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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 11:09pm On Nov 07, 2021
Jeremani:
There's this girl have been dating since late 2019, have never had sex with her for once even though she had tried many times but I just don't want it.
She is working so she is not billing me, unless I decide to dash small thing.

She is a good girl from what have observed.
We had countless argument that we didn't talk for dayz.

I lost my dad 2020, so that same 2020 I left abj to acquire some skills and since then I haven't showed up, by the way my mum and siblings base in abj and God have been faithful and schooling and working am funding myself and still sending stuff home.

I and this girl have been chatting and calling, some times I send her money so she could use it for one or two things and sometimes I sub for her.

So this year she got admission and she have been saving up money since then, her parent are not helping out bc there are kinda of many somehow in their family and they aren't financially okay.

Yesterday she begged me to borrow her 50k
That she will pay back whenever she have, I have the money but the thing is that though she might be my babe but I don't have any emotional memory stuff attached with her.

So i told her I can't borrow her that amount of money since she don't even know when she is gonna pay back.
I sent her 10k as per dash, she don't need to pay.

The problem now is that, it seems my mind is playing tricks on me, maybe is emotion or what. As if I did bad thing by not giving her the money and maybe she need the money seriously.
Pls I need advice, was I wrong?
Have been careful enough to know how I spend on her.

You're a natural simp and that's why you feel bad... You need to understand that you're not a cheerful giver and you're not charity organization..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LutanFyah: 11:12pm On Nov 07, 2021
Jeremani:
There's this girl have been dating since late 2019, have never had sex with her for once even though she had tried many times but I just don't want it.
She is working so she is not billing me, unless I decide to dash small thing.

She is a good girl from what have observed.
We had countless argument that we didn't talk for dayz.

I lost my dad 2020, so that same 2020 I left abj to acquire some skills and since then I haven't showed up, by the way my mum and siblings base in abj and God have been faithful and schooling and working am funding myself and still sending stuff home.

I and this girl have been chatting and calling, some times I send her money so she could use it for one or two things and sometimes I sub for her.

So this year she got admission and she have been saving up money since then, her parent are not helping out bc there are kinda of many somehow in their family and they aren't financially okay.

Yesterday she begged me to borrow her 50k
That she will pay back whenever she have, I have the money but the thing is that though she might be my babe but I don't have any emotional memory stuff attached with her.

So i told her I can't borrow her that amount of money since she don't even know when she is gonna pay back.
I sent her 10k as per dash, she don't need to pay.

The problem now is that, it seems my mind is playing tricks on me, maybe is emotion or what. As if I did bad thing by not giving her the money and maybe she need the money seriously.
Pls I need advice, was I wrong?
Have been careful enough to know how I spend on her.
If you were in her shoes, would she borrow you the 50k ?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 11:28pm On Nov 07, 2021
LutanFyah:
If you were in her shoes, would she borrow you the 50k ?
She once borrowed me money once but I paid back

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 11:30pm On Nov 07, 2021
Lightway:


You're a natural simp and that's why you feel bad... You need to understand that you're not a cheerful giver and you're not charity organization..
No what am thinking is that what if she end up not getting the complete fee and then time for payment closed

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 11:36pm On Nov 07, 2021
lol grin
Martinez39s:
What I have been called by females throughout my stay on nairaland:
(1) Gay
(2) chronic mastubator/ porn addict
(3) pig
(4) broke boy
(5) Ubunja assistant
(6) Ubunja wannabe
(7) low budget ubunja
(8 ) freebasics user
(9) misogynist
(10) Ubunja (some taught I was Ubunja's alternate account).
(11) nobody
(12) bitter man
(13) pùssy
(14) incel

I could go on and on. grin grin grin Shaming language is normal. If women are always complimenting you, giving you public approval and calling you a "real man", you need deliverance.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MrCuteking(m): 11:41pm On Nov 07, 2021
Jeremani:

No what am thinking is that what if she end up not getting the complete fee and then time for payment closed

Blame her father, siblings and not yourself. The sperm that formed her was never yours.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 11:49pm On Nov 07, 2021
MrCuteking:


Blame her father, siblings and not yourself. The sperm that formed her was never yours.

Sure bro, am not gonna send a dime at least I tried

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 11:55pm On Nov 07, 2021
Jeremani:

No what am thinking is that what if she end up not getting the complete fee and then time for payment closed

That's how women make simps

If you help her today, you will have to help her tomorrow and next tomorrow.... You never saw her puszy so she will wonder why you're helping her and think it's because you want her again...

I remember a time when a girl begged me for money for IT and I told her to do something for it.. it was close to the deadline.. she refused and I didn't care. she didn't die. She met another guy and got it.

Women are not logical.. stop being logical with women

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 11:55pm On Nov 07, 2021
Jeremani:

She once borrowed me money once but I paid back

How much?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:57pm On Nov 07, 2021
Kennyking1234:
lol grin
Hehe. Two told me that they could sense immense pain and bitterness in my heart. One offered, in her own words, to be my messiah if only I agreed to meet her offline. The other, a single mum, added that I needed to get over my pain and hurt, I am not as smart as I and everyone thinks and that I am dull, and I am only relevant on nairaland. grin

One said I live in a poor crowded street; another said, in a bid to shame me, that I am never in worthy sections like investment, business or property sections, instead I am romance section Einstein. grin grin Can you imagine? grin I kid you not.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 12:03am On Nov 08, 2021
Lightway:


How much?
Omo na 5k

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 12:08am On Nov 08, 2021
Lightway:


That's how women make simps

If you help her today, you will have to help her tomorrow and next tomorrow.... You never saw her puszy so she will wonder why you're helping her and think it's because you want her again...

I remember a time when a girl begged me for money for IT and I told her to do something for it.. it was close to the deadline.. she refused and I didn't care. she didn't die. She met another guy and got it.

Women are not logical.. stop being logical with women[b]
Thanks bro
I like that line

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 12:12am On Nov 08, 2021
I know what it is like. I am have been called names like:
homo
gay
misogynist and the rest.
The dumb skirt I dated previously confessed that she wanted to change me but she couldn't.

Martinez39s:
Hehe. Two told me that they could sense immense pain and bitterness in my heart. One offered, in her own words, to be my messiah if only I agreed to meet her offline. The other, a single mum, added that I needed to get over my pain and hurt, I am not as smart as I and everyone thinks and that I am dull, and I am only relevant on nairaland. grin

One said I live in a poor crowded street; another said, in a bid to shame me, that I am never in worthy sections like investment, business or property sections, instead I am romance section Einstein. grin grin Can you imagine? grin I kid you not.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kennyking1234: 12:14am On Nov 08, 2021
also fellow males mostly simps
Martinez39s:
Hehe. Two told me that they could sense immense pain and bitterness in my heart. One offered, in her own words, to be my messiah if only I agreed to meet her offline. The other, a single mum, added that I needed to get over my pain and hurt, I am not as smart as I and everyone thinks and that I am dull, and I am only relevant on nairaland. grin

One said I live in a poor crowded street; another said, in a bid to shame me, that I am never in worthy sections like investment, business or property sections, instead I am romance section Einstein. grin grin Can you imagine? grin I kid you not.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 12:17am On Nov 08, 2021
my issue with ur story is Why u never still have sex with her,What ur aim in the relationship
don't forget u come first b4 anyone.
She's a good girl so she different....,.she having sex with another guy lipsrsealed
Jeremani:
There's this girl have been dating since late 2019, have never had sex with her for once even though she had tried many times but I just don't want it.
She is working so she is not billing me, unless I decide to dash small thing.

She is a good girl from what have observed.
We had countless argument that we didn't talk for dayz.

I lost my dad 2020, so that same 2020 I left abj to acquire some skills and since then I haven't showed up, by the way my mum and siblings base in abj and God have been faithful and schooling and working am funding myself and still sending stuff home.

I and this girl have been chatting and calling, some times I send her money so she could use it for one or two things and sometimes I sub for her.

So this year she got admission and she have been saving up money since then, her parent are not helping out bc there are kinda of many somehow in their family and they aren't financially okay.

Yesterday she begged me to borrow her 50k
That she will pay back whenever she have, I have the money but the thing is that though she might be my babe but I don't have any emotional memory stuff attached with her.

So i told her I can't borrow her that amount of money since she don't even know when she is gonna pay back.
I sent her 10k as per dash, she don't need to pay.

The problem now is that, it seems my mind is playing tricks on me, maybe is emotion or what. As if I did bad thing by not giving her the money and maybe she need the money seriously.
Pls I need advice, was I wrong?
Have been careful enough to know how I spend on her.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 12:18am On Nov 08, 2021
Kennyking1234:
I know what it is like. I am been called names like:
homo
gay
misogynist and the rest.
The dumb skirt I dated previously confessed that she wanted to change me but she couldn't.

you are not the only one on this table, i have being called names
because of the redpill
that i swallowed. It shows that you are doing something right.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by richkal(m): 12:44am On Nov 08, 2021
RAGGA40:
you are not the only one on this table, i have being called names
because of the redpill
that i swallowed. It shows that you are doing something right.

After I stumbled on Redpill, a lady told me that I have changed completely that I am no longer a real man (nice guys). She said she will uninstall the new apps in my brain and I told her that.... It will take her forever to uninstall all the apps. cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emmynator(m): 1:09am On Nov 08, 2021
Jeremani:
There's this girl have been dating since late 2019, have never had sex with her for once even though she had tried many times but I just don't want it.
She is working so she is not billing me, unless I decide to dash small thing.

She is a good girl from what have observed.
We had countless argument that we didn't talk for dayz.

I lost my dad 2020, so that same 2020 I left abj to acquire some skills and since then I haven't showed up, by the way my mum and siblings base in abj and God have been faithful and schooling and working am funding myself and still sending stuff home.

I and this girl have been chatting and calling, some times I send her money so she could use it for one or two things and sometimes I sub for her.

So this year she got admission and she have been saving up money since then, her parent are not helping out bc there are kinda of many somehow in their family and they aren't financially okay.

Yesterday she begged me to borrow her 50k
That she will pay back whenever she have, I have the money but the thing is that though she might be my babe but I don't have any emotional memory stuff attached with her.

So i told her I can't borrow her that amount of money since she don't even know when she is gonna pay back.
I sent her 10k as per dash, she don't need to pay.

The problem now is that, it seems my mind is playing tricks on me, maybe is emotion or what. As if I did bad thing by not giving her the money and maybe she need the money seriously.
Pls I need advice, was I wrong?
Have been careful enough to know how I spend on her.

You did the right thing.
Don't regret doing the right thing.

If you gave her 50k, it's synonymous to dashing her 50k, can you afford to dash her 50k?

I will say you are very kind for giving her 10k, and it's not that bad if you adjudged that she needs it.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 4:20am On Nov 08, 2021
Rings a bell? Even successful rap artistes are learning the hard way about female nature. #trp

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 7:09am On Nov 08, 2021
Emmynator:


You did the right thing.
Don't regret doing the right thing.

If you gave her 50k, it's synonymous to dashing her 50k, can you afford to dash her 50k?

I will say you are very kind for giving her 10k, and it's not that bad if you adjudged that she needs it.
Yes boss, if I had given her the money she wouldn't have paid me back.
And am grateful for the answers u guyz gave me. Am cool with my self

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:25am On Nov 08, 2021
richkal:


After I stumbled on Redpill, a lady told me that I have changed complete that I am no longer a real man (nice guys). She said she will uninstall the new apps in my brain and I told her that.... It will take her forever to uninstall all the apps. cheesy cheesy grin
That lady is a joker.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Junnior: 7:59am On Nov 08, 2021
Thanks to those who answered my question

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 8:09am On Nov 08, 2021
Jeremani:
There's this girl have been dating since late 2019, have never had sex with her for once even though she had tried many times but I just don't want it.
She is working so she is not billing me, unless I decide to dash small thing.

She is a good girl from what have observed.
We had countless argument that we didn't talk for dayz.

I lost my dad 2020, so that same 2020 I left abj to acquire some skills and since then I haven't showed up, by the way my mum and siblings base in abj and God have been faithful and schooling and working am funding myself and still sending stuff home.

I and this girl have been chatting and calling, some times I send her money so she could use it for one or two things and sometimes I sub for her.

So this year she got admission and she have been saving up money since then, her parent are not helping out bc there are kinda of many somehow in their family and they aren't financially okay.

Yesterday she begged me to borrow her 50k
That she will pay back whenever she have, I have the money but the thing is that though she might be my babe but I don't have any emotional memory stuff attached with her.

So i told her I can't borrow her that amount of money since she don't even know when she is gonna pay back.
I sent her 10k as per dash, she don't need to pay.

The problem now is that, it seems my mind is playing tricks on me, maybe is emotion or what. As if I did bad thing by not giving her the money and maybe she need the money seriously.
Pls I need advice, was I wrong?
Have been careful enough to know how I spend on her.
Bro that 10k you gave her is a mighty gesture, A redpilled man wouldn't have given her that amount of money (especially with your description of the relationship).
So sleep like a baby at night, don't let that iota of simp in you prevail.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 8:37am On Nov 08, 2021
heartofcity12:
Rings a bell? Even successful rap artistes are learning the hard way about female nature. #trp
this guy get mad lyrics ehhh most of he song Dy open eye

He will save a lot of boys with this quote grin

Alot of black rappers re now telling us dat money can't keep ur girl.......70% of song on my fone always gat dat one line about it
very soon TRP will take over

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by usebog: 8:39am On Nov 08, 2021
Redpill is one of the best thing I came across inside this life

My only problem is my sexual urges

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by usebog: 8:46am On Nov 08, 2021
Lightway:


That's how women make simps

If you help her today, you will have to help her tomorrow and next tomorrow.... You never saw her puszy so she will wonder why you're helping her and think it's because you want her again...

I remember a time when a girl begged me for money for IT and I told her to do something for it.. it was close to the deadline.. she refused and I didn't care. she didn't die. She met another guy and got it.

Women are not logical.. stop being logical with women

Lol same thing happened to me sometimes ago

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:49am On Nov 08, 2021
usebog:
Redpill is one of the best thing I came across inside this life

My only problem is my sexual urges
Keep fighting don't give up.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Someoneschild2: 9:02am On Nov 08, 2021
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:02am On Nov 08, 2021
heartofcity12:
Rings a bell? Even successful rap artistes are learning the hard way about female nature. #trp


Bad boy Kodak admits we are all humans on this one lol. grin
It's completely normal for a woman to check your phone and try to get involved in your business, especially if you give her the impression that she is in a competition with other women.

Cheating isn't imperative but by all means make your SMV recognized. She loves the fact that she has a man that most women admire but she hates it because she has to make sure she is not sharing you with anybody else. That alludes to checking your phone, monitoring you etc.

Kodak pointed something out, although I've heard it before. We know if eventually she finds proof that your are cheating, she is going to plonk that emotional rollercoaster on you but the truth is. She could be cheating the whole time. So why do men still watch themselves get played.

Men rarely adopt similar methods when dealing with their attractive girlfriends, if you are dating a nine or ten. There is a possibility that she will be spinning plates. You have to stick your nose in her business too. Women are not nearly as good at covering their tracks as most men would make you believe. Men are better detectives but we just don't care.

Well, it all boils down to what we want from that relationship. You should care if you are in for serious business. Some even go as far as hiring a private investigator for a woman they wish to wife up. Call me insecure, I don't care, it will save you a whole ton of bullshit waiting for you in the future. My opinion.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jeremani: 9:09am On Nov 08, 2021
sajmark:

Bro that 10k you gave her is a mighty gesture, A redpilled man wouldn't have given her that amount of money (especially with your description of the relationship).
So sleep like a baby at night, don't let that iota of simp in you prevail.
Thanks boss, I thank God I did simp that much by giving her that amount

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:27am On Nov 08, 2021
DieRich5:
this guy get mad lyrics ehhh most of he song Dy open eye

He will save a lot of boys with this quote grin

Alot of black rappers re now telling us dat money can't keep ur girl.......70% of song on my fone always gat dat one line about it
very soon TRP will take over

Exactly, that’s a reality check. That experience he had and quotes speak high volumes. Summarizes an integral part of the redpill teachings.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:29am On Nov 08, 2021
SOZINN:



Bad boy Kodak admits we are all humans on this one lol. grin
It's completely normal for a woman to check your phone and try to get involved in your business, especially if you give her the impression that she is in a competition with other women.

Cheating isn't imperative but by all means make your SMV recognized. She loves the fact that she has a man that most women admire but she hates it because she has to make sure she is not sharing you with anybody else. That alludes to checking your phone, monitoring you etc.

Kodak pointed something out, although I've heard it before. We know if eventually she finds proof that your are cheating, she is going to plonk that emotional rollercoaster on you but the truth is. She could be cheating the whole time. So why do men still watch themselves get played.

Men rarely adopt similar methods when dealing with their attractive girlfriends, if you are dating a nine or ten. There is a possibility that she will be spinning plates. You have to stick your nose in her business too. Women are not nearly as good at covering their tracks as most men would make you believe. Men are better detectives but we just don't care.

Well, it all boils down to what we want from that relationship. You should care if you are in for serious business. Some even go as far as hiring a private investigator for a woman they wish to wife up. Call me insecure, I don't care, it will save you a whole ton of bullshit waiting for you in the future. My opinion.

Well said fam

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