I've been pondering on this for some time now, do we live in a morally bankrupt society where good values are not considered anymore before dating or marrying someone because there's so much weird behaviour and news nowadays, there's another trend of females going after the toffs and socialites, mostly the harpy and snobs! how about marrying someone you know that has a bright future, I'm not trying to stereotype or profile the entire female gender, we still have a handful of good ones, but the preponderance/vast majority of delusional and misquided ones prefer bad boys for the reasons known to them alone.
Back in school I had a guy that dated countless ladies due to his ruggedness while I struggled to even date one, some ladies don't like calm and gentle guys which is an aberration and anomaly to me.
If good virtues are no longer a consideration, then that explains why we have too many unholesome unions these days and I fear for the future of this country.
So as a lady what are the qualities you look out for in a man? Intelligent and calm guys or cult boys?

The invasion of western civilization into our culture is another problem

Lastly I understand the fact that we all cannot be the same, or behave in a particular way, life is about choices, we all have our preferences regardless of compatibility, but I will also advise young people to be circumspect to avoid sad stories, don't get yourself into an entanglement that will mar your life, be painstaking and wise, there's no need getting into a relationship with someone you're poles apart.

Wishing you a blissful and fabulous Sunday.

because na bad guys sweet pass. and na bad guys dey spend money pass. that's why as a man, try and be a bad guy during your youth days before it's time for you to settle down and become a good guy

Because they have no purpose in life.

Shedrack777:
because na bad guys sweet pass

Lol, sweet ke, that sweetness will soon turn to bitterness

Bruno3000:
Because they have no purpose in life.

Too bad

Na the ones wey never see anything for life.

chatinent:
Na the ones wey never see anything for life.

Abi

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


After the 'Bad' guys show them pepper finish, dem go cor dey disturb good husband material boys like brother chatinent and I.

We boot them out quickly, we are taken already by sisters of virtues

Don't mind them.

Who is a bad guy?

Palema007:
Who is a bad guy?

Any guy that doesn't care about rectitude and established norms, guys that engage in anti social behaviour

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Your head dey there

Thanks bro

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


smokes, drinks, dreads, drugs, I don't care attitude etc

These are baseless stereotypes formed out of personal dislike of some habits. Some good people smoke, some drink ,others do one or two of the listed. Does that make them bad?

God1000:

Anybody who doesn't care about rectitude and established norms, guys that engage in anti social behaviour

rectitude? Established norms? Lol..... This makes these guys different, mysterious, intriguing and fun. They are out of the normal.

The op is right but it doesn't change the fact that
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

Probably not me and many others out there, a bad guy is definitely a red flag.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Read between the lines, it's a joke like that is the Nigerian mentality of bad guys...I do all except the dreads...not anymore, police use me shine that year

There is no lines to read between here, you gave your definition of bad boys to the question asked.

Mysterious shebi??

Don't come and open thread later saying your mysterious lover has been bringing mystery to you later

I never personalized that,did I? Here I am trying to help you guys understand why some ladies go for your so called bad boys. But what do I get in return? Assumptions and incoherent babbles.

Some of you are so difficult to reason with.

No be korokoro eyes Eve take chew snake apple na.

Vanilla4:
Probably not me and many others out there, a bad guy is definitely a red flag.

You are an upstanding woman

Na because bad guys sabi fùckk pass simp....simps are majorly cuckold.....na bad guys dey Bleep most simps wives

GBOKASINCHA:
Na because bad guys sabi fùckk pass simp....simps are majorly cuckold.....na bad guys dey Bleep most simps wives

Na wa 4 you oo, is it all about sexual prowess and who told you that good guys cannot Bleep well? good guys respect women's bodies than bad ones, so don't try to normalise and rationalize such noisome behaviour.

It's basic biology, shying away from this modern brouhaha, deep down a woman want to be told what to do and controlled by a stern man who appears to be devoid of basic emotions.
When an alpha male expresses love to them they feel lucky simply because the guy in question won't normally express or give attention to just any woman.
Same reason almost every woman like getting their As$ smacked, holding their hairs from behind during sex

These matters don't concern upcoming deputy pastors like us..


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They want somebody who can handle their madness. A good man/simp will always want to please them all the time, but a bad guy does not send them, once the f up, they'll move to the next available bitch

They are all infected but guys don't know. I pity guys that go for pretty girls.

Op, your writeup is fu on silly assumptions.

Because na bad guys dey hang dere legs..the way dem want..