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........ by ngoziwrites(f): 7:58am On Nov 01, 2021 |
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Re: ........ by Lawlab249: 8:01am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: ........ by Homeboiy: 8:03am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Una first dey do am before nah |
Re: ........ by ngoziwrites(f): 8:06am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Homeboiy: I don't. Never done such. That's why he gave me that advise. Told me I have been doing it wrongly. |
Re: ........ by Homeboiy: 8:08am On Nov 01, 2021 |
ngoziwrites: Even the one that told me she was in a 6 years relationship Still give me toto fûck 8 Likes |
Re: ........ by Odoogu(m): 8:08am On Nov 01, 2021 |
That's no testing, it's lieing. Complicated is a very serious word in nigeria today oo you come add relationship join. Truth is, you are likely to attract the ones who will exploit that situation for their benefit. It's a complicated relationship you are claiming not life. In my opinion, tell any guy you are single, not yet ready but willing to take it slow. If he shows commitment you will see it and if he doesn't it's gonna be obvious too. NB: This doesn't guarantee that he won't chop clean mouth oo. So stay woke. Na y you no need lie. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ........ by TeeGentle(m): 8:09am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Yeah The unserious wan will leave u why the serious wan will stick to u like magnet But just know dat many of them are pretenders 2 Likes |
Re: ........ by JOACHINpedro: 8:09am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Lol... It might work or backfire sha. But ... Tell me you're taken, I move Tell me you're not interested, I move Tell me you're not ready, I move Tell me you'll think about i, I move Tell me to check back later I move And if you try tell me it's complicated, I fly away. This country is complication enough for a citizen like me 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ........ by Barmmi(m): 8:10am On Nov 01, 2021 |
That might scare the guy away not all guys will opt to be a second choice in a relationship. Just do you don't see a big deal in telling a guy you single. 2 Likes |
Re: ........ by Davash222(m): 8:12am On Nov 01, 2021 |
How do guys condescend too low to ask a Nigerian girl out? There's nothing unique or significant about Nigerian girls , why stressing yourself? Promise her lunch or dinner, that's all. Why going all these hurdles for same kpekus boys don smash tire? 6 Likes |
Re: ........ by Anyahuruagu: 8:15am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Sister Ngozika my sister, You see this relationship something no get manual o. What works for Nneka and Adanna wont be same with what works for Bimbola and Ikaite. I can confidently say 75% of guys wont like a lady whose is still attached someway with a guy, i mean who will stay for a lady who does not understand herself. Again a guy can even stay serious with you until you take him china town, then after he eats from china kitchen he will vamooose. Even if I will stay i will just reduce my tempo and watch you come for me. Goodluck Nwanyi Oma. 4 Likes |
Re: ........ by muheeb01(m): 8:16am On Nov 01, 2021 |
You don't need to lie to get whatever you want or need....what will be will be que sera sera 3 Likes |
Re: ........ by FalseProphet1(m): 8:20am On Nov 01, 2021 |
There's no need to lie, just tell him you need time to concentrate on your goals and you guys can be friends for now. Telling him you aren't single will only make him see you as a cheat, so if you end up dating him, he'll always have this feeling that since you cheated on your guy with him, you can most likely do the same with another guy. Nigeria is complicated enough, don't try to complicate your life further by starting what you can't handle. Just be simple and open and he'll respect you for that. This I have seen. 5 Likes |
Re: ........ by extol1(m): 8:21am On Nov 01, 2021 |
I can bet it with you that you will single until you reach your menopause. 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Truvelisback(m): 8:22am On Nov 01, 2021 |
ngoziwrites:I will back off. Who likes complicated issues? However, if she is a woman of value, i might risk it. But i won't take the relationship serious until i see the reason(s) for taking her serious otherwise, i will just back off or friend zone her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ........ by Ussycool: 8:24am On Nov 01, 2021 |
It's unfair 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Nobody: 8:46am On Nov 01, 2021 |
What will be, will be. That's not what makes a man serious or determines a successful relationship. Be yourself. If he takes you seriously, fine. If not, take a Walk. It's not worth the petty lies. 3 Likes |
Re: ........ by Tobedated(m): 8:52am On Nov 01, 2021 |
So ngoziwrites wetin you don decide 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Godada(m): 9:17am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Just tell your new catch that your brother said to tell him that you are in a supposed relationship to see if he would stick around. That guys will not take you serious if you are single. That they would take their share and vamoose. |
Re: ........ by Queenserah26(f): 9:21am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Well said sir. It is not advisable OP, it might not end well. Anyahuruagu: 1 Like |
Re: ........ by CheedyJ(m): 9:48am On Nov 01, 2021 |
All I know is, when it comes to humans generalization isn't really applicable.. 1 Like |
Re: ........ by tobechi74: 11:06am On Nov 01, 2021 |
There are numerous ways to test . That is the most amature way 1 Like |
Re: ........ by uthlaw: 11:59am On Nov 01, 2021 |
since you guys are friends,just stick to that,with time you both understand the level... 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Akinfolarin9: 2:34pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Aunty it depends oo.i know some of my guys(unserious ones)that don't backdown if you tell them you are in a complicated relationship,thats even when they get gingered to knack and leave As for me i only ask out when I'm serious but when you tell me no once i move 2 Likes
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Re: ........ by meobizy(f): 2:39pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Keep playing tricks until time flies you by. 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Bigpapi: 2:51pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
ngoziwrites: Before nko? Are you single...u this cheerful giver 1 Like
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Re: ........ by Coivdgiveaway: 2:51pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
No don't 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Whazar(m): 2:56pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
nah ur toto go suffer all the complications kontinue |
Re: ........ by christlike31(m): 6:25pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
I don't know.. For me.. I waited for a girl who I truly loved for 3 years when she told me she was dating But lying is false pretence based from falsehood unhealthy and profits nothing So you have to turn it into the truth by dating me, and then tell him you're dating. What ya say? 1 Like |
Re: ........ by ngoziwrites(f): 7:32pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Bigpapi: Grow up. Even if no one can see your face, put on a robe of integrity, class and composure. 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Drella(m): 7:57pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
ngoziwrites: As Nigeria take dey complicated reach,na girl wey dey complicated relationship guys go wait for? Even serious guys will japa... You can only do this if you're in your early 20s.Once you're getting to age 25-26....my sister, you're playing with Shiloh! 1 Like |
Re: ........ by Drella(m): 7:59pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Davash222: Guy you don dey overdo am.No be cruise again. 2 Likes |
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