i have dated this my girl for over six years infact from childhood,we have known each other for long but we always quarrel and settle.all the family members of both of knows we are dating and are almost waiting for us to tie the knots.i had a problem with my girl, to me its not really a problem because i feel God wants to reveal something to me.she was posted to kaduna which i vowed i cant be alive and see her serve their so i redeployed her to lagos where i was and ask her to pay part of the money while i complete the rest of which she accepted.to my surprise she collected the money from the mum and refused to pay.when i confronted her she couldnt give any good reason.meanwhile the company where she is working now i sent her there and she is been paid.i decided not to talk to her for a while to see if she would have a change of heart.just barely two weeks i cut her off only to call her again she was comparing me with a corper in the company which i suffered to send her to.am so confused and have all the evidence of her moves with the guy which she accepted after face to face combat.should i go on with her or let her be.i love this girl so much and she is capitalizing on it to deal with me.i need advice pals useful one and not mockery cos am dying in silence.

DonTonero: i have dated this my girl for over six years infact from childhood,we have known each other for long but we always quarrel and settle.all the family members of both of knows we are dating and are almost waiting for us to tie the knots.i had a problem with my girl, to me its not really a problem because i feel God wants to reveal something to me.she was posted to kaduna which i vowed i cant be alive and see her serve their so i redeployed her to lagos where i was and ask her to pay part of the money while i complete the rest of which she accepted.to my surprise she collected the money from the mum and refused to pay.when i confronted her she couldnt give any good reason.meanwhile the company where she is working now i sent her there and she is been paid.i decided not to talk to her for a while to see if she would have a change of heart.just barely two weeks i cut her off only to call her again she was comparing me with a corper in the company which i suffered to send her to.am so confused and have all the evidence of her moves with the guy which she accepted after face to face combat.should i go on with her or let her be.i love this girl so much and she is capitalizing on it to deal with me.i need advice pals useful one and not mockery cos am dying in silence.

i may nt be a luv doctor bt i knw its bad 4 u 2 tink of marying a gal dat does nt luv u. Tink!!

Ignore all her misdemeanor,after service she will come back home to roost.

so are you saying she slept with the other guy? or what exactly has she done?

She'll come back i bet u, she can't lost a relationship of dat years like dat, just relax na woman nah, d fuckup b say she go don collect STEADY PUMPING b4 she come back.

Dear Friend, please take it easy with your self. Start to create a little distance from her , then you will see if she will come back to her senses. if she does not , then she is not meant for you. Dont allow any one to rob you of your happiness. Just create a distance and you will see the true picture of her.

six years of suffocating.... Dont worry she just needs a new wind of change.... Lmao.....

what hurts me most is not that she admitted going out with the corper guy but asked me where was i the two weeks when she need me most.i cant understand what she mean by thatbecause even in our quarrel i still call her yet she dont pick my calls.from her school days till now i have played a vital role to make her reach this height.we both love each other but i cant fathom this sudden change besides as we speak she is hiding it from her people.a friend of mine confronted her on this and she told her she cant really say what came over her.that he should beg me to give her 3 months to sort things out..am willing to do that but its not easy cos i cant imagine the thought of her stabbing me like this in my chest with no remorse

guy, before she cums back which urwly she will, go get yourself a fine ass cute chick. so when she cums back n sees u wit d chick, she wont tink you are dindinrin. simple

DonTonero: i have dated this my girl for over six years infact from childhood,we have known each other for long but we always quarrel and settle.all the family members of both of knows we are dating and are almost waiting for us to tie the knots.i had a problem with my girl, to me its not really a problem because i feel God wants to reveal something to me.she was posted to kaduna which i vowed i cant be alive and see her serve their so i redeployed her to lagos where i was and ask her to pay part of the money while i complete the rest of which she accepted.to my surprise she collected the money from the mum and refused to pay.when i confronted her she couldnt give any good reason.meanwhile the company where she is working now i sent her there and she is been paid.i decided not to talk to her for a while to see if she would have a change of heart.just barely two weeks i cut her off only to call her again she was comparing me with a corper in the company which i suffered to send her to.am so confused and have all the evidence of her moves with the guy which she accepted after face to face combat.should i go on with her or let her be.i love this girl so much and she is capitalizing on it to deal with me.i need advice pals useful one and not mockery cos am dying in silence.

Am sure I have said it b4 here that NYSC is the time girls cheat the most. If a girl remains faithful thru out that yr, she is worth keeping for life. . . It's the most trying period of their life

so cos u left/abandoned her 4 dose tyms, she shld b mournin ehn?
nonsense
smtyms i wonder wat u men think of urselves
u think we cant all b without y'all
crap
go get busy n stop rantin
mtchew

@dyt i didnt leave her to suffer nor for another.she misunderstood me.i tried to communicate she wouldnt listen.i felt giving her time would help make her think and see reasons,to my greatest surprise her close pal first told me wats going on.i doubted it,when i confronted her she denied but when she noticed am talking with facts and that i know more than she thought,she opened up to my cousin that she was confused.up till now she hasnt even asked for forgivenes cos am willing to accept her back.we all make mistake but talking responsibility for our actions is what matters most.

DonTonero: @dyt i didnt leave her to suffer nor for another.she misunderstood me.i tried to communicate she wouldnt listen.i felt giving her time would help make her think and see reasons,to my greatest surprise her close pal first told me wats going on.i doubted it,when i confronted her she denied but when she noticed am talking with facts and that i know more than she thought,she opened up to my cousin that she was confused.up till now she hasnt even asked for forgivenes cos am willing to accept her back.we all make mistake but talking responsibility for our actions is what matters most.

someone cheated on you and you are waiting for her to ask for forgiveness? dude you are hilarious. Did it ever occur to you that she doesn't want you anymore? instead of you to have some dignity for yourself, you are waiting for her to beg you. Please open your eyes and move on. No one deserves to be treated in the manner she has treated you and feeling like you can't find better is only an emotion that will pass. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE

I can bet u she's got nothing serious to do with that guy. She just wants to get back at you for being silent for 2wks.
Take a chill pill bro, get ur acts together n calmly call her to order. You are the MAN. Apologise for any harsh words or actions in d past. Hold her, cuddle n pamper her, she is ur little baby (but don't go cryn n begging or she will rubbish you the more)

^^ r u dat way?

DECOtech: I can bet u she's got nothing serious to do with that guy. She just wants to get back at you for being silent for 2wks.
Take a chill pill bro, get ur acts together n calmly call her to order. You are the MAN. Apologise for any harsh words or actions in d past. Hold her, cuddle n pamper her, she is ur little baby (but don't go cryn n begging or she will rubbish you the more)

that's true.@poster do as he says bt if she blanks u,u just hv to move on and i promise u she will regret it.pls one more tin,dnt tk her bck if she turns her bck  u wen u hv apologised.

DonTonero: that he should beg me to give her 3 months to sort things out..

Meanwhile during those three mths,her luv,grinding& bondin wt dat other guy will grow stronger& u expect her to now come bak.Man,d 3mths time "to sort out tins" is d key to d end of dis tin.If added to ur 'shortcomings',d guy is better dan u in bed,whc I strongly suspect,dat will b d final nail on ur coffin.Wish u luck,ah ah,how dis tin called luv dulls d senses.

DonTonero: am so confused and have all the evidence of her moves with the guy which she accepted after face to face combat.should i go on with her or let her be.i love this girl so much and she is capitalizing on it to deal with me.i need advice pals useful one and not mockery cos am dying in silence.

LOL @ bolded.

Just so you know, once another guy is in the picture - the whole relationship has been corrupted. Physically or mentally, she is not FULLY yours anymore. In your case, i think the new guy is filling your space LITERALLY!

Try as much as you can to ignore her.Just try.She will surely come back if she is for u. But make sure u have a heart to forgive.Maybe she thinks the guy is better but time will tell.Just allow her to taste the waters.

Dyt: so cos u left/abandoned her 4 dose tyms, she shld b mournin ehn?
nonsense
smtyms i wonder wat u men think of urselves
u think we cant all b without y'all
crap
go get busy n stop rantin
mtchew

please don't take it personal u hia hahahhahahahaah

u must v skipped lunch

Dyt: u must v skipped lunch

SHARRAP!!!

must u shout?

thanx for your advice.they say a problem shared is half solved.some emotional trauma dont easily go that way but the good part is am a man and will endure.cant call this a hrtbrk cos this is hrt shattering .we see each other online but no communication though am not bothered again cos she is this strong mined type that would like me to initiate an arguement before we talk but i have kept to myself.tanx once more for all your candid advice.but i have learnt my lesson but am so scared the next good girl that comes my way dont suffer the sins of another.

My own advice? That girl doesn't love or respect you. Haba! A fellow corper and to ur face? See this period of courtship is when ur thru character shd show. You 2 have dated long and I think she is still growing, trying to figure out who she is. So my advice, let her go. You move on with ur own life and find a decent girl, I have recommendations sef. if she comes back and you feel u can live with the fact she has gbenshed other men then go ahead. I have learnt not to let my happiness be dependent on someone else.

tanx deresh

Daresh: My own advice? That girl doesn't love or respect you. Haba! A fellow corper and to ur face? See this period of courtship is when ur thru character shd show. You 2 have dated long and I think she is still growing, trying to figure out who she is. So my advice, let her go. You move on with ur own life and find a decent girl, I have recommendations sef. if she comes back and you feel u can live with the fact she has gbenshed other men then go ahead. I have learnt not to let my happiness be dependent on someone else.

Thanks for being honest, @DonTonero there you have it. #Daresh has told you all you need to know, the ball is in your court. #Daresh, I wouldn't mind those recommendations o. Seriously.

Daresh: My own advice? That girl doesn't love or respect you. Haba! A fellow corper and to ur face? See this period of courtship is when ur thru character shd show. You 2 have dated long and I think she is still growing, trying to figure out who she is. So my advice, let her go. You move on with ur own life and find a decent girl, I have recommendations sef. if she comes back and you feel u can live with the fact she has gbenshed other men then go ahead. I have learnt not to let my happiness be dependent on someone else.

of all the advise i fink yours is lik a slegde hammer.am understanding anyway but kinda fink my problem is fear or better put letting go.i have heard you kudos

fresh_dude: Thanks for being honest, @DonTonero there you have it. #Daresh has told you all you need to know, the ball is in your court. #Daresh, I wouldn't mind those recommendations o. Seriously.

If you want me to recommend my beautiful saintlike cousins to you *lol*, first declare your intentions!

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