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Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by eraankusam07(m): 10:09am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Meanwhile, I just want to stay out here treating Nigerian girls in the language they understand. angry angry The only language they would understand is to beat your mother back in retaliation. Meanwhile, don't suffer somebody's daughter for your mom's sin. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 08, 2021 |
frozen70:Thank you enjoy.. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:10am On Nov 08, 2021 |
WETIN come be your issue here......u dey seek for advice, they boast at the same time to bleep all girls above 18....you sure say u no carry yur mama blood? 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Kajaard: 10:12am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Iyaebe: In this case it was the husband that was in an abusive marriage, receiving endless beatings from his wife on daily basis ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Oyiboman69: 10:13am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40:you lack social decorum... |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Nobody: 10:15am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Kajaard:He can leave as well. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by anbel(m): 10:18am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40: |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Rilwayne001: 10:19am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Me I no fit beat woman, but my facial expressions atimes dey scare girls around me haha ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Thoughty2(m): 10:19am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40: From the way you are talking, I can guess that it was your dad that built those houses and sponsored the trips you are referring to. A man with true wealth does not need to tell someone that he has money. Rather, it is the money that speaks for him even though he tries to keep things on the low. Until you are Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk, please stop bragging about your status because the wealth you think you have could just be nothing to someone else. I'm not trying to attack you but I think you need to expose yourself to life more, read books that would make you develop your mind, and be humble. I don't think you are not married because of all the reasons you mentioned. Rather I think the girls you date may have sensed your level of immaturity and not want to get married to you. They might just want to chop the money you think you have and run away when they are done. So you have no choice but to hate women. It's sad but your case is still redeemable 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by AsawanaDgreat: 10:21am On Nov 08, 2021 |
So if you marry now, you go dey beat your husband abi? |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:22am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Rydermaverick: Abi replying them is completely waste of time, just because of it is faceless forum. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Kajaard: 10:22am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Iyaebe: True, very true. You are doing well these days Iyaebe. Have a lovely day ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by blueflamez: 10:23am On Nov 08, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2: I feel his issue is psychological. I have learnt over the years that the things we go through as kids forms part of we grew to be in life. I know a pretty Aunty of mine who unknowingly to people had a light finger. Her kids that grew up with her who witnessed the moms bad act grew up to become thieves themselves. As we speak one was shot dead this year, the other one is on the run. I know both of them to be thieves. When I was young my mom was having unending issues with my dad for the formative part of my life, to make it worse all of my siblings are male, so I had a other close female experience besides my mom. Dude, I grew up naturally without affection for the female gender. I dated, had fun but was hardly emotionally attached to a girl. It was so bad that as a kid I frequently tell my mom jokingly that I wasn't going to get married but she never understood. (NB: I never had or will never have gay tendencies) As we speak, though I regret my choices but Bro It was beyond my control. Na now I dey force myself to unlearn and relearn. Bottom line is: The dude is pouring out his psychological concerns and we should guide him in the right path and not criticize him. My small quota, after all what do I even know 4 Likes |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:23am On Nov 08, 2021 |
15ssDRIVE: Aswear you gerritt ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by yahmohy27: 10:26am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40:Hahaha hah this guy na comedian ![]() |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by harmargedon: 10:29am On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:30am On Nov 08, 2021 |
skywalker240: Nah you still Bleep up, funnily most of you always simp to get a relationship and after that you will be saying you're a redpiller shit.. that's it, I won't argue with you.. the issue is if the girl know dat she can chop heavy slap from you few days you met she won't do all you stated but you play nice guy card to get her emotions and later you will want her to concur to your real behaviour ,why can't you let her know you the first day you met ? I met a girl recently and we're cool ,she said one of the thing i don't like my reply was so hurtful she waited till i slept before typing epistles to beg me sayin' she's really sorry ,and she said despite me be the most amazing guy she has ever met she couldn't believe i can get angry with her like dat, and we both are cool now... So the issue is how most men of nowadays handle things, both genders will misuse nicest that's it !! You gerritt ? If you don't gerrit then forget about rit !! |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by dalass(f): 10:32am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40: You can avenge your dad's beating by visiting your wrath on the real offender... Your mom! Beat the living daylights out of her and leave the poor girls out there alone! They are not the cause of your father's woe. He opened his eyes to marry his tormentor to give birth to a tormented personality like yourself 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by larryking540: 10:38am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BegAt40: reading just two lines from your story,tells me already the conclusion,bro your dad over respected your mum and she took advantage of it ,,,that's female nature ,,but ,,I just don't kw wat to say bro |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Vicoymi: 10:38am On Nov 08, 2021 |
AfroKnight:sorry for you |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Ten06(m): 10:39am On Nov 08, 2021 |
I feel you. Please, contact a councillor, even as there are bad women, good ones are more than the bad ones. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by seenga(m): 10:40am On Nov 08, 2021 |
[/color]sharap. it all boils down to your decision as an adult. i grew up to see my dad fighting and beating my mom at the slightest provocation. that didn't make me detest women or mean ill. in fact there was a day they were fighting and moms was crying and I told myself that no matter what I wasn't going to lay my hands on a woman. or my woman for that matter. [color=#990000] |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by skywalker240(m): 10:40am On Nov 08, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2:At the end of the day, you're still saying the same thing with my realization |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by hardon1(m): 10:40am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Heaven knows I can't marry a woman that will beat me in a fight contest If she has strength that is twice mine, I won't dare go into the union |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:41am On Nov 08, 2021 |
blueflamez: You're right about past, because past is the foundation of future and reverse might be the case sometimes a well trained, religious children might be useless to the nation, it was when i grew up and went to public boarding school i know about girls and emotions though i know one day one will marry a girl, Also most of us really has bad childhood against each other gender, tipical mother will always avoid her daughter from seeing any boys instead of making her know what it is, that's the reason why when such girl grew up men will be gold to her !! And later in her life she will be posting men are scum !! So that's it Imma just advice the kid but Goan check all his posts in nairaland nothing sensible and worth my time about it... So advising him is completely shit because he ain't somebody that worth it, Finally don't let past dictate future its like an egg after it has fallen down we will find solutions to it we can bring it back to it normal shape ,we all have critical time of our life but right now we should be thankful we are still alive to make changes . .. Enjoy your day boss man... |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by larryking540: 10:43am On Nov 08, 2021 |
AfroKnight:there is one word I use in according woman,I can them creatures no human being, 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:45am On Nov 08, 2021 |
skywalker240: Probably ! Because due to dat she can never mess with me when things got heated up, niggas out there being simping for a long time for the girl they want and booomm suddenly they are now changed due to redpill shit they read here on nairaland , A mansion is not completed in a day, Just let her know what it is within few days before going far..... All is well get God will guide us from evil relationship.... ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by Nobody: 10:45am On Nov 08, 2021 |
SILENTandSMART2:Exactly enjoy yourself abeg make that wan dey disturb emself.. |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by SILENTandSMART2: 10:48am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Re: My Mum Used To Beat My Dad So I Grew Up To Hate Women by larryking540: 10:49am On Nov 08, 2021 |
blueflamez:lots of damaged male kids are everywhere in town, rasied by women who can't marry them,if they weren't there mother ,same goes to the dad also,,,that dude might be beating his chest ,but he definitely needs to visit a therapist,,and associate more with a family that's is stable with both mother and father together in peace ..else its going to take a while before he heals which I pray it doesn't become too late |
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