Toks2008:


Hey just negodu there. When i say write simple English it is nit because i can't comprehend but it just doesn't make sense writing big grammar to make simple sense. I hear English and possibly speak am pass you so don't get over your head.

Your point is my stand view so i guess we are on the same page.

Eyinju112:
This happens in Zimbabwe
I’ve got this neighbor in turkey then
They both hustle..The woman cooks, wash, sweep for one week without the man’s assistance and the following week the man cooks, clean, wash even toilet without the woman’s assistance, the woman would sit down watching tv while the man does everything for that whole week
It’s a 50/50 thing
They both hustle, the girl doesn’t have the right to demand, they pay every damn bills 50/50 even split foodstuffs money into two hahahaha
I was forced to ask her what kind of life is that, she said that’s their culture in Zimbabwe, and to be honest she loves it ...

They believe in equality
Nobody is superior....

Toks2008:


You are the one fooling around now. He did not give any advice

Guy talk sey nah wettin e like be dat and you are hear abusing him....what you like may necessarily not be what i like.

I love his type of relationship and i want such too. Somebody son can not come and kill himself in the name of maintaining traditional role.

I don't know if it is a naija mindset though but outside Nigeria, that is the norm.

Iyaebe:
lol, only the matured ones like you can see through my comments, I just play around and can't even dare most of the things I type here lol. Indeed the good and matured ones are married.#manlikefranchasng#

franchasng:
Hahahahaha na lie oh, there are still plenty wonderful Naija guys who are damn single, but most of them get scared by what u fine fine ladies type online, they fearfully believe the things u ladies type not knowing that it's all cruise and time wasting lol, no give up oh, them plenty

Even the guys u fight with here, if u summon courage to meet some outside here, u maybe amazed and be heading to Church for a thanksgiving

Iyaebe:
lol you are right,it's all fun in this forum.We are all scared of ourselves lol.

RightToReject:


One can only pity the bumpkins who brought you into this world; if only they know that all their investments in you are a simple waste. Now, scram and continue living your ignorance and interacting with your fellow ignorant and small-minded types in general.

Toks2008:


What are you talking about?

Did you not see my post. Am i not the OP?

generalwo:
Go back and look at the lady when she was with him when he had nothing...... He did not just show her this kind of love in a day..... She has been there for and with him through thick and thin.....

Iyaebe:
I don't like that "we both huzlers and we both pay" aspect please.My husband should be huzling why I focus more on raising my kids.God will punish all those oyingbo that brought the "what are you bringing to the table" slogan for African men to copy.We are Africans and not Oyingbo,please don't listen to him.

franchasng:
fear of ungun known men, no fear anybody oh, na talk we go talk, voom everybody move on to other things, Tiwa sextape never come and everybody don forget am, na so life be, so no fear anybody at all, if u find any user interesting no dull meeting up, u no kill anybody na comment u de type na

Friend22:


Personally and religiously ,it's a man's role and responsibility to take of his wife not splitting bills.
I know many will not agree to.this ,but I dont gibe a flying hoot.

I am here wondering the kind of entitled and emasculated men we are raising.

Don't get me wrong,the man should be the sole provider until there comes a time a lady may need to step in.
But the primary role of a woman is to be maintained, cared for and be protected.

SEGLIZ:
imagine the bunch of kids coming online to form redpill and alpha yet avoiding the roles and responsibility of an alpha.

soon this lot will look up to women for security and protection. they forgot there is a natural order, this generation is so watery.

franchasng:
hehe, anyway na American and European lifestyle sha, na their way. I am a typical Nigerian traditional man, I prefer to be in total control of my marriage financially while my wife keeps the home bro.



But you are absolutely right, it's his personal choice which I doubt cos if at my small level I can afford domestic staff, imagine billionaire in dollars like Jay Z talking lies of taking care of the home, what then will his domestic staffs be doing? Na cruise him de catch with him followers sha as him just join Instagram, him need more Mumu followers to beef up his dying fame



As for u Toks, deep inside u, your Nigerian version prefers to be the main provider of your home but the European devil in u is telling u no, but I rebuke that European devil on your behalf, say a big AMEN!

Iyaebe:
I've actually met two people from here but couldn't date them,a particular one came with the vibes I put here and at a point started flashing money as if money is my problem. The truth is most young men don't have that core family values anymore, don't know how to tame a woman, see ehn most of them fear me here and I enjoy it,at the mention of my Monika they run but I enjoy it because I don't want a weak man,who wants a man who can't be in charge and in control? Most people I like here are already married and don't look forward to meeting anyone from here anymore.Looking forward to snatching sha lol

TheOnlyUyai:


May God bless you my sister. These Nigerian men are starting to become something else these days. They don't want to be responsible.

Iyaebe:
I've actually met two people from here but couldn't date them,a particular one came with the vibes I put here and at a point started flashing money as if money is my problem. The truth is most young men don't have that core family values anymore, don't know how to tame a woman, see ehn most of them fear me here and I enjoy it,at the mention of my Monika they run but I enjoy it because I don't want a weak man,who wants a man who can't be in charge and in control? Most people I like here are already married and don't look forward to meeting anyone from here anymore.Looking forward to snatching sha lol

Iyaebe:
Very annoying set of Nigerian men,African women are designed to give care while the husband huzle and provide comfort for the family. Any married woman still huzling like a Jackie is just suffering,the stress a woman go through while single should not remain so when married. You give care and provide again? no naaaa that's too much,you can help but not a provider. Well, I don't come across such men sha,I only see them on nairaland.

franchasng:
lafmaoooo



Abeg no snatch me oh


Guys shebi una de hear from the horses mouth, make una no fear Iyaebe again oh

NoToPile:


I am a lady oo

But you didn't say anything about the man taking domestic responsibility , I can't see that any where in your write up advising me as a male to take any domestic responsibility.

I know you might not respond now you know I am female.


Advice your fellow men to take domestic responsibility too, women are providing already ,same way financial burdens can kill the man is the same way a woman can die carrying both financial and domestic burdens.

You want one person to carry two responsibilities while you are carrying only one, its not nice.

Tell the men to do chores women are providing already shikena.

And traditional roles are not dead if not you won't see guys on these thread saying they can't do domestic work.

Since they can't let them provide fully now.

Don't bring abroad into this issue, all those shouting they can't do chores do it with joy over there, Nigeria is the case study

Anyway I salute the real men out there who at least acknowledge its their responsibility even though economic constraint may prevent them from providing fully. And to those that provide all na man you be.

franchasng:
God bless you.


Jay Z is talking nonsense, he should better leave Instagram, don't know why he even joined, maybe because his fame is dying and he wants to revive it by dishing out rubbish and conflicting advice to gullible followers lolz



Every Nigerian guy wishes and desires to be the main financial provider of his marriage and home, it's only when he fails to make it financially that he starts to scout for a financial help mate via marrying a financially independent or working class lady

Toks2008:


But Nairalanders say you are a male.

Wahala dey o

Toks2008:


@European Devil

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Bro, trust me Jay Z mindset is the norm in the western world.

Billionaires do domestic stuffs and share bills which is why they live longer than their African counterparts who die young struggling to provide everything thereby putting themselves under serious pressure.

bukatyne:


You have forgotten the 'right to cheat' because they are the 'head/men'

Toks2008:


You are missing the vital part....THEY BOTH GIVE CARE AND PROVIDE.

Iyaebe:
I've actually met two people from here but couldn't date them,a particular one came with the vibes I put here and at a point started flashing money as if money is my problem. The truth is most young men don't have that core family values anymore, don't know how to tame a woman, see ehn most of them fear me here and I enjoy it,at the mention of my Monika they run but I enjoy it because I don't want a weak man,who wants a man who can't be in charge and in control? Most people I like here are already married and don't look forward to meeting anyone from here anymore.Looking forward to snatching sha lol

TheOnlyUyai:


Franchas bia, are you married? If you are ehn, your wife is so lucky. Chai. Na real men them be this, no be all these man boys wey litter thread dey find equality.

TheOnlyUyai:


Franchas bia, are you married? If you are ehn, your wife is so lucky. Chai. Na real men them be this, no be all these man boys wey litter thread dey find equality.