mariahAngel:


If it depended on her "personal sentiments" as you say, why then did she bring it here, asking for what to do?
Have you considered that there's the option of adoption if she's not ready to keep the babies?
Or you don't think the babies she carrying deserve the chance to live?


As for the canceled part, na for people wey no wan get sense! And them plenty for nairaland.

omoharry:
Did you ask your father if he married you mother a virgin? Una go just dey talk any how .

meetme01:


Ma'am don't mind all those cowards chastising you.

What's your age bracket?

Are your parents aware? If yes, your mom could be a good support system at this time.

If no, you need to get them involved at this early stage and if perhaps, you feel it won't go down well with them, get a sister, cousin or family friend that you are comfortable with to confide in, to talk to them.

Try this and give an update to see what would be the next step (counsel, advice and intervention). I believe this would work.

My dear, lots of guys are irresponsible which they later regret in life when it dawns on them, what a foolish decision they took wayback.

Lots of applications for adoption are on my table. This is to tell you that, the gift God is about to handle over to you, is priceless.

This time will pass. Whatever support you need, ask and assistance will come. The bright future should be your focus.

It will be rough, but believe me, it will end in praise.. Amen

Mercychen:


God bless you for doing justice to this matter with detailed points. I couldnt have said it any better. This here was exactly my point.

See the other 17 yr old girl who was abandoned at the hospital because the father of her twin babies ran away and her family could not pay the bills. Who will now bear the cost?

Has anyone of them showing empathy behind their keypads sent her a dime till now? Thats what I'm saying. Certain things can be avoided.

It's always better to be safe than sorry.

Mercychen:


God bless you for doing justice to this matter with detailed points. I couldnt have said it any better. This here was exactly my point.

See the other 17 yr old girl who was abandoned at the hospital because the father of her twin babies ran away and her family could not pay the bills. Who will now bear the cost?

Has anyone of them showing empathy behind their keypads sent her a dime till now? Thats what I'm saying. Certain things can be avoided.

It's always better to be safe than sorry.

I'm sorry if you feel disappointed by my comment but one thing you should know is this. I will never try to bend the truth in favor of a group of people just because they think otherwise or sugar-coat immoral acts in order to get people's approval. I'll keep speaking against it until every one gets their acts together and begin to do things right.

Mercychen:


God bless you for doing justice to this matter with detailed points. I couldnt have said it any better. This here was exactly my point.

See the other 17 yr old girl who was abandoned at the hospital because the father of her twin babies ran away and her family could not pay the bills. Who will now bear the cost?

Has anyone of them showing empathy behind their keypads sent her a dime till now? Thats what I'm saying. Certain things can be avoided.

It's always better to be safe than sorry.

I'm sorry if you feel disappointed by my comment but one thing you should know is this. I will never try to bend the truth in favor of a group of people just because they think otherwise or sugar-coat immoral acts in order to get people's approval. I'll keep speaking against it until every one gets their acts together and begin to do things right.

Moredays78:
I'm nt saying dat ur points isn't good, bt plz caution her in a friendly manner, nt through insult plz Mercy.

Mercychen:


Ok. I never insulted her though.

mariahAngel:


Stop being so damn cruel!

Sirqt5:
41 year old used up evening newspaper, will u keep quiet?!!! u dey form holy upandan when u no be virgin . from ur several other monikers u don delete we know u are not a virgin but u come dey form virgin on this one to trap an innocent man . old hypocrite like u dey talk, chei!!!

ivolt:

Pregnancy isn't an excuse for laziness!

APCNig:


Nobody wants illegitimate children

nijaomegacode:

Yes he did.
Sorry for your loss.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

mariahAngel:


Stop being so damn cruel!

Mercychen:


What's cruel about reproving someone? Madam "pamparer". you expected me to give her a pat on the back or what? You're a joker!

Look, I regard her as a younger sister to me and ive simply advised her the only way i can and would my younger ones.

The way I handle issues is different from the way you and every other person would. So don't ever expect me to handle it your way or come telling me how to.
It's people like you that encourage immorality and then such rubbish keeps repeating itself.

Next time, simply make your own contributions and buzz off my mentions. If the op is not cool with my advice or contributions, let her accost me herself.

chubbyswit:
you have said it all. They are the kind of people that call evil good and good evil just to sound woke. Confused generation.

Evangelynn:

You are the one disgusting yourself.

You cannot argue facts but emotions because deep down you know I am saying the truth and life isn't always black and white nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just mind your business and leave the woman to decide what's best for her it her business with her doctor.

chubbyswit:
you are not saying any truth woman. Abortion is evil, stop supporting wickedness.

Kajaard:


Wow, are you really serious about taking the kids in? That's really nice. If you are really serious and the op confirms that you are, I will chip in something financially from time to time to ease your burden.

cc: Homellyy

Iyaebe:
So you have a heart afterall? I wonder why most of you like to appear troublesome

SoapQueen:


Respect a pregnant woman. You didn't fall from the skies

ivolt:

Nothing to respect in a woman choosing to get pregnant.
With choices comes responsibilities.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.