Felatio is the only option if your wife can

Rubbiish:

Are u saying u can't hold yourself from having sex for just ordinary 4 months considering the fact your wife just gave birth?? Haba! Please give her time to heal! Some of u men love sex way too much! Reason women use it to manipulate u men a lot.

Why do people like sex like this?

Dam it

Godada:



Two matured people have answered your question.

There is another option.

You can have someone on the side who help you relax.

This is at your own discretion.

The wife needs to heal and the man has needs.

Forget those telling you that all you think Is sex.....sad part is what most men think about all the time.

Give your wife a break and break into another shagging

I hope the wife is allowed to have "someone on the side" too .
Y'all will subtly dig your own graves and cry foul when you knowingly/unknowingly fall into it.

8yrs bro

Masturbate or tell her to always give you a bl*wjob. You won't die.

Fakoredele:
From experience, women differs,how strong they are,well you can give her like a month or two to heal.....but the most important thing is some women do see there period during breastfeeding while other have a seize of there period visit during breastfeeding,if the foal is your wife,guy be careful cos she go fit carry bele again ooo,but if the later is her experience then you fit nack Wella no fear.....but as a responsible husband let the joy of the new born fill your hrt and soul make you control ya sef.....no away match bro, Good luck and congratulations

My wife is the later, she has not seen her period nor ovulate while breastfeeding for the past 6months while baba dey dive in raw without raincoat. Pls is there any tendency she could get pregnant? What's the percentage of likelihood.

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

God will continue to bless u sir

Nawa oo, people like us wey never chop d apple this year never die sha. I wonder how men think of sexx within that first month of having a needy crying baby to attend to.

TheOnlyUyai:
Masturbate or tell her to always give you a bl*wjob. You won't die.

What is blow...j

Rockstar07:


My wife is the later, she has not seen her period nor ovulate while breastfeeding for the past 6months while baba dey dive in raw without raincoat. Pls is there any tendency she could get pregnant? What's the percentage of likelihood.

Its normal because she's breastfeeding but she might start in her 7months o so be careful

robosky02:


What is blow...j

Lollipop licking. She will lick the dick like stick sweet.

TheOnlyUyai:
Masturbate or tell her to always give you a bl*wjob. You won't die.

He should wait and let his wife heal

dallasi:


if the blood stop flowing knackin begins...don't quote me oo

why won't I qout you? Your answer is very correct, it's then wife will be more sexy and attractive sef

@OP , i waited for 2 months plus few days before i resumed 'work'

so if your wife delivered normal , depending on the level of the tear she had , give her 2 months or 3 if possible

if na CS , give her like 5 months or 6 months

IF YOU CANT HOLD YOURSELF , ENTER BADDOO APP WITH FAKE ID AND GET BABE , Bleep AND DONT ATTACH ANY EMOTIONS WITH THE ONLINE APP GIRL OH before she will start doing your heart somehow

perryy:
My wife delivered through CS yet she didn't allow me stay for two months. The second one was through VJ , the same thing.

advantages of marrying who you sexually attracted to.

hope4nigeria:
why won't I qout you? Your answer is very correct, it's then wife will be more sexy and attractive sef

Yimu. What about d blackened and shrunk stomach? Pls allow d women heal properly abeg

TheOnlyUyai:


Lollipop licking. She will lick the dick like stick sweet.

OK uyai

TheOnlyUyai:


Lollipop licking. She will lick the dick like stick sweet.

I cleanse you from every iso kuso

wunmi590:


He should wait and let his wife heal

In the absence of his dick being too active, he can make do with the suggestions I made.

Did you survive it?

wunmi590:


I cleanse you from every iso kuso

I dodge am.

I was told 3 month before we start am but my wife didn't even wait. Na she been dey come for me. She gave birth July.. August we dey do am.... Unfortunately my big sis catch us one night... She told my mum and dad ooooo. Lol.

TheOnlyUyai:


In the absence of his dick being too active, he can make do with the suggestions I made.

Did you survive it?

Sure now, I waited more than 4month, and you know we don't constantly see each other...

So sex wasn't on my dictionary, nah more money I dey think about then....

But luckily I switched job to where I'm now

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

My wife had CS and we started doing it after 1mnth

TheOnlyUyai:


I dodge am.

So you want to continue talking about iso kuso here?

Tips for a healthy sex life with your partner post-pregnancy

You can have a healthy, fulfilling sex life post-pregnancy. These tips might help:

*Take it slow. In the first weeks after you’ve been cleared for sex, your body may not be ready to jump back to pre-pregnancy activities. Take things one day at a time. Try intimate activities to warm up to sex again, such as massage.

*Increase pre-intimacy. Give your vagina time to produce its own natural lubrication. Stretch out pre-intimacy, try mutual masturbation, or engage in other activities before penetrative sex.

*Use a lubricant. You may need a little help with lubrication as your hormones readjust. Look for a water-based option. Oil-based lubes can damage condoms and irritate sensitive tissue.

*Practice Kegels. Kegel exercises help rebuild pelvic floor muscles. This can help with common postdelivery issues, like incontinence. Exercising the muscles can also help you regain strength and sensation in your vagina. Build up your stamina by doing longer holds.

*Make time for sex. With a new baby in the house, you and your partner may not have a lot of time for spontaneity. Put time on your calendars to be together. This way, you won’t be rushed or anxious.

*Talk with your partner. Sex after delivery is different, not bad. Different can be fun and exciting, but you should keep an open dialogue with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t. This will help you enjoy sex again and make sure you’re not experiencing any unnecessary pain.

okomile:
If u can't hold yourself, masturbate

If u can't, ashewo plenty for street, use condom.

I beg, no disturb our peace here

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Weldon Aunty, I am not disturbing your peace, I am just in need maybe you can help relax Afterall. Helping a brother relax is never a bad thing

thorpido:
If she had a vaginal delivery then you should wait at least 6weeks but if she had a C/S,then you wait longer.
Satisfy yourself during that time by changing diapers whenever the diaper is soiled.Wake in the night to rock the baby to sleep.Do most of the cleaning around the house and some cooking.Before you know it,your wife will be ready.

i love this, are u a doc, no wonder we perform better outta d shores of naija

She can get pregnant. Use birth control to avoid pregnancy. From 6 weeks postpartum, a mother can get pregnant whether she is menstruating or not. That is why mothers are advised to go for family planning at their 6 weeks postpartum check up. How sure are you that she is not ovulating?

Rockstar07:


My wife is the later, she has not seen her period nor ovulate while breastfeeding for the past 6months while baba dey dive in raw without raincoat. Pls is there any tendency she could get pregnant? What's the percentage of likelihood.

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

Mouth Action, hand job etc

Josephali:
For the matured men here, how long should a man abstain from sexual activity if wifey delivered a child,
Another thing is how do men cope that period? I mean sexually. From the information my wife is giving me is that we need to avoid anything sexually for 4month, just to avoid unforeseen pregnant, is this true, how una dey take cope Na? Sexually?

It depends if she gave birth with Normal delivery or CS, however it should take up to that four months she mentioned so the blood can properly dry, only the bills in that period is capable of keeping you busy until the four months, don’t think I will advise you to do side chick thing, I was almost caught on the act when I went to nack outside.

Nyenatetan:



sharp shooterrrrrrr !

Naso....

Viltron:
Is sex food? Just wait for the woman to heal. Some men think like dogs, walahi!

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It's you that think like a dog, you must be a foolish man to insult an adult, infact your father Think like a dog not me, shege dan Isla barawo banza