... demanding an explanation. You brought abuse and disrespect on yourself. Something is not right with you.

I concur the girl excersised self restrain until she was pushed to the Wall.

Zoharariel:


Very funny! I am just here to correct you in case of next time.

“Ka Chi Durun Baban Ka” is wrong. It simply means “Eat your father’s pvssy or Toto”

Duri in Hausa means Pvssy or Toto

While Bura means D-ick.


So, the correct phrase should have been

“Ka Chi Bura Ubanka”

Or

“Ka Chi Duri or Gusun Uwaka (Mother)

You get it?

Thank you for the corrections jare, I'll modify, I was angry when I said that.

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

I begi. Is it your right to sit at the door? She doesn't want wahala, she kept quiet and you are questioning her as if you are the one that brought her to the park. She choose that seat before you got there, so respect that. Which law or morality says she must shift

Spain007:


This issue no carry water bro...

I know. Na me f- up.

Privilege is not knowing that your actions are hurting others and not listening when they tell you.

Sexiestcrown:

He has every right to be vexed, what if he is also uncomfortable with sitting in the middle, So he should have done what he might not like just cause some lady without courtesy couldn't do the right thing.

What happened to waiting for the next taxi or go to the other side of the car where the man is? You should always keep quite if you have nothing to say

kapelvej:
she was already sitting on a spot when you got there, she left the door so that you can go in and sit, and she can then re-sit in her spot. That is how you should look at it . There is no rule that she should shift for you. No rule like that

Intra-city commute, it's not cool to do that especially in Abuja but if it's inter-state, I agree with you 100%.

I guess that’s the only taxi at the park, I see you’re anti -seating down at the middle, she can choose to seat down any where, next time wait for the next turn.

DriverX:
Seniority and claiming right inside bus? Shey your head correct so?

tire oooo

What are you saying self, you want make she shift for you from the window side or what bcs you're a man? You would have politely beg for it, she came first and sat where she want now, or did you pay more than her! Why did people always try to make trouble out of nothing. If you didn't like the position and don't want to beg you would have wait for next loading turn, you get wahalaooooh

Ebonygeek:

I'm trying to understand the reason you got upset. Was it because she didn't give up her spot for you?

If that's the case, then you lack manners. Some people, myself included, sit next to the door for safety precautions in case an accident happens. Sitting near the door helps the person get out quickly.

If you wanted that spot, nothing stops you from asking politely instead of acting as if the lady committed a crime. Lord knows I would have ignored the hell out of you for acting so uncouth.

Lol, I'm hearing this for the first time.

I understand your need for taking precautions and if you have me believe that you still board public transport,what will you do in a scenario where you are sitting by the door close to the curb and another passenger flags down the taxi, will you come down or shift.

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

What if na one chance...

I don't know why some people are comfortable creating nuisance in the public. I dey avoid public embarrassment like mad. I can't stoop so low to arguing with anyone in a taxi. I know how many times I've kept silent even when it was not convenient. I sha know say everyone go reach his/her destination & alight.

@OP, learn to overlook some things to avoid public embarrassment.

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Na your car? She got there before you. She own you no apology.

tolugar:


You no get Sense for public

And

You no get sense online.

Egocentric…. You’ve annoyed me this morning.

Tolerate nonsense my foot. She is the one that tolerated your stupidity.

Just because she is a woman.

Na you first her enter car?
Must a man stay at the door side?
Etc.


I pity any woman/girl around you. Your hate is too much

So Na man dey keep woman for house for your mind?

Even so you must treat her like a dog??


You are a typical disgrace to men, manhood and humanity.



No go hustle buy your own car

Dey there dey fight window side for kabu kabu with someone wet don see life pass you

God bless everyone accordingly and I no go do pass my self.
I dey hustle and when e set for me.

Drivers and passengers are telling you not to retaliate Pls what will you have done when you're very wrong and a trouble maker?

Oyiboman69:
surpose its a train or bus where one purchases ticket and seat numbered... would you have left your space for someone else?.

Lol.
There's a thousand and one reasons why I could.
Think am

This op no get brain. Jobless idiot, Buhari family

placeofallure:


Some people are quick to attribute one action to gender. I had to read the post again to see where the woman goofed, maybe I missed something. I think op get small skushi for head. Even in a flight, I choose seats. They'll tell you no more window seats, you settle for whatever is left.

@ mannatech, you are the one with fault here. Go and learn how to be civil in public places.

I get your point.
I was just provoked but we move

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Oga it is her right to sit anywhere she likes..she won't come out n board a taxi early only for you to make her uncomfortable because you are a man. This is a trivial issue na if the spaces available is not comfortable for you, you can jejely wait for another one shikina. Life is so simple but na we humans dey make am complicated.

The insult no do reach. She for slap u join. You meet person for park wey probably come early so as to get good seat...you con swagger with your left legs dey come con dey say make she shift for u...as of right...as agbero wey u be abi? U need USB code wiping for neck�

SavageResponse:


The lady is not under any obligation to shift to the middle.

By the way why are you even so bothered about sitting near the window for a journey that will last 3 hours at the most, and it's not even your own vehicle!

Actually a 20mins intra-city commute. From lugbe to jabi.

I have nothing against sitting in the middle and for me even if I'm the first at the back and I don't want to end in the middle,I always shift to the extreme end where people hardly board from

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I can see you only read comments and not the original post

Why will I leave my house by 3in the morning when I am going home from the office

dannyrhymes600:
That's how I was coming from lectures 2 years ago, when a bike with one passenger on it stopped to carry me. I expected the man
(passenger) to shift so I can sit behind him, but her refused and started shouting like a boar undergoing castration without sedation. He said if I can't sit in the middle, he'll pay for my space and go alone, I said fine they should go. I boarded another bike few minutes later. when we got to one round about, the shouting man and the bike man were already involved in a fatal accident. I was surprised and shocked at the same time.

Op at times ehn, just leave some people with their problems, you never can tell what they just saved you from. Like my pops will say, when you are on the road, believe you are the only one normal.

too much nollywood movie they affect brain

mannatech:

Lol, I'm hearing this for the first time.

I understand your need for taking precautions and if you have me believe that you still board public transport,what will you do in a scenario where you are sitting by the door close to the curb and another passenger flags down the taxi, will you come down or shift.

If I'm coming down soon, I'll come out so that the person can go inside.

Face it Oga, you were rude and behaved poorly. You even owe the woman an apology for making an issue where there was none.

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

She did nothing wrong

Ebonygeek:


If I'm coming down soon, I'll come out so that the person can go inside.

Face it Oga, you were rude and behaved poorly. You even owe the woman an apology for making an issue where there was none.

I do this do at times and I always accompany such actions with an explanation to the person.

I actually dropped before her.
When I asked why she dropped for me to enter, shooting bullets instead of a telling me this is the reason would have been appropriate, don't you think.
That's just me and I it seems not everyone does.

mannatech:

Courtesy demands that you explain to the person while you want to seat by the window.
No be my papa car wey I wan draw seat on top.
Plus here in Abuja, na one chance Mo be that

Well, your point register well.

Let me first salute all d intelligent people on this particular topic....with people like u guys..Nigeria will not go bad.

Mr Man...d only courtsey is her standing up for u to get in.. remember u r only paying ur own fare. She got in there before u and has the right for her spot....

I personally like to sit close to window because of my legs...so sometimes if I find myself in ur case I wait for d next turn...and sometimes if my space is in front...I offer d pay d next space to avoid squeezing me in.

Work with d smart advice people have given u and stop distracting ur ancestors...bayi.

Public transport is what it is called...pick ur spot...don't expect too much....

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Stop this your Entitlement mentality Biko. U carry Seniority enter Bus.

I didn't see anything wrong in what she did. You feel you must sit near window. She also got there first and decides to sit where she wants. You coming after her should pick whats left.

The other man entering before you through the other side is not her fault aswell.

She obviously had picked where to sit. After all, you met her there and it was left to you to pick yours but as a BOSS that you are, you wanted her to shift inside for you. No Darling.

Stop all this entitlement mentality. It's not your father's Taxi. Neither is it hers. She is not even meant to tell you excuse me or anything.

Stop using age or whatever to suppress people you are not feeding especially when it comes to sitting inside bus wey no be your papa own. After all, are you the one paying for her trip

It's people like you that like painting innocent young people bad

Lol. This is serious. Tell me you actually read this to yourself, and it made sense enough for you to post it here.

mannatech:
Madness dey some girls body because then think say man keep them for house mean say dey go dey forget their manners anyhow.

A lady really annoyed me this morning.
I had gone to the park to board a taxi back home. The guy who was loading for the driver directed me to the taxi that was loading. An elderly guy sat at the front seat while a lady was seated by the door and she was the only one sitting at the back. Note that the drivers take three passengers at the back.
Immediately I saw how the lady sat at the door- her body language- I decided to enter from the other side but another passenger beat me to it plus I was approaching the taxi from her side to I just decided to enter through there.
The lady rather than shift to the middle came out for me to enter without any form of excuse which I found annoying.
I made my displeasure know to her but she just kept mute as if no be human being dey follow talk. I still repeated myself.this lady just start blowing out like burning charcoal, shouting at the top of her voice that "do I think she is a baby for me to treat her like that".

To make matters worse,the passengers and driver were telling me to not retaliate because na women. Na so we go continue to dey tolerate nonsense. Even na guy, I go still tell am wetin he do no correct.

Take bolt or Uber next time to save yourself from all this

Me I just dey pity the unfortunate woman wey go marry op..... Backward fool.