It is not even a matter of whether we have the money or not, I don't quite see the need for white wedding for Africans, I'm Igbo and traditional marriage is enough.

Although love can be an amazing thing, so if my wife to be insists on having a white wedding I will give in but she would have to see to it on her own budget and also rent a 5 star hotel for my groomsmen and make us our outfits and food must be available: very important.

There is however an exception, I would approve a private wedding in a remote Island, just myself, her and our vows we can get any strange face from the Island to officiate the wedding for a token.

one man's food is another man's poison, that is what you like. It's good if your wife can abide with the idea

Good riddance.op collect jare

Bola146:
one man's food is another man's poison, that is what you like. It's good if your wife can abide with the idea

No one said she MUST abide with the ideas oo, if she can't I can as well abide by her own so far as there is love and respect and she is paying for the wedding and food must be available lol

Guy na poverty talk be this, better dey sweet, u dey plan white wedding for your wife pocket and u want her to rent 5 star for you and your SIMPle friends, no be juju dey worry you

Noble1010:

The Best part is that traditional marriage has packages for all hands, you can just do introduction and run away with your wife like it is not someone's daughter

eddynaira125:
Guy na poverty talk be this, better dey sweet, u dey plan white wedding for your wife pocket and u want her to rent 5 star for you and your SIMPle friends, no be juju dey worry you

If you think it poverty if my wife can afford to pay for a wedding and rent 5 star hotel do you think we are still poor lol, principle is principle whether we are rich or poor she want the white wedding she pay for it, if I like let me be Dangote, that her money ba, me and my guys go chop clean mouth

Na this kind of post dey sweet me for belle jare

AlexBells:

No one said she MUST abide with the ideas oo, if she can't I can as well abide by her own so far as there is love and respect and she is paying for the wedding and food must be available lol

Lobatan

Sonnobax15:

Na this kind of post dey sweet me for belle jare

The drama will go like this...
She: Honey what about the white wedding
Me: Which Wedding
She: The white wedding na
Me: Honey I think I married you in your fathers house unless this time you have to marry me in the church I no do again.

AlexBells:

If you think it poverty if my wife can afford to pay for a wedding and rent 5 star hotel do you think we are still poor lol, principle is principle whether we are rich or poor she want the white wedding she pay for it, if I like let me be Dangote, that her money ba, me and my guys go chop clean mouth

guy when clean mouth no b poverty guy? U don see dangote dey chop clean mouth?

AlexBells:

The drama will go like this...
She: Honey what about the white wedding
Me: Which Wedding
She: The white wedding na
Me: Honey I think I married you in your fathers house unless this time you have to marry me in the church I no do again.

Na so cha.....

eddynaira125:
guy when clean mouth no b poverty guy? U don see dangote dey chop clean mouth?

Romance and love is beyond poverty, na romance section be this oo no be employment section lol, so that time when your woman go leave her TShirt wear yours she no get clothe abi

AlexBells:
It is not even a matter of whether we have the money or not, I don't quite see the need for white wedding for Africans, I'm Igbo and traditional marriage is enough.

Although love can be an amazing thing, so if my wife to be insists on having a white wedding I will give in but she would have to see to it on her own budget and also rent a 5 star hotel for my groomsmen and make us our outfits and food must be available: very important.

There is however an exception, I would approve a private wedding in a remote Island, just myself, her and our vows we can get any strange face from the Island to officiate the wedding for a token.

Ur choice!!

eddynaira125:
guy when clean mouth no b poverty guy? U don see dangote dey chop clean mouth?

Dangote Sef go chop lick plate and the Oga kpatakpata of them all is Baba Buhari, you need to see him kneeling down begging Aisha in the other room for saying she belong to the kitchen otherwise

AlexBells:

Dangote Sef go chop lick plate and the Oga kpatakpata of them all is Baba Buhari, you need to see him kneeling down begging Aisha in the other room for saying she belong to the kitchen otherwise

That means buhari na simp or gigolo

OK Sir. We have heard & it's noted. We will also be waiting for your "to be" 's opinion on this.
Afterwards, we would set up a committee if need be

eddynaira125:
That means buhari na simp or gigolo

Buhari is Alpha oo, being simp is misunderstood, being sweet, playful, respectful and mutually submissive in proper ways doesn't make you simp, it only takes a alpha statesman to keep a woman as beautiful and younger as Aisha and still confident and secure.

AlexBells:
It is not even a matter of whether we have the money or not, I don't quite see the need for white wedding for Africans, I'm Igbo and traditional marriage is enough.

Although love can be an amazing thing, so if my wife to be insists on having a white wedding I will give in but she would have to see to it on her own budget and also rent a 5 star hotel for my groomsmen and make us our outfits and food must be available: very important.

There is however an exception, I would approve a private wedding in a remote Island, just myself, her and our vows we can get any strange face from the Island to officiate the wedding for a token.

it no go better for poverty, if you get what it takes to do a proper wedding, after the white you go beg for black wedding join.

ceede2:
it no go better for poverty, if you get what it takes to do a proper wedding, after the white you go beg for black wedding join.

Oga it not about poverty, there are other ways to spend money apart from a white wedding, for heaven sake if I marry my wife in the family what's with my marrying her in the church?, isn't it better to even go for a vacation/honeymoon somewhere worth it,

I would respect my wife so I won't remotely conclude that there shall be no white wedding but she must see to it and she should better make all the arrangements cause I don't see myself promoting something I don't believe in

I wonder why Nigerian people's mentality is based on(if you don't do white wedding you've not gotten married).
As a matter of fact you are just wasting money to buy the wedding gown and suit,the money you can use to do something meaningful after marriage.

engagement is the real wedding,white wedding is just for another thing entirely,a borrowed culture from the white people for that matter

Bolarineliza202:
I wonder why Nigerian people's mentality is based on(if you don't do white wedding you've not gotten married).
As a matter of fact you are just wasting money to buy the wedding gown and suit,the money you can use to do something meaningful after marriage.

engagement is the real wedding,white wedding is just for another thing entirely,a borrowed culture from the white people for that matter

Another matter done dey pop you say wetin, you mean engagement, like the one a guy put an engagement ring in your finger, I don't know about engagement ooo, if I no bring my parent with a keg of palm wine and Colanut in your house, if you like let me buy diamond crested ring for you, you are on your own when shit hits the fan it is just a gift lol.

AlexBells:

Oga it not about poverty, there are other ways to spend money apart from a white wedding, for heaven sake if I marry my wife in the family what's with my marrying her in the church?, isn't it better to even go for a vacation/honeymoon somewhere worth it,

I would respect my wife so I won't remotely conclude that there shall be no white wedding but she must see to it and she should better make all the arrangements cause I don't see myself promoting something I don't believe in

wedding come once in a lifetime,
It's what it is.

ceede2:
wedding come once in a lifetime,
It's what it is.

And honeymoon come every other day lol, so if wedding come only once, then traditional wedding should be enough

AlexBells:

And honeymoon come every other day lol, so if wedding come only once, then traditional wedding should be enough

if you say so

AlexBells:

Another matter done dey pop you say wetin, you mean engagement, like the one a guy put an engagement ring in your finger, I don't know about engagement ooo, if I no bring my parent with a keg of palm wine and Colanut in your house, if you like let me buy diamond crested ring for you, you are on your own when shit hits the fan it is just a gift lol.

Wahala be like bicycle wey no get brake.

Bolarineliza202:

Wahala be like bicycle wey no get brake.

But is true na, engagement is just another issue we are talking about, if engagement is so significant then the day we started dating and even proposal should be important, like in most part of Igboland it is the day that your father give you wine and tell you to show them your husband that's the day it makes sense to me otherwise every other thing is just a jamboree, not like I can't be committed to my girlfriend though

AlexBells:

But is true na, engagement is just another issue we are talking about, if engagement is so significant then the day we started dating and even proposal should be important, like in most part of Igboland it is the day that your father give you wine and tell you to show them your husband that's the day it makes sense to me otherwise every other thing is just a jamboree, not like I can't be committed to my girlfriend though

Engagement is like traditional wedding as well,civilization made us to start doing engament and white wedding.
It was normally introduction and engagement(traditional marriage where you bring the goat and whatever gift)before,so I hope I have cleared your confusion now.

Bolarineliza202:

Engagement is like traditional wedding as well,civilization made us to start doing engament and white wedding.
It was normally introduction and engagement(traditional marriage where you bring the goat and whatever gift)before,so I hope I have cleared your confusion now.

In Igbo we call it "Ikuaka" like nocking in the door, it is just that juxtaposing two cultures isn't quite workable but anyway, Ikuaka is just a mini license to do the things you had both been doing with more confidence, if you get pregnant at that point they won't blame you much sha but then go swear for you small cause na Ummunna (Kindred) budget you dey reduce so na then you go no say no be you born yourself.

Like what my mother told me in their days a maiden would go and spend sometimes in the would be husband's house and you dare not sleep in the same room with your husband but in your mother inlaw room, in the morning na you go still wake first go sweep compound but a lot had changed sha

AlexBells:

In Igbo we call it "Ikuaka" like nocking in the door, it is just that juxtaposing two cultures isn't quite workable but anyway, Ikuaka is just a mini license to do the things you had both been doing with more confidence, if you get pregnant at that point they won't blame you much sha but then go swear for you small cause na Ummunna (Kindred) budget you dey reduce so na then you go no say no be you born yourself.

Like what my mother told me in their days a maiden would go and spend sometimes in the would be husband's house and you dare not sleep in the same room with your husband but in your mother inlaw room, in the morning na you go still wake first go sweep compound but a lot had changed sha

That's lovely and interesting ,if only our rules could go back to that of those days.
To me white wedding is like adding another problem to one's life,I don't really like it,but anyways like a quoter said the other time.

Bola146:
"one man's food is another man's poison", that is what you like. It's good if your wife can abide with the idea

HOLLY GRAM REAL MATTERS. WTF MAN