I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

You're afraid of a liability rejecting you?

What kind of men are we producing for Christ sake?

And your only advantage is your handsomeness...

That's a new one.

Low self esteem issue. Talk straight to her.

Leave women and focus more on your life. Ladies will still come for you when you're making it.

Dnt date witch that'll ruin, destroy U.There are many beautiful,rich girls roaming the streets.Leave that one b4 God leave u.

Now that your feelings haven't gone too deep, just tell her you like her.
Who knows, she might be open to giving you a chance. You'll never know until you try.

HenryDion:
You're afraid of a liability rejecting you?

What kind of men are we producing for Christ sake?

And your only advantage is your handsomeness...

That's a new one.

Read before you comment this small boy.He's the liability here.

Iyaebe:
Read before you comment this small boy.He's the liability here.

How is he a liability Big Madam?

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Iyaebe:
Read before you comment this small boy.He's the liability here.

Okay ma

Another one, Men without balls.

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.
I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship. Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.
Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

U are confused. 1. Are u dating her or both of u are just friends. It's obvious u aren't dating her. And u are now complaining now when it's almost too late. Anyway, If u wanna get this gal, use the bad guy method on her. E.g Jim Iyke, Wizkid etc. No go come dey act like pastor for where she dey. From my observations, U have been acting too nice towards her. This kind of girls like bad guys. Guys who can manipulate their ways and get what they want from them. Besides, no be this kind girl u suppose dey get HBP for na! This kind of girl likes and respect guys who can manipulatively get into sexual intimacy with them.

The moment I tell a babe I like or love her the relationship begins to go south.

So my advice- just roll with the flow. Invite her over, normal. Buy sweet red wine like 4 Cousins or 4th Street to make her tipsy.

Ask her to come sit close to you. If she comes closer then it's a sign she may be interested. Hold her. Kiss her. Shift pant. And nack. After that na she go de ask you "what are we"

NarcissistKing:
Leave women and focus more on your life. Ladies will still come for you when you're making it.

pls stop having this mentality. If you want to focus just focus, it shouldnt be cos of women. If you finally made it they will come for the money and not you.

horlahwaley:
pls stop having this mentality. If you want to focus just focus, it shouldnt be cos of women. If you finally made it they will come for the money and not you.

Go and read to understand before you mention me.

Bush man looking down on himself....

Naso when I go NYSC, I meet one fine Igbo corper for my PPA. Every guy there say she get level, she like money, na big boys she dey follow...bla, blah, blaaaaah.....

I ended fuc*king out that babe life and even got her pregnant.

Moral lesson: Never go by what people portray themselves to be...Very few speaketh out the mind...Most people use words for defense and justifications...

Put her on a unique cruise...She's gonna see you different from the Benz and Lexus guys...

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.
I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship. Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.
Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

^^^^story
Bro jusss marrrry am mennnnn!!(no oofenese)

CandyOps:
"what are we"

And he'll reply "we're nothing but pencils in the hand of creator"

I really understand you, confessing your feelings is always the scariest and most trembling feeling.
But with experience, I've learned that it's always better to take a risk, to confess, even if you might get rejected.
But if you take the risk and your feelings are mutual, you will get the most unforgettable feelings of love.
You'll just grow wings, I'm one hundred percent sure of that.
I would give her some kind of gift, like flowers.
For example, if you know or can find out her address and send flowers anonymously (or not), girls love flowers and attention.
I recently bought my beloved very beautiful and her expensive flowers on Ottawa flower delivery.
Try doing that.
I think this is a good option, it would be very romantic.
And it could lead to something more in the future.

LittleNightmare:
I really understand you, confessing your feelings is always the scariest and most trembling feeling.
But with experience, I've learned that it's always better to take a risk, to confess, even if you might get rejected.
But if you take the risk and your feelings are mutual, you will get the most unforgettable feelings of love.
You'll just grow wings, I'm one hundred percent sure of that.

Aje you dey motivate me. Thanks for the kind words brother.

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.
I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship. Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.
Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Stay away from gold diggers.

Rejection is better than regrets

Well this is it

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.
I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship. Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.
Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Bro to be candid.. She is suffering from a deeply rooted complex (probably inferiority) but she's only putting up a charade on social media to hide that sickening part of her. So my advice is that you stop being a Simp, and talk to her but don't try to show her too much attention, lest she takes advantage of it..

My two cents...

Don't talk to her, just keep making her comfortable around you, you might end up as FWB

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.
I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship. Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.
Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

Lol Oga abort mission of you dont want to cry, cause you ar sounding v like you might go depressed if she say no, she will definitely say no

Once she says such, move on

Kenturkey048:
Bush man looking down on himself....

Naso when I go NYSC, I meet one fine Igbo corper for my PPA. Every guy there say she get level, she like money, na big boys she dey follow...bla, blah, blaaaaah.....

I ended fuc*king out that babe life and even got her pregnant.

Moral lesson: Never go by what people portray themselves to be...Very few speaketh out the mind...Most people use words for defense and justifications...

Put her on a unique cruise...She's gonna see you different from the Benz and Lexus guys...

She don born for you now baa?

When you are alone and the timing is right, let her know. Don't beat around the bush, tell it to her boldly.

ITbomb:
Don't talk to her, just keep making her comfortable around you, you might end up as FWB

That ain't what I want with her tho

HOLLY GRAM NO LET NAIJA GIRLS GIVE U HBP.. JUST NACK D ONCE WEY U FIT NACK AND LEAV ODERS 4 ODER MANCHI. WTF MAN

The FTC on this thread don successfully rush mic from my hand like say we dey quarrel before

Well, Op, like seriously, there's nothing you can do about it..If I were you,I go just automatically assume say she don already reject me via the kind of stuffs wey she dey post on WhatsApp and her mentality towards relationship...

Besides,so apart from your fineboy personality, nothing else's wey you get again? . Chaiiii,see me see wahala for 21st century

YourWriter:


That ain't what I want with her tho

I don't see how you gonna get any other thing bro

Ask her for a relationship and see if t works out.