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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: Well said. It actually took me a while to accept this. I was thinking and hoping there should be more other than fun and sex. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 1:10pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] Someoneschild2: I have been saying this and will continue to say it. Any man that listens to women or even society in general on how a real man is supposed to Act and React especially towards the misadventures of women deserves to be castrated without anesthesia. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
![]() Never forget this. Once you start catch feelings and get emotionally attached you are finished,she controls the frame,do the needful Don't let her virginity, feminity and beauty mislead you THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL AWALT STAY TOXIC 37 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 4:02pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
https://www.nairaland.com/6824743/gender-roles-effect-sexuality I’ve noticed a lot of talk surrounding the issue of hypocrisy and double standards between the male and female genders. There are a lot of instances and situations that I can cite from, but I would like to give my take on the issue of sexuality. Nowadays, a lot of people (women and men) complain about how the society praises men for sexual exploits, while women are reprimanded. They also say that men can sleep around with as many women as they want, while women are not supported the same way when they sleep around too. This issue should be a very simple one to understand, but the decadence of society has made this seem very complicated. Feminism has tried to eliminate or re-invent societal gender roles, and this is a contributor to the situation I mentioned above. Let me give a backstory, before I address this issue. Since the beginning of time, men and women have had separate gender roles which defined them, made them to live together in harmony and led to the progress of civilization. Naturally, men are seen as the protectors and providers. According to societal standards, a man is expected to provide security for his family and contribute his quota to his community, he is also expected to provide financial security for himself and his family, he is also expected to go to war and sacrifice himself for the protection of the rest of his community/state (which mainly consists of children and women). I believe that this is a fair summary of a man’s roles. This mainly applied to pre-modern times but it still functions nowadays. The man is expected to take care of his family and provide financial security for them, a man is also expected to perform all these duties to a woman that he is in a relationship with, a man is also expected to be chivalrous and make females around him comfortable (even if it’s to his detriment), and lastly a man still goes to war in these modern times. By war, I mean taking up the hardest jobs (which contributes to the high percentage of male deaths from workplace accidents), being in the army or security outfits (most security personnel are predominantly males), he is expected to be a “man” and stand up to threats against his family or other women in the society, etc. On the other hand, a woman was expected to support the man in his endeavors. This makes sense, considering the responsibilities a man naturally had to carry and face in the society. She was also expected to be sexually chaste (for a number of reasons). She basically had to take care of the children, run the home, and be a support system for the male. This should be a basic summary of the woman’s duties in pre-modern times. Now, a lot of people would call this oppression, but I beg to differ. While there were some situations in which women had higher restrictions than men, this is totally different. The reason why men were ‘seemingly’ in charge in ‘patriarchy’ was simply because they had more responsibilities than women. They had to risk their lives, ensure the protection of others and still develop the world, so it makes sense that they had more rights than women. Think of it this way, in a company two people work for an employer but they don’t equally have the same salaries and benefits. This is because the higher earner is probably more qualified, more intelligent, takes higher risk, works harder, has more experience, etc. So, in essence, more responsibilities= more rights. This also applied to the relationship between males and females. Also, back then the world relied on the strength of men for protection, guidance, technology and daily living. This also contributed to them having more rights. However, with technological advancements (still mostly created by men, of course), women could level the playing field and perform almost the same functions as men. This lead to advocating of female rights and the propaganda of oppression and patriarchy. I am not against that, but I believe that for females and males to be ‘equal’ or share ‘equal rights’ in a society, they should also carry out the same responsibilities. It’s simple logic. I would like to veer a bit into feminism and our society but this is not the purpose of this post, so I’ll adjourn that. Now, how does this all relate to sexuality and double standards? Females nowadays lament that men have a leeway to be sexually free without repercussions, but that does not apply to them. My take is that this happens because we don’t understand our gender roles as men and women in the society. Men and women are treated differently. This has advantages and disadvantages for each gender. Now, if females also say that they don’t want to be sexually chaste and they want to engage in immorality freely, they should be ready to accept the same situation when men agree to forsake their roles. In this era of feminism, women are pushing boundaries and re-writing rules for themselves, but men are still stuck following the same set of old rules. Men are still expected to be chivalrous, protectors, providers, etc. while women see supporting men or maintaining sexual morality as oppression. If truly feminism is about equality between the genders, then men should also be encouraged to put themselves first and not engage in those traditional roles that they are subjected to. Women (and shockingly some men) would try to disparage virginity and play it down, but will still dictate to men, “How a REAL man should act”. They would still expect men to pay for dates, accept the hardest and most depraving jobs, protect them in times of need, etc. I disagree with that, besides what a man can do, a woman can do better, and so all these responsibilities should be taken up by women too. But, as usual feminists and some people in the society would ignore this issue. If you feel that traditional gender roles are oppressive and you want to re-write gender roles, then create roles that are equal and can encompass both genders. So, as women make statements like “My body, my rules”, or try to speak negatively about virginity, etc. men should also abandon roles such as protecting women, providing for them (especially in relationships which women take advantage of), etc. Women would claim that their sexuality is oppressed, but I also find it oppressive when the same women reverse roles and feel entitled to a man’s money, protection, etc. They should be able to do these themselves. Lastly, another reason why sex is seeming repressed amongst women is that sex has more negative effects on women than men. The risk of sexual infections from multiple partners and the emotional connection that women seem to make with their sexual partners also contribute to this. With men, these do not affect them as much as it does to women. So, I hope this gives you an insight into the reason why women are held more accountable in terms of sexuality than men. Men are held more accountable in terms of commitment, provision, protection, etc. It’s just how society and nature works. Society found a balance between these gender roles and humans have been able to live in harmony, until these “woke” times. I’m sure you’ve heard the statement that women are gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. That statement explains a lot. These roles also apply to animals. Think about it. NB: This post does not contain all factors that contribute to this situation. This is just a basic premise. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Someoneschild2: 4:36pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Truth is life. 23 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: Ok 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 6:17pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
At 22 she has seen ,more... 1 street than Google map 2 BALLS than Ronaldo 3 Boxers than Mike Tyson 4 alcohol and drugs than Britney Spears 5 clubs than 50 cent #staytoxic #staytaliban 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Astrid4(m): 6:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
#staytoxic #staytaliban 21 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DarkCaesar(m): 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Trust these girls at your own destruction, this is a girl her bf can swore her loyalty with his left eye….she no dey comot for house after she come back from work, she be church girl bla bla bla……make I use prick reset her brain if I don come back tomorrow. 7 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:13pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DarkCaesar: Please don't lash her ..be a gentleman you mudafucker!!! ![]() ![]() Women will cheat with whoever they fancy...it's the golden rule of hypergamy N.B: She is even working sef....wtf is the 30k bill for? 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DarkCaesar(m): 7:17pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Santanarhetoric:go to business and investment section if you are interested in making money, we tell you say na business oriented thread be this? 15 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DarkCaesar(m): 7:25pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
luminouz:na only her sabi why she Dey bill me and this girl fit form holy holy like say tomorrow no dey 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:54pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DarkCaesar: chai this one wan sell her pussy for 30k sha 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UncleJudax(m): 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Herbsworks:An ex-tenant of a family friend had a similar experience. He was working for a German coy. The company was paying his rent (duplex). His wife was even making trouble with the landlords wife (something to do with the kids) because, well , the landlord and tenant use the same gate (Lekki Phase1). One year after the man lost his job and company stopped paying the rent, they were booted out and some of their assets withheld (for not paying up). One day the wife came to the landlord and asked to be allowed to take her own things because she is no longer with...wait for it...that stupid man. ![]() In this life, as a man...take care of yourself before any other mfucker. Anyway: I dont even understand why people marry because some lady says she is pregnant. Ha! Bitch born the pikin, i de. but you not gonna alter my plans in any way...pregy or not. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by bayus2003(m): 8:30pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:oga some nigga fit don chop that same pucci for free.... ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DarkCaesar:post her pics but blur her face let's see if she's worth your time. noticed I said TIME. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 8:42pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
bayus2003: No cap bruh 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Santanarhetoric: 12 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:24pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DarkCaesar: Please, fûck her hard and make her beg for more. I want you to utilize all your skills. She must call you again and again. Don't disappoint the brother hood. You have my blessing. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:46pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Somebody please lead me back to the redpill thread I think I mistakenly stumbled into the ashewo beer parlor thread. 15 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by UncleJudax(m): 9:52pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:she has sold it many times for less. it is what it is. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LutanFyah: 10:12pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Santanarhetoric:Learn trading (FX / CRYPTO), practice everyday on demo like your life depends on it for at least 6 months before going live. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 11:04pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:Selah 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:40am On Oct 29, 2021 |
luminouz: Lol. Lotta sense. Well said. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 5:52am On Oct 29, 2021 |
Paternity Test things... DNA test kits just became widely available to the South African public at 1,2K. How much is this in naira? 20 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:13am On Oct 29, 2021 |
ubunja: #32,400. If the accuracies of these kits are high...at least some men will be save. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:15am On Oct 29, 2021 |
DAY 302, REDPILL 2021 Genuine desire fvcks before going out for a date! Authority: don't be a simp. 41 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Chiagozieking: 7:24am On Oct 29, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: #Trust 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 7:57am On Oct 29, 2021 |
TheDarkGamer:Love this write-up. It explains a lot. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 8:17am On Oct 29, 2021 |
UncleJudax: She has even given it for free. 1 Like |
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