Bola146:


It makes you sad seeing your examples bastard! Sorry for your life

Almost all guys on these forum has something on their head..they insult as if tomorrow no dey..and they call themselves adult haba..online no be your mate oo if person no fit control em mouth.. imagine comment wey that guy dey comment..advice he no give na insult..

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS TO ABORT SINCE THE FATHER TOLD YOU THAT HE DOES NOT WANT KIDS OR YOU CAN KEEP IT AND RAISE THE TWINS AS A SINGLE MOTHER IF YOU ARE FINANCIALY CAPAPBLE, YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER BEFORE SPREADING YOUR LEG WIDE FOR DICK, ''I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO" DUMB QUESTION, WERE WE THERE WHEN YOU WERE SCREAMING HARDER, HARDER, PLEASE CUM INSIDE ME, NOW SEE THE RESULT

If they said said stop following men, you'll think they hate you.... Now look what you've done to yourself, go to the place of worshipping and ask for help.

mariahAngel:


You don’t know what to do? Sweetheart, what you have to do is to have them of course. You're having TWINS! Omg!
And their father has no choice but to want them if he doesn’t want to be more unfortunate in life than he already is.
May God and nature not punish him!

Are you da.ft or foolish? Did he rape her? Didn't she have the power to say NO to the sex? More than men, women have more power to make sex happen and not happen if they agree or disagree. Abi she nor know when it is safe and unsafe for herself to have sex. Rubbish.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

send me an email.

You all here singing like kenery here dont know what it cost and also the stress involved in raising a child by a jobless single mother talkless of twins, well sha she is an adult and she knows whats best for her, all am going to say to her here is for her to count her teeth with her tongue because all those singing like kenery here will not be there to assist her when the time comes!

Bola146:
You have made the mistake already, just go back to your parents house or hide somewhere. Please don't ever make any mistake of aborting the pregnancy please.

Are you the one that will cater for the children when she gives birth to them? Bringing innocent children to the world to come and suffer should not be encouraged. We have bandits, Boko Haram, hoodlums, armed robbers and kidnappers. One of the Genesis of all these listed terrors in our society is as a result of unplanned children born into poverty.

Bola146:


Why criticising her when you know nothing about her? Coming out with old profile, will you give her solutions to it? Kobo you no get to give her, job you no get but to type with no help, number one! Why not keep quiet when you see any post like that many people are going through depression everyday

you are right... We should not compound people's problem with our utterances. God will see her thru

If it's true then their father is a MUMU MAN

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Firstly Thank God!

Secondly, This is a life changing destination point, Try to talk to either your mum,Cousin, Friend before you make any rash decision....

Righteousness2:
This is why we Hammer daily on the need to stay away from Immorality and sin.

Every Action or decisions we take in Disobedience to GOD has its Consequences.

It is a Pity that you have fallen into it.
You Have to Gear up and Face whatever comes.

Do not kill those babies under any circumstance because you will be adding Murder to Fornication.

Repent From your Sin and ask GOD for Mercy.
Inform his parents or anyone you know from his side.
Hold on GOD'S Mercy and Live on.
Children are Gifts from GOD.
May GOD Show you Mercy in JESUS Name..

lol! She already made the mistake, she she has admitted her errors and you already know that, and she's here seeking genuine advice on on how to come outta her current predicament. Why write stuffs to make her feel dejected/condemned. This is a wrong approach

For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved (John 3:17)


** To everyone reading this,
God loves you and he's not angry at you, no matter the mistakes you might have made in the past, don't feel dejected. JESUS IS WAITING FOR YOU

[s]

MNDY:


Are you da.ft or foolish? Did he rape her? Didn't she have the power to say NO to the sex? More than men, women have more power to make sex happen and not happen if they agree or disagree. Abi she nor know when it is safe and unsafe for herself to have sex. Rubbish.

[/s]


That is how some of you end up becoming so unfortunate in life as a result of your wickedness and irresponsibility, and you wonder why life is so mean to you!

Jashub:
A new account with a new moniker was created for the purpose of seeking attention . Na wah for joblessness

monitoring spirit

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

So sorry dear. This most be difficult for you to take. Pls won't mind if you need my help, ready to help. Reach out pls

Evangelynn:

Lol who is playing the religious card with you if not you.
Aunty are they not developed countries or not why should you spank a child when there are better forms of punishments to correct a child, taking the life of which child when did the so called life of a foetus become superior and more important than the life of the woman carrying the foetus/embryo use your God given brain and argue with sense not emotions they are not confused they are very sensible people no wonder they are much more developed nobody asked you about that

Lol,you know nothing abortion has been in existence since the beginning of time it will continue to be here nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just learn to accept the fact that life will happen to some people and abortion will be an option for them hence why many advocate for safe access to abortions because they know that life isn't just black and white some people said science and democracy was anti human blah,blah,blah but here we are today.


Lol did you say abortionist are worse than rapist lol don't embarrass yourself please

Do these developed countries hold the standard code on how the human race should run? Are there no social issues they are battling with despite their development or are you saying they have an utopian society?

Even so, there are a whole lot of them from these countries who are against abortion and are pro-life, their governments legalized abortion (just like many other issues we frown at are legal over there).

Abortion is deliberately killing and terminating a pregnancy that otherwise would have been successful. The heart of an embryo starts beating with blood cells formed as early as week 5 of gestation (about a week after your missed period) when most women are not even aware that they are pregnant.

If that pregnancy progresses, and is successful, the heart that started beating at 5wks may continue to beat till the child becomes an old person; and by then that heart can stop beating, not by a decision between the mother and her doctor.

Abortion may be recommended in situations where the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother or if the feotus formed may have major health issues if allowed to live. Not for every Tom, Dick, Harry kind of reasons.

We should rather encourage people to be responsible with their sexuality. It is not just about unwanted pregnancies, it is also about STDs some of which are life long.

You can't keep making innocent fetuses pay for the irresponsibilities of their mothers (or parents). If a lady thinks about her own life and how she's not capable of handling a baby now, she should rather opts for safe sex that will also prevent pregnancy. Contraceptives: physical, hormonal, whatever; just don't make a baby's heart start beating and then end it at will just because it's your body and your government supports you.

If there's a baby around you, look at him or her and imagine that child had been killed in the womb and taken out because the mum is pro choice.

Now imagine op stopping two heart beats because of the challenges she facing now.

Enuf said.

I use God beg you
I'm read to be there father

Bring them to me I need that kind of blessing from God.

nijaomegacode:
NEVER marry a woman you did not disvirgin. She's a curse to her children: born and unborn.

Did you ask your father if he married you mother a virgin? Una go just dey talk any how .

As a young bachelor in his early 30s, I love twins like mahd... I pray when I find her and finally marry (which I hope soon), I will get twins. I wish I was the one responsible for the pregnancy, I don't have much ooo but I will surely kill a goat for you.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

The deed has been done. Now you need to sit down and think of how you will get something doing to take care of yourself and save for the kids.

Pls do not think of abortion. I pray God he with you throughout this journey

AdedoyinO:


Do these developed countries hold the standard code on how the human race should run? Are there no social issues they are battling with despite their development or are you saying they have an utopian society?

They have a better society than Nigeria, they don't hold the standard code but they are more humane and less hypocrites than Nigerians.

Even so, there are a whole lot of them from these countries who are against abortion and are pro-life, their governments legalized abortion (just like many other issues we frown at are legal over there)

Who cares about the views they hold, the Koko is that their government is very realistic and majority of them support legalising abortion.

Abortion is deliberately killing and terminating a pregnancy that otherwise would have been successful. The heart of an embryo starts beating with blood cells formed as early as week 5 of gestation (about a week after your missed period) when most women are not even aware that they are pregnant

Lol,do you know that miscarriages are natural abortions and that not all pregnancies will always come to term?do you also know that some embryos have birth defects and diseases hence abortion is sometimes recommended? abortion is sometimes necessary and even at that no child asked to be born and the mother's life and opinion or choice is more important than that of the foetus anyone or the government leave that decision for a woman and her doctor.

If that pregnancy progresses, and is successful, the heart that started beating at 5wks may continue to beat till the child becomes an old person; and by then that heart can stop beating, not by a decision between the mother and her doctor

I have already replied this and I will reiterate again no child asked to be born, and a woman's life is more important than the foetus hence why till date many countries make exceptions for abortions when the woman's life is in danger or she suffered from a rape because they know how traumatic it can be it remains a decision between a woman and her doctor.

Abortion may be recommended in situations where the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother or if the feotus formed may have major health issues if allowed to live. Not for every Tom, Dick, Harry kind of reasons.

Hence why it must be legalized and realistic to social and economic issues.

We should rather encourage people to be responsible with their sexuality. It is not just about unwanted pregnancies, it is also about STDs some of which are life long

Lol,the same hypocritical Nigeria that single women find it hard to access birth control pills or men are hardly encouraged to have vasectomies and be more sexually responsible,is it the same Nigeria where some frown at birth control and birth control is not even cheap and easily abortion is a form of health care and birth control too for some although it may be arguable.

You can't keep making innocent fetuses pay for the irresponsibilities of their mothers (or parents).

The so called innocent foetuses didn't ask to be born neither should they suffer coming into a poor/malnourished family or cursed with parents who are not well prepared to have them the foetus deserves better and the woman and man who you claim are irresponsible have every right to decide for themselves what they want and the choices they choose to make should be up to them.So because they are irresponsible according to you they should be burdened to have kids they will not be responsible for are you listening to yourself?do you think parenting is easy or they automatically become responsible after having children abi?Why should women be termed irresponsible by you but you fail to hold men accountable as well or na the woman sleep with herself alone?

If a lady thinks about her own life and how she's not capable of handling a baby now, she should rather opts for safe sex that will also prevent pregnancy. Contraceptives: physical, hormonal, whatever; just don't make a baby's heart start beating and then end it at will just because it's your body and your government supports you

Well how about the man being a part of the safe sex too or do you forget that safe sex isn't always safe also do you know that statistically in countries where abortion is legalised the abortion rate is low because their health care system is better and they have better and easier access to birth control and sex education is well taught in hypocritical Nigeria they find it hard to talk about sex and even try to deceive themselves that unmarried people don't have sex so they don't even discuss these issues with unmarried folks.

If there's a baby around you, look at him or her and imagine that child had been killed in the womb and taken out because the mum is pro choice.

Lol this emotional nonsense blackmail doesn't work with me, the only time I can be touched is when I see children begging and hawking or even suffering,looking malnourished and denied basic access if their parents easily accessed family planning methods and abortion they wouldn't be on the streets begging or be subject to abuse and oppression and taken advantage of by wicked humans.What you ended up saying if you look at the bigger picture is that those children you say I should look at their parents are very capable to take care of them and made a choice to be responsible in all areas for them nobody should be forced or burdened to carry a child they cannot cater for or be well responsible to care for.

Now imagine op stopping two heart beats because of the challenges she facing now.

Enuf said.

She would be doing the heart beats a favour they never asked to be born and it would be much worse if they are born into poverty,lack emotional,mental, financial and other basic care and access children need that is worse than death.I would rather support abortions than see children suffer,abused and taken into slavery or neglected by parents, society and government abortion isn't just a religious or emotional issue it is a social and economic one that isn't solved by sentiments but actual work.In many countries where abortion is legal,abortion rate is low because the social and economic issues in those countries are well resolved,some of the people against abortion because of religion don't support family planning or all kinds of family planning and unlike some countries birth control is easy to access while in your country nor so much because health care especially reproductive care for women and children isn't prioritised.Here in Nigeria abortion is reportedly on the increase and it is dangerous because it is unsafe and handled by quacks because it is not legalised.

Frankly...I think you should keep the kids...children are a gift from God. Please don't abort them...please. And now u have twins....that's double blessing.

If d man responsible doesn't want them...its okay...keep them and have faith...

Get your family involved and be strong..do not mind what friends and family will say..

U ll be scolded though bit be strong for your unborn kids.

How old are u? Do u have a job or business?

Are u a student ?

All these will determine how well you are gonna fare

Get in touch

08095364774

mariahAngel:
[s]Homellyy, you are fortunate to be pregnant with not just one, but two babies! That is rare. It is a blessing too.

See, a male nairalander once shared his story on this platform. He’s been married for 9 years(as at that time) with no child, and he blamed it all on his wife.
He claimed his wife once had an abortion, therefore, it made her womb “too weak” to carry a pregnancy to term( at first she kept having miscarriages, then later could no longer get pregnant).
He claimed he hated his wife because according to him, it was her fault that they couldn’t have a child up to that point. And nobody could convince him that it wasn’t because of the abortion his wife had had earlier in her life.

Another nairalander, a female this time, shared her own story.
She’s been married for between 7-9 years as at that time(I’m not particularly sure of the amount of years), they’ve been looking for a child, only for her husband to sly her and impregnate a widow with 3 children, then the husband was begging her to accept the children as her own, but she was bitter towards her husband for betraying her.

Why am I sharing these stories with you? Your children are your gifts that so many people would do and give anything to have.

When blessings come at a time we’re not ready for them, it is hard for us to see them as a blessing[/s].

Shey you will feed the mother and the child...you keeping giving emotionally, illogical solution to a very logical problem, if she gives birth to the child,omor am sure the price of Pampers and other babies stufs will actually force her to suicide in the long run...just yesterday my mom had to rush to her hospital for a child delivery in the quest of this,the mother had severe complications after, due to lack of blood bank around the hospital had to rush her to a private clinic and I am swearing to God the family of the woman had to pay 95k just that night,note that was after the child birth delivery being a son to a nurse I do hear of stories where mother give birth when twins is involve and due to complications can't give birth again she might be a victim of this too and some have had several abortion and yet give birth to many kids, it is obvious she is not mentally and emotionally to go through why you tryna force her to this probably cos of your personal sentiment and which it obvious you're not even ready to foot her bills...am not advocating for abortion and am not ruling it out either...depends on her personal sentiments if am to advice I will go with mercychen advice now she had to pay the price for her stupid decision in whatever ways it comes.

Disclaimer; I know you're reputed for insult on NL, but biko if you cannot engage in a logical and civil argument biko just pass.

Kobojunkie:
What to do about what exactly?

I love the way you reply posts like this

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

They will never learn.Give that lady another opportunity, you will be surprised that she will still open that damn

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

how old are you
Why the guy go refuse there is something you not saying

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

I would love to adopt them...09121629598

Pls keep them. Many are actually looking for but haven't gotten yet. I am begging that u keep them pls. What state are u @?

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

I've been your secrete admirer 4 long nw because of ur matured nd sensible replies here most of d times bt dis particular one just got me off guard, its unlike u Mercy.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Dm me. I will shelter you till delivery and if you wish, I take custody of them.

Astrid4:



.am not advocating for abortion and am not ruling it out either...depends on her personal sentiments if am to advice I will go with mercychen advice now she had to pay the price for her stupid decision in whatever ways it comes.

If it depended on her "personal sentiments" as you say, why then did she bring it here, asking for what to do?
Have you considered that there's the option of adoption if she's not ready to keep the babies?
Or you don't think the babies she carrying deserve the chance to live?

Astrid4:



Shey you will feed the mother and the child...you keeping giving emotionally, illogical solution to a very logical problem, if she gives birth to the child,omor am sure the price of Pampers and other babies stufs will actually force her to suicide in the long run...just yesterday my mom had to rush to her hospital for a child delivery in the quest of this,the mother had severe complications after, due to lack of blood bank around the hospital had to rush her to a private clinic and I am swearing to God the family of the woman had to pay 95k just that night,note that was after the child birth delivery being a son to a nurse I do hear of stories where mother give birth when twins is involve and due to complications can't give birth again she might be a victim of this too and some have had several abortion and yet give birth to many kids, it is obvious she is not mentally and emotionally to go through why you tryna force her to this probably cos of your personal sentiment and which it obvious you're not even ready to foot her bills...am not advocating for abortion and am not ruling it out either...depends on her personal sentiments if am to advice I will go with mercychen advice now she had to pay the price for her stupid decision in whatever ways it comes.

Disclaimer; I know you're reputed for insult on NL, but biko if you cannot engage in a logical and civil argument biko just pass.

God bless you for doing justice to this matter with detailed points. I couldnt have said it any better. This here was exactly my point.

See the other 17 yr old girl who was abandoned at the hospital because the father of her twin babies ran away and her family could not pay the bills. Who will now bear the cost?

Has anyone of them showing empathy behind their keypads sent her a dime till now? Thats what I'm saying. Certain things can be avoided.

It's always better to be safe than sorry.

Moredays78:
I've been your secrete admirer 4 long nw because of ur matured nd sensible replies here most of d times bt dis particular one just got me off guard, its unlike u Mercy.

I'm sorry if you feel disappointed by my comment but one thing you should know is this. I will never try to bend the truth in favor of a group of people just because they think otherwise or sugar-coat immoral acts in order to get people's approval. I'll keep speaking against it until every one gets their acts together and begin to do things right.