Which surgery did you do for her op?

Kevv420:


You are wrong I don't use her for sex only because I have had spent a lot of money on her including 2 major surgery . I take care of all her needs and give her whatever she wants. If I didn't love her I wouldn't be spending a lot of money on her. Like I said earlier I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitudes.

Spherical77:
The IP address of this bastard should be tracked. He's one of those useless guys we have in our society

He should be behind bars by now for raping/ attempted rapist

Seun
Lalasticlala
Farano
Rocktation
OAM4J
Mynd44


Rule 2 has been viciously broken.. bring forth swift justice.. (he just called the Op a bastard)

Ur not serious in life,keep living with ur babe,until she dies in ur house one night....sex kill u der..mumu

SmileDance:
you tried to rape, it's still a crime

Shut up... He committed no crime..

Big question

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

hahahahha.

Go and do the needful before you can continue having sex.

I don’t know why mynd44 keeps coming to my mind after reading this thread. I hope not what I’m thinking o

Kevv420:
What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Deny her sex for a month or two. Just hold yourself - or if you can't - olosho dey. Just wrap up sha.

Are you sure it's because of work, or she's found the love of her life outside, and you're just her roomate who pays all the rent.

Kevv420:


No she doesn't

You are even defending her that she doesn't have a guy out side...
Dude you are an irredeemable SIMP-le guy..

It would end in premium larger tears.. she would keep on denying you sex and compound your agony and misery.. and if you try and succeed in raping her, you would be jailed for a long time..
Multiple looses for you is incoming if you don't cut her off and let go..
Onye mgbu..

Anuoluwa12345:
Bug question

what is bug question? Olodo

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

He's honestly wrong for forcing her and everything. I support giving him 50 lashes. But same time, I won't hide the fact that he was honest about what he did. Unlike others who would have come here to try putting the blame on his girlfriend and appearing to be saint.

I pray she meets someone better, or he prays to his God for her forgiveness and genuinely see the problem why she refuse having s#xual intercourse with him.

Kevv420:


You are wrong I don't use her for sex only because I have had spent a lot of money on her including 2 major surgery . I take care of all her needs and give her whatever she wants. If I didn't love her I wouldn't be spending a lot of money on her. Like I said earlier I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitudes.

Brother you messed-up

@theBolded she don see replacement. Count your losses and move on.

Kobojunkiee:
Pay attention!

What the OP reported here is not a relationship problem but a criminal offense.

And UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES IS A MAN OR WOMAN ALLOWED TO FORCE ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL INTO A SEX ACT.

A criminal offence on nairaland i guess, cos i don't think his confession is admissible under the law enforcement agents or even in court.
How do you explain to the judge he raped a gurlfriend is had being sleeping with four times a week and she lives with him.
I am not playing the devil's advocate, i am a bit realistic because i see remorse in OP and from his narration is he insanity to rape.

Bonesbreaker:
dude since she has started denying u that sex, she is giving it to someone else that's the gospel truth is time you start looking for her replacement quickly before you become her tool of manipulation, ask her to leave immediately use this phrase "you can go to the new boyfriend which you have been sleeping with since you got this new job" be mean do not look back on your action as her to leave you can never habor a liability do not wait for that two weeks doing so will give her chance acting quickly will make u have base,Be smart that lady is seeing someone else.i have once experience this before

i once had this same experience with this said lady,she was leaving with and was working then for 1 year 6 months i was making secret arrangement for our wedding i never informed her on it for 4 months this lady refuse to have sex with me the funny part is she will watch me masturbate while she sleep i had no evidence on her cheating so i could not rope her up with it,this is someone am going to marry one day i become a pure mumu i so much love this lady that i lost interest in any woman around me based on i intend to settle down with her not knowing she was have marathon of sex with one lanky guy like that, the funny thing i have access to WhatsApp and Facebook but do you know this useless girl will chat with this guy and delete the message instantly and even she did not save the guys number so i could not get to know in and out, so i pay one guy to keep a day to day tap on her from work to everywhere she's going any with camera and recording video, i proposed to her she accepted i paused on the marriage preparation she had sex with me that night i proposed i vexed pour all my loads on her, her game plan has worked on me then

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

A gal wey you neva marry, you dey chop constantly 4 times a week, 16 times a month +....... I know say you no get plans to marry her...........


Wetin you wan chop remain, for her real husband.........

You are immature.

What a shameless he-goat... Is she your wife?
If you want to continue with free sex go and wed her.
Why would a lady with her right mind move in with a man that has not married her? Not even after he proposed should you move in with a man that is not your husband.

Op if you truly love her, discuss marriage with her, if she agrees to marry you, go do the needful, if not ask her to leave your house before she dies under your roof

truthsayer009:


1. OP didn't specify if she is pressuring him about marriage and also she may not want to settle down with a man like him.

2. A woman denying you sex for 3 weeks is not tiredness, she is no longer interested and wants to leave. 3 weeks of denial has nothing to do with mood, you people should stop lying abeg. She has found someone else, period!

3. About the rape or attempted rape, this is still a crime and if she decides to report, he will face jail term.

OP girlfriend has gotten a job and met more classy men at her workplace and she wants to move on or up the ladder. Chikena! Life goes on.

It is a shame that many idiots here didn't see this or deduced it from the post..
The females here know that this is the likely scenario.. but the would hide and cover it just to protect the sister hood..
If a woman all of a sudden starts to decline sex.. she has moved on to another dude and has erased that sexual and emotional connection with the man in contention..
The Mumu Op should Simply send her away than try to rape her..

jornwhite:




speaking of advise, i think number one problem here is; see finish, your babe don know say asides her you don't av options, women don't get tired of men that have options the more she notice other ladies are lusting over you the more she tries to lock you down, even if it means emptying ur balls
another things is their is probability she might be denying you sex so as to make you sit up & put a ring on her finger, however if thats not the cases then she probably find a beta source for sex outside, that would make her resent ur touch,kiss or whatever you guys normally do. bro up your game, jamb questions don't solve issues with most women

In other words, women want their men to cheat!

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

You're an Id..i.ot

foolish girl living with you and she doesn't want to give you sex pls free her to good you need to enjoy yourself when you are alive many girls out there looking for such opportunity.

WeRblessed:
What a shameless he-goat... Is she your wife?
If you want to continue with free sex go and wed her.
Why would a lady with her right mind move in with a man that has not married her? Not even after he proposed should you move in with a man that is not your husband.

Na poverty dey worry the girl too.

Lol.... I wanted to type big question tho

BABANGBALI:
what is bug question? Olodo

Bonesbreaker:
i once had this same experience with this said lady,she was leaving with and was working then for 1 year 6 months i was making secret arrangement for our wedding i never informed her on it for 4 months this lady refuse to have sex with me the funny part is she will watch me masturbate while she sleep i had no evidence on her cheating so i could not rope her up with it,this is someone am going to marry one day i become a pure mumu i so much love this lady that i lost interest in any woman around me based on i intend to settle down with her not knowing she was have marathon of sex with one lanky guy like that, the funny thing i have access to WhatsApp and Facebook but do you know this useless girl will chat with this guy and delete the message instantly and even she did not save the guys number so i could not get to know in and out, so i pay one guy to keep a day to day tap on her from work to everywhere she's going any with camera and recording video, i proposed to her she accepted i paused on the marriage preparation she had sex with me that night i proposed i vexed pour all my loads on her, her game plan has worked on me then

My Gee pls finish this gist and mention my moniker.. I would be glad to read the concluding part where you humiliated that bitch...

As for the Op.. I concur with you.. she has moved on.. she is probably Fvcking a new guy at work.. and has resented the Op sexually.. and still dey chop food and enjoy em shelter.. Op should send her away simple

Mr Man You are stupid for forcing a woman for sex, it obvious you keep her in your house for sex.

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

truthsayer009:


His whole sex sentitlement came from him demanding for sex as his payment for financial contributions to her life. He feels cheated and then raped or tried to rape her. That's where he Fvcked up.

One reason why dating women with no jobs is a disaster waiting to happen, you are their survival ticket and once they can fend for themselves thats the end of your relationship. You are no longer useful.

Reason why If someone is dating or married such woman especially .. You make sure she is totally dependent on you and don't let her rise.. so that she can be vulnerable to you..
That is the easiest way to dictate and control her.. I don't care if you or others see this comment as insecure or wicked/cruel.. the world itself is Cruel and wicked..
Personally.. my life ideology is.. Better to be the Manipulator than the manipulated and Better to be the Predator that the Prey..

Kevv420:


Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult

How I wish that same devil entered her too and she bite off your nose, e for too sweet

jornwhite:
A criminal offence on nairaland i guess, cos i don't think his confession is admissible under the law enforcement agents or even in court.

His confession is not admissible because?

Kevv420:
I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

She has find another man fuckin her well,you shouldn't have hit her... Just let her go in peace. Look for another girlfriend

Amanee:
The kind of men some females date sha

Am telling you. When i ear and confirm stuff, i marvel at som ladies. How dey end up with such men. God forbid!!!