Golferty:



I lost my job last 2 months and its been a hard time getting a new job. That's besides the point. I asked this question for strictly married women who knows how to manage a home.

If u don't have an advice for me then please its best u keep quiet

You are looking for an advise and you are insulting somebody to keep quiet .That shows the kind of woman / wife you are .An unappreciative wife ! .How do you expect a man to give more to you when you will never appreciate the one he has done as you have shown to the man who advised you here ?.What will happen assuming your husband is out of job too ? You no go do something to supplement what he offers ?.Be more grateful !

Golferty:



I lost my job last 2 months and its been a hard time getting a new job. That's besides the point. I asked this question for strictly married women who knows how to manage a home.

If u don't have an advice for me then please its best u keep quiet

That was the best advice for you to get a job.
And stop looking for cheap traffic here. After giving you 4k a week that is more than 16k a month he will pay the children school fees pay house rent and other utilities. If you look for a job and add 2k to the 4k na something still god go bless your husband. He easy na him you loss your job un resourceful element. Come ask for advice from those that their husband na yahoo

Nigerian Women and complaints... Always complaining.. As if it is easy to make ends meet in this harsh economy.

The least you can do is to appreciate him and go out and Hustle!!!!

They won't do anything to alleviate the man's financial burden, it's to come on Nairaland and
Complain some more.

If E easy, go outside go Hustle your own 4k see as E be for body.

Husbands abeg dey give una wives enough money abeg. I have 2 married women on my case. One is my ex. They want us to straff knowing I will drop at least 10k as "Thanks for coming". I no wan do but many other men go chop clean mouth.

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

Please don't fight your husband, please suggest plan on how you can be bringing money to support the family.

Times are hard don't get angry.

Golferty:



I lost my job last 2 months and its been a hard time getting a new job. That's besides the point. I asked this question for strictly married women who knows how to manage a home.

If u don't have an advice for me then please its best u keep quiet

madam with due respect ,you and I Know this is a public space and even those using fake female moniker can comment ,so no need to insult them , insulting them tells them how you behave right back home if things don't go your way ,no need for that

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

u no sabi work shey? na teacher dey earn 15k monthly.


idiot, entitled fool with pussy.

he should rob nahh mumu

Mariangeles:


So what if she wants to be a housewife?

House wife in this era. How do people remain idle and stay comfortable.

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff
in the house.

Madam if foods dey the house try manage that 4k for now times are hard

Tonyclems:
Am a man, I buy my food stuff in bulk. Like rice,garri yam, noodles, oil Maggi and others still just me n my wife no child yet, we spend roughly 10k weekly. Ur husband is heartless

You see my point? This poster has already termed the husband heartless WITHOUT hearing from the husband or even knowing how much he currently makes. Now the Op will go back believing her husband to be heartless and from there it is down south for the marriage.

Saintmary:
Just ask him to help you buy foodstuff on his way back home.

This is the best way, when he sees how expensive foodstuffs are his eye go clear

Jeon:
4k a week?
Inside the 4k we have transportation fee,foodstuffs fee , snacks fee,mimomimo fee for 2 persons in this recession . Mtcheew my dear ur husband is not feeling fine.

What is mimomimo?

Kobojunkie:
You have two children and you don't have a job or source of income yourself?

Guy grow up!

In this 'recession', anything could have happened. Losing a job, hard time binding a new job, etc

Learn to be a lot more sensitive... Don't make fun out of others' misfortune

I am single, don't have kids and I can't/do not spend 4000N a week. What do you think 4000N can get you in this present day economy? Your husband should do better.

I don't know if you work, but if you do, try to augment yours with whatever he gives you. Also, I will advise that you outsource the buying of foodstuffs to him to take care of. He's oblivious of what the Nigerian market has turned into. He will learn.

Neddstark:
Husbands abeg dey give una wives enough money abeg. I have 2 married women on my case. One is my ex. They want us to straff knowing I will drop at least 10k as "Thanks for coming". I no wan do but many other men go chop clean mouth.

Even if her husband gives her that extra 10k she would have gotten from you she will still come for extra from you.

Kobojunkie:
So you are offended by my asking if you have a job or not? OK.

MY BROTHER, NA SO WOMEN R. ONCE IT'S THE MAN'S MONEY NO PROBLEM. BUT ASK ABOUT THEIRS, THEY BECOME SENSITIVE

Me dey spend up to 40k in a month. Mehn this country hard oo

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ahnie:

You really need to be calming down.you wee just be opening mouth waaa waaa waaa.

Kobojunkie....no be everytime them dey comment.

Always dishing out advice right, left and center.

Now, see as these girls are washing a grown man mercilessly.

PS - funny enough, I agree with all your points but you sef dey pass your boundaries at times

Grandmeister:

You see my point? This poster has already termed the husband heartless WITHOUT hearing from the husband or even knowing how much he currently makes. Now the Op will go back believing her husband to be heartless and from there it is down south for the marriage.

[i just saw this your comment now. Some people can be funny. He nail the man without even knowing how much money he worth. quote author=Tonyclems post=107292789]Am a man, I buy my food stuff in bulk. Like rice,garri yam, noodles, oil Maggi and others still just me n my wife no child yet, we spend roughly 10k weekly. Ur husband is heartless[/quote]are you comparing yourself with the husband?. Do you know what the man is passing through?. You just called him heartless because of what the OP posted, without even knowing the job he does?. Welldone justice

dapadawee:

That was the best advice for you to get a job.
And stop looking for cheap traffic here. After giving you 4k a week that is more than 16k a month he will pay the children school fees pay house rent and other utilities. If you look for a job and add 2k to the 4k na something still god go bless your husband. He easy na him you loss your job un resourceful element. Come ask for advice from those that their husband na yahoo

Two bottles of chilled Trophy Lager for you ! Ungrateful women everywhere .She will never mention other responsibilities the man is facing !If she take stress kill the man now ,she go carry her body go meet another man she would also later kill !

Besto:


House wife in this era. How do people remain idle and stay comfortable.

GOOD QUESTION

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

It’s not possible madam and abeg we the single ladies know somethings ehn, Lol
You’re not working ni

Write a list of all you need for the week, beg him to stop at the market or store to help you buy them.

Even with 10k a week, na manage for this economy.

Mariangeles:


So what if she wants to be a housewife?

if she wants to be a housewife, she should face the consequences of being a housewife which is to manage anything she see. Just imagine, ur hubby guves u 4k weekly, u what are you contributing on ur side, if he brings 4k and u bring 2k thats 6k, atleast u guys can manage... ok u ran to nairaland so that they will tell u to leave the man ? This is not topic abeg

Jeon:


Na na na

Ur delusion is now judging ya.

Boy boy
Okay if she no defended herself ur delusiona will be 100 percentage correctly with no points reducing.

ode trying to type is typing rubbish, use pidgin if u can't relate well

elantraceey:
Get a job so that you'll have yours to add to it. Things are difficult for most people in this country right now.

leave her let her b doing madam

Golferty:
This is strictly for married women

Please how can I manage 4k for a week? I have 2 kids, one is in primary 3, the other one is in nursery and they go to school each day. Will it be possible?
Please mothers on nairaland, how will you stretch it for 7 days especially when there's no foodstuff in the house.

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Practically impossible.

Where do you people meet these kinds of men?

Do ladies say Yes to “anything “ that proposes? Anything? Yes! Because I refuse to believe that your husband is a living thing.
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All I can say is ''may thunder fire poverty!'' Small thing nau them go begin dish out advice like ''marry now and grow with ur kids bla bla bla...'', ''Our fathers married with little or nothing and still managed to raise a decent family, yen yen yen...''. Shey una dey see am now? Nonsense and marry now with little income.

Artworld1577:
With as low as 8k,I can do your Art work for you and your loved ones. Check my profile for samples of my works.

2 weeks chop money?

Golferty:



I lost my job last 2 months and its been a hard time getting a new job. That's besides the point. I asked this question for strictly married women who knows how to manage a home.

If u don't have an advice for me then please its best u keep quiet

It will be tough to manage that, if there is no food stuff at home, by the time you buy food stuffs and prepare soup there won't be anything left. If possible let him buy things in bulk in major food market for a month then give you upkeep. That may help a bit. Things are very expensive now.

What’s your contribution to the 4K…..If he’s paying school fees of the kids, paying house rent and he’s responsible…Start doing something to support him…