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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by litaninja(m): 10:05pm On Nov 08, 2021
You mean you molested, abused and attempted to rape a lady you are not married to? And for some reason, you think anything else you typed after that makes any bit of sense?

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by FutureIsFemale(f): 10:05pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again? undecided

Seun, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg... undecided
seun lalatsiclala help us track this rapists please

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by rosechika1994: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021
If you normally had sex with her before, like you said and it's 3 weeks now, bros forget it, something is wrong, she has gotten a back up, check out the boldness of wanting to leave in just 2 weeks, bros, she is done with you, know when something is dead.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Bamzyriches451: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021
Op nor well
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Readability: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Bro, honestly you did all this just to have sex with a woman? I'm disappointed at the act of a fellow man like me. I mean, this is uncalled for to say the least. You have your hand and if you can't fap, you give her time. You don't have a choice, it's her body not yours. Why don't you understand that it doesn't have to do with you, she could be going through stress like she said and this is the best you can do to comfort her?
I get it, I'm in the same situation as you mine has been more than 2 months now, with no explanation from her. All she said is, she needs a break. Bro, no allow this kind thing do you again, nah person pikin she be too ooo. And you can't take it if such is done to your sister or your daughter. So, be careful and pull her close, apologise to her and promise her never to do such again. No be everything be gragra for this life ooo. Thank goodness she no use something hard hit your head,maybe nah your story go dey fp tomorrow morning.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Bigpapi: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.



U mean ur ashawo
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by OjReloaded(m): 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Sex with girlfriend ke. Bro that's Sin.

Repent and give your life to Jesus. For he is coming soon.
Sex should only happen under the safe constitution called marriage.

Ask Jesus to be your personal Lord and saviour. (AMEN)

Thank you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021
Must some persons go to lagos to put themselves in an unnecessary pressures? Why are people dying to move to lagos when I can't see them becoming millionaires so fast? This gal is just under pressure n can't afford to go homeless. This is why she is enduring this. So bad.

Sometimes I wonder the kinda type of guys some of our ladies deal with. Imagine this one de tear pant in Relationship. Marriage go de sucidal n we start hearing "admin pls hide my ID". Tueh

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by MeghaneMorgane(f): 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Oga just look at yourself
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.
Delete this your thread bro

You should be ashame of yourself.

Sex nah food? Must you fvvck?

Some guys sef. You raped and hit person daughter because of ordinary sex

Imagine say the girl nah your sister, niece or daughter

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by FutureIsFemale(f): 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kellzzyy:

Op take this advice. And send that girl out of your house as soon as possible. Two weeks is far. Don't let anyone leech on you without you getting anything in return.
Act fast
Send that bitch away.
lalasticlala seun mynd44 rule 2
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Imagine the level of entitlement. Someone you haven't paid her dowry and you feel she must give you sex or die. You see your life.

Even when you are fully married to a woman sex is not do or die. If she says she doesn't want you have no right to force her whether wife or girlfriend.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Ofadaman(m): 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2021
Someone you aren't married to.
Aren't you even working?, I'm not sure you are, she comes back from work and the only thing in your mind is sex.

She could have managed but some things may be at play here.
1) she's worn out at work and needs her rest
2) She's no longer in love with you,
3) Someone else is doing the work wella

Truth is , at this stage, you will not be getting her back, she's gone for good and you used your hands to do it.

If you've taken a different approach, would it have played differently ?. E.g.

You run her bath before she gets home, do your bit to tidy the place , get some wine , chill music and, you give her a massage?..

Don't know why everything with some guys na fight fight, at your age you dey drag pant with your own babe, even if you come enter the place and she dey dry how u wan take enjoy am or after the 3mins sex what next?. .. how una dey even enjoy unconsensual sex self, abeg get small sense na..

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by sundaygray(m): 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2021
If that girl get sense make she leave you. A man like you cannot control your urge abi? You think say by her living with you na steady sex. grin Ask married men how many times they sleep with their wives in a year. ;DYou almost raped her, in fact you rape am! Shoo... you came to nairaland to even type this rubbish. You get mind well well sha, dey tear woman pant like say she owe you money grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by rahztafari(m): 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2021
Omo x10000. What did I just read on Nairaland this night. Someone really testified to rape, fo real? Oga oooo

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by chinchonglee(m): 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2021
frozen70:


Imagine ❗
So you just kept her in your house for sex purposes

Why not marry her and then settle down with her

Is it new to you that, work with Lagos traffic and stress have reduce the sex urge in women

I can see that sex is the only thing that is bordering you, it doesn't really end in sex.
Think straight
Are you thinking at all?
She is not married to him, yet she brought herself to his house.
Madam apportion your blames to the girl instead

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by almarthins(m): 10:11pm On Nov 08, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
Barbarian, your post is disgusting. You need to be arrested and locked up for both rape and physical assault. The animals some ladies call boyfriends, smdh.

As in? But wait o! If we want take d matter for head. Wetin d lady dey do comfortably for the guy house?

U see all those men forming holy than thou up there no get self control because if them get self control Dem no go dey cheat on their spouse.how ever, I blame the girl more.
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by cpu2006(m): 10:11pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

I have an advice that will have been the best for you but I will not tell you cos you slapped her. Send her away so she can get a responsible man in her life not idiot like you

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by komanderz: 10:12pm On Nov 08, 2021
Bro,
Better do what ever she needs to make her happy. You said when was not working you always have it so why don't you believe her if she said she's tired etc..

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by almarthins(m): 10:13pm On Nov 08, 2021
rahztafari:
Omo x10000. What did I just read on Nairaland this night. Someone really testified to rape, fo real? Oga oooo

Attempted rape na still crime sha

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by kals4luv990(m): 10:13pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:


Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult
my bloda pls dnt involve the devil.na only yu plan the rape nd pls someone get that lady a new pant.a potential rapper jst ripped d last one
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:14pm On Nov 08, 2021
Sick people everywhere,so because God bless you den you think you can use de little to take advantage of the poor,u HV been having it with her,nd don't care to talk y she stop of a sudden..so you forced her out of her will...if what you just say nd u don't hv remorse,may ur sis fall in the same way this gal do,amen..
Some guys are sick,so you spend on her make u tink u HV all right on her that you can do ND undo...people de date animals tink say na person Dem de date
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by DoggoneDogg: 10:14pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger.

Konji issa bastard ooo grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021
So if this gal rise up and go on a bad move on you or kill u out of wat u did,who we go blame,or u tink poison no fit work fr ur body...come to tink of it,can't u help someone without manipulation
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Incandescent(m): 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kellzzyy:

Op take this advice. And send that girl out of your house as soon as possible. Two weeks is far. Don't let anyone leech on you without you getting anything in return.
Act fast
Send that bitch away.

Mumu..

He's the one leeching on the hardworking Lagosian.

People like you are just empty barrels.

Much noise but zero worth

Na the girl I blame las las.

She no get brothers?
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by tunize(m): 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021
You raped her because you want to fulfil what? When she gets you arrested now we will start hearing another. You raped your girlfriend and you are here foolishly asking for advice I pity the girl when nor fit even burst your head.

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Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by robortonia: 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021
Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.



Free dat babe and move on wit ur life....just know some ladies have a quiet policy that once you hit them, things can never be same again....she has gone outta sync with u
Move on o...

On to the next once.....if you dont gerrit forget bouritt
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by tjcare4u2005(m): 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2021
You're a wicked being imagine staying with you for three years banging her everyday like goat. You did even think of going to see her parents to do proper things on her, so you want her to continue to open her legs for you. Shey no be juju be that?
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2021
This gal is more to wife as it stands,a person way de cook fr u,nd other u de treat like this...pray she don go bad way fr u on this
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by geunik(m): 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2021
You are not married so sex is not your right. But I can see the fault may be coming from you. Because you have her in your room, those little things you use to do that addeɗ spark to the relationship may be gone. When was the last time you told her how beautiful her body is and how much you love it. It is not plug and play. It is more about two people connecting.
Also, don't ignore red flag. For some making comments like is it sex you want, don't mind them. Sex is very important in marriage. You have to know now how it will be in future to determine if you should go along or not. It is small things like these that end many marriages. But pls try seduce her and not force
Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Have Sex With Me by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2021
But all other animals struggle and most times fight b4 they can successfully have sex. Why is human's different? What's rape here? She has never asked the op for and he denied her.

To be honest, a lot of ladies like the struggle b4 sex: it's a sort of adventure for them. One girl told my friend that, a little struggle b4 sex is what turned her on.

This is not rape; it's a struggle for sex, after all everything in Nigeria is a ....

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