Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or speak to your mother or elderly person or aren't there hospitals around you?
Now people who ordinarily should have nothing to say about your private matters will spew trash on you and your wife
This is very disgusting. You for kukuma snap the to.,to show Nairalanders

For those quoting me, I have no response for you..

First of all congratulations on your 3weeks marriage with your tear rubber wife

Secondly, disvirgining is lot of work. It's like trying to drill a stone wall with your peepee. Most time you sweat so much and sometimes you just want to try another time.

Thirdly, I will tell you. It's natural to experience pain. Overtime the pain reduces. It might take months.
I am suspecting she isn't juicy enough before u start penetration.

What you can do to ease the pain. Give your wife a good oral before introducing your lil self

Eat her like a psychotic rat on steroids..

When she is juicy enough. You can slide in and out with lil friction

Nagode

I agree with @Mood11. No be every clothe dem dey dry outside.
So you made love to your virgin wife, and you feel the whole world should know?
Some of you were brought up poorly, honestly.

Even Joseph for Bible wey no knack o, pretend like say him knack, to protect his wife's public image.

But una, every small thing, Nairaland, Twitter and Histagram. Kilode gan?

Pele, but what we are supposed to do about this?
Hopefully, nairaland doctors go help you.

Brethren above, no vex, na free consultation him dey find.

Young Man there is nothing serious here just take it easy with the innocent girl she would be fine with time. Remember she is a virgin and her body isn't gonna fit in overnight. Just with time she will start enjoying sex.

Na small small e go finish.

Bro... don't let me make you sad.

BUT there are plenty fake virgins.

Some with money would do hymenoplasty... others have diverse ways of faking it.

I am always wary of those who "carry the matter for head"

I am not saying there are no virgins but super rare.

I have banged one hausa girl at least 1,000 times and she's still a virgin to " My Sweetheart" on her phone.

Oh yes, she also told me she was a VIRGIN. I grinned and said - " better spread the legs and enjoy yourself"

Her Sweetheart might eventually open a thread about how tight she is on NAIRALAND.

Virgin ko... Virginia abi Vagina ni

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or aren't there hospitals around you?
This is very disgusting.

Honestly it is very pissing. Low esteem, I think

You Dey chop better kpekus� still Dey complain

After consuming what you wrote, I am in a state of reasoning handicap. This is true because I never see virgin before. Only a semi virgin.

The Lord is your strength

https://www.nairaland.com/6832715/young-people-dont-care-good

Mood11:
Honestly, I don't understand why people feel comfortable spreading their very private matters online these days...
Go to a doctor or aren't there hospitals around you?
This is very disgusting.

Baba calm down... There's nothing private about a matter shared anonymously on a public forum

Try enough pre-intimacy to get her wet before penetrating her or get some lubricant before you destroy that place. Ky gelly. Works.

Another thing is, it could be she's not
in the mood those times she feels pains and you have to stop halfway. Yes. When a woman is not in the mood, she can never get wet and ready to receive you. So it will be pain all through for her.

I don't usually do this for free but let me just give you this remedy as a gift for keeping yourselves till marriage. It's a remedy that will make her always ready, hor.ny and wet for you.
She'll be the one pulling you in by herself.

Tiger nut drink.

Blend the following together and let her drink.

Dates
Coconut
Tiger nut
Soak the date and tiger nuts over night.

Cut the coconuts into pieces and combine all together in a blender with water and blend until very smooth.

Get a cheese cloth and sieve it until chaff stop bringing out milk.

Chill it in the fridge for some mins and give her to drink.

Please the drink is not meant to be stored for more than 24hrs. It goes bad easily. So make the quantity you can finish within 24hrs.

It will solve the problem.

Also use lubricant so you don't forcefully slack the place.

Ejima is on the way.

Nawao

Pay me for private consultation

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

She may be suffering from ENDOMETRIOSIS which can be very very very painful and common.
The pain of Vaginismus can't be measured to that of Endometriosis. Vaginismus is not also far fetched in this context.
How Old is she?
Let's believe all's fine for now, however She still needs to be evaluated.

It would take time for the pvssy to gel...
I don’t see why you brought your bedroom activities to the public, well since u did let me advise u raw.
Take it slow when poking your wife don’t rush her like other girls you always bang... at due time her pvssy wall will gel and u’ll enjoy your sex life

Eyaaa

Maybe your gbola too big

Maybe you dey even too pound her rough

Do it gently, and not as the spirit leads

Damnnn niggar

Ogbeni op ...no need to worry....just three weeks...just wait for it to expand....that place is elastic.....and it will definitely open with time

I just dey pity you.....this same girl way you dey pity for so ehnnn...by the time that place open well....you go run o

Once that place open. ....and she is fond of you...then the sex go dey sweet her....na you go run for sex...she will be jumping on your rod anyday anytime twice on her ovulation period

It’s a pity, use lubricants please,

Take it easy with that innocent girl

Lwkm

Are we your doctor

See a doctor werey

This mata tie gele oo

Sha I will advice you call righteousness to come and pray for your wife so that she will get Divine healing.

Worry not , the V never expand reach, let one pikin comot for the place, na free tar road e go be.....btw u need pre-intimacy n lubricant to allow u donate ur sperm for d V

The question should be was she even wet enough before u penetrate, do you guys do fore play, kissing, caressing, fingering and the likes before entering or u guys just enter like that all dry and you expect her not to feel pain, always stimulate the clit, or get a vibrator it will stimulate the clit and make her super wet b4 u enter not Love Machine ooo