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Sex After Child Birth by Josephali(m): 3:47pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child, Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually? 37 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by dallasi: 4:00pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Josephali: if the blood stop flowing knackin begins...don't quote me oo 97 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Josephali(m): 4:10pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
dallasi:. Bad guy, are you serious my senior colleague. 54 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by thorpido(m): 4:13pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer. Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready. 788 Likes 57 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Vyolet(f): 6:36pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Not for the average Nigerian man. thorpido: 95 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by wunmi590(m): 6:37pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Josephali: It depend on how your wife delivered the baby, if it normal delievery, some women body can still take after like 5-6 weeks, their virgina might have healed up.. While some who delieved through CS might have to endure some pain till like 2-4month, it actually depends on individual body... Despite the fact that my wife delivered normal, I still wait more than 4month self, by that time nah more money I dey use my head to calculate 190 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by wunmi590(m): 6:41pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Vyolet: Lol, not all of them, that was actually my role then, but I was just limited to the role because I work in Lagos and wify was in Abk, so I only go home every weekend, leaving her and just her mum to help her, so when I return back home on friday, I resume duty till I leave back to lasgidi on monday.... 86 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Rubbiish(m): 7:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Josephali:Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot. 183 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Crowwejihadist: 7:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
This man you have to rest, don't rape your wife 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Godada(m): 7:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Two matured people have answered your question. There is another option. You can have someone on the side who help you relax. This is at your own discretion. The wife needs to heal and the man has needs. Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time. Give your wife a break and break into another shagging 26 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by NotKnown: 7:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
6 weeks is okay if it's vaginal delivery. 7 or 8 weeks if it's CS without further complications. Infact, sex will help the cut heal better 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by dkdmy: 7:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Just allow her heal properly, else the wait period will be longer!!! Btw there are other ways she can pleasure you without penetration 27 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lemme sit down here & learn from our married men. Threads like this dey make me admire marriage more. 7 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Akwamkpuruamu: 7:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
For vj with litlle or no cut, three months for Cs, two months 2 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by illicit(m): 7:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Pious101: 7:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Hummm.... normally three months is advisable after birth for her to recover fully. But if it is because of unforseen pregnancy why not use condom 13 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by JoeRizzla(m): 7:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Get a side babe. poff my Rizzla 1 Like |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by okomile(f): 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
If u can't hold yourself, masturbate If u can't, ashewo plenty for street, use condom. I beg, no disturb our peace here 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Ofodirinwa: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Josephali: give her as much time as she needs, channel your desire to have sex into something more productive. Weaning your dependency on sex is a major part of growing as a man. There are a lot of people whose life aspiration is to be a rapist on this site so be mindful of immature advice. She will come to you for sex when she's ready. There's always pornhub too lol 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Akwamkpuruamu: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
wunmi590: Cs no be vj. Cs have even shorter time frame than vj. Especially when a good gynaecologist attended to u 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by rave1040: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Interesting thread 1 Like |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by akinmusi(m): 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Well anytime is ok. So far it's mutual. But on the condition that you have decided the time for child spacing after birth for another child. For main time use paper. |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Sniper101(m): 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
hmmmm even though m not married yet, this shit right here has always been something I sometimes think about how to handle; when I eventually get married. Cos 2 months of no_sex is a No No for me 7 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by ChasinGood(m): 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
I'm here to learn from the experts. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Okortor: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Depends on ur wife's service n how fast the place can heal, my own, before 2month, I don dey enter the place o cos I can't afford to cheat on my wife.. infact those waiting period be like waiting on the Lord, e full reach my neck...I was just only romancing n sucking my baby's milk but e no still do me. If u wan wait till 4month, u might be tempted to commit adultery which won't be healthy for ur marriage so assist her in ensuring that place heals faster if u really want to dive in soonest.. All d best. 55 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Davidonkonsults: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Get a side chick and stop bitching. |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by Hotzone(m): 7:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
If u love her, always do the needful 1 Like |
Re: Sex After Child Birth by kereman1: 7:51pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Josephali: Ur wife dey give u right to fornicate, u still dey complain. 1 Like |
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