Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

What happened to the lady using her hands to control the gear stick?

Partly true...

But medically... by the (3) months... she is good to go if she gave birth normally (and without a tire, which is likely not possible). So I'll sort of advise you stick to her 4month quarantine duration. Regarding the pregnancy aspect, that one is also true. Same happened to me. My wife was 14wks old after our first son was just 8months old and we didn't know. Today, if you see my two boys, you will sweat they are twins. So if you don't want stories that touch... just calm down and allow conji deal with you for the next few months. However... there are other ways she can help relive you... BJ (if she gree)

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

I do give my wife like 5 - 6 months.....although, we do other things . But no sex....... because, I am a sharp shooter....I don't shoot blanks

I know say uncle dey play away match.. But I just had to wait 1yr.. Labour room experience no be here o.. If men know what we pass through. They won't want to think being female is all about having holes

Is sex food? Just wait for the woman to heal. Some men think like dogs, walahi!

Vyolet:
Not for the average Nigerian man.

What's there that he listed that Nigeria men or most Nigeria men doesn't do?
Even before my woman got pregnant I was doing those things at home, I even preferred cooking for her and today I taught her most of the food she knows how to cook. When she was pregnant, I did more and baby is 8 months already right now.

So you ladies should stop this fallacy of Nigerian men not indulging in some house chores. Nigerian men are far better than Nigerian women. That's why the outside world prefers marrying Nigerians men compared to marrying Nigerian women

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Stay away from sex with her as from three months and above, let her womb heal well, and again some women can get pregnant almost immediately after birth, body differs, so easy on her. Try to be supportive towards her and the baby in all ways, and then remove sex from your mind, Don't commit adultery, because it's this time men will leave the house and be following prostitutes, so avoid it. Before you know it, it's her that will be asking you for sex.


Be wise!

Sex in Nigeria is overrated. Talk something else abeg.

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

if she didn't do surgery 6 weeks is fine..if she did then at least 3 months..How do you cope? Sex is a thing of d mind. Keep away from Instagram girls, clear ur mind and think of how to make more money..sex will leave..na ur wife go dey beg u self and to avoid pregnancy let her go to the doctor.. She will have a contraceptive implant..one lasts for 3 years but you can remove when ready to try for another baby.

Lamba!!!!!! Baba opt for oral and dat woman to heal for at least 4months

wunmi590:


Lol, not all of them, that was actually my role then, but I was just limited to the role because I work in Lagos and wify was in Abk, so I only go home every weekend, leaving her and just her mum to help her, so when I return back home on friday, I resume duty till I leave back to lasgidi on monday....

Which duty ,

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

As a muslim at least 40days

am here to learn

Depends on your wife... You are ready when she is ready

When you see a faithful husband, respect am. For the rest of us, we are still considering a bill to make omugwo more than 3 months

Rubbiish:

Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot.

UMEN?

You left your wife to come and ask internet people when the right time is for her to Bleep. So if they tell you tomorrow, you go force am? Why do people marry dumb niggas?


Your wife just had a child and what you’re thinking about is when you can get inside her again, not how you can take care of your baby? Oh, I forgot. It’s not your job.

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

I don't know if my opinion is valid enough since I'm not married.

I think it depends on how the delivery went. If she had a tough time before the baby came out or if it was through CS. Nevertheless; I think you should give her the four months she's asking for until she feels better and strong enough. Remember that she'd be breastfeeding and staying awake, that's, if your baby is the kind that stays awake all nights and sleep during the day.

As for abstainance, young daddy, four months without sex won't kill you you should care for the baby along side her. Staying awake almost all through every nights should have kept your mind preoccupied.

Give her enough time to heal jare

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

Lol, na capital lie be this o. It depends on the two people involved. Read my lips, it depends on your guys. With C/S una fit still run the show with 6weeks or less self but you don't go raw.

Not bad if she blow jobs you daily when you are sexually aroused. Please don't commit adultery.
Be romantic to her, do everything for her and engage in love activity. Wash plates, cups, even cook anyhow, just be friendly and romantic. Please. Thank you.

After 5 or 6 weeks you can start massaging the periphery using the cap of your dick, if it is well with her, go deeper but slowly..nor rush oh and nor pour your water to avoid early pregnancy oh.

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

you are asking the wrong questions men you wey don get genuine excuse to convince her to give you better Mouth Gig

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Una no know say family planning is a thing?

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Just go and get one big pack of condom, make sure she sees you when you are bringing it home. Tell her you just get it, in case, which is the truth, if you guys have been enjoying blossom bedroom affairs, she go soon carry am near you.
Once the blood stops dropping, the rest depends on you guys but don't go raw.

A lot of useless men out here

From experience, women differs,how strong they are,well you can give her like a month or two to heal.....but the most important thing is some women do see there period during breastfeeding while other have a seize of there period visit during breastfeeding,if the foal is your wife,guy be careful cos she go fit carry bele again ooo,but if the later is her experience then you fit nack Wella no fear.....but as a responsible husband let the joy of the new born fill your hrt and soul make you control ya sef.....no away match bro, Good luck and congratulations

That 4 month is typical if the child is a Male child if female it could be 6 to 8 months. The Bible calls it the days of her purification in the book of Leviticus...

Whenever the blood stop flowing, knacking begins. And ideally, the blood stop flowing after 40days of giving birth.
but one must be careful, because of unwanted pregnant. This can be achieved by using birth control methods such as withdrawer, condom,
etc.