Ifesinachi22:
Women dey like comment for this kind thread.

My guy don kuku delete his account

The issults are unbearable

Sterope:
Husbands rape their wives too. A rapist can be a husband, a fiance or a bf.

frozen70:


Imagine ❗
So you just kept her in your house for sex purposes

Why not marry her and then settle down with her

Is it new to you that, work with Lagos traffic and stress have reduce the sex urge in women

I can see that sex is the only thing that is bordering you, it doesn't really end in sex.
Think straight

LilMissFavvy:
This is why it's not good to live with a boyfriend. You are not ready for marriage, so allow her go and find a better man. You don't have self control, you don't have good attitude, you beat and rape a woman. Just look for money and give her, let her rent a house, I guess the two weeks she mentioned is as a result of lack of finance. Tomorrow when your wickedness hunts you and you can't find another good woman, you will say that women are evil* . If she was a bad woman, she would have framed you up for rape, non*sense.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

lakeside2gud:
You don't have a complaints here for people to back you up . u have given d decision for her to leave n thats final . You're cohabiting not married to her . Let her leave your house so you can always think outside SEX . Go n do the needful about marrying her if you truly love her . I presumed she might be thinking you're using her and may end up dumping her .
However,you can get her a place of apartment not closer to where you guys can see often to reframe those attitudes you've grown up to become while cohabiting . She is yet to be your wife ,you cant force her but make her happy n live separately in peace till you tie d knot . Must u have sex n to be a rapist . If u go offend d law , your GF will have dick to satisfy herself behind bars of you .

Shame on you from me to you.

Saintmary:


He deserves worse than insults. He should be in jail.

Kobojunkie:
You ignored her complaints , and eventually took it upon yourself to rape her in order to satisfy yourself, and you are here to what again?

Seunn, moderators, does Nairaland have IP tracker so we can track this RAPIST'S address/location make them catch am abeg...

FORWARDEVERLY:

Seun1
Lalasticlala1
Farano1
Rocktation1
OAM4J1
Mynd441

Rule 2 has been viciously broken.. bring forth swift justice.. (he just called the Op a bastard)

Joysticks:
What if his girlfriend is fuking outside which I know she might be engaging?

MMotimo:


And so?
And then?
Her body, her decision. It does not matter how many men she has slept with or how many times! He does not own her!
I hope you’re not in any way, shape or form trying to justify what he described as attempted rape (which was most likely actual rape).

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

truthsayer009:


1. OP didn't specify if she is pressuring him about marriage and also she may not want to settle down with a man like him.

2. A woman denying you sex for 3 weeks is not tiredness, she is no longer interested and wants to leave. 3 weeks of denial has nothing to do with mood, you people should stop lying abeg. She has found someone else, period!

3. About the rape or attempted rape, this is still a crime and if she decides to report, he will face jail term.

OP girlfriend has gotten a job and met more classy men at her workplace and she wants to move on or up the ladder. Chikena! Life goes on.

VlamesIffect:
You an idiot for beating her because of sex.

Dem no dey beat woman. You are a weakling for a man.

And about her sudden change in attitude something isn't right. How did she get this Job. Was there anything suspicious. Woman no just dey change like that something must have happened or she has done.

Hence her way of dealing with what happened is to lash out & change towards you. She's not yhe first or last babe to be stressed from work. If una still dey talk sit her down & talk to her like a sensible man. Life dun pass all these ones.

Joysticks:
She should go and live with her fukmate.How can she be living with a guy who is not her husband?She brought it upon herself because no man will live in the same roof with a lady he is attracted to without using force to remove her pant when he is hot down there.

MMotimo:


Now we’re getting somewhere.
Which league do you belong to? Are you an aspiring or active member of the rapists club?
I’ll say a prayer for you- If you attempt to or actually rape anybody, may judgment fall on you swiftly and heavily.
If I were you, I would focus on changing my ways.
Now, be gone! You and your kind disgust me. Ndi double major in ne’er do well and rape!

MMotimo:

And so?
And then?
Her body, her decision. It does not matter how many men she has slept with or how many times! He does not own her! He has no entitlement to her body. UNDERSTAND THIS!!!
I hope you’re not in any way, shape or form trying to justify what he described as attempted rape (which was most likely actual rape).

I don’t know who’s raising these boys with their twisted thinking. If only there was a functioning judicial system in our country, we’d have a lot less rapists on the streets.