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| Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 9:57am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I recently meet a young lady, though she is a single mother. Because of what happened, She stays with her family. We got to know and I noticed she is a nice woman and am in love with her. I told her how I felt about her. (It's pure love). I then asked her out and she agreed. Note :She takes care of the child with the help of her family. She doesn't demand from me. Fast forward to some days, I asked her about her child's father. She told me the guy wanted to marry her, came and meet her parents. She had some belief of getting married soonest and the unthinkable happened. She had unprotected sex with the guy and she got pregnant. Realizing she is pregnant, the guy left and abandoned her. Co's of what happened, She hated men, never had sex for close to a year until I came into her life now. One thing that has been troubling my life is :If she is good with her attitude towards me, why did THE GUY GOT HER PREGNANT AND RAN AWAY even after meeting her parents(My question though) Please those who have dated single mothers kindly share your thought. Note :I'm not after her for sex, I had enough during my Versity says and my Nysc..... CC lalastical Sex is the last thing on my mind when Btc dey close to 70k and I have None. I just want pure love same way I would love who who ever loves me.. 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Davash222(m): 9:59am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Co's of what happened, She hated men, never had sex for close to a year until I came into her life now.  One of the oldest lies invented by women. They use this lie to manipulate men. .If she is good with her attitude towards me, why did THE GUY GOT HER PREGNANT AND RAN AWAY Question for high power. OP, you're smart. Your thinking faculty is very much active. Don't fall for those gimmicks from her. No man will abandon a nice woman. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Iamtoyosii: 10:00am On Nov 07, 2021 |
If it won't be like am not minding my buisness enough,. must you date a single mom, cause it just seems to me like you're finding trouble for ya self, thanks. 17 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Nobody: 10:06am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Your moniker's name presupposes that you live in a Zoocountry. An enclave where only the smartest and fittest survive. Based on the quality of your composition, which opens this thread, it is apparent you do not have a white collar job and most likely no job at all because of your remark on the price of "BTC". The fact that you believe that your crush, the single mother, hates men, and that the last male that she slept with was her baby daddy presents you as a naive young man. That the only female human that captures your love interest in this "Zoocountry" is one with a biological dependent (a single mother) introduces you as an unambitious person. You are jobless, naive and unambitious. You are incapable of being in a relationship with a single mother. Do the woman a favour and leave her alone. Do your family a favour by working on your life and improving yourself. 18 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Sonnobax15(m): 10:10am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Wahala for any guyman wey wor start him earthly race with woman wey don first am score goal . Because las las,dem no go tell am  . By the time when you go don train another man pikin go school go study medicine finish,when he go cor begin tell you to your face say na you destroy him mama marriage with him papa,na then you go realize say wahala can never finish from aso rock  26 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Nobody: 10:23am On Nov 07, 2021 |
One thing I always tell myself is ..never carry a womans baggage ...the ratio of women to men in the world is 10:1 why would I want to be with someone whose life is already complicated ... 16 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Abfinest007(m): 10:25am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Have you seen a football match that start with one zero .she lied about her ex and you believed her That the little advice I have for you .let me sit down with a bottle of coke and read the funny comments from the elders 3 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Davash222(m): 10:27am On Nov 07, 2021 |
33bandit:God bless you. 6 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Tokskob2008: 10:34am On Nov 07, 2021 |
One thing is certain about all this and that is the fact that she knows why the guy ran but she doesn't want to tell you so you don't run too.. A guy who already met with her parents won't just disappear like that without a reason, even if it's finance issue or something else she definitely knows so she not opening up very well should be a source of concern to you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Davash222: Tenks brother ! |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by CandyOps(m): 10:57am On Nov 07, 2021 |
33bandit: This is actually not true. In fact, statistics shows that there are more female births than males. But I get your point. I have a friend who got married to a pretty single mom. It's your call na your life so na you sabi. I dated one for a year and more. One thing I know is I like my girls young hot and fresh out the oven. But I don't think I would want to settle with 1 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by yanabasee2: 11:01am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Not easy dating a single mother .. ... They'll always have a thing to do with the ex...... As far as there's a child involved.... Op, if your intentions are pure .. you should do what will make you happy... Coz woman na woman.... Whether as a single mother or not .. Them get the same wahala... 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Boogyman557: 11:03am On Nov 07, 2021 |
HOLLY GRAM  WTF MAN |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:05am On Nov 07, 2021 |
PoliticallyLeft:   Even with your education, some one with 2 btc is more richer than your entire generation. And for the country, it's a zoo. 3 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:08am On Nov 07, 2021 |
yanabasee2: Exactly.. Thanks for this advise.. Young babes don show me paper and I found love in a single mother web |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:09am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Boogyman557: True story bro.. Babes between 20 to 25 don show me pepper.. Seems those ones no get heart again. |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Boogyman557: 11:19am On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45:OKAY MAN. I UNDERSTAND U BUT ALOT OF GUYS DO D MOST JUST TO NACK A GIRL. I HVE A FRIEND DAT WILL EVEN PROPOSE AND VISIT A GIRLS FAMILY JUST TO MAKE SURE DAT HE NACKS D GIRL.. GOING TO A GIRLS HOUSE TO SEE HER PARENT NO MEAN SEY U DON MARRY HER OOO. SOME GIRLS WE DE FORM HARD TO GET, NA DAT SCOPE GUY MEN DE USE ENTER DEM LAS LAS. MY GUY I NO BE GOD, SO I NO FIT JUDGE WEDA D GIRL D CAPRISUN U D TRUTH OR NOT BUT IF U MOST MARRY HER, MAKE SURE SEY U NO TOO SPEND MONEY ON DAT PIKIN WEY NO BE UR OWN BCUS LAS LAS EM PAPA GO LOOK 4 AM. WTF MAN 5 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by PlsBanMe: 11:28am On Nov 07, 2021 |
So, she hated men and never had sex for less than a year. What if she didn't hate men? She will be having it every day, right? If she hated men, she will stay away from men for years. She has been wanting people like you to come for her. As to why the guy that impregnated her dumped her, no one can be sure of the reason except her and the guy. If you want her, go for her and hope for the best. She may be indeed nice or be faking it. 5 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:40am On Nov 07, 2021 |
PlsBanMe: Thanks brother... Your advise is like that of an elder brother. 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:42am On Nov 07, 2021 |
More over guys, I'm not a simp. I have taken my own red pill.. I rather stay single than allow a woman foolishly use me. One thing I hate in this life is taking advantage of woman.. I don't do it. 2 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by ZooCountry45: 11:45am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I have noticed that woman like single mothers and those between the age of 27,28,29,30 appears to be 1.kind 2.good 3.submisive 4.humble 5.well behaved 6.thinks straight. Why are woman in those age like that  ?Those in their 18,1920 to 25 has no heart again.. Lol.. Una go dey 200 dey date one babe... 6 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Drsnives(m): 11:56am On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45 post=107402895[b:Why won't they be humble after guys don rough handle their brwes.st, yan,sh n kpekus come leave chaff for innocent guys.. It shall not be well with that lady that will decive me, make God no even let our path cross 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by MJBOLT: 12:19pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
for your peace of mind and sanity, avoid women in that age bracket especially those above 30, avoid single mothers too. The nice behavior they show is a lie just to deceive men into getting committed to them,don't fall for it,you will regret it. ZooCountry45: 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by flokii: 12:34pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
@OP I advise you to thread carefully before you'll repeat the same mistake her baby daddy made.. forget all the lovey dovey some ladies put up, it's when they enter your house they'll show their real character. Why not ask around in the neighborhood she stays, at least you'll find people that can gist you about her lifestyle. 5 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by Paulpaulpaul(m): 12:46pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45: Bro, you may have a rare gem in your hands and not know it and she might be a Delilah. Now, the best experience is to have it , so get close and you may learn the truth about her. If she isn't real, you can take your leave, you lose nothing.There are mad guys on the street now who can do anything to waste ladies time. 3 Likes |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by muller101(m): 1:33pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Op what exactly are you looking for in a single mom. They all have bad attitudes. |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by frozen70(f): 1:52pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45: She is yet to tell you the truth 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by UncleJudax(m): 1:55pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
33bandit:chai at 10:1 |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by UncleJudax(m): 2:10pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45:who is gonna tell you? Well, given her situation, she has to pretend for now...she go still show you paper. Raise your game and deal with whatever comes -- a single mom is not the answer. But hey, you do you. |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by UncleJudax(m): 2:13pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
ZooCountry45:Lol. play or get played. 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by 22o62021: 2:14pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Op na after one you wan go for Them go form humble just to get you Well you don make up your mind say she be the best for you One man meat na another stone Do wetin go make you happy 1 Like |
| Re: Single Mothers Phobia by HRHQueenPhil(f): 2:48pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
PoliticallyLeft: People hate d truth ,I hope he accepts this perfect truth u just told him..will save him and d lady alot going forward 2 Likes 1 Share |
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